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Harry Harman Obituary

Harry O. Harman Jr. LEXINGTON - Funeral services for Harry O. Harman, Jr., 79, will be held at 1:30 p.m. on Tuesday, April 22, 2014, at St. Stephen's Evangelical Lutheran Church with Rev. Dr. Patrick W. Riddle and Rev. Dr. Dennis R. Bolton officiating. A reception will be held in the social hall immediately after the service. Private burial will follow in the church cemetery. The family will receive friends from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. on Monday, April 21, at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Lexington Chapel. Honorary pallbearers are the staffs of Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Lexington County Coroner's Office led by Chief Deputy Coroner Randy A. Martin, and Lexington Medical Center Pathology; the SC Funeral Directors' and SC Coroners' Associations; and Congressman Joe Wilson, Sheriff James R. Metts, Solicitor Donald V. Myers, Judge Knox McMahon, Jake Knotts, Mickey Lindler, and Lyman Whitehead. Pallbearers are Josef E. Clark, Trevor P. Crocker, Alexander Harman, T. Brett Harman, George P. W. Harmon, Dr. R. B. Harmon II, Samuel H. Hendrix, Lester B. Hite, Joe Wayne Rauch, Walter "Sonny" Sanders, Franklin B. Waites, and Coroner Gary Watts. Mr. Harman passed away on Friday, April 18, 2014. A native of Lexington, SC, Mr. Harman was born on March 30, 1935, and was the son of the late Sarah Clark Harman and Dr. H. Odelle Harman. He was predeceased by brother Arthur C. Harman. Mr. Harman graduated from Lexington High School, attended Newberry College, and was a graduate of Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science. In 1961 he started a successful business, Harman Funeral Home, which became Caughman-Harman Funeral Home in 1966 when he formed a partnership with the late Stephen Hampton Caughman. He spent more than 50 years counseling bereaved families. Mr. Harman was first elected Coroner of Lexington County in 1976. He was instrumental in developing a countywide disaster plan and disaster-response team, 24-hour pathologist availability, and employing educated individuals to meet the demands of changing technology. He sought to establish strong working relationships with all law enforcement, EMS, fire services, physicians, pathologists, and nurses. He also helped obtain burial plots and grave markers to ensure dignified burials for indigent citizens of Lexington County. Mr. Harman was a lifelong member of St. Stephen's Lutheran Church and longtime member of the Lexington County Chamber of Commerce, Lion's Club, Jaycees, and SC Coroners' and SC Law Enforcement Associations. He was a past member of the Lowman Home Board of Directors, as well as many other civic groups, and past president of the SC Funeral Directors' Association. A man of many accomplishments, Mr. Harman was, most importantly, a servant. He took great pride and care in serving the people of his beloved Lexington County. With a strong sense of compassion and respect, he wanted to help families at times of crisis and sadness. This desire began with his work as a funeral director and continued with his service as Coroner. The people of Lexington County elected him as Coroner ten times, an honor he accepted with much gratitude and humility. While Mr. Harman's service touched many lives, he was always, first of all, a dedicated son, brother, father, and grandfather who loved his family, especially his daughters and grandchildren, selflessly and unconditionally. His extraordinary sense of humor, unfailing empathy, understanding, and devotion will always be treasured and remembered by his family and friends. Mr. Harman is survived by his daughters, Sally H. Plowden (Russell) and Charlotte H. Stormer (Chris), both of Columbia; his sister, Elizabeth H. Caddell and brother Paul E. Harman (Gale) of Lexington; six grandchildren, Sarah Caroline Plowden, William Christian Stormer, Samuel Harman Stormer, Grace Zimmerman Plowden, Sarah McIver Stormer, and Anne Brailsford Plowden; many nieces and nephews; his loyal business partner and the devoted mother of his two daughters and grandmother of his six grandchildren, Daisy Wilson Harman; and his special friend, Sandra Rauch White. The family wishes to extend a special thank you to the staffs of Lexington Medical Center, LMC Extended Care, and DayBreak; Doctors Michael Roberts, Christopher Marshall, and Richard Murray; and dear friends Bernice Gibson and Lettie Winston. Memorials may be made to St. Stephen's Evangelical Lutheran Church, 119 N. Church St., Lexington, SC 29072; Heathwood Hall Episcopal School, 3000 S. Beltline Blvd., Columbia, SC 29201; or a Hospice group of one's choice. www.caughmanharmanfuneralhome.net

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Published by The State from Apr. 20 to Apr. 21, 2014.

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Beryl Roberts

May 4, 2014

To all the family of Harry: I will miss Harry when I visit Lexington Extended Care. He was always so happy to see me and every time I would leave he would say, "Tell everybody I said hello". I pray that God will comfort you and give you peace during this very difficult time. God bless you all.

April 24, 2014

Caroline and I were shocked and saddened at the news of Mr Harry's passing. We miss him and thanks for being such wonderful "neighbors" and friends. Mr. Harry was a very good hearted man and we consider the short time we knew him and the family a Gift and a Blessing from above. Our sincere sympathy and love to you all. Larry and Caroline

Karen Morris

April 23, 2014

To Sally, Charlotte, Daisy and grandchildren,
May God bless you and your families in this difficult time. Harry was such a lovely man and someone I treasured growing up. His service to the citizens of Lexington was extraordinary. However, it is his unconditional and supportive love for all of you that I will remember. May God hold Harry in His loving arms and may you know you are in the prayers of the Morrises and the Hubbards always. Godspeed, Harry.

Richard & Mary Cromer

April 23, 2014

To Sandy,
May your heart be filled with wonderful memories and joyful times together as there was many. Harry was a great friend and he will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Ollie Lowman

April 23, 2014

I was saddened at the loss of Harry.Another link to Lexington's past has been "called home".I pray for his family and many friends to find peace and comfort through Jesus Christ.

Kathy Sons Hinkle

April 22, 2014

To Sally and Charlotte,
May God bless you , your families, and your mom in this time of sorrow. Your dad helped many during the most difficult time in their life.He was an extremely compassionate man-a true southern gentleman. His passing will definitely leave a void in Lexington but he will never be forgotten.Again, God bless.My heart goes out to you

Bill and Doris Rawl

April 22, 2014

Our deepest sympathy to Harry's family

April 22, 2014

Deepest Condolences

Gregg & Jan Long

Harriett Craps

April 22, 2014

During this time of sadness, please remember that Heaven is rejoicing that Mr. Harry has come home. Our love & prayers.
Robert & Harriett Craps

Donna H. Ricard

April 22, 2014

My father, Daniel C. "Buddy" Harmon, sends his love and sympathy to the family of Harry Harman. While he is not physically able to be present, his heart is with each of you. Harry was a dear friend, and Dad has so many fond memories. May God bless each of you in the days ahead.

Old Lexington Native

April 22, 2014

Rest in Peace Harry. All of your weariness and pain are gone. Maybe you and "Digger" can get together and catch-up on "old times". This "Bud's" for you and Steve.Gone,but not forgotten.Rest in Peace and God Bless.

Carole Flynn Roof

April 21, 2014

Daisy, Sally and Charlotte, like I said on Easter Sunday when we were at the funeral home, Mr Harry was a Lexington institution. Our families have been friends for many, many years and Mr Harry will certainly be missed in and around Lexington. So glad Amy and I were able to bring R.B. on Sunday and spend a little time with y'all. R.B. so loved his "buddy". Prayers go up for all of you, with love, Carole

Wilma Caughman Taylor Bucy

April 21, 2014

Dearest Harmon Family,
I am deeply saddened to learn of Harry's
death. I was in high school with him and was always aware of his great
career and service to others. My prayers and love are with each of you--
Daisy, Sally, Charlotte, Beth, and Paul.

April 21, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers to you all. The Roddeys

David and Charlotte Shull

April 21, 2014

Prayers are lifted for all of you. Harry was a great friend and easy to work with. May the Lord lift you in spirit and wonderful memories for a job well done. God Bless!!

Shelvie Schehr

April 21, 2014

So sorry to hear of Harry's passing. He and I graduated from high school together. He was a great person and his family and community will miss him greatly. My prayers goes out to his family.
Shelvie (Meetze) Schehr

Ruth (Ruthie Jones) Padgett

April 21, 2014

My love, prayers and deepest sympathy are with all of you at this time of great sadness. Rest eternal grant him, O Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon him.

Gunter Family

April 21, 2014

our heart felt sympathy to the Harman Family. Harry's passing will leave a great void in Lexington County and the lives of many who knew him on a personal level.We were proud to call him friend.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda G. Smith

April 21, 2014

Harry was a gentleman and a kind man who always had a warm hug and genuine smile whenever I would see him. I know he will be greatly missed, but never forgotten. His memory and hard work will live on. My condolences to Daisy, Sally, Charlotte and all the family, friends and colleagues his life touched.

Kevin Bryant

April 21, 2014

So sorry to hear of Harry's passing. Our prays go out to the Harman family.

Briget Longway

April 21, 2014

Daisy, Sally and Charlotte,
Very Sorry for the loss of Harry, he was a good man and will be missed. Thought and Prayers are with you all.

Tammy Chandler

April 21, 2014

Harry Harman has been a pillar of Lexington and will be greatly missed by many. I extend my deepest condolences to the family.

Wilma Storey

April 21, 2014

So sorry to hear of Harry's passing. He was a wonderful person, full of compassion and love for everyone. He will be missed greatly.

Cathy Rawls

April 21, 2014

The Richland County Coroner's Office would like to extend our deepest, heartfelt sympathy to Harry's family, The Lexington County Coroner's Office and Caughman-Harman Funeral Home. Harry will be missed by so many...Rest in Peace my Friend...

Allison Gilliam

April 21, 2014

Please accept my deepest condolences. I am praying for all of you to have peace and strength at this difficult time.

Ricki Thurman

April 21, 2014

So sorry to hear of Mr. Harry's passing. He was always so nice to me.

The staff of Woodridge Memorial Park & Funeral Home

April 21, 2014

Condolences to the Harman family, the staff at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home and the Lexington County Coroners Office. Harry was a wonderful person and will be missed by numerous people throughout Lexington County and beyond. His kind heart and compassion he showed will always be remembered.

Lynn Richardson

April 21, 2014

Sorry for the loss of the people's long time Coroner of Lexington County.

Susan Backman

April 21, 2014

So very sorry on the loss of Mr Harry!!! He will be greatly missed!!! RIP my friend.....

The Staff of Caughman-Harman Funeral Home

April 21, 2014

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Carol Latimer-Finethy

April 21, 2014

Charlotte,
I'm so very sorry to read of your father's passing. I know he will be sorely missed by many people all around the state. Please know that I'll be praying for comfort and strength for your mother and for you and Sally and your families in the days ahead.

Janice Chubbuck

April 20, 2014

Prayers are with the Harman family at this time. He was a well respected citizen of Lexington and the state of SC. Rest in peace, Mr. Harry.....you will be missed by many.

Randall Spires

April 20, 2014

Harry has been and always will be a big part of mine and my South Carolina family's lives. He was a good man and a good friend to all those who knew him and I will always appreciate the committment he gave to his role and job. Harry, you will be missed!

Cheryl S Boozer

April 20, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the staff and employees of both the Caughman -Harman Funeral Home as well as the Lexington County Coroner's office. I know all of you were real close to Mr Harry and will miss him in the future. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Calvin Richardson

April 20, 2014

Words will not work in my feelings in the loss of Harry - I will let many memories take over my thoughts - am there in spirit with all of you - Sally, Charlotte, Beth, Paul, Daisy and the entire family - rest in peace dear friend

Cheryl Boozer

April 20, 2014

Sally,Charlotte, and Mrs Daisy I was sadden to hear the news of Mr Harry's death. He was a great man, a great Coroner, and a friend to all. The citizens of Lexington County loss one of its best men. My deepest sympathy.

kenneth hite

April 20, 2014

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Ed Lundeen

April 20, 2014

The Lexington County Veterans Affairs Office extends our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family of Harry Harman. He is a true champion for the County he served so diligently.

Joan Lucas Jones

April 20, 2014

I am so sorry Sally, Charlotte, and Daisy. He was there every single time my family and I needed him. He was the best friend I have ever had in my life. My prayers are with all of you.

Loretta Rhoten

April 20, 2014

As I read I the condolences, I realize that Harry loved and cared for all of us (big and small) during our times of bereavement. He will truly be missed and can never be replaced.

Carey Macaulay-Schild

April 20, 2014

So sorry to hear about Mr. Harry's passing. He was such a special man. I'll always remember the fun times growing up and spending time with the Harman family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Barr-Price Funeral Homes

April 20, 2014

To the Harman family,

We are saddened to learn of Harry's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

The employees and staff of Barr-Price Funeral Homes

Mike Anderson

April 20, 2014

There may be men in this world as good as Harry, but certainly none better. Our community has lost a great, caring, compassionate man.
My heartfelt thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with all who loved him, for there are many.

Phillip Caulder, Jr.

April 20, 2014

Dear Caughman Family, Please know that each of you are in our thoughts and prayers. It has been great knowing Harry and his family for all these years. He was a true Funeral Director with a servant's heart. May God's Peace and Comfort be with each of you. Phillip and Yetive Caulder and the staff of Miller-Rivers-Caulder Funeral Home, Chesterfield, SC

Mark Matthews

April 20, 2014

Deepest sympathies to the entire Harman Family on your loss.

Beverly Hook

April 20, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to all of the Family. I will always remember his kindness to me during "my family times". He was a wonderful Town of Lexington Gentlemen.

Suzette & Nell

April 20, 2014

Daisy, Mom and I both send you and your family our deepest sympathy in the passing of Harry. We have nothing but good memories of a kind and compassionate man who will be missed by so many. Lexington just won't be Lexington without Harry Harman in it! God Bless.

Constance Flemming

April 19, 2014

Our thanks and love to the family for letting Lexington County share your loved one.Sally and Charlotte, my Dad and your Dad shared some precious times and they left us with some precious memories to carry throughout our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Musically Yours,
Constance Caractor Flemming

Sherry Leonard Noble

April 19, 2014

To Harman Family I am saddened to hear about the death of Harry he was a very special person and i know that he will be missed by a lot of people. I have had the pleasure of calling on Harry for 37 years at the funeral home. May the many many that you have be the fondest treasures that you hold close to your heart. To the staff at Caughman Harman my prayers are with you as he was a part of your family also.

Johnny Yenny

April 19, 2014

Harry was a special classmate of mine I grew up with him all those 12 years in school He help me 1 time that I greatly thank him for Good Bye my Friend till we meet again May God be with his family

Elin Fowler

April 19, 2014

My thoughts & prayers to Mr. Harmon's family during this difficult time. I was honored & blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know him (& his family). He was an amazing man who I will always remember. Deepest Sympathy & Condolences.

Angela & Ron Magee

April 19, 2014

My heart goes out to the family of Harry Harmon. As well as to the staff of Caughman-Harmon Funeral Home. I pray God will carry each of you in his Loving Arms and give you strength until the grief passes.

Angela Magee

April 19, 2014

My heart goes out to the family of Harry Harmon. As well as to the staff of Caughman-Harmon Funeral Home. I pray God will carry each of you in his Loving Arms until the grief passes.

Velda C. Howard

April 19, 2014

I was very sorry to hear of Mr. Harry's passing. He was a special person and affected a lot of Lexington county Peoples lives in one way or another. He will be missed by everyone that knew him. My prayers are with the family at this time.

Scott Fowler

April 19, 2014

I extend my deepest sympathies to Harry's family and to all the staff at Caughman-Harman. I am offering prayers for comfort and peace for all of you.

April 19, 2014

Harry was a kind and attentive person. It was a blessing to know him. May his soul rest in peace and his family find comfort remembering this wonderful man who shared their lives.

Dave and Janet Schmidt
Franklin, TN

susan mitchell

April 19, 2014

Harry you have been a great friend to me and my family for many many years. And for the people of Lexington county. Thank you and your family for every thing yall have done for us over the years. Rest in peace my dearest friend. May your family have peace in this time of sorrow. Thank you for being my friend for years. Harry was a great man.

Vickie Cheek

April 19, 2014

The Laurens County Coroner's Office sends our deepest sympathy to the family and The Lexington County Coroner's Office during this difficult time. Mr. Harman served his county well for many years and will be missed by all who knew him.

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