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Paul Lowry Obituary

Paul Lowry COLUMBIA - Paul Lowry, a former Charleston firefighter and published author and poet, died yesterday. The son of Mable and Jack Lowry, Paul attended Shorter College in Rome, Georgia where he majored in History. An avid chess player and chess historian, Paul was a member of the Columbia Chess Club. An avid Clemson Tiger fan, Paul was a member of IPTAY in the early days. He is survived by his brother and sister, Jay and Jan and fianc‚ Carla Marks of Lindenwold, New Jersey. Paul was a member of St John Nuemann Catholic Church in Columbia.

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Published by The State from Jun. 18 to Jun. 19, 2012.

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Kim

July 13, 2012

I've known Jay for 30 years and the one person I know Jay looked up to was his brother. This must be very difficult Jay. Your brother was a well loved and respected man.

Linda B

June 23, 2012

I am shocked, and saddened.

CFD

June 19, 2012

RIP to our brother firefighter

Andrew Prizzbalak

June 19, 2012

He will always be to me one of the nicest people to talk to when one was feeling blue. A good man with a great sense of humor.

Bill

June 19, 2012

Paul loved Carla and Jay so much. I'm sure both of you are hurting. Just remember he's watching you both.

David Sellers

June 19, 2012

Great man, great wit.

June 19, 2012

Jay, Jimmy said this was your brother. Were so sorry for your loss. Jim and Dale Ann

Y Seirawan

June 19, 2012

Paul was a true polymath. He's the finest historian of chess I've ever known.

Ann Lowry-Keats

June 19, 2012

Miss you Dad.

Ann Marks

June 19, 2012

he loved God, meeting people, and learning...........he brought a smile to everyone who met him.......will miss him enormously

June 19, 2012

I know it was hard, but I'm very honored to have been entrusted with his care during his final days. Thank you for that trust, Jay! You may know how much it meant to Paul, but you can't know how much it meant to me also, to be able to share Jello and cookies with him in the morning.

Thank you, Jay, for sharing your treasure in Paul with us!!

M. Bazemore

June 18, 2012

Rest In Peace my friend.

Dr. William Arsdale

June 18, 2012

Paul was a superb poet and a tenacious verbal jouster. He was the most intelligent man I knew. He could have done anything.

Richard Koger

June 18, 2012

I will miss you my brother! You were my saving grace for a year or two there Pauly, thanks, and my side kick after the SSS fire at City Council. I am just glad to have had the pleasure of calling you my friend and brother at arms. Rest in peace and I will see you on the other side.

Jay, words can not express my thoughts enought. He will surley be missed by you. You did good by him. He loved you greatly. He is in good hands now and is no longer sick. May God be with you also.

Phil McAlveen

June 18, 2012

My sympathies to you Jay and Jan and to Carla (even though I never had the pleasure). Jay I remember you as a tiny fella and never knew you personally.

Jan I remember riding to school with you and Paul(Mike as he was known in those days).

Paul was always a stand up guy back then and a great football and baseball player. Always was taking up for an underdog geek like me.

I will never forget Mike my best friend . Our families were forever united back in the Old Melton School Community when we were a bunch of country kids attending a small high school called Pendleton High.

Shirley Gaertner-McGee

June 18, 2012

To Jan and Jay, you have my deepest sympathy and prayers. Paul you were certainly one of the most intellegent and respectful southern gentlemen I ever met. Thank you for the memories of our discussions on many subjects. You will be missed and loved. Thank you for accepting me as I am.
Shirley Gaertner-McGee (Freeport IL)

Linda Davis

June 18, 2012

Paul I met you at your mothers house when I came to visit your sister Jan. You and I had coffee many times after that. I remember fondly of the history chats that you had with my husband and I. You gave me smiles when I thought I could have naught. God bless you my old friend.

Remy Saldaukas

June 18, 2012

I did not know you personally Mr. Lowry, but after hearing the stories of your adventures and prowess in the Chess World from your sister Jan, I feel I know you. I pray that God holds you in the palm of your hand for your legacy is great that you have left upon the land. I know you were a blessing to your sister and her family as she spoke with great respect of yours and your younger brothers honor and heart. You will be missed.

Carla Marks

June 18, 2012

You are my love, my joy and my hero- Always.

Susan & Gerald McGowan

June 18, 2012

We were so glad that you and Carla were able to share some special times together. What a kind heart and a real southern gentleman... it was a priviledge to know you and be in your company. Gerry and I loved your stories and I will miss your phone calls as much as I will miss you. Your are at peace and in Gods Good Graces Now...

Jay Lowry

June 18, 2012

My heart is crushed and my laughter has ebbed. No one could have asked for a better brother, mentor or friend. Being with you hourly the last 6 months as you bravely battled was an honor. You showed us all what courage and dignity means and your bravery dwarfs any I've ever seen in my life. I will miss our talks and your counsel. Rest in Peace in the arms of Christ for you were His faithful servant to the end.

Pax Christi

Jay Lowry

Harry Griffin

June 18, 2012

Jay and Jan, you have my deepest sympathies. Paul was a great man.
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Bob & Kathryn Halliday

June 18, 2012

It was an honor to know you sir. We enjoyed traveling to tournaments with you and the club isn't the same without your presence. Rest in peace Paul.

Jan

June 18, 2012

You will be missed and always thought of and kept in my heart. Your wit, charm, grace in life and dignity in the way you chose to die gives me courage and hope in life forthcoming. Thank you for teaching me in the subtle ways you did.

'here's your ten spot old man"

J

June 18, 2012

You were and are an inspiration to me Big Bubba...I thank you for helping me to be the man who I am today. I miss you terribly

Ken

June 18, 2012

RIP to s good man.

C. Gaertner

June 17, 2012

All I can say is Uncle Bubba, Check and mate!!! We Love you!

Dr. James McDonald

June 17, 2012

One of the most intelligent men I've ever met.

Michael Meekins

June 17, 2012

Paul was a fine chess player, but more than anything he was a fine man. He showed love and respect at every turn. He cherished life, and loved books. Jay and Carla were the center of his life. Rest in peace Paul.

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