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Peter Byczkowski Obituary
He was born June 10, 1937, in Glen Lyon, Pa., to Peter and Anna (Malachefski) Byczkowski.
After graduating from Plymouth (Pa.) High School in 1955, he joined the U.S. Navy. He served his country proudly and bravely for 20 years before he retired in 1975. This was one of his proudest accomplishments. After his naval retirement, he went to work at Electric Boat in Groton as a senior planner for 23 years.
He married his beloved wife, Catherine (McDonough) at St. Theresa's Catholic Church in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., on June 14, 1958. They enjoyed a lifetime of love and laughter. She survives him.
An avid hunter and fisherman, he was a lifetime member of the NRA and the North American Fishing Club. He was also a member of the American Legion.
He and Catherine enjoyed seeing the natural beauty of the world through their camping experiences. He started camping as the assistant Brownie leader for his daughters' Girl Scout Troop and later joined the Good Sam Camping Club and the New England Winnebagos. Always wanting to help, he was a volunteer EMT and firefighter at the Oakdale Firehouse, of which he was a lifetime member. Faith and family went hand in hand for Peter, and he was an active member of St. John's Catholic Church in Montville. He faithfully served as past Grand Knight and financial secretary for the Knights of Columbus Council 25.
A family man ever day of his life, he spent countless hours watching his grandchildren at sporting events, school plays, band concerts, and scouting events. Nothing made them happier than knowing that their "Dzjdzja" was in the crowd.
Peter is survived by his loving wife of 52 years, Catherine, of Oakdale; his daughters, Kathleen Joslin of Oakdale, Patricia and Steve Carlino of Oakdale, and Anja and Michael Heinzman of Bloomsdale, Mo. Also surviving are his beloved grandchildren, Barbara Joslin of Belmont, Mass., Kristin and Scott Joslin of Oakdale, and Steven and Anna Heinzman of Bloomsdale, Mo. He is also survived by two sisters, Jean Byczkowski of Maryland and Bernadine Gardenbrock of Tennessee.
He was predeceased by a brother, Joseph Byczkowski of Pennsylvania.
Calling hours will be held from 3 to 8 p.m. today, June 11, at the Montville Funeral Home of Church and Allen. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Saturday, June 12, at St. John's Church, 22 Maple Ave., Montville. There will be no procession from the funeral home. Burial will follow in St. Patrick Cemetery in Montville.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Peter's memory may be made to St. John's Church.
Please visit the online memorial at www.montvillefuneralhome.com to leave condolences for the family.
The Montville Funeral Home of Church and Allen, 53 Route 32, Montville, is assisting the family with arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Peter Byczkowski
June 30, 2010
Cathy & Kathy,
I want you both to know how sorry I am for the passing of your beloved husband and father. My thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
I have very fond memories of working with you Cathy and you speaking so admirably of "your Peter".
Kathy...many years have flown by but I
still remember you as not just a classmate but a friend. I always will remember your respect and gratitude for your Mom and Dad. May your Dad rest in peace.
I love you both,
Jean Hayes Bigelow
Allie Holdridge
June 17, 2010
Cathy, so sorry to hear of Peter's passing. We were at the June CNW Campout when we heard that he had passed on. He will be fondly remembered by all of us.
Billie Peszynski
June 14, 2010
Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear the passing of your Dad. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathy Barry
June 14, 2010
May all of the wonderful times spent, memories made and love in your hearts, go on forever.
Cathy Boudah-Barry
Eileen and Paul Hamel
June 14, 2010
Cathy,
We were all so sorry to hear about Peter. He will always be in our hearts and thoughts around our campfires. His kind smile and sense of humor will always be remember. Wish I knew earlier so I could have been there to give you a big hug.
Lots of Love,
Monica Gibson
June 14, 2010
Kristin I want to say what beautiful
work all of you did on the pictures , the mass , songs and readings for your grandfather. I am sure he was looking down at all of you and would say "a job well done and I am very proud."
The love all of you had for your grandfather and your grandmother was shown with much courage during a very difficult time.
Your grandfather fought a great fight, his battle is done and now
he is at peace. His gentle touch
remains in the hearts of those who loved him best and that is his family and most of all his wonderful grandchildren.
MUCH LOVE TO ALL OF YOU.
Sincerely Monica
Ron Meek
June 13, 2010
I served with "Ski" and last saw him on the Seawolf in 1964. He was a truly nice person and I am proud to have known him. He made a friend of a young man from California (who now lives in Maryland). We had a mutual friend with Bernard Steadman. I am happy to see that "Ski" led a full and happy life and I know that he will be missed.
Judy Hayes
June 12, 2010
Cathy, I am so sorry for the loss of wonderful husand Peter. Cathy I remember the weekend camping trips you shared and love he had for his girls.
Cathy, I use to work with you Hartford National Bank. Montville Office. I was
the Br Manager and you were my Head Teller. Many years have gone by, but you never forget people that touched our heart. Judy Wagner Przekop Hayes
Michelle Butova & Tim Smith
June 12, 2010
Oh Cathy, we are so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Patricia Hofmann
June 12, 2010
Anja Louise, Kathleen, and Mrs. B. I was so sorry to read about your loss. My memories of all of you and especially of Anja's wedding showed me how strong and loving a family you all were.
You are in my prayers and thoughts with my sincerest condolences.
Love,
Mrs. Hofmann (Mrs. H)
June 12, 2010
Anja Louise, Kathleen and Mrs. B. I was so sorry to read about your loss. You were always so strong a family and I have found memories of knowing you while Anja was at Montville High and her wedding.
My prayers go out to all of you and my sincere condolences.
Mrs. Hofmann (Mrs. H)
Carlyn Gembel
June 12, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jeannie Blackstone Olsen
June 12, 2010
To the Byczkowski Family,
Laugh a lot, cry a little. The days aren't always easy, but they do get better.
Pearsall Family
June 12, 2010
To my Connecticut family, Cathy, Kristen, Patty and grandchidren: I am so overcome with grief for the loss of a man who started our friendship as a camping member of the N.E. Scotty Club and went on to become our beloved "brother". I will ALWAYS remember Peter sitting in that PA campground, knitting an afghan that Cathy had started about 20 years previously. Peter, you were GOOD! Many years have passed, many laughs and ALWAYS, ALWAYS THE CARING, LOVE AND RESPECT of a great family man. We will miss you. Your Dedham, MA family, Fran and family.
Monica Gibson
June 11, 2010
My heart breaks when I think of Peter passing. How special he was and I will remember Peter by his beautiful sky blue eyes.
Dear Cathy what a special marriage you and Peter had!!!
52 years of special memories filled with love! May the love and memories you carry close to your heart bring comfort
to you and your family during this difficult time.
All my love and prayers.
Monica Gibson
Bernie Steadman
June 11, 2010
Cathy and Family.
I am so sorry to her of Peter's passing. I served with him for a number of years on Seawolf (SSN575) and found him to be a great shipmate. He will be missed.
Bernie (Stinky) Steadman
Brenda Alexander
June 11, 2010
I was so sorry to hear that Pete had passed away. I know this is a very sad time for all of you but I hope the memories of all the happy times you guys shared together will bring some comfort to you.
You're in my prayers.
Dot Shanahan
June 11, 2010
KJ and Cathy
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Dot Shanahan
June 11, 2010
Cathy and family, though I personally did not have the opportunity to grow up next door I feel as though I did through the whole "Quay" family. With the many memories we have all shared, laughed at, and the loses that we had shared I feel as though I did grow up along with the "Quay" family, plus being married to a Peter Quay for 26 yrs. You and Pete were part of our 25th Anniversary party and am so glad that we had the time to enjoy your loving arms during that special time with us. Though we may not live next door any longer, Pete along with your whole family will as always be as thought of as one large family - Quay's and Byczkowski's the many memories that we've shared..
Our love and sympathy Brenda and Peter Quay and Family
RoseAnn Baronowitz
June 11, 2010
Kathy, I'm so very sorry about your Peter. You and your family are in my thoughts. I guess God needed a laugh and a great man at his side.
Kate Dawley
June 11, 2010
To the Byczkowski family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Kate, Keith and Jenn Dawley
Tricia Brown
June 11, 2010
So sad to hear of his passing. Our thoughts are with you all. He will be sadly missed.
laurie ferendo
June 11, 2010
To The Byczkowski Family:
So sorry for your loss of your husband, father and grandfather, may all your memories help you at this difficult time to get you through each day.
My deepest sympathy
Laurie Murphy Ferendo
June 11, 2010
KJ,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. We are so sorry for your loss! We love you and we are here for you!
The Groton BOA
John & Sheila O'Keeffe
June 11, 2010
Dear Cathy and family,
We are deeply saddened by Pete's passing, he was a wonderful friend and lot's of fun to be around, we will miss his smiling face. You are all in our thoughts and prayers, Cathy if you need help of any kind we are here.
God Bless you all.
June 11, 2010
Cathy and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. We remember all the great times we had for many years while we were living in Ct. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tony and Donna Cataldi
Marie Romeo
June 11, 2010
Our deepest sympathy is with the family all who have shared the love of their husband,father and grandfather with us. They are in our prayers.
The Romeos
Marguerite Connolly Furman
June 11, 2010
Mrs. Byczkowski and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I am right around the corner and if you need anything at all, I will be there.
Love,
Marguerite Connolly Furman
Jon & Kathy Pierce
June 11, 2010
So sad to hear of Dzjdzja's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
Richard Flagg
June 11, 2010
I worked with Pete for several years on the 'Wet Dock' at EB. He was extremely knowledgeable of the machinery of the submarines. Pete was a dedicated family man and I know that he will be missed by all who knew him. My deepest sympathy to his family.
Kathy Pennella
June 11, 2010
Kathy..I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time....
Thinking of you
With Love & Sympathy....
Nicole D
June 10, 2010
All of the family is in my thoughts. This obit made me sad to find...
He lived next door to me when I was little, Kristin was my first friend as a kid, and her grandfather was ALWAYS so nice whenever I was over. He's a man I'm sure will be deeply missed by many. :-(
Bruce Joslin
June 10, 2010
I enjoyed knowing him and being part of his family for many years. Each memory of him will make me smile. We are deeply sadden to learn of Pete's passing. May all of you give each other strength, love and comfort as a family. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Bruce & Maria Joslin
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