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Howard Brundage Obituary

Ledyard - Howard Jon Brundage, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and music educator, passed away on May 20, 2011, at age 78. An accomplished musician, composer, and conductor, Howard awakened a love for music in the thousands of students he taught and directed during his more than 35 year teaching career in Groton and New London. At New London High School, where he was the department chair of music for 20 years, Howard is credited with creating innovative classes and growing the school's struggling band from 20 to 110 students in just one year. Howard brought student enthusiasm for music to new heights during his tenure at the high school with his award winning stage band ensembles and crowd rousing marching bands. The Howard J. Brundage Music Scholarship is now in its second year at NLHS.

Howard was a graduate of the Boston University College of Music with a master's degree in administration from Bridgeport University. He was president of the Groton Education Association, a leader with the Connecticut Educator's Association on salary negotiations, and actively involved in civic life as a longtime member of the Groton Water Authority. Howard belonged to Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Gales Ferry, where for decades he was the choir director and an inspiring vocalist and trumpet soloist. Throughout his teaching career, he further supported his family by working nights as a security officer for several facilities including the Naval Underwater Systems Center and Millstone Power Station.

Together with his wife, Mary, Howard wrote several children's musicals, "Uncommon Tutankhamun," "A-Whaling," and "Moon Rocks," performed by students at Solomon Schechter Academy and Bennie Dover Jackson Middle School in New London. He was a musical director for productions including "Oklahoma!" and "Annie Get Your Gun," and a performer in "Mr. Roberts" at Bridgeport's Polka Dot Playhouse.

Howard was a professional trumpeter who played alongside Louis Armstrong during one of his many performances with the Boston University Alumni Band and most recently was a member of the local jazz big band, String of Pearls.

In his retirement, he continued his work as an educator through the Academy of St. Therese, a private Catholic K-8 school in Gales Ferry, co-founded by his wife. He was devoted to the school as a volunteer and a violin and substitute teacher.

Howard was born on Nov. 20, 1932, in East Norwalk, to the late Harold and Margaret (Glynn) Brundage. He often shared stories of his Depression-era childhood and raising chickens and selling eggs door-to-door from his little red wagon. In later years, Howard enjoyed boating and fishing in the Mystic River, coaching his four daughters' softball teams, building stone walls, gardening, and watching his much-loved New York Yankees.

He is survived by his wife of 49 years, Mary Brundage; his four daughters, Bonnie Cummings of Salem, Beth Murphy of Falmouth, Mass., Briana Webber and Brita Belli, both of Fairfield; seven adoring grandchildren; and a brother, Harold Brundage of Naples, Fla.

He was predeceased by a sister, Marge Hill, of Norwalk.

Visiting hours will be held from 4 to 7 p.m. on Thursday at Byles-Groton Memorial Home, 310 Thames St., Groton. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Friday at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, 1650 Route 12, Gales Ferry. His burial will follow in the Avery-Stoddard Cemtery, Ledyard.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Howard's memory to the Academy of St. Therese, 18 Hurlbutt Road, Gales Ferry CT 06335.

Please visit www.byles.com for the family's online registry.

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Published by The Day on May 25, 2011.

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Jon Howard Brundage

June 19, 2011

Aunt Mary and cousins Beth, Bonnie, Brita and Briana
Your husband and Dad was most proud of you all and you were the inspiration of his life. It is warming to read that his legacy and gift of music has been passed onto to so many people/former students who in turn have passed his gift along to others. His legacy will endure in others for countless years to come and this is the finest tribute to him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I am proud to carry his name.
Love

Sean Perry

June 1, 2011

To Mrs. Brundage and family: I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great teacher and person. NLHS '85

Franella Smith Obi

May 30, 2011

Dear Brundage family,
Mr. Brundage taught while I was at NLHS from 1974-1977. I have many wonderful memories of his class. My prayers are you all. God bless.
Franella Obi, RD LD

savas synodi

May 29, 2011

Dear Mrs. Brundage--- Mr. Brundage made me feel like a star at New London High School. I was a student when he decided to start a strings program. I was already an accomplished violin player but he inspired me to continue playing violin and even mandolin today. The best memory I have of Mr. Brundage was when I won the NLHS band booster award. A few days earlier I was not selected to win the strings award Mr. B pulled me aside and made sure I was ok telling me that were other awards. I was shocked that morning at the annual Awards assembly when he told me not to leave the stage and stay right there and my name was announced for the booster award.
I am an educator and I often remember how he approached those situations and apply them in my own classroom. Thanks Mr. Brundage for your lessons inspired me to be a foreign language teacher.
Savas J. Synodi NLHS class of 80

Dianne Kexel(Morton)

May 29, 2011

God Bless the Brundage Family. He was a great music teacher.,I had him as a teacher in the 60's at West Side Jr. High.My prayers are with you all.

Patricia Morris

May 28, 2011

He will be sadly missed at West Side by all of his students, and mother adored him. Patricia Morris

May 27, 2011

Mr. Brundage taught me how to play the tenor sax....only lessons I ever had! I played at West Side then Fitch and ended up playing at Shea Stadium for the NY Jets while in college at URI....and still play in a band today. Thank you, Sir! Captain Dottie Reed, USN....still playing and still serving.

Andrew Peterson

May 27, 2011

Dear Mrs. Brundage and family,
In 1978, Mr. Brundage told me, "If you learn the bass guitar, you can play in the stage band next year." I learned the instrument and spent my afternoons junior and senior years playing jazz with some great musicians and "Mr. Howie" at the baton. Great times that I'll never forget.

Fast forward more than 30 years and I'm still pluckin' the fat strings, now in a jazz trio. From friends' garages and basements to Boston rock clubs to elementary school musicals, the bass has rarely left my side in all these years. It centers me in hard times and elevates my glad times. It is a source of peace and contentment, and an outlet for my creativity.

Few things in my life mean more to me than my relationship with music and my instrument. Thanks, Mr. Brundage, for giving me that chance, that break, that "first gig." You truly made a difference in my life. (NLHS Class of '81)

May 27, 2011

Mrs. Brundage and Family:

I am Mike Himes, class of '77 NLHS. Mr. Brundage was always a gentle and honorable man. He had such patience. I didn't own a decent trumpet in High School. Howard loaned me his Bach Stradivarius for four years. I don't know many people who would have done that. He put up with a lot from me and my goofy friends. But, he loved us and I gave him all I had on the trumpet. I am a musician to this day and continue to teach kids. My heartfelt prayers are with you.

Mike Himes, Wilmore, KY

Allen Hale

May 27, 2011

Psalm 33:2-3 "Praise the Lord with the harp; make music to him on the ten-stringed lyre. Sing to Him a new song; play skillfully, and shout for joy."

Thanks to Mr Brundage's work here, many of us are able to sing and play skillfully.

For almost 50 years now I have not been able to listen to Beethoven's 5th and not think of Mr Brundage.

Thank you and rest in peace.

Don Macrino

May 27, 2011

Dear Mary,

I was saddened to learn of Howard'd death. I have so many fond memories. One in particular is that of his red velvet jacket and the singing of White Christmas at New London High's Christmas Concert. Those were the Golden Years. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Russell Andrews

May 27, 2011

I am greatly saddened by the news of Mr Brundage's passing. He was the most inspirational and remembered teacher I have ever had. I have missed him over the years, I will miss him even more now.
He is the one person who kept me playing my music all these years, I so wanted to give it up during high school. But it was not just the music he helped me with, and that is the part I will always remember.
As men go, he was the best. As teachers go, he was even better. As a horn player, he was inspiring.
Thank you, Mr Brundage. God Bless.

May 27, 2011

To the Bundage Family i am sorry of your losses of Mr. Bundage he was one of my favorites teachers at West Side Junior High to many of my brother and sister . To this day i can see him raise his hand up to start musics in my classroom . The Mayo's Family want to extend own educations of musics to own childrens and grandkid in his member may GOD bless him of his work well done. MAYO'S FAMILY

ALFRED MAYO

May 27, 2011

To the Bundage Family i am sorry of your losses of Mr. Bundage he was one of my favorites teachers at West Side Junior High to many of my brother and sister . To this day i can see him raise his hand up to start musics in my classroom . The Mayo's Family want to extend own educations of musics to own childrens and grandkid in his member may GOD bless him of his work well done. MAYO'S FAMILY

victor gaska

May 27, 2011

Mrs. Brundage my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.Howard was a gentle kind man who never had a bad word to say about anybody.His smile was infectious and it was an honor to work with him at millstone.He loved his family dearly and spoke often about his family.

Rich Mallove

May 26, 2011

I worked at Millstone with Howard and while I never had him as a teacher he remembered me and always spoke fondly of his days at NLHS. Howard will be missed by many! Class of 77

Samantha (Sullivan) Batch

May 26, 2011

Mrs. Brundage, Briana, Brita, Beth and Bonnie- I would like to express my deepest sympathies on the loss of Mr. Brundage. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers while you are going through this tough time.

Mary Pratt

May 26, 2011

To the Brundage family,
Thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. I worked with Howard at Millstone and he was always positive. Such a warm person who started our days out with a smile. Until I just read his obituary, I had no idea how many others he had touched in his lifetime. May you find comfort in knowing his life definitely had a purpose and he will forever be in many hearts.

Jill ( Patingre) Stachowski

May 26, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Mr.Brundage, He was a great teacher I will always remember him from my 4 years at NLHS. Rest in peace, Sir...Class if "1982 "

James Hunter

May 26, 2011

I shall always be grateful his help and guidance through the years.

Ed & Desiree Discola

May 26, 2011

I had the pleasure of working with Howard at Millstone for a few years. He always had a smile on his face, even when he was on his way to "burn an eyeball". You couldn't get in a conversation with Howard without hearing about his family, his music, or his Yankees. He was a very special person who's life should be celebrated and envied by all. "You made it" Howard

Toni (Santangelo) Harris

May 26, 2011

My thoughts and prayers to the Brundage family. He was my band teacher at NLHS. I remember him being a lot of fun and especially putting up with our jokes/stunts in class. "Howie" thank you for making our experience with music fun and thanks for the memories. ~ Class of '82

May 26, 2011

I remember Mr Brundage from my days at NLHS and he was always had a smile for everyone. I was not lucky enough to be in his band class but remember his popularity with the entire student body.

Tony Leckey, Class of '77

Trilby Kirkland

May 26, 2011

Mr. Brundage was a kind man, always ready with a warm smile and a pat on the back. His passion for music inspired many students. Students who, in turn, not only loved and respected him, but have a deeper understanding and love for music, themselves. His passing is a great loss. My condolences to Mrs. Brundage, their children and families.

May 26, 2011

A kind, warm and true gentleman. Dedicated educator. Blessings and condolences to the Brundage family.

Robert Beaulieu

May 26, 2011

Mr. Brundage was my Band Director at West Side in the Late sixties. He started me on percussion and inspired me to become a music teacher. I have followed in his footsteps amd am now the Band Director at West Side. Thank you Mr. Brundage.

Rob Beaulieu

Jane

May 25, 2011

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mr. Brundage was my music/band teach way back in the 70's at West Side Jr. High. Great memories of him and his music. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

May 25, 2011

Beth,
Please accept my condolences on the death of your father What an amazing man
Margie Sullivan

BRYAN CARMENATI

May 25, 2011

This is indeed a sad occasion.'Howie' and I worked together on several projects. May he rest in peace

Lynn Rice Tremblay

May 25, 2011

Mr Brundage was my music teacher at West Side Junior High in the sixties. He made a impact that has stayed with me all these years. Every time I hear the song "More" I feel like I am back in Junior High. Thanks Mr. Brundage.

star sprague

May 25, 2011

i feel so bad for u mrs.brundage

Adria Vail Cohen

May 25, 2011

I remember Mr. Brundage from the sixties at West Side Junior High. He made music fun! My condolences to the family on the loss of someone who not only made music fun and interesting for us, but was truly in tune with his students.

star sprague

May 25, 2011

he was my teacher

Kimberly Casey

May 25, 2011

I was sorry to hear of his passing. He was a wonderful teacher and a great person. He will be missed.

ERIC EMERICH

May 25, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you all...

- Eric Emerich

eileen monroe

May 25, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rachael, Beth, Linda, Sherri and Ermelinda

May 25, 2011

On behalf of the Groton staff of CorPlus FCU, we offer you our deepest condolences. Mr.Brundage was an amazing and sincere man and he will be sadly missed by us all. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of his family.

Lizdel Collado

May 25, 2011

Thank you, Mr. Brundage, for instilling in me a love of music, performing, and the courage to follow my dreams. - Lizdel Collado NLHS Class of '84

Russ Becht

May 25, 2011

Mary and family,
On behalf of the Alpha team at millstone power station I would like to offer my deepest condolences for the loss of Howard. I worked with Howard for a few years at millstone and in his time with us he was always the most friendly and helpful person. He was always willing to help anyone do anything and no matter what was going on he could put a smile on your face. Your family will be in our thoughts

May 25, 2011

Dear Mary We worked together breifly at BDJMS and I'm very sorry to hear of this. I hope your memories of a lifetogether will provide some consolation Paul Nelson

Matthew Coburn

May 25, 2011

Mr Brundage was my music teacher from 1980-1984 and I was in New London High School's Band, Stage Band and Orchestra; needless to say he was a huge part and influence in my life throughout high school and beyond. He had a joy for life and a passion for educating that was inspiring which will be my lasting memory of him. A world in which he is no longer a part of is just a little bit sadder and bit more dull. It saddens me immensely to know that he is no longer with us, but I find comfort in the fact that there can be no more suitable eternal resting place for Mr. Brundage than in a heavenly choir. I'm certain that he entered heaven singing.

Tom Reed

May 25, 2011

To Mrs. Brundage and family: I am so sorry for your loss and wish you God's peace. About Mr. Brundage--what a guy! He taught me trumpet when I was 12 and bundled a bunch of kids with horns and such into a marching band for West Side Junior High. He was a teacher and cared so much for us all. The world is better for him being with us.

Eileen (Smogowicz) Quinn

May 25, 2011

To Mary and family,
Mary as I remember our time together at BDJMS can't help but wonder how you are doing in your retirement years. I enjoyed the years we spent together and the sharing of your helpful tips. As you and your family members move forward during this difficult time know that my thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you and your family.

May 25, 2011

Dear Mary and Family,
My deepest sympathy. Words alone cannot explain the great loss of Mr. Brundage. His kindness and understanding for children with special disabilities will be greatly missed. He was a very special person in our household.
Sincerely meant,
Josie, Butch, and Theresa Zemko

Karen J. (Yanchinsky) Harrington

May 25, 2011

Dear Mary & Family,
May God comfort you in your time of sorrow. I worked with Howard for 9 years at the former Naval Undersea Warfare Center. He was very special to me because he was always so friendly, helpful, and considerate. I cannot count the times he "took the gate", during inclement weather, insisting that I and other security officers stay inside out of the harsh elements. He would often bring Dunkin Donuts coffee for the entire shift, and in the summer months, run down to Michael's Dairy to get each of us our favorite milkshake. Oh, Howard was a true gem and gentleman! He delighted us all with stories of his students, and of his family, whom no one could deny he loved and adored. He was so proud of his daughters and their accomplishments. I especially enjoyed the stories of his youth, and his days of playing ice hockey, and how he spoke of his Mom and her love for the New York Mets! Howard, thank you for the friendship, advice, and kindness. You will never be forgotten dear friend - Rest In Peace.

Andréa (Rabitaille) Shick

May 25, 2011

Mrs. Brundage, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your daughters during this difficult time. I was a student in your 8th grade English class @ New London Junior High School(school year 1981/1982). I was a violinist for your husband, in New London High School(1982-83 until 1985-86). I remember you both fondly. Your husband was a very special man. He challenged us and inspired my love of classical and contemporary music. He will be missed by many.

Gail Bibeau

May 25, 2011

Mr. Brundage was our music teacher at Westside Junior High. I owe my love of music to his wonderful classes and his patience Gail (Baylor) Bibeau

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