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Craig Oare

November 8, 1947 - October 9, 2014

Craig Oare obituary, November 8, 1947-October 9, 2014

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November 8, 1947

DIED

October 9, 2014

Craig Oare Obituary

Craig Oare Craig Oare came to the close of his life at the age of 66, on October 9, 2014, surrounded by the primal beauty of his much-loved Olympic National Forest. Craig was an accomplished Olympia poet and author of six chapbooks. He was a longtime member of Olympia Poetry Network and Warrior Poets Society. He loved to spend time downtown at Traditions, where he could often be found drinking coffee, discussing politics, life, or baseball with friends, and working on poems. During the more than thirty years he resided in Olympia, Craig worked as a caregiver, school bus driver, and, his favorite, a bookseller at Orca Books. Prior to moving to Olympia, Craig also enjoyed working at Raintree Nursery in Morton. The firstborn child of Dale and Irma Oare, Craig entered the world on November 8, 1947 in Iowa. He grew up in southern California, and earned his B.A. in history at the University of California at Santa Cruz. To his family and many friends, Craig was a sparkling presence in our lives, a gently yet strongly determined force for good in the world, a deep thinker, and a master of puns. He is survived in loving memory by his dad and second mom, Dale and Sherry Oare of South Dakota, and his sister and brother-in-law, Bonnie and Marc Jones of Olympia. There will be a memorial gathering on Saturday, November 8, 2014 at 4:00 p.m., in the sanctuary of Olympia Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 2300 East End Street NW, Olympia. Friends are invited to speak, read, play music, or simply sit and listen, in honor of Craig. Memories and messages may be posted to Craig's guest book at: www.legacy.com. Craig left his wish that in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Amnesty International.

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Published by The Olympian on Oct. 26, 2014.

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Bonnie Jones

October 24, 2020

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Craig with Mark Davis, Garfield Nature Trail, Olympia

Bonnie Jones

November 8, 2015

Bonnie Jones

November 8, 2015

Happy Birthday, my beloved big brother. I'm adding a photo that I love, taken around this time of year in 2008. I think maybe it was even on your birthday.

Emily Batchelor

September 10, 2015

Sweet Craig, I just heard the news. I wish I could talk to you about it, you would know just what to say. I miss you still, my friend. I will visit the trees we talked about, and perhaps I will see you there. If not, see you next time around, for sure. All my love to you and your family, from Emily (orcapodling)

Keith Cullen

March 16, 2015

I remember the compassion of my Hero with a Thousand Faces.

Jazzy Ramsey

December 15, 2014

For seven years, every morning I worked at Traditions I looked forward to seeing you. You always had a cup of drip coffee and on the adventurous day, a bagel. The magic, kindness, and unwavering compassion you carried with you into the world was striking and unmistakable. Thank you for sharing your zines with me and bringing warmth into my life. You were a treasure in life and I trust that your goodness is evolving in many phenomenal ways. Much love and gratitude to you and yours.

Craig, Barbara, Bonnie

Marc Jones

December 3, 2014

Poetry Reading

Marc Jones

December 3, 2014

Dale & Craig

Marc Jones

December 3, 2014

Marc Alan Jones

December 3, 2014

We held your memorial on your 67th birthday. Bonnie and I felt overwhelmed by the prospect of putting it together and pulling it off. But it came together beautifully because several people stepped forward to help. I don't really know if it works this way, but I hope you saw and heard all of us on the 8th. You meant so much to so many.

Mark Davis

November 7, 2014

Well, Craig, you were always the one with the right words, so I don't quite know what to write at this point. I'll miss all those words and you too.

Patty Kinney

November 3, 2014

Craig, I will miss your sweaters, witty banter and your poems. Peace.

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Sam Benowitz

October 30, 2014

Craig was the last remaining connection to my childhood. I miss him. I look forward to talking about him with his other buddies at his memorial.

Craig signing Barb's chapbook

Barb Leedy

October 28, 2014

Bonnie reading

Barb Leedy

October 28, 2014

Craig reading poetry

Barb Leedy

October 28, 2014

Katie Cameron

October 26, 2014

Craig: you were a decent and kind man, and funny, too. I enjoyed your poetry and its spirit. I remember your long and loyal friendship with a prisoner on death row, and your passion for the redwoods. You almost came down and visited me once in California, but you ended up in those redwoods and never made it to the Bay Area. As William Stafford once said to his friend Henry Taylor, "So long - I look toward seeing you everywhere." Katie

Chris Dahl

October 26, 2014

I always admired how Craig lived so lightly on the land. He was an intriguing poet and a force for good in this world. I will miss his voice at OPN Open Mikes and casual conversations when I ran into him downtown.

Bonnie Jones

October 26, 2014

Good morning, OWB. I miss you so much. It's Sunday and raining. The Olympian didn't get any words wrong in your obit. Lyn went with Marc and me to see Uncle Bonsai last night, so your ticket was well-used. It was a great show and sold out. You would have loved it. I've been reading old letters and looking at pictures and remembering when we were young. We were going to look at pictures together recently, and we didn't quite get around to it. Come look over my shoulder as I do it now, OK?

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