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Richard Sebastian Obituary

Mashantucket - Richard F. Sebastian, 78, an elder of the Mashantucket Pequot Tribe, passed away Tuesday, Dec. 4, 2012, at his home.

He was born in New York, N.Y., on Nov. 28, 1934, a son of the late Clifford Cyrus Sebastian and Mabel L. Wilcox Perry Sebastian.

He is survived by his wife, Mary E. (Jerome) Sebastian; his children, Don Ricardo Sebastian Sr. and Amondo Jacquontee Sebastian, both of Mashantucket, Lisa Andrea Sebastian-Brant of Peace Dale, R.I., Mark Anthony Sebastian of Charlestown, R.I., Cynthia Sebastian-Welch and Tanisha Seba Sebastian, both of Mashantucket; two step-children, Lisa (Jerome) Hayes and Jason Jerome; a sister, Juanita Reels of Mashantucket; 25 grandchildren; and 33 great-grandchildren.

He was predeceased by his daughter, Ann Marie Sebastian; and his siblings, Myrtis Simmons, Doris LaCorbiniere, Phyllis Sebastian-Waite, Maxine Pinson, Constance Sampson, Evelyn Reels, Vincent A. Sebastian, Clifford C. Sebastian, Emanuel Sebastian, Mason and Harold Champlain, and Catherine Sebastian.

A Graveside Service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Saturday, at the Mashantucket Tribal Burial Ground, Fanning Road, Ledyard. There are no visiting hours.

Donations in his memory may be made to The Miriam Hospital Comprehensive Cancer Center, 164 Summit St., Providence, RI 02906-2853.

The Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., historic downtown Mystic, is assisting the family.

For information or to share a note of remembrance with his family, please visit www.dinotofuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Dec. 7, 2012.

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Eric D Mankin

November 4, 2024

Richard and I worked together for a couple of years when I was at Babson Executive Education. He was very kind to invite me and my family to a brunch with Quincy Jones back when the tribe was opening the MGM Grand.

Now that Quincy Jones has passed today, the memory of that brunch comes back to me, along with Richard's kindness in extending the invitation.

Toni Fiore

December 1, 2023

Richard you are missed every day. You were a very loving, caring, sincere man. May you rest in peace.
Toni Fiore

Toni Fiore

December 1, 2022

Richard was a wonderful, caring, loving man. May his soul Rest In Peace. Miss you

December 10, 2012

To the Sebastian Family: My heart is saddened at the loss of this GREAT MAN! I will miss him dearly but I will also NEVER forget the times that we shared. Thank you for allowing me to spend time with him during his last days. He was a True Warrior until the end and the love and care that Mary and the family provided is an example of what Love is! I love you all! RIP Richard - Your memory will live on and your legacy is an example of your strength!

John Devine

December 8, 2012

I would like to extend a heartfelt Thank You to Mary and the Sebastian Family for sharing Uncle Richard with me,,,, I am afraid that if I had a treasure like him I would not have been so generous ,,,

December 8, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family. I met Richard many years ago and was struck by his intelligence and knowledge of all things tribal. Special condolences to the Butler family.

Laura Tompkins

john tomar

December 8, 2012

I would like to send my condolences to Rick, Rico and family on your loss, keeping you in my prayers, love John and Dee-Dee Tomar

Ken Wisch

December 8, 2012

My deepest sympathies to the Sebastian family as well as to the Mashantucket Pequot family.

Harry Caprilozzi

December 8, 2012

My condolences to the Sebastian Family.

Bill and Lynne Sherlock

December 8, 2012

A great man and a good friend. Our prayers go out to the family.

Toni & Don

December 7, 2012

Mary,
Don and I are deeply sadden by your loss. We always enjoyed the times we spent with Richard. He was very good to us and my family. Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow. Please know that we are always there for you.
Toni & Don

Robert DeMarco

December 7, 2012

My deepest sympathies to the entire Sebastian family. I met Mr. Sebastian a number of times and he always remembered my name. He was a genuine gentleman.

Steve Tantillo

December 7, 2012

Dear Sebastian Family, Mary and the Mashantucket Pequot Family;



My deepest condolences --Mr. Sebastian was a very special man, I enjoyed his company and advice--I will miss him very much

God bless -rest in peace Uncle Richard.

matt hazard

December 7, 2012

Words cnt express how I feel for ur children and grandchildren rite now I kno u don't have to suffer anymore and u are in place with the creator . May the higher power watch ova ur family through this rough time of sorrow .... r.I.p uncle richard gone but never 4gotten love u forever.......

Martha Sebastian Sapp

December 7, 2012

Aunt Mary and Family I know words somehow seem inadequate to help you during your time of grief, but may all your memories of Uncle Richard be a source of comfort and relief. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. May God Bless you and keep you. Love Always Martha Sebastian Sapp

justina tunstall

December 7, 2012

I will miss u sooo much Uncle Richard gone but never forgotten tell grandpa i said hi love u

Shirley Everett - Brown

December 7, 2012

My condolences to Richard's children and family. Your are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and give you peace in this time of sorrow.

December 7, 2012

To the Family and Friends of "Uncle Richard"

I was deeply saddened to learn of Richard's passing. May God Bless you all and grant you peace.

Jane A. Mueller

Bill Satti

December 7, 2012

Great man and great mentor! May he rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family

Mick Smallridge

December 7, 2012

Dear Mary & Family,

I'm very sorry to hear this news, I always enjoyed spending time with Richard when I had the opportunity. He was very good to me and I will never forget that, my thoughts of Deepest sympathy are with you at this time.

Richard F & Richard E

Ginny Hungerford

December 7, 2012

It is with great sadness that I learned of "Uncle Richard's" passing. My heart goes out to each and everyone of his family members who's life he touch. I consider myself to be lucky to have knows "Uncle Richard", which he allowed me to call him, and at times I felt like I was maybe part of the family. He will be missed by many.

Our Thoughts, Prayers and Love to the whole family,

Ginny & Stan Hungerford

Betty Bein & Bill Brogno

December 7, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gerald Maranda

December 7, 2012

Amondo and family,

I am saddened by your loss.

I have great memories of our many breakfast meetings, amongst others.

May our God grant him everlasting peace.

Jerry Maranda

Bruce Nielsen

December 7, 2012

Don and Amondo,

Please know that I too have lost a close friend. Richard worked with me at the Neighborhood Guild, in Peace Dale.....when you were both young. Along with Phyllis, we channeled the energy and leisure time for the local kids, and developed the Teen Clique.

He was a good friend, as you know, having spent many hours at my house planning to assist you kids.....in the early 1970's....

So very sorry for your loss-please convey my condolences to your siblings too....

Very warm regards, and fond memories,

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