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Ray Donald Damitio

Ray Donald Damitio crossed the flying finish line with family close by, at home, February 10, 2011; he was 83. Born in Elma, WA December 5, 1927 to Sylvester James Damitio and "Fannie" (Chambers) Damitio; they resided in Cedarville, WA. He attended and graduated from the nearby Oakville High School.
Ray married Lena Maxine Davis in 1948, they had a son, Bruce, and a daughter, Steffanie. Never one to let grass grow under his feet, Ray spent time in the U.S. Army Transport Service, the U.S. Merchant Marines, and retired from the U.S. Air Force. As a Merchant Marine, he sailed around the world in 9 months. He traveled with a carnival, drove a laundry tuck, and worked in the logging industry. It would be faster to list the foreign countries he did NOT visit, than those he did.
As a U.S. A.F. Master Sergeant, he spent time in Vietnam, where he ran a 5 story motel, bartended, rode "Huey" helicopters as a gunner, rode Chinook Helicopters on Evacuation Missions, and operated as a training officer for a radar unit. Following a mortar attack on the Billet he was in charge of, he was recommended for, and later received, The Bronze Star Medal for Meritorious Service.
Ray and his business partner of 25 years, Don Preston, owned the Coachman Auto Dealership in Olympia, WA, and the Prima Yacht business; later, along with Wayne Pullar of Montesano, they bought Duane DeWees Auto Dealership in Aberdeen, WA.
In 1982, after Lena died, Ray moved into a house boat while his new home in Tenino, WA was built. He became involved in what became the love of his second life, Rally Racing. He co-drove for Grant Whiting; they became a sensation on the rally circuit due to Ray's enthusiasm and Grant's extraordinary driving abilities. Ray organized the Doo Wop Rally Series; a race which became nationally famous and was a fixture in the Northwest for 20 years.
In 1990, he bought the Brooklyn Tavern in Brooklyn, WA, which burned to the ground 4 months later. In 1991, he married Janice (Furst) Brough, and her three sons; they built a home near Montesano. The Brooklyn Tavern was rebuilt, and opened in 1994. Between 2000-2010, Ray left the auto business, and began operating the Brooklyn Tavern, where he developed a loyal following amongst patrons from near and far. One of his favorite things to do was to hop on a U.S.A.F. cargo plane to distant lands, carrying a small backpack and not much else, except a quest for adventure and a great attitude. He loved to participate in vintage racing with his friend and fellow car enthusiast, Dave Cammarano. They raced extensively throughout the U.S., braving the elements in an open cockpit. Ray was preceded in death by his older brother, Ed Damitio. He is survived by his wife, Janice, three stepsons, Russell, Warren, and Everett Brough, son Bruce Damitio, daughter, Steffanie Scholz, younger brother, Rick Damitio, many nieces, nephews and grandchildren, and thousands of friends.
Per his request, Ray will be cremated; no formal service will be held. At a later date, his ashes will be spread as he dictated. Donations are welcomed for the Oakville Food Bank; c/o Kathy Rosbaugh 1516 Oak Meadows Ln Oakville WA 98568
A potluck celebration of his unbelievable, well lived, wild and wonderful life, will be held on February 26, at (and next door to) the Brooklyn Tavern at 2611 N. River Rd. Cosmopolis, WA. If you knew Ray, you know it is impossible to detail his many exploits and adventures, without writing a book. For a more detailed time line of his life, visit www.historicbrooklyntavern.com

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Published by The Olympian on Feb. 17, 2011.

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March 16, 2011

ray was my great gran dad and i miss him
-sara aker

Cathy Hart

February 25, 2011

Ray you are an awesome man, always had a great smile a great hug and a great sense of humor. My thoughts, my prayers and my love go out to you, your family and friends. You will truely be missed by all.

Lisa Wyse

February 23, 2011

I've known Ray for over 25 years through my mother and stepfather Barbara and Henry Yates. I had opportunities over the years to see him, freom youth football games years back to visits my husband and I made to the Brooklyn Tavern. Each and every time he graciously accepted a hug and always remembered who I was. He was a wonderful individual who always had so many great stories to tell. I will truly miss him. Lisa Wyse

Ray Damitio

Ray Damitio

February 22, 2011

Terry & Judy Lonborg

February 22, 2011

Ray was one super amazing man who will be extremely missed. God speed Ray!!

Russell Brough

February 21, 2011

I met Ray in 1990, he Married my mother shortly after. We didn't always get along (Mostly due to my "Better Way Boy" attitude). But i soon realized that Ray wanted nothing but the best for my Mom and my two younger brothers. He taught me how to be a man. He taught me that there is more to life than material things. He taught me that honor, respect, and love from friends and family are the most important things in life, and if you want them you have work hard and earn them. I dont know what my life would have been like without him there, but I do know that i wouldn't be the man that I am today. And for that i thank him, wherever he is... WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU RAY!!!

"young" Ray Damitio

Ray Damitio

February 21, 2011

Elizabth (Beth) Hemming (Damitio)

February 21, 2011

My Uncle Ray was one of my favorite people in the whole world. He told it like it was and treated you the way that he wanted to be treated. I will miss him terribly. He was so much like his own father (my grandfather) and that is why I loved him so much. He lived life to the fullest, and I will never forget him. My deepest condonences go out to Janice, Steph and Bruce. Raise a glass for me on Saturday (sorry I cannot make the trip). The rest of my family will be there to celebrate his life!!

Shannon Abbott-Olson

February 19, 2011

I Shall Miss You My Friend. My prayers and love to your family. Love Shannon

beth bardwell

February 18, 2011

I never knew Ray, but heard only great things about the man.. Janice is my Aunt and her sons, Russel, warren and Everett are my cousins.. I just want the family to know that I am thinking about you , you are in my prayers and I am very sorry for your loss..

Gary Wells

February 18, 2011

Stephanie,
Sorry to hear of your dad's passing, prayers to you and your family.

Gary Wells
Shannon's brother.

Kim Fortman

February 18, 2011

Janice-
Sorry to hear about Ray. I have been thinking about you a lot lately... Hope you are at peace... Looks like Ray had a wonderful life and will leave you with great memories... Love Kim Miller (Fortman)

James Maxwell

February 18, 2011

From the first day I meet Ray the one thing that was his was his cold Bud's. He had his own frig for them ( for some reason when all the boys would come over we would drink alot and his beer would just vanish). He would always yell at warren tell your friends to stay away from my G.D. beer. It would never fail by the end of the night we would all end up in his stash. Well Ray Tonight I am buying a cold 12 of BUDS and there just for you and me. Thank you for service and your friendship and the way I always felt at home at your house

Carl Schlegel

February 17, 2011

I worked for Ray for several years. I remember Ray as being one of the best bosses anyone could ever hope to have. He could be your boss and he could be your friend, He truly knew how to seperate from the business at the end of the day and at the end of day it was time to relax and unwind. I can remember getting done with some contract negotiations one night and hearing him say, that's enough of this for the day, I'm buying the beer! Fair, smart, and a great friend! We hadn't crossed paths very many times in recent years, but I have thought of him often. Ray always was thinking of those who worked in his dealership, and there was hardly a morning went by when he didn't take the time to walk through the dealership and stop and have a few words with each and every one of us. Ray, by the way he lived, taught me a lot about how to treat others, and how to put the previous day behind you and always start the next day fresh. He will be missed by all.

KIMBERLY DAMITIO

February 17, 2011

MY NAME IS KIMBERLY DAMITIO. RAY WAS MY GRANDPA. HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. HE WAS FULL OF CHARACTER AND FULL OF LIFE. HE LIVED LIFE TO THE FULLEST. HE WAS A GOOD MAN

February 17, 2011

Too many stories too many miles... you sure will be missed, but the memories you gave us will go on forever. For every brandy we will have, we will toast a "TT" to you. Janis, you lost a "Dear" friend and so did we. Our hearts go out to you and family.

David and Sharon Cammarano

February 17, 2011

Every hunting season at the end of the day we always have stopped at the tavern before heading over the hill to home. It just will not be the same now. Rest in peace Ray. We will stop by and have a toast to you this season as we have always done.

Dave Miller and Lynn Hall

Cheryl Bishop

February 17, 2011

Ray purchasedt the tavern from me in 1990. He was a much welcomed patron for years prior to the purchase, and remained my good friend afterward. I will never forget the "wild ride" across Smith Creek(13 minutes) to sign the final papers at South Bend. He was so much fun, and will be sorely missed.

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