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Robert Dean Obituary

Robert (Bob) T. Dean died peacefully Saturday evening, September 25, 2010, comforted by the presence of family. Born April 10, 1923 in Rensselaer, Indiana, Bob's early childhood was graced with the academic values of his father, a high school principal, and the religious convictions of his mother, the daughter of a Presbyterian minister. Family values of individual responsibility, honesty, hard work and community service blended naturally with Bob's outgoing and optimistic nature. The glass was always half full in his eyes. A love of physical activity and the outdoors propelled him into the family sport of golf, adding football and basketball during his teen years and skiing as a young adult. Bob graduated from high school in Bloomington, Indiana and went on to start his freshman year at Indiana University where he met his future wife Maxine in Freshman English. World War II redirected Bob after that first year. He enlisted in the Air Force, spending time with bombardier training and continuing to play football with the military league. This led to his decision after the war to enroll at Cornell University. There he studied electrical engineering and played football with the Big Red during the winning years when the crescent was full, establishing records for kicking and the longest play from scrimmage. He was the Sun's athlete of the year in 1949 and admitted into the CU Hall of Fame in September 1986. It took very little to convince Bob to stay in the Ithaca area after graduating from Cornell in 1949. There were employment opportunities, many good friends and a quality of life in Ithaca that was perfect for a young family. Bob joined a local electronic distributorship before founding Bob Dean lnc., an electronic manufacturer's rep business and then Deanco, an electronics distributor which ultimately expanded to Boston, Maryland, Florida and Chicago. Bob's optimistic view of people and their potential, along with his willingness to set up Deanco with an employee-shared ownership program, enabled this amazing growth. Community involvement was a natural extension of Bob's business and personal life. He was actively involved as an alumni with SAE, Village of Cayuga Heights Trustee, Trustee and past board chairman at First Presbyterian, active in Cornell Council, on the boards of Country Club and TCTC and Director and member of several trade groups. Bob's later years continued to be active; skiing and playing golf into his eighties, nurturing a large circle of friends, engaging his grandchildren on the lake and slopes while optimistically embracing new opportunities and supporting local business efforts. He was a loving and generous man who will be greatly missed. Bob is survived by his wife, Maxine, together "since 1945"; children, Jeff (Barbara Claas) Dean, Diane (Don) Carpenter, Debra (Alan) Ledet, Doug (Sue) Dean; grandchildren, Ryan, Dustin, Kelly, Kasey, Marissa, Kendal, Karen, Kali and Jenna; sister-in-law, Betty; nephews, Ross, Richard, Robert and Randal Dean and their families; and many friends. Preceded in death by his only sibling and mentor, Ross H. Dean. A Memorial and celebration of a life well lived will be held Sunday, October 10, 2010, at 3 p.m. at the First Presbyterian Church in Ithaca. The family invites you to join them for a reception immediately following in the church fellowship hall. In lieu of flowers, please remember Bob in a way of your choosing.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Oct. 5, 2010.

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hal Sieling

September 29, 2022

You are always with us.

Hal Sieling

September 29, 2020

The men of SAE fraternity at Cornell owe Bob a debt of gratitude. He supported us for many years with his commitment of time and for that we have always looked at him as a True Gentleman that should be admired. He set the stage with many programs that made SAE a leading group.

Rich Hostrander

October 15, 2010

From the Hostrander family let me just say that as a young man Mr. Dean and my Deanco family were the best years of my life. Thank you all for the right start in my business career in distribution and thank you to Bob Dean and his family for providing the foundation. Without Bob's strong leadership and personal dedication along with his strong belief that people matter I couldn't tell you where my life would be. I will miss you Bob. God speed.

Ps. God needs an Iphone, you can give him mine if it would help us send you our love.

Rich Hostrander

Linda Dernier

October 13, 2010

My sincere condolences to Mrs. Dean and family.
Having been in the Deanco Family from 1980-1989 I too can say Mr. Dean was one of the kindest and thoughtful men I have encounted in the working world. He nurtured each and every employee and one of my fondest memories was how he could remember not only our names, but our childrens names too. He always took the time to ask you how you were, and would ask you an additional personal question about your family or maybe something that might be going on at work. He was so very genuine and truly concerned about his "extended" family. He truly touched the lives of many, and I was one of the lucky ones to have worked for one of his companies in my home state of NY. My years in Ithaca were ones of Joy and my experiences at Deanco were the best. Great People, Great Work Atmosphere, and the Best CEO I had the pleasure to know.

Linda Crispell

October 9, 2010

Mrs. Dean, Debra & family,
I have so many wonderful memories from working at both BDI & Deanco. Mr. Dean was a very kind man and created a great atmosphere to work. I'm very proud to have worked for him. His thoughtfulness of his employees' health & beyond proved that he was a caring man. I am so sorry that I can't attend his memorial service. I sincerely wish you all the best.
Fondly,
Linda Crispell

Susan Duke Shippey

October 9, 2010

Mrs. Dean & family,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Mr. Dean was an exceptional man to work for. Kind, generous, appreciative and fair are a few words that come to mind. I too, am a former Deanco employee who loved my job. Dr. Dean created a special "family" environment for all those who had the good fortune to work for him. He will be greatly missed by many.

Hold fast to your memories. Cherish them as I do of my days as a former Deanco employee. Please accept my deepest sympathies and prayers.

Chuck & Pam Tanzola

October 9, 2010

Dear Maxine and Family,

Please know that even though we cannot be present this Sunday due to a prior commitment to attend a family wedding out of town; as you celebrate a life well lived, our deepest sympathies, fondest thoughts and sincerest prayers are with you.

Bob had a profound impact on our lives. Indirectly though the formation of Bob Dean Inc.; he provided not only a lifelong career, but also the place where we met. Directly with his words he provided encouragement and demonstrated concern and caring for our family.

Bob was a man of character and integrity - a true gentleman both personally and professionally and we are very blessed to have known him.

We know you have heard, and are sure you will be hearing similar sentiments from many people. We hope that coupled with your own memories, they provide joy and comfort in the coming days.

Pam Silverstein

October 6, 2010

Bob Dean was the first entrepreneur in the area and he was my mentor. He changed the landscape for future entrepreneurs. He was always kind, gracious, willing to explain and very smart. As I got older and smarter we became friends. It saddened me greatly when I would visit him and have to do most of the talking. However when I spoke to him about how much I valued his wisdom and judgment, how much I respected him and cared for him, I could see in his eyes that he remembered. I will miss visiting him, holding his hand and smiling into his eyes.

Susan Dean

October 6, 2010

Uncle Bob's obituary is the first that made me cry. What a wonderful man! I know you will always miss him terribly. However, you will forever know what he would be thinking, how much he would have savored that ski run, great football play, music, performance, family event, or birthday. A gentleman to the core, he was devoted to his family. We are all fortunate to have had our lives touched by Uncle Bob. I will be thinking of you all on Sunday.
All my love and sympathy,
Susan Dean

Pam Thomas

October 6, 2010

I worked for Mr. Dean many years ago, and it was instrumental in where I am today. He was a good man, and I send my deepest sympathy to his family

Pam Thomas

October 5, 2010

Mrs. Dean, (love that it changed to Maxine as I aged!), the Dean Family and my "family" in Utah - the Carpenters - I celebrate the great moments I have shared with Mr. Dean - changed to "Bob" as I aged!!!!
The commitment to family and the love of celebrating together will always be the foremost memories!! How blessed we were in Utah to have him in our lives! Both of my sons send their condolences - Bryant and Brendon. Praying for you all! Love, Maureen

Wayne Castrovinci

October 5, 2010

There is no other single person that had as much influence on my professional and personal life as Bob did. He took a chance when he hired me - young, no experience in the electronics industry, and no graduate degree. My job ‘interview’ was For the next 15 years Bob (Mr. Dean to me) was my mentor, my friend, and sometimes my confidant. A pretty unusual relationship between a company CEO and an employee... but not unusual for Bob - that was his style. His concern for family, personal growth and financial security came before 'business'. Bob once offered me $5,000 to quit smoking! Clearly he nor the business had anything to gain from my quitting - his only concern was for my health, and as he put it 'If you don't want to quit for yourself, even though you should… think of your family and quit for them'! I could not accept his offer, thinking it too generous and afraid of failing. He just smiled, with an understanding and 'fatherly' look and said 'the offer stands if you ever change your mind'.

I’ll miss getting his hand written Christmas greetings every year, and no doubt he’ll be deeply missed by his family. But one thing is for sure, Bob accomplished in spades what every man hopes to accomplish in his life, and that’s leaving a ‘legacy’ such that he will long be remembered for being an outstanding, compassionate individual who genuinely cared about everybody he touched.
Wayne Castrovinci

Linda Shattuck

October 5, 2010

Dear Mrs. Dean, Jeff, Dede, Debra and Doug:

I have spent the last week remembering Mr. Dean, and the entire family, with fondness and love. My deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you.

Mr. Dean was "the" example of a true professional. I have always considered him a mentor and tried to follow his standard of professionalism. He cared deeply for his family and for the company he built.

In my eyes, Bob Dean was a GREAT man. One who allowed people to learn through their mistakes and grow. He believed in the philosophy of "small things make a difference". From my 25-year working relationship with him, I saw a man who always looked at both sides of an issue, who carefully and methodically made decisions, and who always kept the best interests of Deanco and Bob Dean Inc. in the forefront.

Personally, Mr. & Mrs. Dean, and Debra, were always there to lend a hand, offer guidance, and see me through some life challenges.

Although my life has taken a different path, I don't believe there has been a day gone by that I haven't thought about Mr. Dean, Mrs. Dean, Debra, Jeff, Dede, or Doug in some way. It was an end of an era for me when Bob Dean retired. One that I will always be grateful for and cherish.

My love to you all during your time of sorrow....and forever.

Joyce Cito Williams

October 5, 2010

My sincere sympathies to the Dean Family. Bob Dean was a great man.

amanda frye

October 1, 2010

Maxine and family
my thought are with all of you . I only knew Bob a short time while he stay with us at Oakhill manor but I will always remember how his eyes would light up when he seen his family coming or we spoke of you.Any talk of cornell football his eyes got big and smile was on his face. How fitting he passed on during homecoming weekend..
Amanda Frye Oakhill Manor

Dick Evans

October 1, 2010

The Deanco Family,
It was a pleasure to have known Bob Dean. He was a true gentleman, with generous amounts of honesty and integrity. He was a true team builder. He built one of the best 3M distributorships in the country. He was very competitive....whether it was our annual traditional volleyball game or out in the business environment.
I've got nothing but positive memories of Bob.
Dick Evans
3M-Electronic Products Div. (Retired)

Dave & Jackie Jahsman

October 1, 2010

Maxine and Family,
Bob was an exceptional person and a leader whose legacy lives on in the many persons who had the privilege of his acquaintance. He was a true leader in the industry, admired and respected by everyone who knew him. Bob was a gentleman and a mentor who loved his family. Our heartfelt prayers and sympathy are with you during this troubling time.

Kip Weller

October 1, 2010

Dear Maxine, (and I believe Bob can hear me too)
Deanco, the company Bob built, and the people he put in place, like Don E. and Doug G., changed my life and I would assume many others as well. What I am doing for a living today and where we live can all be traced back to Bob Dean and the opportunity to work for Deanco.

God Bless you, Bob and your family.

Kip Weller

Bill & Donna Pizarro

October 1, 2010

Dear Maxine and family,
We just heard the sad news. Working for Bob was like having a leader, role model and a dad all in one man. We will never forget him. Our prayers are with you.

Allan Davis

October 1, 2010

Bob Dean was a major contributor to the success of the Electronic Products Division of 3M. I was a 3M employee, and a trip to Ithaca to visit Deanco was one of the highlights of my working career. Bob Dean put together a couple of very well managed and disciplined companies. I am indeed saddened to hear of his passing.

September 30, 2010

Maxine and Family: I was very sorry to hear of Bob passing away. He created a work environment at Deanco that surpassed all others. He will be remembered fondly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Elaine Stegemann, Statesville, NC

September 30, 2010

Dear Maxine and Family. Bob was an icon to me in so many ways. His integrity and kindness will always be a model for me. My sincerest condolences. Frank Araneo

Russ Latham

September 30, 2010

Bob Dean was a true gentleman and kind spirit... I too am from the Deanco days and worked for Bob out of the Mega/Deanco branch in Chicago. I will miss him!

Candace Serra

September 29, 2010

To Maxine and the family: At 18 and fresh out of high school, my first job was at Bob Dean, Inc. and I stayed there for three years and was a member of the "family" for many years thereafter. I feel honored to have been a part of the family, as did WSB, and my thoughts are with you all at this time.

Candace (Baker) Serra

September 28, 2010

Dear Maxine and family, Wayne and I were sorry to hear of Mr Dean's passing. We were just thinking of him a few weeks ago. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Wayne & Rose Ann Simpkins.

Rosie Adelewitz

September 28, 2010

Dear Maxine, DeeDee, Debra, Doug and Jeffrey, please know that your husband and father will be long remembered as the "Gentleman of the Industry" and someone who made coming to work something I looked forward to doing every day. There's a book called "From Good to Great" that describes the traits of a Great Business leader, and Bob matched those descriptions to a tee. He gave me many opportunities and taught all of us how to innovate through deep devotion to the customer and life-long learning. An IBM Procurement Manager once told me that if he quit IBM, the only person he'd want to work for would be Bob.

I know the last couple of years have been hard. I hope that the knowledge that he was revered by everyone who worked for him will help you through this grieving. Rosie Adelewitz

September 28, 2010

DEAR MRS. DEAN & FAMILY,

SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MR. DEAN WAS A WONDERFUL MAN AND AND WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I PRAY THE LORD BLESSES YOU WITH MANY HAPPY MEMORIES ALWAYS. MY FATHER EMJOYED WORKING FOR HIM FOR MANY YEARS AT DEANCO. SO MANY GREAT MEMORIES.

JACKI GILLOGLY, RN

Tina VanDerveer

September 28, 2010

Maxine, please know that my thoughts are with you. Working for Mr. Dean was a wonderful experience that I will always remember.
Tina (Riihinen)

chris Crawford

September 27, 2010

My thoughts go out to Mr Dean's family. So sorry to hear of his passing. Please take comfort in knowing he was loved by all. He was a kind man and a wonderful leader. He will be missed.

Billi Jo Dean-Mouillesseaux

September 27, 2010

I was just thinking about Mr. Dean several days ago, and wondering how he was. I remember when I was little, I would meet my sisters Elisa & Penni for lunch when they worked at Deanco & they would take me for a tour through the company. I was amazed at how friendly everyone was, especially Mr. Dean. I eventualy joined the Deanco team in the accounting dept. I was so proud to work for such an amazing company. He always made you feel very special. My maiden name was Dean, so I used to joke around that my sisters & I were related to him. He brings a smile to my face whenever I think of him & his gracious wife Maxine. Working at Deanco was one of my favorite jobs & I appreciate the opportunity they gave me.
Mr. Dean will be greatly missed.

Chuck Taitt

September 27, 2010

Maxine and family,

Bob remains a giant in our lives. He is loved and respected. He touched my life and changed the way I view the world for the better. My prayers go out to you.

Cindy Geraghty (Reed)

September 27, 2010

The goodness of Bob Dean was evident in the entire Bob Dean/Deanco family. My days at Deanco were the happiest of my working career. To have had the privilege of working with such top-notch people is truly remarkable. We were all better because of him.

Hal Sieling

September 27, 2010

"On this day when the sun shines bright and the hills are beautiful with their autumn foliage", we learn about the loss of our friend, brother, and leader Bob Dean. To Cornell, Sigma Alpha Epsilon, and his friends there was no finer man. When he was a younger man he excelled in football and brought many a cheer from the home crowd with his play. In business he excelled by building a strong team. For those of us who knew him as a Chapter Adviser he was a leader and a True Gentleman of his fraternity. No one did more to build the future of SAE at Cornell than Bob did and his influence will never be forgotten. Thank you Bob and thanks also to his family who shared him with us.

Ellen Reynolds

September 27, 2010

Bob Dean was an extraordinary man to work for. I wish all CEO's could model themselves after him. What touched me the most, and what I still remember after all of these years, was that every year, on my anniversary with Deanco, he would write a handwritten note thanking me and then took the time to write about some accomplishment I had made. Working at Deanco made my life what it is today and I am grateful to Bob Dean for that.

Merita Sheive

September 27, 2010

Maxine and family,
I am so sorry to learn of Bob's passing. A very special person for many far & near to Ithaca, each with a special memory or moment shared with Bob. Mostly I remember how much you both loved each other. May it be a of comfort to know, due to both of your smart leadership styles and kind hearts, that Cornell, and Ithaca as a community are today a better place to live and work. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
God Bless, Merita

September 27, 2010

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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