Robert L. DeMichiell

Robert L. DeMichiell obituary, Waterford, CT

Robert L. DeMichiell

Robert DeMichiell Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 26 to Jun. 1, 2014.
Waterford - Captain Robert L. DeMichiell, U.S. Coast Guard (retired) passed away on Friday, May 23, 2014, at Holy Cross Hospital in Fort Lauderdale, Fla. He was a seasonal resident of Waterford.

Captain DeMichiell was born in West Point, N.Y. to the late Stella and Giovanni DeMichiell of Highland Falls, N.Y. He graduated from Highland Falls High School and then attended the State University of New York at Albany where he met his beloved wife, Nan McEvoy of Little Falls, N.Y., at a freshman dance. At the end of his second year, he received one of the 200 appointments to the U.S. Coast Guard Academy and graduated with 60 fellow classmates in the class of 1957. The young ensign was assigned to the Coast Guard Cutter Barataria in Portland, Maine and to the buoy tender Cowslip in South Portland. His next assignment was a two-year tour as commanding officer of the LORAN Station in Kodiak, Alaska. Captain DeMichiell was fortunate to have his young family accompany him to this new duty station.

Captain DeMichiell returned to the Coast Guard Academy in 1962 to teach in the department of computer science and physical sciences and was later appointed to the Permanent Commission Teaching Staff. Cadet life continued to be an integral part of his life as he coached JV basketball and supported many athletic events and student-centered activities. Captain DeMichiell earned a master's degree in chemical engineering and a Ph.D. in higher education administration from the University of Connecticut to continue his strive for excellence in education and technology. The Academy honored him for his achievements as an educator and administrator for college-wide computing activities, as well as designating him professor emeritus.

Upon his retirement from the U.S. Coast Guard, Bob joined the faculty at the University of New Haven and served as director of the southeast branch of UNH at Groton. His professional teaching career continued at Fairfield University where he taught undergraduate and graduate students and served as head of the department of information systems. He was awarded professor emeritus upon his retirement from Fairfield University after 15 years of devoted service. Bob continued his lifelong adventure in education and served as a visiting professor at Nova Southeastern University in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., teaching and advising doctoral students. He dedicated his life to his family and to his students, mentoring many long after their college days concluded.

In his retirement, Bob formed Robert DeMichiell and Associates, a consulting and executive seminars company which focused on technology management for government business and education. Bob truly enjoyed collaborating with colleagues nationally and internationally and traveled extensively to share his knowledge and love of education. Throughout his distinguished career he published numerous works and participated in seminars and presentations which enlightened, inspired and provoked thinking.

Bob is survived by his beloved wife, Nan, of 57 years on June 8; and their children, Robert DeMichiell Jr. and his husband, Jeffrey Wilson, of New York City, Lynn Lynch and her husband, Brian, of Waterford and their children, Matthew Lynch of Waterford and David Lynch of New York City, and Gail DeMichiell and her daughter, Jessica Harran, both of Waterford. He is also survived by his two brothers, Ronald DeMichiell of Waterford and Raymond DeMichiell of New York City.

Bob dearly loved being with his family and friends. He took great pleasure in planning events and vacations to celebrate their lives and achievements and was passionate about documenting the events with his own specially produced films.

Calling hours will be held from 4 to 7 p.m. Wednesday, June 4, 2014, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. A funeral mass will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday, June 5, 2014, at the U.S. Coast Guard Memorial Chapel. For security purposes, the Academy requests that all occupants in all vehicles present a valid ID upon entering Academy grounds.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The Class of 1957 J.W. Kime Ethics Forum Endowment, c/o The U.S. Coast Guard Academy Alumni Association, New London, CT 06320.

Online condolences may be expressed at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.

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June 23, 2014

Dick Manning posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2014

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June 5, 2014

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Dick Manning

June 23, 2014

Dear Nan and Family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bob was a mentor and a dear friend.
Love,
Dick and Cathy Manning

Anna Lawton

June 6, 2014

Dear Gail and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

June 5, 2014

Dear Nan,
Our deepest sympathy on Bob's passing. WE remember well our homes in Waterford Village, teaching at the Academy and carpooling to work. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Bobby, Lynn, Gail and your grandchildren.
Love, Rita and George Vance

June 5, 2014

Dear Nan and Family, Matt and I are thinking of you in this time of sorrow,the Eggertssons.

June 3, 2014

Nan and Family,
Thinking of you at this sorrowful time. Always enjoyed Bob and thankful that you had so many wonderful years together.
Love, Karen and Dan Hall

June 2, 2014

Although you may not recall I was hired as an adjunct by Bob when he was at Fairfield University and found him to be a very good friend and mentor. He was one of those very special persons who I shall always remember. With tears in my eyes I wanted to extend my sympathy to his family. His passing is a great loss to all who knew him.
Seth Lewis

Michael Moore

June 1, 2014

Nan,
So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a true gentleman and a pleasure to know.
Love,
Mike and Anne Moore

June 1, 2014

Dear Nan, Lynn, Bobbie, Gail, Matt, David, Jessica and Ron

Bob always had a story to tell. He had a full life of travel and adventures and was surrounded by family and friends during many of these events.
He will always be close by in "our" hearts and memories. John and Chris"Tina".

Evelyn Harris

June 1, 2014

Dear Nan and Family,
A time to remember the past. Gail thinking of you and my daughter Pam.
May you all be blessed.

Madelyn Lyman RN

June 1, 2014

Dear Nan and family, So sorry to hear of your loss You are in my thoughts and prayers

Eve & Rit Manthous

June 1, 2014

A wonderful person to know, great friend, and honorable classmate. Our deepest sympathies are extended to Nan and the family. May his memory be eternal.

May 30, 2014

Dear Aunt Nan, Bob, Lynn, Gail, and families,
Both Tom and I, our family, and the entire Combs family feel your tremendous loss. Not only was Uncle Bob a beloved, close family friend and best friend of Dad, but also a beloved Godfather to Marybeth and I. Thinking of you at this time with lots of love and great memories. May our blessed friendship provide you with some comfort.
Love always,
Ann-Denise & Tom Boguszewski & Family

May 29, 2014

Dear Nan and family, Bob was both my teacher and a cherished, supportive friend. He was a great man. My family and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. - Mike Lohle

Barbara Mahoney

May 29, 2014

To Nan and family,

My prayers are with you and your family . Pleasant memories of times gone by will help soothe our sadness at this time.....

Flo Johnson

May 29, 2014

Nan, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers -- deepest sympathy for your loss.

May 28, 2014

DEAR NAN AND FAMILY,
MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES AT THIS SAD TIME.
MARIA (MAY)CHIANGI
PLAINFIELD,CT.

May 28, 2014

Dear Nan, so sorry for your loss. Nancy Green

May 28, 2014

Dear Gail,and family,
I am so sorry for your loss your dad was a wonderful man.You and your family are in my prayers.
Sincerely ,
Pam Sullivan

Tom and Jan Phalen

May 27, 2014

Dear Nan and family,
We are so very sorry to learn of Bob's passing. Our deepest sympathies to each of you. Please be assured that are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Burdick

May 27, 2014

Nan,I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing,there are just no words. I want you to know I am Thinking of you with love and friendship.

Joann Martin

May 27, 2014

Lynn and family,
So sorry to hear to your loss. May God's peace find its way to your hearts.

Elayne Peterson

May 27, 2014

Dear Lynn,Brian,Gail,and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. Thinking of you all.

with sympathy,

Elayne Peterson

Jeri Baker

May 27, 2014

Lynn, Brian and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Porter-Price

May 27, 2014

Lynn, Brian and Family,
So sorry to read of the loss of your father. May your many happy memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.

Sincerely,

Pat and Boyd Acklin

May 26, 2014

Nan, Pat and I send our deepest sympathy.

Shirley & Denis Hanson

May 26, 2014

Dear Nan and family - Our sincerest sympathy for you all on Bob's passing. Remember the good times. You're in our prayers. Shirley and Denis

May 26, 2014

Dear Nan, Bob, Lynn and Gail,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts at this difficult time.
You're in my prayers,
Nancy Kuehn Rupert

ann bywaters

May 26, 2014

Dear Nan and Family, So sorry for your loss

May 26, 2014

Dear Nan and family,

So sorry to learn of Bob's passing. Please know you all are in my prayers.

Love,
Marilyn Koster

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