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Norman Adams Obituary

III Physicist, Genealogist, Diarist Lived 87 years November 19, 1927 – December 28, 2014 Children mourn the unexpected passing of their beloved father, lifelong learner, and patriarch of his family. Born in New Haven, Connecticut in 1927, son of Dr. Norman Ilsley Adams, Jr, Professor Emeritus of Physics at Yale University and Genevieve Alexander Sloan, Norman followed in his father’s footsteps and made his career in math and science. He graduated from Yale University at age 19 and received his PhD in Physics in 1955 from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. It was there that he met his partner in life, Florence May Wheelock; they married in 1955. Norman is survived by his four children, Pamela George Adams of Durham, North Carolina, Sarah Adams Hayden of Newburyport, Massachusetts, Norman Ilsley Adams IV of Palo Alto, California, and Daniel Wheelock Adams of Wilton, Connecticut and six grandchildren, Alison Babcock Adams, Samantha Rose Adams, Andrew Reed Adams, Daniel Robert Adams, Matthew Sterling Hayden, and Josephine Arkuran Adams. He was predeceased by his wife Florence of 58 years and by his only brother, Harry Bell Adams, who died just ten days earlier. Norman was employed as a Senior Staff Scientist at Perkin Elmer Corporation in Norwalk, Connecticut. He worked on design and development of laboratory analysis instrumentation and medical diagnostic equipment, and on a variety of government and aerospace projects. His capacity for solving complex problems was a rare gift which he continued to express throughout the years following his retirement. Norman maintained connections with his alumni associations and academic societies, and read a wide range of publications to keep abreast of current developments in science, technology, engineering and math. His interests in these fields continued throughout his life and were often topics of conversation with his children and grandchildren. A true wordsmith, Norman loved to use his wit to offer a well-timed pun, and he always had time for the Sunday New York Times Crossword puzzle, which he completed each week for the last fifty years in ink. A voracious reader, with myriad interests, Norman lived by the motto, “Ancora Imparo” -- I am still learning -- a plaque that hung in his well-stocked library. Norman contributed many volunteer hours to organizations in his community. When living in Wilton, Connecticut where the children all attended the public schools, Norman became involved with the Board of Education and served as chairman during the period that initiated Project Concern, a program that attempted to address racial segregation. Later he went on to help design and install an early Wilton bike trail and volunteered at the Connecticut Genealogy & LDS Family History Center in New Canaan. When Norman and Florence retired to Brewster, Massachusetts, he became involved with Orleans Community Television, then served on the Brewster Cable Television Advisory Committee during the license renewal process, and ultimately became a founding member of the Lower Cape Cod Community Access Television. Norman tutored a number of students in math and science. Although a scientist by trade, he had a keen artistic eye and enjoyed the arts. He sang with the Yale Glee Club while in college and continued to enjoy music throughout his life. Norman and Florence held season tickets to the New York Metropolitan Opera while living in Connecticut, and, once retired, regularly tuned in to the Metropolitan Opera Sunday Matinee radio broadcasts. Descended from Robert Adams, first settler of Newbury, Massachusetts, Norman leaves his children with a detailed family history which he assembled through years of meticulous genealogical research augmenting and providing context for materials passed down through the family. In the course of his genealogical work, Norman noted the quotidian usually went unrecorded. Hoping to provide such information to future genealogists, historians, and sociologists, he maintained detailed diaries in a collection of “day notes” which as his children are discovering provide a unique and unexpected view into the fascinating mind of their brilliant, gentle father who truly was a renaissance man. Norman spent his childhood summers with his family in Randolph, New Hampshire, hiking in the valley bounded by the north slope of the Presidential Range and the south slope of the Crescent Range. In 1946 he served as one of the first caretakers of Nelson Smith’s Crag Camp. A longtime member of the Appalachian Mountain Club, Old Hutman’s Association, and Randolph Mountain Club, Norman spent his summer vacations in Randolph with Florence and the children, hiking the trails with tools ready to clear any fallen limbs or trees. Norman and Florence will be buried together in the Randolph Cemetery this summer with familiar views of the mountains where many fond family memories remain. A Celebration of Life Service is planned for Saturday, April 11, 2015 at 1:30 PM at the Church of the Holy Spirit in Orleans, Massachusetts. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Norman Ilsley Adams III to The Randolph Foundation, PO Box 283, Gorham, New Hampshire 03581.

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Published by The Hour on Mar. 15, 2015.

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Sarah Hayden

March 10, 2024

Just thinking about all that I learned from my father. What a wonderful father and family man. We did some really interesting things! Our parents taught us how to be lifelong learners. I miss my parents so much. Sending heavenly love to the best parents we could have ever hoped for.

Sarah Hayden

January 27, 2021

I miss my father. There is no more to be said.

Sarah Hayden

March 10, 2020

Most wonderful, interesting, sweet and loving father any daughter could have. Taught me so much about life, nature, music, art and life is not the same without him. Forever loved and missed.

Sarah Hayden

December 25, 2019

I miss you Daddy! The last time I saw you was on Christmas, this day, in 2014. I miss you and Mom so much it can be hard some days. I think of you two every day and all that you taught me. I just miss you. Rest in Peace with Mom and Tiger - he was lost without you both.

Sarah Hayden

March 18, 2019

My father was a wonderful Daddy to me and my siblings. I remember the smell of the leather on his backpack and hiking boots as I trudged behind him up and down the mountain trails - I miss him. He taught me so much about so many things. I miss my mom too of course and my family life growing up. I am grateful to have so many wonderful memories to draw on. I love you Daddy. Rest in peace. You and mom are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

James C. Davis

March 17, 2015

I did not have the pleasure of meeting this accomplished Man who lived a most admirable life, but upon reading this abbreviated version of his history I must say that it is a life we should all aspire to, which is a life of fulfillment and giving, as thus a Life well lived!!! His spirit shall live on via those lives in which he touched, cherish the memories. Rest in Peace Mr. Norman Adams. Godspeed.

Sarah Hayden

March 16, 2015

Thinking of you Daddy

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March 16, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

March 15, 2015

So sorry to hear of your father's sudden passing. I never realized his many accomplishments. What a modest man! May he rest in peace with his beloved Florence. Sincerely, Mary Murphy

Sarah Hayden

March 15, 2015

Rest in peace my dear, sweet father. I was so lucky to have had you in my life for so many years. I love you.

Norman and Florence, my dear parents.

Sarah Hayden

March 15, 2015

My dear father, I miss you terribly. It does not seem real to see your obituary. A wonderful family you and mom made.We have many wonderful memories of our family life in Wilton. I love you, Daddy.

Marcy & Bruce Guyon

March 14, 2015

So sorry for the loss of a brilliant man. I was fortunate to spend time with he and his Florence while living in Brewster. He will be missed.

Nell

March 14, 2015

I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your loved one.May loving words comfort your family at this time of sorrow. (Isaiah 57:15)

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