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Jeremy Monnett Obituary

Monnett, Jeremy

Oshkosh lost one of its finest young leaders, community contributors and all-around great guys with the passing of Jeremy Trent Monnett. A lover of family, life & community, he is survived by his wife Kate (Cotter), their two sons, Miles & Brooks, his parents, John & Betty Monnett, all of Oshkosh, his brothers John (Terri) Monnett III of LaCrosse and his twin Jason (Jaimie) Monnett of Oshkosh, Parents-In-Law Kerry and Tom Christopher of Waukesha, Mike & DeLoma Cotter of Fond du Lac, brothers in law Dan Cotter and his beloved Ruth Zimmerman, Tim Cotter and his fiancé Sam Green,step in-laws Courtney & Aleta Schultz and Eric and Scott (Jodi) Christopher. His nephews & niece: Calvin & Juliet Monnett of Oshkosh, John Monnett IV of LaCrosse and nephew Ryan McWane of Oshkosh. He is also survived by numerous beloved Aunts, Uncles and Cousins. He loved all of his family so much: Shirks, Monnetts, Diedrichs, Cotters, Sheahan & Christophers.

Jeremy loved being a father. His family was his life. He and Kate lived and loved with such a great passion and zeal. Kate, Miles and Brooks will be his legacy always- as will all that have been touched by him.

Jeremy was born June 12, 1974 in Elgin, IL with a collapsed lung and spent his initial days in intensive care- exhibiting his toughness at a tender age. He also exhibited his adventurous spirit early on in life. He climbed up on the roof of the family's Elgin, IL home at age 4 following his dad up the ladder and interrupting Dad's work with a "what ya doin' Dad?"

Aviation brought the Monnett family to Oshkosh in 1981. Jeremy's formative years led him to a passion for singing, dancing, running, and then aviation. Participation in Odyssey of the mind laid the groundwork for his engineering interests. He helped restore an Aeronca L3 Warbird Aircraft with his dad while in high school, stoking the passion for aviation that would later define his career.

He spent five glorious years on the campus of UW Madison earning his mechanical engineering degree, making many friends from far and wide and of course becoming a huge Badger fan. While in college, he interned for a summer in Detroit for General Motors- and begin to realize that working for corporate America was not in his plan.

Upon college graduation, he moved to Seattle to work for the Boeing Company. He worked remotely assisting in the early stages of Sonex, establishing the website and helping respond to early builder inquiries via email. While with Boeing, he had the opportunity to visit China, Japan and Australia- and he fondly recounted those trips over the years-- including the wishes he made in a Chinese fountain--- that he would help Sonex become successful and find and marry the woman of his dreams. While he enjoyed Seattle and made many new friends-- in 1998 he returned to Oshkosh to work at developing Sonex full-time.

Upon his return, Jeremy did help guide Sonex to prosperity. He began as general manager and grew into designing his own model - the Onex- with the helpful input of his father and Pete Buck.

He also became an incredibly active and impactful member of the community-and was a tireless champion of many causes. He began as President of the Oshkosh Jaycees, Member of the Chamber Aviation Committee, then involvement with Progress Oshkosh and the light the bridges campaign, Chairmanship of the Christine Anne Domestic Abuse Center Board, service on the Chamco and in formation of the Greater Oshkosh EDC. In these capacities, he gained many valued friendships and admirers. He was a cheerleader and an advocate for Oshkosh and his leadership in many areas will be missed. He was honored as a 4 under 40 recipient by the Oshkosh Northwestern. He was also a national advocate and participant in the home built aircraft industry: a young leader in that movement that he was so passionate about.

....And he did meet the love of his life!!!!! His love for Kate was so strong and undeniable. From the first Jaycees meeting Kate attended, Jeremy knew she was the one he was going to marry. When on their first date four years later, driving home Kate said to Jeremy: "This sucks. I'm never gonna date anyone else again." They were engaged on St Patrick's Day 2006-- less than eight months after they started dating. They were married on March 24, 2007.

Through his organ & tissue donation, Jeremy gave the precious gift of prolonged life to as many as 50 people. Please enroll as an organ & tissue donor TODAY.

A memorial service and celebration of Jeremy's life will be held Sunday, June 7 in the Eagle Hangar of the EAA AirVenture Museum in Oshkosh. Public visitation will be from 10:00am to 2:00pm, followed by a Service and Reception. In Lieu of Flowers, the family has established a memorial.

To Dear Jeremy from Kate,

Thank you for loving me and making me feel like the most important, beautiful person on Earth. I will forever miss your constant hugs, kisses and: "I have such a hot wife" up to 10 times a day. I will do my best to raise Miles and Brooks without you. You were the best Dad! They are young, but your legacy will always be remembered. They were both doing 'the monkey' this morning but it will never be as great as yours.

Your loving wife, Kate

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Published by Oshkosh Northwestern from Jun. 5 to Jun. 7, 2015.

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Dwight and linda

May 30, 2025

John and Betty, Thinking of you on the anniversary of Jeremy passing, he was a great young man!

Barbara Crawley

July 2, 2015

My prayers are with you Kate and your beautiful sons. My Daughter Jenni Crawley told me this today. I am so very sorry for your loss. You were always such a sweet girl. Our heartfelt sympathies for your whole family.

Gary VanDeLeygraaf

June 9, 2015

Kate and Family. I grieve with you and your family at this difficult time. Being a EAA member and aviation enthusiast myself, and knowing his life long contributions,I know Jeremy earned the ultimate gift. His own set of wings to soar forever!

Dwight Dendy

June 8, 2015

John and Betty, I am so sorry to hear of Jeremy's accident! Mark Wendling called and ask if I knew. My heart and prayers go out to the both of you and to the rest of Jeremy's family. I have such great memories of the early 70's with with you guys.

Rosalind McEnroe Hack

June 8, 2015

So very sorry for the entire Monnett family. Betty, from one Mom to another, I send you my sincerest condolences and prayers.

Lindsay Spilman

June 8, 2015

Kate, I am so sorry for your loss... Prayers and hugs to you and you little boys.

Michael Schroeder

June 8, 2015

Dear Monnett Family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. Jeremy defined greatness and will not be forgotten.

Jodi, Maccabee, and Thalia Eichler-Levine

June 7, 2015

Dear Kate and family,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Jeremy was such a kind, warm person. Even living across the street from you for just a few years, we are grateful that we got to know such a wonderful neighbor. You are all in our thoughts.

Jodi, Maccabee, and Thalia

Michelina Manzi

June 7, 2015

Dear Kate and Sons and Family: You are deep in my thoughts at this time. I send you all prayers of comfort and peace.

Dyanne and Paul Kollmann

June 7, 2015

We are so very sorry for this tragic loss. Our prayers are being said for Jeremy's family.

Lisa Schumacher (Garrison)

June 7, 2015

I went to school with you until about 5th grade. So sorry for your family....you sound like you've grown so much in life and spirit. I pray for your family and friends.

Karen Kaempffe

June 7, 2015

I am so very sorry. It breaks my heart to know what your family is going through. His family was his treasure and now his legacy.

Nancy Davis

June 7, 2015

To most people, the sky is the limit. To those who love Aviationthe sky is home. My deepest, heartfelt condolences are with the family & friends of Jeremy Monnett today, the day of his memorial service. I am sorry & saddened that I can't be there with all of you, sharing in the celebration of Jeremy's life. Jeremy had that contagious zest for life, for his family & for aviation. His boundless energy was evident in everything he accomplished. May you Rest In Piece, Jeremy, knowing that you were loved & cared for by so many people. You were a true inspiration to everyone! "Your wings already exist. All you have to do is fly."

Rob Radtke

June 7, 2015

It is with our deepest condolences to whole Monnett family about the loss of Jeremy.
Our community, and the physical and aviation worlds may have endured the loss of a fine gentleman; but God now has another angel with flight experience.
Deepest sympathy

Rob, Michelle
Miles, Kendall & Cayla Radtke

Doug Smith

June 7, 2015

Thanks, Jeremy, for the kind words, the helpful timely ride, the efforts to make good on my engine mount and for giving me a profound sense of loss. I barely knew you and your family, but somehow I feel a part of it. I guess you did that for a lot of people.

Denny & Karen Guzlas

June 6, 2015

We are so saddened by your loss. Our prayers are with all your family and friends. May the memories of all who knew Jeremy remain in your hearts.

Lynne Knobloch

June 6, 2015

Jeremy was a great man, and loved by everyone who knew him. My heartfelt sympathy to Kate, Jason, and the entire Monnett family. May God grant you grace and peace during this difficult time.

Steven Mitchell

June 6, 2015

Boss Man, I will miss you more than words can say. I will keep "living the dream" for you.

Nick Peros

June 6, 2015

My prayers and condolences to Jeremy's family at this very sad time.

Ginny Palmer

June 6, 2015

Kate and monnet family,
No words can describe what you are going through right now and the rest of your life's. I'm sending you hugs and prayers to find a little strength to get through each day moving forward. Love, Ginny and Brian Palmer of Plymouth, Minnesota.

Nancy Brown

June 6, 2015

I am still reeling from this tragedy. Your family always had a special place in my heart. I pray you will find reserves to get you through the rest of your lives. You gave this young man the tools to love and enrich others lives. What a gift. I am so very very sorry for the loss of dearest Jeremy.

Kathy, Dan, Jon, Jenny Olk

June 6, 2015

Jeremy was always a joy to be around. Please accept our condolences and prayers at this difficult time.

David Marx

June 6, 2015

Betty, John and Family, To remember is to LOVE, CELEBRATE, LAUGH, CRY,
And SHARE.
To remember is to honor Jeremy who will always be a light in my life and my heart.
With Deepest Sympathy, God's
Blessings, Uncle Dave

Laura Rank

June 6, 2015

Betty, my heart goes out to you as you grieve the loss of your son. I am sure no words can describe the pain. May God our Heavenly Father give you and your family strength during this time of grief, Betty, when we were together in LLL I learned to know how close your family was. It has been many years since we have seen each other, but I had to let you know I was thinking go you during this time in your life. God be with you.

julie wieland

June 5, 2015

Jason Jaimie betty john and kate my thouhts and prayers go out to you during this time I didn't know Jeremy personally but what I know is monnetts are strong in faith and love for each other and Jeremy will forever be with you in spirit and memories HE MAY BE GONE BUTNOT EVER FOGOTTEN his spirit will soar

Wayne Andrews

June 5, 2015

Kate,Boys,Betty,John , I wish I had the words to take away the heart ache and pain,but would like you to know your extended family is thinking and praying for all.

Ralph & Barb Guenther

June 5, 2015

Kate,Miles, Brooks and the rest of the Monnett family,we extend our sincere sympathy; because of the man Jeremy was, you will not be alone. All those he has touched want to put there arms around you and ask God to help you through this horrific time.

Rich Strano

June 5, 2015

Betty, John and Family . . . My deep thoughts and sympathy are with you at this time.

Gerald Vogt

June 5, 2015

We are so sorry to learn of Jeremy's death. Kate was blessed with true love. 2 little boys will always remind her of that love. sincerely, Sharon and Jerry

June 5, 2015

May the Lord God speed Jeremy into His loving arms. GODSPEED ! Marilyn A. H. Wagner, formerly of Oshkosh

June 5, 2015

Our deepest and most profound sympathy to Kate and the boys, especially.
To Betty & John: Just the thought of what both of you are experiencing now makes me shudder. All of the family & friends are in our thoughts & prayers.
May the Lord God Almighty help you to endure this horrific tragedy. HOLD EACH OTHER CLOSE; then hold each other CLOSER. Ron & Marilyn Wagner, formerly of Oshkosh

Jennifer MacLean - Oshkosh West, Class of '90

June 5, 2015

To all of Jeremy's family, there are no words that would ever be able to capture your grief right now. Please know that you are in my prayers.

June 5, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you Betty and your family in this time of sorrow. Hang onto your memories and remember the good times. God Bless you all. Lori Stevens

Jennifer Walker

June 5, 2015

I don't have the words to express my profound grief, and my deep sympathy for Jeremy's family. Even though I hadn't seen him for 20 years, I just assumed I'd get to see that gorgeous grin again one of these days. Through all the pictures that have been shared, I'm glad to see it never changed, and neither did Jeremy. I'm so proud to have known him.

Kate, Miles, Brooks-- please know you're in so many hearts and prayers. Jason-- you're close in my thoughts too. And for Jem, who always flew high and proud-- peace be the journey.

Terry Rushing

June 5, 2015

Jeremy influenced many people for good and was a gracious host to those who crossed his path. We are glad to have rubbed shoulders with Jeremy and the entire Sonex family. We pray for God's comfort on your family and those left in his wake. - From the crew of Wings As Eagles Mission Air Service

Roberval Brito

June 5, 2015

Mr. and Mrs. Monnett,

We would like to extend our deepest sympathies to all Monnett family. We are all shocked here in Brazil after receiving this terrible news.

We are praying for you and hope that god gives you the needed strength to go on in life.

Helaine Lasky

June 5, 2015

For the parents of Jeremy. Betty and John - you blessed us with a man of pure love. I know he will be there for all to ask for his guidance. My heart and loving thoughts are with you.

Lorenz and Sara (Nigl) Scherzer

June 5, 2015

Please accept our sincerest sympathy.

Greg & Amy Egner

June 5, 2015

Kate & family:Our sympathy to all of you.God be with you as you continue life's journey.

Gloria Klemp

June 5, 2015

Kate, Miles, Brooks, John, Betty, John 111, & Jason. My heart has a hole in it & it is empty today. As I read Jeremy's Obituary I find he was so talented and loved by so many. My experience with Jeremy was mainly business but you knew you were important to him. Kate, I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers will be with you and the children. Time heals but you will always have the memories in your heart. God be with all of you during this terrible time.

Jason & Peg Feltz

June 5, 2015

Monnett family, there are no words that can express our feelings for the loss of Jeremy. He will be deeply missed by all that knew.

RJ Siegel

June 5, 2015

I have never known a finer human being. Smart, kind, funny, dedicated, warm and loving. We are poorer having lost him but richer having known him.

Sarah McAninch

June 5, 2015

Miles and Brooks,
Viv and I am so sorry. We love you and know that your Daddy was kind and smart and loving. We see it in each of you daily.

Roberta Henry

June 5, 2015

I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to Jeremy's wife, children, family and friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers! May God bless you and comfort you through your time of sorrow.
Roberta Henry

Mark Huebbe

June 5, 2015

I offer my sincere condolences to the Monnett family.

Shelley & Deacon John Ingala

June 5, 2015

Kate, Betty, John, Jason and the entire Monnett family, please be assured that our thoughts, prayers and love are with you all at the tragic loss of Jeremy. Peace, hope and trust in the loving grace of God.

Lauri Lumby

June 5, 2015

Dear Kate, Miles, Brooks and the Monnette clan:
My deepest prayers go out to you and your families as you grieve the loss of your beloved Jeremy. John and Betty: you raised an amazing son who made an imprint in the world and in the hearts of many. Kate: I can't imagine the pain of losing one you love at such a young age. This sucks! You and your boys are too young....AND YOU CAN DO THIS! Beyond the pain, the shock, the trauma and the ocean of tears rests your strength, passion, courage and tenacity! You are a survivor and a force to be reckoned with.....and YOU ARE NOT ALONE. You are surrounded by the love of family, friends, and a community who wants to step in as a source of support for you and the boys. Accept that support! And....you know I'm just a phone call away. Love you!!!!!! Lauri

Craig Willan

June 5, 2015

You changed the world Jeremy, made it a better place, and helped we mortals break the shackles of earth and fly.

Sue Manning

June 5, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Sue Strehlow

June 5, 2015

Dear Monnett family, may you find comfort in family and friends during your time of sorrow.

June 4, 2015

We express our deepest sympathies for the loss of Jeremy. Scott worked with him and John during AirVenture to help park all the Sonex's. Even though we have retired from AirVenture, we know Jeremy's presence will be greatly missed. Not only there but whomever or what ever he touched. He has traded his fixed wings for angel wings. We will all miss him.
Jeannie Schneider
Homebuilt Parking - EAA AirVenture

Roberta McPhetridge

June 4, 2015

It has been a real joy for the past 4 1/2 yrs to know and Love the Monnett family!!! I have enjoyed watching Jeremy's children! His light shines through them! He's loving wife Kate is just as kind and caring as Jeremy! They were meant to be together! They have created a beautiful family! And because of that Jeremy will live on!!! God Bless the Monnett Family!

Jennifer rabehl

June 4, 2015

So sorry for your loss.

Kellie Wilson

June 4, 2015

John and Betty we are so devastated to hear of your loss. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Everyone here at hidden bay is keeping your family close to our hearts, we all love you and are here if you need us in any way.
My deepest sympathy,
Kellie and Patrick

Melissa Pezzuto

June 4, 2015

My love and prayers to all of Jeremy's family. I feel blessed to have crossed paths with him and will always have fond memories of his smiling face and zest for life.

Mary McKeown

June 4, 2015

My sympathies to the Monnett family. May your loving memories of Jeremy help you through this sorrowful time.

Sue Strehlow

June 4, 2015

Dear Monnett family, may you find comfort in family and friends during your time of sorrow.

Jen (Woodland) Skinner

June 4, 2015

I haven't spent time with Jeremy for twenty years, yet the loss is still great. He was a wonderful, kind, funny and talented man. Many prayers to Kate, Miles, and Brooks; to John, Betty, John and Jason; and all those who were blessed to have known him.

Robbie Culver

June 4, 2015

Blue skies Jeremy. I have no words to express my emotions.

Your smile, enthusiasm, and energy are unforgettable.

Robbie Culver

Kelly Voss

June 4, 2015

Thanks for the smiles throughout the years! May you soar through the clouds, to the moon & the stars, & keep a close watch over your loving wife & boys. You are already missed, but will never be forgotten.

Chris Osswald

June 4, 2015

I have been blessed to have had Jeremy in my life and working with our business. He has touched so many lives and so many have benefited from him sharing his grace.

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