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Eliza Lena Huff Eliza Lena Huff, 17, died December 26, 2009, awaiting a heart/lung transplant at Shands Hospital in Gainesville, Fla. She had been there for over seven months. Eliza was born with congenital heart and lung defects and wasn't expected to survive the night she was born but she fought to live every day because she loved life. While awaiting life giving organs that never came, her heart arrested fifteen times but she battled back. As Katie Kilroy, one of her nurses put it, "Eliza rewrote the rule book when it comes to medical science, determination and life in general and she will not soon be forgotten by anyone at Shands." Nor will she likely be forgotten by anyone who knew her. Eliza became the darling of Tallahassee as an infant when her mother introduced her on her morning radio show. Eliza returned the love of the city and everyone in it, championing it when she traveled near and far. Eliza was full of love - for her family, neighbors, anything Disney, the Muppets and all puppets, anything from the Life is Good company, Harry Potter et al, the Cubs and the Red Sox, fine chocolates, Mandy Patinkin, and Aerosmith's "I don't want to miss a thing," the most played song on her iPod. Eliza described herself as "insanely optimistic." She was a sophomore and a 4.0 student in the gifted program of Florida Virtual School, which she considered the best thing to ever happen to her education, though she relished her formative years at Montessori and Canopy Oaks Elementary. She was self-reliant, self-motivated and innately curious. Eliza was also a news junkie who was favored by a visit from Anderson Cooper one Friday night in a Jacksonville hospital room. The two hit it off immediately and he surprised her with a copy of the New York Times the following Sunday. Because Eliza shone like a star she attracted celestial things and people. The touring cast of Avenue Q, her favorite musical, visited her at Shands and dedicated a show to her. She talked business with Maxine Clark, CEO of Build-a-Bear, one of her favorite places. But everyone was a star in Eliza's eyes. She loved to meet and talk to just about anyone. Eliza was an incredible writer who hoped to be a novelist but her greatest role in this life was as a teacher. She taught us that every single day is precious and we should revel in it and live life to the fullest. Even with a forever failing heart her energy seemed boundless. She greeted each and every day with gusto. Bright and funny with an amazingly quick wit, Eliza never failed to see the wisdom and humor in small things. Recently she wrote 101 Life Lessons You Didn't Think You Needed To Be Taught including admonitions for those of us who are left like: People are important not things, make the best of everything, we're all in this together, there's no place like home, there's no place like Disney, say what you mean, mean what you say, nobody's perfect, carpe diem, it's a small world, after all, You only get one birthday a year, but you get 364 un-birthdays a year so live it up, No one is better than you are, And you aren't better than anyone else, A puppy is a family member you chews, and finally, when in doubt, dance out. Eliza is survived by her parents, Bubba Huff and Sara Michaels; a sister, Emily Stowers; her grandfather, Louis Martin; her aunts, Mindy Martin, Lynn Martin (Joey), Brenda Griffin and Uncles Michael and Edward (Karen) Martin; and cousins, Bob, Erin, Brian, Caitlin, Maggie and Carson. Eliza also adored her distant second and third cousins and all the "friends that are family we choose". In lieu of flowers contributions can be made to the Sebastian Ferrero Foundation, Dreams Come True of Jacksonville or Broken Hearts of the Big Bend. Eliza and her parents would also appreciate your considering the greatest donation of all, the donation of your life giving organs in the event you don't need them anymore. No walking wonder like Eliza should be lost to the world again because they died waiting for organs like she did. There will be a huge celebration of Eliza's life at a date to be announced some time in the future. Eliza would not have been caught dead at a funeral.

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Published by Tallahassee Democrat on Jan. 3, 2010.

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Elma Gillette

November 8, 2022

Hi Sara, I m so sorry about Eliza. Just wondered where you are & how you are doing

Amy Harrison

September 22, 2014

I look at your picture above my computer every single day! That sweet smile makes me smile. Miss you, Punkin...xoxo

Aunt Tiger

September 19, 2014

Thinking of you now as I do every day...you are never far from my mind and forever in my heart...truly one of the great blessings of my life was to be your aunt.

February 16, 2012

The mama loves the baby...and misses her so very much...

Aunt Mindy

October 18, 2011

Cherished

Randal Stowers

February 14, 2011

Happy Valentines Day

Brenda Griffin

February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day Eliza....we miss you and love you today as we do every day...Love, Aunt Brenda

Brenda Griffin

December 25, 2010

Dear Eliza, today is Christmas...the first one since you left....we all love you and miss you so much....Love, Aunt Brenda

Brenda Griffin

November 25, 2010

Dear Eliza, today is Thanksgiving...the first one since you left us to be with Jesus. Today, I am thankful for all of the wonderful memories I have of you and thankful that we were blessed with your presence for 17 wonderful years. We love you and miss you so much. Love, Aunt Brenda

Brenda Griffin

October 13, 2010

I moved from Tallahassee to Thomasville, GA 6 years ago and had no idea that this world had lost that precious, shining star Eliza until reading this today and it is October 13, 2010. My heart breaks for the family, Sara, Mindy, Mr. Lou, and my sweet Michael. She was a special gift that the good Lord lent to us for only a little while but the lives she touched during those 17 years are phenomenal. God Bless all of you....just know Eliza is singing and talking and doing her best to keep the angels organized and in tact...God surely has a beautiful one with him now.

Brenda Griffin

October 2, 2010

Dear Eliza, today is your 18th birthday. Happy Birthday to you angel! We all love you and miss you more than words can say. Love, Aunt Brenda

Mary Stewart

September 23, 2010

Sara - Sam and I were just watching videos of when the girls were very young and there was Eliza. We googled you and her and found that Eliza has passed away. Even though we haven't seen you for so long, my heart is broken for her and you and all your family. It sounds like she grew into an amazing young woman. Not a surprise since she was such an amazing child! I have no idea how you continue on without her, but you have always been an amazing person yourself. Know that I am thinking about you today, and about Eliza, and will remember all the wonderful things about her. We're in Colorado Springs now. If you every get out this way we would love to have you stay with us.
Mary Stewart (Sam Speigel, Morgan and Madeline Stewart-Spiegel) [email protected]

Isabella Folmar

May 19, 2010

I went to SAS and Sail with Eliza, and she was always so friendly, happy and smart. She was a sweet and beautiful person. I am so sorry to hear of her passing. I am inspired by the story of her life.

Adrienne Bowen

March 11, 2010

Sara - I so wish I had met the grown up Eliza. I remember having passover dinners with you and Eliza. I remember Eliza's purple lips. I remember how much you loved her and did everything you could for her and with her. I was so sad to hear that she passed away. I wish I could have been there for you. Please let me know if there is ever anything I can do for you or with you.

Sheuli Nath

January 30, 2010

My Dearest Sara, Bubba, Mindy, Mr. Martin and Michael,

My heart is so much broken and shattered on hearing Eliza's passing this morning! Words cannot describe how sad and heavy I feel on my heart right now.
Eliza was the most beautiful and wonderful young woman in body and spirit who I ever came in contact with in my life. I will never forget the first time I met her infront of our apartment at Crest Street, her beautiful smile, her hugs when I used to come to your home for Easter or on her birthdays. So many beautiful memories! Last time when I saw her at Children's Hospital in Boston,I saw her courage amidst all the trials that she was going through. Her life, her positive outlook teaches me how to be courageous in my own life.
She was a gift and blessing to this world.
I know that there exists no word of consolation , but please know that I am thinking about and praying for you in this hardest time and in my heart I know and believe that Eliza is still with us in spirit.
I love you very much.

Darla Bruce

January 25, 2010

Dear Sara, Bubba and Family,

Many mourn the loss of Eliza she was an incredible young woman. Eliza touched the lifes of so many people. Those who knew her personally and those who had followed her story. She had a zest and passion for life. She taught so many so much in just a few short years. She was taken way too soon. May God Bless and comfort each of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Claude, Darla and Haley Bruce

Jeff Herring

January 15, 2010

Sara

I have so many great memories of hanging with Eliza at the radio station when I would come for interviews. I never told you this but she was the real reason I came...

Such a delight, always into something, ready with a story or joke...just as she is now, hanging with God.

Thank you for sharing her with the world for 17 plus years. We are all so blessed.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in these days. You are one amazing woman...

Please let us know when the "life celebration" is, cuz hers is a life I want to celebrate.

Jeff, Jonathon & Caleb Herring

Amy McDaniel

January 13, 2010

Dear Sara- My heart is heavy after just hearing about Eliza's passing. I want you to know that Madison and I both thought Eliza was the neatest kid!! Everytime I saw her, she was so interesting to talk to and she always made me laugh! God really had big plans for her as she was an inspiration to so many. Sara- you have also been such an inspiration and I thank you so much! Your humor and positive attitude even in the midst of 17 years of challenges inspired me and many others. I hope you will go on to use this in a BIG way...as you and I have often discussed with our dreams!! We will miss Eliza and pray for your continued strength and healing!! Love- Amy and Madison McDaniel

Robin Brock

January 13, 2010

Dear Sara, Bubba, and family,
I cannot imagine your pain. I can only say that my thoughts and prayers will always be with all of you. Eliza will always be very much loved and remembered. If you need anything, let me know. Sincerely, Robin Brock

Alexis Hale

January 12, 2010

I"m so sorry for your loss. I remeber Eliza Huff when i went to school with her at Canopy Oaks. She was so bright and she will be missed.

DONNA ODONNELL

January 11, 2010

SARA, MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. ELIZA'S SPIRIT WILL LIVE ON FOREVER. AND YES, I AM AN ORGAN DONAR, HAVE BEEN FOR YEARS. GOD BLESS YOU.

Bob Smith

January 9, 2010

Sara,
There are few words to express such sorrow. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Peggy Adair

January 9, 2010

Dear Mindy, Sara, Bubba, Louis, and Michael,
After pausing, I see Eliza is not my-Eliza, but everyone's....
Aren't we all so fortunate and all so sad, too? This is the real definition of love: tears and laughter.
Amen, Eliza, Amen

Lisa Beebe

January 9, 2010

Sara - so sorry to hear of your loss. We know how our kids capture our hearts and to lose them is heartbreaking to say the least. We remember hearing you on the radio when we lived in Tallahassee - and our mutual friend, James, has kept us updated on Eliza's health issues. We have prayed for you all for a long time and we continue to do so now for God to give you His strength, grace and love. Love & Hugs of comfort are sent your way.

James Sherman

January 8, 2010

Sara,

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Eliza when we worked together at Sunny and she was such a sweetie. God bless you at this difficult time.

Jim Bradshaw

January 7, 2010

Sara, so sorry for your loss. I am an organ donor and I appreciate the cause even more since I've read about your daugher. Having a daughter of my own, my greatest gift, I can only begin to imagine what you've been through and wish you all the strength her memory gives you to carry on as she would have wished for you....Jim - Atlanta

Jolene Downs

January 7, 2010

Eliza was an incredible young lady and made our lives brighter just knowing her. Her zest for life and many ideas of fun things to do with what was at hand was endless. She seemed to be able to pull a full scale theatrical production out of an old hat and some spare costume jewelry. She will be missed.

Anne Meisenzahl

January 6, 2010

My many memories of Eliza during seventh and eighth grade at the School of Arts and Sciences include:

-- going through her backpack with her and laughing at the mess,
-- finding five waterbottles that she knew she SHOULD drink but never wanted to drink,
-- listening to her insightful comments in writing workshops,
-- reading her moving stories,
-- thrilling to her comical stage presence in drama performances,
-- watching her perform her poems at the library's poetry out loud contest,
-- listening to her snide, sharp-witted(on target) remarks,
-- watching her insist she come upstairs to the loft, even though it was hard for her
-- learning from her about Broadway musicals,
-- seeing the thrill in her eyes anticipating another trip to Disney World with her dad,
-- visiting her home, chock-full of colorful, playful tchotchkes
-- seeing the deep love and respect between her and her mom.

Eliza is a very unique girl.
Sara is a very special, inspirational mom.
Sara, I am so glad I met both you and her.
Please know I am thinking of you with much much love during this time.

Anne

January 6, 2010

With the passing of a person, people never mention their negatives or their "bad traits." In this case I find it truly impossible. I met Eliza in school and was impressed with her constant zeal and love, I never saw an ounce of negativity come from her. And in the years where most of us were immature, unsure--Eliza was wise and knowing. With the wonderful attitude she beamed to all who met her she was an embodiment of life. Many live a lifetime never realizing half the simple truths Eliza knew, and those who do often realize them late, and are filled with regret. She was definetly ahead of her age. The trait that most impressed me about her however, was her oppeness. On her graduation she revealed her fears to the whole school, and she was never afraid to show a stranger who she was or what she loved.
I send my love and prayers to everyone grieving--love, the girl in her old Science class

Curtis Mathews

January 6, 2010

Sara, may the angels comfort Eliza now that she is in the loving arms of God. I lost my only sister Joyce Ann to lung cancer in April of last year. May God bless you and your family in your hour of need.

Curtis Mathews,
Tallahassee, FL

GREG McDANIEL

January 6, 2010

Bubba and Family,
Having lost my Sue only a year ago, I know there are no words that will help. There is only emptyness right now. Know that I am so sorry for your loss.I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Hope to see you soon.

Jeanine Benton Kelly

January 6, 2010

Dear Sara,
I have no comforting words to give because I have not walked in the shoes you are wearing. Jesus Christ is the Lord and Saviour of my life, yet that doesn't mean that I can't be as real as possible and say "This really SUCKS"! I had a transplant almost 6 years ago and can say I know the 'express lane' of what you walked in, at the hospitals. I have fond memories of you on the radio; swimming at your house off Abbiegail with Terri; your pre-wife, pre-mother years at Margaret & Jay's; Eliza spinning in her dress at Terri's wedding and the many times I would see you in town and laugh the entire time we visited. Eliza was a mini you, no doubt. Take care of yourself Sara, you are loved by many.

Angie Goodman

January 6, 2010

Sara,
I'm just so, so sorry. May you find comfort in so many happy memories.

January 6, 2010

Bubba, Sara & Family:
My heart goes out to you during these times. Eliza truly was a blessing for many people during her time here on this earth! What an inspiration - I regret that i never got to meet her in person. I feel like I knew her through all the stories Bubba shared with me over the years we worked together. God Bless you all & take comfort in knowing that Eliza is in a much better place - healthy & smiling! Aaron & April Goodman

Cindi Cavallaro

January 5, 2010

I saw Eliza only a few times over the years. She sure made an impression...witty and intelligent, she had a zest for life. I love the photograph that Dina Ivory took of she and Abby having a tea party when they were little girls. Precious! I hope the many wonderful memories of her bring you comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Teresa Finch

January 5, 2010

Sara and Bubba, I am so sorry for your loss. I came to learn about Eliza through her Aunt Brenda when I worked with her. I got to meet Eliza one day when she came to the office and she would just light up the room. Her Aunt Brenda was so proud of her and was always bragging on her. I also remember listening to you on the radio talk about her. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Gigi Cavallaro

January 5, 2010

Sara, as I look up to the sky and thank our Star Maker for the brilliance that Eliza radiated so naturally....my heart will smile as I find the sparkliest star in the sky and know that Eliza is winking at me :) Her beautiful spirit will continue to live on in all our lives. God bless you my friend, and thank you for sharing her with us. She was indeed a teacher of the most important lesson...living and loving life.

From my heart to yours,

Connie Alford

January 5, 2010

Although I never met Eliza, I feel a connection to her and your family. I did see pictures of her and she is beautiful. We walk the same halls at Shands Hospital in Gainsville and met you all during our recent stay for Chris' surgery. You have a great family and such wonderful support. My heart breaks for you all. We will never be the same since being a part of the Shand's family. My prayers are with you all. (My son Clay works with Lynn at Archbold in Thomasville.)

Melissa Taylor

January 5, 2010

Dear Sara,I just want you to.Know I'm really sorry.To hear about Eliza.Well at the first weekend.Of december six grade science teacher.Past away also she was sick to.She had diabetes.She was one of my.Faverit teachers I always remember .Every thing that she alway.

Jackie Kantor

January 5, 2010

Sara,

You don't know me but I listenend to you on the radio every morning for years and enjoyed hearing about Eliza and just your day to day activities. When you suddenly were not on the radio anymore I called the station to find out what had happened (thinking Eliza's condition had worsened) but they wouldn't tell me why or where you had gone.

I am so sorry to read of Eliza's passing and wanted you to know that she and you touched so many people that you aren't even aware of.

My heart goes out to you and your family.

Sincerely,

January 5, 2010

Sara, Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this time. I can't image your loss. Eliza was a special child.
From a long lost friend.
Margaret and Jay McCallie

Karen James

January 5, 2010

Sara, I remember Eliza from your early radio days and felt like she part of our family. Thank you for sharing her with all of us over all the years. I know that God blessed you with this special child and He will continue to bless you the rest of your days for your devoted love and care.

Linda Medina

January 5, 2010

My daughter was born the day before Eliza at TMH. I remember meeting your father, Sarah. I have listened to you on the radio many times and laughed as you shared the many joys of your daughter. And I have thought of both of you often and wondered where and how you were.
Having lost my son almost three years ago, I know there is no greater pain anyone can experience than to bury their child.
I always try to concentrate on the joy of his life and all the crazy, wonderful stories I can tell others about him.
As one grieving parent to another, I hope someday the love and joy will outweigh the sorrow.

L G

January 5, 2010

“‘I’ll lend you for a little time, a child of mine, ‘Christ said. For you to love the while she lives, and mourn for when she’s dead. It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three, but will you, ‘til I call her back, take care of her for me? She’ll bring her charms to gladden you, and should her stay be brief, you’ll have her lovely memories of solace in your grief. I cannot promise she will stay--since all from earth return, but there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn. I looked the wide world over, in search of teachers true, and from the throngs that crowd life’s lane, I have selected you. Now will you give her all your love, not think the labor vain--nor hate Me when I come to you and take her home again. I fancied that I heard them say, “Dear Lord, Thy will be done.” For all the many joys she’ll bring, the risk of grief we’ll run. We’ll shelter her with tenderness, we’ll love her while we may, and for the happiness we’ve known, forever grateful stay. But should the angels call for her, much sooner than we planned, we’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.”

January 5, 2010

Sara and family, I can't begin to imagine the loss of a child, and believe me when I say I am at a loss for words you and Eliza would especially appreciate that comment, my goal was to make her laugh with love
Linda D. Thompson

Herm Dykstra

January 5, 2010

I only met Eliza twice but was immediately struck by her beauty and unflappable spirit and attitude. I'm sure she is now wearing her (adventure hat) with the other angels. Herm Dykstra

January 5, 2010

Sara and family,
My prayers are with you. A parent cannot possibly ever be prepared for the loss of a child- at any age, any circumstance. My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Eliza.
Love, another former DJ,
Becky Tatum

Bob & Linda Thurston

January 5, 2010

We will treasure Eliza’s beautiful, amazing life, and we will hold dear the many things she taught us about living our own lives to the fullest. May her memory lift your spirits always.

Amy Harrison

January 5, 2010

Sara, Bubba, and family -
I wanted to wait to write something because I wanted to say the perfect words to you, but I'm really at a loss of words. No words can truly describe the little girl that touched so many lives through the years. I remember the first day I met her. She was at the radio station and very upset on the couch because she was tired (she was about five). After talking a few minutes, the crying turned into laughing and we immediately started a loving friendship. Eliza was like my own daughter, and will forever be remembered as my little angel that gave me away at my wedding. I will cherish the many, wonderful conversations that I had with her - as a child and as a young adult. I'm thankful that we got to visit her at Shands in early September. It was a short visit, but I'm glad that I got the chance to blow her kisses as she did her therapy.

Here's one of my favorite poems -
Looking back may you be filled with gratitude;

Looking forward, may you be filled with hope;

Looking upward, may you be aware of strength;

Looking inward, may you find peace.

I love you both very much,
Amy (and David) Harrison

Joe Sanders

January 5, 2010

Sara,
May the Peace of the Lord be with you and your family. We can all rejoice knowing that Eliza is in a better place with our Heavenly Father.

January 4, 2010

Brenda and Eliza's family: Even though we never met Eliza, we know how very much she was loved by her Aunt Brenda. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are truly sorry for your loss.

Lenora and Bert Hoard, Tallahassee

Reggi Hayes

January 4, 2010

We did not have the pleasure of knowing Eliza personally; however, while reading the tributes to you and your's and her precious memory, I can only say that it is a blessing to have had a small glimpse into this very special light!
"I imagine her dancing with care free joy"; "smarter than me"; "one of a kind"; "she had a yearning for life"; "she has touched many lives". This is only a small view into what so many of you have had the joy of experiencing.
From this very small 'viewmaster' that we've peered through, it is so very clear; that 'age does not define quality or depth of the impact that a soul has on the lives of others' ... it's their "love." The love that transcends far beyond his life. The love that carries us from second to second; from minute to minute; then into hour to hour; and from day to day. A love that takes us through the sadness and tears; the hopes for a today, and dreams of a tomorrow ... that love that takes us far into the time where we will meet again. Your love for her light has touched our hearts.
We send to you our hearts filled with love abd share in a small portion of the joy that each of you have known. Extending our thoughts, our prayers to all who have shared in the love of Eliza's light!
Respectfully,
Reggi and Family

January 4, 2010

Sara & family,words cannot express my sadness. I will never forget the smiles & joy she brought when she would bless us with a visit to the "front" office at Gretchen Everhart. Sandy Fletcher, retired bookkeeper

Hugh Bosely

January 4, 2010

I met Eliza at Montessori and was amazed by her joie de vivre and precociousness. Perhaps because she understood the fragility of life so early on and because her earliest interactions were with adults, she spoke a language and subtext far beyond her 6 years at that time. Eliza was an inspiration not only to me but my daughter and her playmate Zoe. Watching her run, jump and laugh all the while, despite the precariousness of her heart, will never be forgotten. Eliza remains a standard bearer for the triumph of the human spirit over adversity.

It rains in our hearts.

Hugh Bosely & Zoe Allaire-Bosely

Patricia & Zoe Allaire

January 4, 2010

Eliza's family,

Zoe and I have very fond memories of beautiful, blonde, energetic and intelligent Eliza from the Montessori school years. She was truly a bright light even as a little girl. We will always remember her with a friendly smile on her face and are thankful to have known her and enjoyed her positive spirit.

Emily Douglas

January 4, 2010

I am so saddened by hearing of Eliza's passing. I only met her a few times at the yarn shop, but she left a deep impression on me (as I'm sure she did on everyone she met) with her incredibly sly sense of humor and her enthusiasm and drive. I extend my most heartfelt condolences.

Diane Matthews

January 4, 2010

Dearest Sara - I just read Bob Gabordi's blog and learned of Eliza's passing. I am so very sorry. Caitlin and I prayed for her for so many years, but I lost track of you and did not know about recent events. You are an awesome mother. God bless you and Eliza

Martha Annis (King)

January 4, 2010

Sara & family, I am so sorry. Sara, I remember seeing you and Eliza in CVS one night when she was about 12 and she had such a bubbly laughter and beautiful smile and of course, she never met a stranger. I know you all will miss her upbeat personality and take control attitude! Please know that you have so many friends that care about you and are here to help. God bless you all and stay strong!

Jimmy Glisson

January 4, 2010

Sara - words are not suffcient, I truly remeber the day she was born and introduced to Tallahassee. That was about the time you took my precious Lauren under your wings at SUNNY and I bugged you daily to play Little Honda at lunch for me. God Bless and we will all cherrish knowing this precoius angel.

Love from me, Ruth Anne,Lauren & Christy!

Robin Leach

January 4, 2010

Sara,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know she was the light of your life. thanks so much for sharing her with us.
Robin Leach

Amy

January 4, 2010

Dear Eliza's family,
It is with great sadness that I read of your daughter's passing. However, it is an honour to know that such special youth still exist in this ever changing terrible world. I was so inspired when I read about her, that I had to send it to many family and friends all over the world. It moved me in ways you will never know, for myself and for the many children I help take care of at the hospital here in Tallahassee.
You and all of us, lost a very special angel, but we gained the knowledge, and wisdom that have made us all a better person today. Thank you for sharing your daughter with us.

Valerie MacLeod

January 4, 2010

My heart hurts for your loss. Eliza will be greatly missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time.

Lisa Lazarus.Brown

January 4, 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss...I remember when Eliza was born--such love and devotion from her family and community. I have to say I love the last line of her obit. We should all be so loved and give so much love.

Heather Richardson

January 4, 2010

It seems that the people who make the biggest impact on our lives are only here a moment. We are left to wonder how they did it all in such a short time. And when we don't feel like facing the day, we can see them in our memories and remember how much we still have to do before we see them again.
My deepest sympathies,
(Wooly Bully Knitter)

Judy Bailey

January 4, 2010

Sara & Bubba - Thank you for sharing your special "gift", Eliza with so many of us. She was such a bight good light and everyone who met her knew there are something very special about her. She was wise beyond her years, maybe because her years would be short. She was beautiful inside and out and no matter how many words we use to describe her - they could never be enough to sum up all the things that made ELiza so special. I will always remember her walking around the radio station and engaging everyone in a conversation. She was always an enjoyable interuption in my busy day. I know you are heartbroken but take some comfort in knowing your child was a gift to so many people and I know the impact of her life sent out a huge ripple effect that will touch so many people. Let her life be an example to all of us and inspire us all to live meaningful lives. With all her obstacles - she certainly did! Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 4, 2010

To Eliza's family,
Eliza's death deprives even those of us who did not know her personally of her apparent infectious joy and of her promise of significant contributions in her adult years. --Ina Jeffery, Tallahassee, FL.

Pilar Delp

January 4, 2010

Dearest Sara and Family,
Thanks for sharing your daughter with us. Her legacy of love is tremendous.

Janice Zimmerman

January 4, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. It was my pleasure to meet Eliza and to see her spirit and determination. My thoughts are with you. Janice Zimmerman, RN, Eliza's Children's Medical Services nurse.

January 4, 2010

Spread your wings and fly sweet angel, we will miss you. God blessed all of us who knew her and I'm grateful He shared her with us. Renee McEwen

Judy Shipman

January 4, 2010

May you be comforted by your memories and the knowlege that Eliza's heart beats strong in heaven.

Kathy Grobe

January 4, 2010

Sara -- I cannot imagine how much your heart is aching. Liza was a very special child with a very special mother. Thank you for sharing her with us. While our world is diminished with her death, it was certainly enriched by her life.
All my love,
Kathy Grobe

Elma & Steve Gillette

January 4, 2010

Dearest Sara and Family,
I never met Eliza, but she somehow got into our hearts. She was a strong amazing young lady from reading your e-mails. Please do not hesitate to call us if you need anything.Our prayer are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Melissa Ramin

January 4, 2010

Taking care of Eliza was one of the most important things I ever did. She was such a joy, even when she was sick and feeling bad. I love Eliza very much and found myself thinking about her even on my days off. We miss that beautiful girl in the far back corner. It was difficult when they put someone else in that room....for it has become "Eliza's room." Her Disney paintings are still there. I miss her terribly, but know that she is playing with her puppy and having truffles with Walt Disney in a far more beautiful room than we had to offer her. I love you Eliza! Go Gators!!!

Tracy Doyle

January 3, 2010

Eliza was amazing in too many ways to list, she made more of an impact in her few short years than most of us will make in a lifetime.
She lived her life with all her heart...that is truly worth celebrating!!

Molly Adair

January 3, 2010

Dear Eliza,

Thank you for being a friend to me. You were without a doubt one of the greater and truer ones.
I know your spirit will live on in a place full of joy.
Thank you for showing me what courage is, and how strong someone can be. A damn tough lady you are, if I may say so. I have a few pictures my mom sent recently of us when we were much younger; I treasure them so much- we are smiling & looking into each others' eyes and it is so powerful.
I love you with all my heart and hope we someday meet again.
Lovelovelove and so many hugs to you, friend.


Dear Eliza's Family,
How I want to hug you, and how I am in need of a hug from you. Everyone I know in the family has been so wonderful to show so much love to one of Eliza's friend, and I thank you for that. Sarah, Mindy, Louis, and Michael whom I know best in the family, I will learn so much from the dedication and sincerity you go through life with. Such loving and good-hearted people, I will treasure you also.
With my love and gratitude,
Molly Adair

PO Box 39
Moose, WY 83012
[email protected]

Pat Thomas

January 3, 2010

Sara, I don't know if you remember me. But I've known you and Eliza ever since she was little. I was sooo very sorry t hear of her passing. She overcame so very many obstacles. Please let all of us know when her Celebration of Life will be so that we can Truly Honor Eliza. She was The Best. Pat Thomas

Libby Smith

January 3, 2010

Sara: You are in my thoughts and prayers. We have not talked in quite a while but I have kept up with Eliza and lifted you both up in prayer. Eliza is a beautiful person because of all your love and that is always with you.

Chuck Ryor

January 3, 2010

What a gift from God Eliza was to her family, friends and community! She was beautiful in every way. And as someone who worked with her mom at Sunny 107, I know exactly where Eliza got her "amazingly quick wit," as Sara was and is the smartest, funniest and most talented person with whom I've ever worked. You all are in our prayers. We love you.

Chuck, Carolyn, Nick & Holly Ryor

C.J. Weinman

January 3, 2010

I will never forget Eliza's story, or her family for the way they shared it so freely with us. God bless all of you.

Gino Fina

January 3, 2010

Sara,
We'll all miss her, but we'll be thankful for the many blessings she revealed.

January 3, 2010

I did not know your daughter but what a wonderful tribute to her life. She has yet touched someone else. KV Tallahassee

January 3, 2010

Marybeth Parker : this life was precious and if they rewrite Webster's under Precious will be a photo of Eliza
My prayers to all survivors to know that we were Blessed.

Michelle Zieman

January 3, 2010

I'll never forget "Ella" chastizing me for trying to "break her finger" during the half dozen "upside down" manuevers we managed. She had a way of getting her meaning across while being supportive all the same. I treasure the time I knew your daughter. My deepest sympathies to you for the world's loss.

Rose Wilson

January 3, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and a child. Our hearts are broken and hurt with you, but now she is happy and well with our Lord and Savior. May you continue to be blessed by your wonderful and sweet moments you shared with Eliza. God's Blessings..

Kudra, Joss, and Cindy Abaco

January 3, 2010

Our family was touched and forever changed by knowing Eliza. She lives on in our strength and determination to live life to the fullest. She was and will always be an inspiration!

Bill Wertman

January 3, 2010

Starchild, your journey has not ended, it has just changed course and through my eyes, you have changed right along with it, an evolution of heart and soul. When I first met you back in March of 09, you took my breath away. I remember your skin was a pale shade of blue but the light in your eyes was most brilliant and unmistakably wise beyond their years. In a word, you were stunning. Through my eyes, you were a beautiful Angel among men and now you are a beautiful Angel among Angels. Please watch over us Liza, God knows we need it. Please continue to light our path and illuminate our journey. We will see you again one fine day. Rest in Peace.

June Bradford

January 3, 2010

I came to know of Eliza late in her fight for life. She was a very inspiring young woman, I am sorry that she did not get her earthly healing. Surely she is one of God's angels in heaven

I am an organ donor. I hope that anyone who reads her notice will think about becoming one.

Nancy Boltwood

January 3, 2010

Never met Eliza or her family, yet their story holds my heart. She was a young lady full of light, full of life, full of strength. The organs that failed her would never define her... she was so much more than that. Celebrate her life!... she was a wonder.

Karen Thurston Chavez

January 3, 2010

Eliza, you touched a world of hearts. Even after long months at Shands, battling back from setbacks, your fight and spirit soared. You defied all odds. You've taught us grace, optimism and gratitude. Our world is a better place because you are here, even now. We remain United for Eliza.

Karen Thurston Chavez
Broken Hearts of the Big Bend
Tallahassee, Florida

Mike Boles

January 3, 2010

Bubba and family:

We are saddened by your loss but rejoice with you in the life of this special young lady. I will remember the times we watched the two of you enjoing life at Beef O'Bradys. May your memories of her life always bring a smile to your heart.

Mike and Lila Boles

Doris Baranik

January 3, 2010

I never officially met Eliza but like many, I followed her and your family through the media coverage over her lifetime. Thank you so much for sharing such a wonderful soul with us and for allowing us to be a part of your lives. Many of us have lifted you all in prayer and will continue to do so. As for Eliza, I imagine her dancing with carefree joy, not burdened with any limitations ever again.
May God bless you all.

Billie Teague

January 3, 2010

Sara and Bubba: My thoughts are with you. Eliza was so special and touched so many lives. Sara, I especially remember early mornings at the radio station...while you were doing your show, Eliza would walk around talking to anyone she could find...we had many wonderful talks and I knew she was way smarter than I was and smarter than most other people I knew. She was just one of a kind and I hope that now she is having new experiences more wonderful than she ever dreamed.

Lynn Walker

January 3, 2010

God you have an Angel, she's fearless and a sweetheart at the same time.

I have known Eliza since her days at Canopy Oaks Elementary. What a spitfire!

She had a yearning for life like no other kid I have ever known.

We'll miss her, but you have her now, she is alive, healthy and living life just as she so wanted to here on Earth.

We love you, Eliza!

Eric Boatright

January 3, 2010

Eliza I only got to meet you once but It was a day I will never forget! You have touched so many lives in this world and you will always be in our hearts and mine! Thank you!

Nancy Shoaff

January 3, 2010

So sorry to hear of your daughters death. I got to know her through her mother and other people who loved her so. When I moved I lost track as usual. She is a wonder to behold. Nancy Shoaff

Julie Moss

January 3, 2010

While Eliza may have inherited her spirit and wit from her mother, she also shared her many attributes with her mom. Mostly, as I remember, she showed her mom the way with her love. Eliza was a sage in the body of a child. Although I haven't had the privilege to have seen her in quite awhile, I strongly feel that while the world may have lost her in body, there is a soft angel smiling on all of us today and always.

Dan Evans

January 3, 2010

Though I only "knew" Eliza since she was a toddler through her mother on the radio, I am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. What a beautiful spirit she brought to the world. May God watch over you for eternity.

LJ Tisdale-Miller

January 3, 2010

Although I never met Eliza, I sent up alot of prayers for her & feel like I know her. I use to hear her on the radio with her Mom sometimes when she was really young. I am so sorry Sarah....you were obvious a wonderful Mom and my heart breaks for you & your family. I can not imagine what you're going through but I know the Lord will be there to pull you through. May you and Eliza's Dad find peace in the memories and joy in the fact that you can see Eliza again someday & she will have a working heart without any pain or problem. You now have an angel to help guide you thru also. My deepest sympathy to Eliza's family & friends. She was a very brave and admirable young lady.

Vicki McElvar

January 3, 2010

I was a teachers' aide at Canopy Oaks while Eliza was there. She was the most enthusiastic, outgoing, witty person of her age. I'll never forget her.

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