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BETTY IRIS HALLADAY (NEÉ SMITH)
ELGIN, TX - Betty Iris Halladay (neé Smith), formerly Betty Iris Boothe, passed away Sunday, Dec. 27, 2009, at her home in Elgin, Texas.
Mrs. Halladay's rich life was distinguished by her achievements as a U.S. Diplomat, a longtime educator (known by her students as Mrs. Boothe) and as a beloved wife, mother and grandmother.
She was born Oct. 22, 1928, to Don W. Smith, a prominent architect of Sweetwater, Texas, who served terms as both mayor and commissioner of the city, and his wife Pauline Smith (neé Poston).
Mrs. Halladay was preceded in death by her parents; her maternal grandparents, Charles Arch Poston and Eva K. Poston, of Sweetwater, Texas; and her paternal grandparents, Abby H. Smith and Clara L. Smith of Fort Worth, Texas.
She is survived by her loving husband of more than seven years, Walter L. Halladay, originally of Peterborough, Ont., Canada; her four children, Dr. Michael Boothe of Arlington, Texas, Paula Boothe of Elgin, Texas, Rebecca Hayley-Zamudio of McAllen, Texas, and Trey Boothe of Allen, Texas; her younger brother, Donald Smith, and his wife, Ruth Smith, of Stephenville, Texas; and her six grandchildren, Christopher Russell of Los Angeles, Calif., Michael Lea Boothe of Leander, Texas, James Russell of Houston, Texas, Brandon R. Garcia of McAllen, Texas, Ashley Boothe McAndrew of Austin, Texas, and Jordan Lea Garcia of McAllen, Texas, who will all remember her as "Bebe."
Mrs. Halladay earned her high school diploma from Sweetwater High School in 1945 and her Bachelor of Arts degree in history from Texas State College for Women (now Texas Women's University) in Denton, Texas, in 1950. She also received a Master of Arts degree in history from New Mexico Highlands University of Las Vegas, N.M., in 1967.
Mrs. Halladay and her family moved to Edinburg, Texas, in 1963. She taught at Edinburg Junior High School for one year before spending the next 17 years as a history and government teacher at Edinburg High School. During her tenure, she designed remarkably innovative curricula for both her students. As part of her U.S. Government course, she devised a complex criminal justice lesson that revolved around a mock scenario in which her students served as offenders, victims, prosecutors, defense attorneys, witnesses and judges --- a project she coordinated with both the city's police department and an EMT squad. She organized annual trips for her Comparative Government students to the Reynosa, Tamps., Mexico, so that they might experience firsthand the information she taught about relations between municipal governments in the United States and Mexico. The trips would culminate with a special goodwill ceremony hosted by Reynosa's mayor and other city officials. She also taught history at South Texas Community College (now South Texas College) in McAllen, Texas, from 1995 to 2001.
Mrs. Halladay began an exciting new career with the U.S. Department of State's Foreign Service as a U.S. Consul in 1981. Her attempts at garnering a position within the Foreign Service began in 1950. Despite her outstanding qualifications and remarkable intellect, Mrs. Halladay was denied consideration for more than 30 years because of regulations that prohibited married women from entering the service, and later because she exceeded the departmental age limit. She was in her 50s when she discovered those rules had been lifted; shortly afterward, she secured the job she had pursued for decades.
Mrs. Halladay served the department in Guadalajara, Mexico; Tijuana, Mexico; Washington, D.C.; St. John's, Antigua; Toronto, Ont., Canada; and most notably, Havana, Cuba.
While posted in Havana, one of her duties was to visit American citizens imprisoned in Cuba for various offenses. She also monitored their trials to make sure their rights under Cuban law were observed. While in Guadalajara, she was the U.S. State Department official who had the duty of identifying the body of Enrique "Kiki" Camarena, a D.E.A. agent who was tortured and slain by drug cartel members. While stationed in Tijuana, she was head of a section that investigated the abduction and trafficking of infants and young children for illegal adoption.
Mrs. Halladay had resided with her husband, Walter, at the home of her daughter, Paula, and son-in-law, Larry Wieland, in Elgin, Texas, since 2007.
Funeral services will be held at 1 p.m., Tuesday, Jan. 5, 2009, at First Presbyterian Church, 213 E. Third St., in Sweetwater, Texas, and will be officiated by the Rev. Howell Martin.
In lieu of flowers, Mrs. Halladay's family asks that donations be made to the Palm Valley Animal Center of Edinburg, Texas (956-686-1141).
Arrangements are under the direction of Jones Family Funeral Home (512-285-4616) of Elgin, Texas, and Cate-Spencer and Trent Funeral Home (325-236-6717) of Sweetwater, Texas.
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Published by The Monitor from Dec. 30 to Dec. 31, 2009.

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Ruby Dela Garza Krautkremer

January 11, 2010

Mrs. Boothe was an outstanding teacher who always challenged her students and brought out the best in us. There was never a dull moment in her class. I feel sorry for those who never had her as a teacher. My sympathy to the Boothe-Halladay family.

Jay Bugbee

January 5, 2010

Jay and Lulu Bugbee would like to pass along to James (co-worker and friend) and his family our deepest sympathies in the loss of your loved one. In reading Betty’s obituary she appears to have been a fine example of a human being and contributed greatly to those who loved and new her well. We hope our donation to the Palm Valley Animal center will serve the needs of the animals looking for the same care I believe she would have desired them to get. Sincerely Jay and Lulu and baby Crystal

Karen Boothe

January 2, 2010

What a life she had. Reading about her was so fascinating. To Mike and Ashley--I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mother/grandmother sounds like one terrific lady. I'm sorry I didn't get to know her. We will keep you in our prayers.

Christy Dollins Sandhoff

December 31, 2009

Mike, Becky, Paula, Trey,,,,,,,Betty was a remarkable and successful women and mother. Susan and I were always jealous that you had such a great Mom. Your proud memories of her abilities and achievements are justified. And your individual lives are a testament to her. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless and comfort you.

Rene De La Garza

December 31, 2009

I remember Mrs. Booth as one of the teacher you think of when you look back at your high school days. She sure was a tough cookie and we loved her for it.

Class of 1980

Martin Boyd

December 31, 2009

Sorry for your loss. She was a unique person.

Ruben Carrera

December 31, 2009

Our deepest condolences to the Boothe-Halladay family. I had opportunity to work with Betty in Edinburg High. She was always a pleasure to talk to and had wonderful relationship with her students. She will be greatly missed.

Ricardo CARRANZA

December 30, 2009

Betty Booth was certainly an educator before her time. She was a motivator and an innovator who left her mark on all those whose lives she touched. As a teacher at Edinburg High School, I remember Mrs. Booth's way of speaking her mind without offending anyone, a trait I definitely admired in her. And, yes, I remember when she resigned to join the State Department and thinking, "Wow, this woman is following her dreams!"
My condolences to her family.

Maria Louisa Coronado-Caraballo

December 30, 2009

Mrs. Boothe was an excellent educator. I remember those mock trials at Edinburg High of which I participated in as a muderous defendant. May she rest in peace and may God keep her family strong.

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