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James Anthony Carlen III

James Anthony Carlen III obituary, Columbia, SC

James Carlen Obituary

James Anthony Carlen III COLUMBIA Memorial service for James Anthony Carlen III, 79, will be held at 4:00 p.m. Fri day, July 27, 2012, at Trenholm Road United Methodist Church, with visitation immediately following in the church gymnasium. Dunbar Funeral Home, Devine Street Chapel, is assisting the family. Coach Carlen died Sunday, July 22, 2012. Born July 11, 1933 in Cookeville, Tenn., he was a son of the late James A. and Roberta Hill Carlen and a proud Eagle Scout. He graduated from Georgia Tech where he was a linebacker and punter on two national championship teams under Coach Dodd. After graduating from Georgia Tech and serving one season as an assistant coach at Cookeville Central High, he served in the U.S. Air Force for four years where he rose to the rank of Lieutenant. He then began his college football coaching career at Georgia Tech as assistant to Coach Bobby Dodd, defensive coordinator and later as college athletics director. His coaching stints included Georgia Tech, West Virginia, Texas Tech and South Carolina. At these three universities, Carlen attained a 107-69-6 record. Carlen guided the Mountaineers from 1966-69 to a 25-13-3 record. In 1969, after leading the Mountaineers to a 10-1 record, which included a 14-3 victory over South Carolina in the Peach Bowl, he then went to Texas Tech from 1970-74. The Red Raiders were 37-20-2 under Carlen's reign. In 1973, he guided the Red Raiders to one of their most successful seasons ever with an 11-1 campaign. He was selected Southwest Conference Coach of the Year for the second time, NCAA District Seven Coach of the Year and Fellowship of Christian Athletes Coach of the Year. From 1975-1981, Carlen led the University of South Carolina to a 46-36-1 record, which included two eight-win seasons and three bowl trips. The 45 victories are the third most in South Carolina football history by a head coach. Carlen also coached the school's only Heisman Trophy winner, George Rogers. In addition to being the school's football head coach, he also served as the school's athletics director until 1981. To add to Carlen's long list of awards, former South Carolina Governor James B. Edwards presented Carlen with the Order of the Palmetto, one of the highest awards that can be given to a resident of the state of South Carolina. In 2006, he was inducted into the S.C. Hall of Fame. He was also inducted into the Cookeville High School Hall of Fame in 2007 and the National Football Foundation and College of Fame in 2008. Also in 2008, Carlen was inducted into the Texas Tech Athletic Hall of Honor. He was recognized by the West Virginia University Fellowship of Christian Athletes for his numerous contributions and also received the Honorary West Virginian Award in 2009. Coach Carlen touched many lives, including his countless players, staff and friends as he continued to provide love, support and guidance throughout their lives. His commitment and dedication was evident after their playing careers as he continued to serve as a mentor and a coach for life. Surviving are his wife, Meredith Taylor Carlen; sons, James Anthony Carlen IV (Kim) of Columbia, William Holt Carlen of Columbia; daughters, Mollianne Elliott (Joe) of Roswell, Ga., Melanie Caswell of Columbia; brother, Walter Hill Carlen of Cookeville, Tenn.; twelve grandchildren, Jimmy, Maggie and Knox Carlen; Carlen Arnold; Harrison, Hill and Evans Elliott; Garner Leigh, Davis Brooke, Jamie Keith, Abbey Hill and Claxton Grace Caswell. The family wishes to thank the staff of Tidewater Hospice, especially Cindy, Joanie, Ivey and Meva, for their compassion and excellent care and support. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Fellowship of Christian Athletes, 8701 Leeds Road, Kansas City, MO 64129 (www.fca.org) or Trenholm Road United Methodist Church, 3401 Trenholm Road, Columbia, SC 29204. Please sign online guestbook at www.dunbarfunerals.com.

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Published by The State from Jul. 23 to Jul. 24, 2012.

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Claude Tice

Yesterday

I want to high school Abilene Cooper in 1973 or 1972. I can´t remember where members of fellowship of Christian athletes at Abilene Cooper we going to camp that coach Carlin had with the great quarterback Joe Barnes. They were great questions they made a tremendous impact on my life. He was a man of God as well as Joe Barnes. I will never forget them as long as I live and I´m 70, I´m getting old, but I´ll never get how much fun we had at the FCA camp with all the speakers. They were great man of God!

Maynard D Barker Jr

July 18, 2013

Coach was a "GOOD MAN." He was all man and made many other men under his tuledge. He will be missed and I will miss seeing him and his humor. God Bless the entire Carlen Family. Maynard D. Barker Jr. Hilton Head Island, S. C.

August 2, 2012

I learned many more wonderful things about Coach Carlen at his funeral. He was the coach all 4 years I danced and twirled batons with the band.One afternoon he had us come over and perform for the team. As we were leaving he told the Band Director that the new uniforms would arrive any day and to "get those little girls some new outfits too". (He was such a generous man, I don't think he realized we were also USC students, as old or older than his players!!!!) I know you will miss him daily and hold on to the thought that you'll be together again in heaven. I am so thankful for all the good he did.My parents were big football fans, so I was BORN a gamecock. I'm glad I was at USC 76-80 when Coach Carlen, George, and all the others showed us a great time in so many ways!! Love,Cheryl Connor Probus

Richard Crose

July 31, 2012

Coach Carlin was a wonderful man. He reached out to me and helped point my life in the right direction many years ago. I will never forget his generosity and willingness to help. Peace to you and your family.

Richard "Skeeter" Muckenfuss

July 27, 2012

Fond memories of a true gentleman are such a blessing to have. I sure will miss his wit and smile.

Kevin Hogan

July 27, 2012

Jamie sorry to hear about your Dad, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Stay strong and God will take care of everything. Take what your dad distiller in you and use it for your family. He will always be with you.

July 26, 2012

Dearest Meredith, Holt and family,
I am just recieving the wonderful news that is here. Still in Honduras, I have been thinking of you every day but especially on Mon and Today( Thurs). I am very blesssed to have you in my path of life and I will never forget "Remember Who you belong to", and... "I have been fighting for you all along, and you didn't even know it".(James Carlen). My love for you all and prayers that you recieve peace and comfort from above. "Be still and know..." Much love, Cindy Flanigan

July 26, 2012

My deepest sympathy from a former football competitor...
Al Conover
(former Rice University Head Coach)

July 26, 2012

Jamey and all of the Carlin family, Ron and I are saddened at the news of your loss. Coach will be dearly missed and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless. Janet and Ron Peduzzi, Hilton Head Island SC

Lou Perella

July 26, 2012

To Meredith and the Carlene Family...my deepest sympathy for your loss...I have such fond memories of my visits to your HHI home many times...Lou Perella..Charleston

Susan Hardwicke

July 25, 2012

Hi Meredith, I just heard about Coach- Like I have said since the day I met you folks- I will always be grateful for you folks in my life- what an awesome teacher of what folks should be like- I feel blessed for knowing Jim-what a wonderful man- Blessings to you and your family - Susan in Austin Texas

Karen Trowell Barron

July 25, 2012

Dear Meredith and family,

I just learned about Jim, and I am very saddened, and stunned.

Coach Jim Carlen has always been a caring person and a WONDERFUL coach to his ball clubs, and others.

I am sending you all my deepest prayers, and condolences.

If there is anything that I can do for you, just let me know.

All my love,

Karen

Leigh Anne Homewood

July 25, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. I heard so many wonderful stories of "Jimmy Carlen" from Mom growing up, and one of my favorite pictures I found of Mom (Frances Webb Fite) after she passed away, was of the both of them in high school. I hope the wonderful memories help to comfort you in this time of sorrow....

larry lightsey

July 25, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of one of the greatest men, leader and coach i have ever known.

James A Carlen IV

July 25, 2012

Jamie and family our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Your Dad was a wonderful man and he loved his children and grandchildren with all his heart. God be with you all.

Melanie Caswell

July 25, 2012

Melanie Our thoughts and prayers our with you and your family during this difficult time. Your Dad was a wonderful man who loved his children and grand children so very much. God be with you.

Mollianne Elliott

July 25, 2012

Mollianne our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was a wonderful man and he loved his children and grandchildren very much. May God be with you all at this difficult time.

Maynard Barker

July 25, 2012

The entire Barker Family sends our heart felt condolences to the Jim Carlen Family. Jim was always a happy person and one of the good guys you meet in life. We will miss his happy face and kindness. The Barkers/Hilton Head Island

Sharon Salem- Wild

July 25, 2012

Mollianne and Family - I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Your dad was a wonderful man and I have thought about you all over the years. May peace be with all of you. Sharon Salem Wild

Barbara McManus

July 24, 2012

Meredith, You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss Jim coming into the eyedoctors office to have his exams. He was so comical and we enjoyed his company. You made his life a dream with all the love that the two of you shared. Take care, my dear friend.

Tania Owen

July 24, 2012

Meredith, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I still think of you all often and miss my Sunday morning hugs from Jim at St. Andrew's. What a blessing to have known him. May God be with you.

July 24, 2012

May God bless you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Harris Family, Hilton Head, SC

Gayle Johnston

July 24, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mark Duvall

July 23, 2012

May Peace be with Jim.

July 23, 2012

Jim Carlen was a great coach and a GREAT Christian. Serving as Jim's minister at St. Andrew By the Sea Church for nine years was an honor and always a joy. Meredith and Holt, I love you both.
Doug Bowling, United Methodist Minister

Frank Van Steenberg

July 23, 2012

To the family of Jim Carlen Peace and God's speed. I was in the Air Force with
Jim in early 1956, again working in Atlanta in 1959 when he was freshman football coach at GA Tech. Most Christian
man I've even known.

July 23, 2012

With deepest sympathy to the Carlen III family during your time of grief...Psalm 46:1...God is for us a refuge and strength, A help that is readily to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.

Cass

July 23, 2012

Mernie and Holt, I am here for you, as always.

Robert Lyons

July 23, 2012

Carlen family thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for your contribution to Carolona football Coach Carlen.

July 23, 2012

wonderful conversations at josephs hair stylists. I felt honored being your barber.
joseph and jackie bevelacqua
wilmington nc

Brittany (2 Corinthians 1:3,4)

July 23, 2012

My heart goes out to the family.

Crystal C

July 23, 2012

To the family of Mr. Carlen, may God's word give you strength and comfort to cope during this difficult time. (Isaiah 12:2) My deepest condolences.

Judith Ellington

July 23, 2012

Had the pleasure of meeting coach seversl times....I worked at USC and my blood runs Garnet.....He came in our office several times to visit with the wife of a college roomate who worked with us....he was a wonderful person and gave this Gamecock fan many happy Saturdays....God Bless all of you in this time of great sorrow.... Judith K Ellington

July 23, 2012

To all the Carlens our heartfelt sympathy goes out. However we believe in the resurrection and the opportunity to see our loved ones in a better setting. So the separation is temporary and the reward is eternal.In Christ. Beverly and Hampton Davis(Naomi's brother)

July 23, 2012

Jim was a good friend to us. He was a good husband,daddy,granddad. He loved people and loved to help people. No words that you write will be enough in his honor. God bless the family for they have lost a good man. We love all of you Nancy & Wayne Foster Hilton Head,SC

P Sharpe ( Isaiah 12:2 )

July 23, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Paula Renaker

July 23, 2012

Dear Carlen Family,
Our prayers are with and for you during this time. Coach was a good friend to our Sunday School class at St. Andrew By-The-Sea. We have missed both he and Meredith sitting on the back row of the balcony the past several years. Jamie and Kim, when we asked Coach how you were doing in Columbia. He always answered with the biggest smile in his eyes. Thank you for sharing your Dad with us. He was a wonderful man.

July 23, 2012

Thanks for your years at Tech

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