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for Carl Barlow
Richard Caldwell
November 15, 2020
I had the privilege to study with him at Humboldt 1967-70. I was in his choir and studied voice under him.
Stephen Peithman
July 9, 2010
Kit--
I hadn't heard about your father's passing, but the strangest thing happened a few days ago. I was in Arcata (visiting my own father), in a used book store, and while looking through the books on music, I spied an old copy of "The English Hymn Book." Out of curiosity, I opened it, and there was an inscription on the inside front cover: "Please return to Leland Barlow."
Instantly, memories of your dad came flooding in--and your mother, and you, and your family home on Plaza Ave. It was a very special time in my life, and your dad and mother continued to play a central role into my college years, with music classes from your dad, and French classes from your mother.
Somehow, I think finding that book was not entirely accidental. I got home yesterday, and today something told me to look up your father on Google. And that's how I found out the news.
I think what was remarkable about Lee was that he loved music so much, and helped people like me love it as much as he did.
July 1, 2010
Dear Barlow family,
There are years of wonderful memories which would fill volumes and we will always treasure. Rehearsals in local theatres and living rooms, groups singing around the piano in your parent's home and the barber shop quartet! Among all of these special memories are Kay's smiles, Lee's enjoyment in being the host, and Merle's toe-tapping piano playing.
Our family has been greatly influenced by Lee's enthusiasm, expertise and love of music. With his generosity, he has influenced four generations of music lovers and aspiring singers in our family. Thank you for sharing your family with ours and may God bless yours.
Pete & Shirley Haynes
Vicki & George Cabalzar & Families
Tim Haynes & Families
Lynn McKenna
June 29, 2010
KIt, Rob and Family,
I was sorry to read about your loss. Dr. Barlow was a great asset to our musical community. He will be sorely missed by all who knew and performed with him. May all your fond memories keep him close to your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Connie Wolfe, RN
June 25, 2010
When I moved to this area, to go to Humboldt State in 1968, I decided to take a choir class and was blessed to have Dr. Barlow as our choirmaster. I repeated the class in the Fall of 1969, & was in charge of robes, and maybe the books we used. It was a long time ago, but I have a fond memory of Dr. Barlow.
It was always a joy to see him in the community over the years, and he always remembered my name! My son was a music student at HSU in the 1990's, and attending musical performances, there was a good chance to see Dr. Barlow most of the time.
He was a very memorable gentleman, and truly loved music and the people around him. I have been very happy to have known him.
God bless you and your families.
Douglas Moorehead
June 23, 2010
I did not know Lee nor did I have a chance to work with him until the later years in his life, but I just want to say that I admired him for his numerous contributions to the North Coast music community throughout the years. He blessed us all with his music knowledge and performances, and he has helped establish a strong presence of great music appreciation and performance in this area. All of us who are involved in classical music owe him gratitude for all his fine work. Thank you, Lee!
Douglas Moorehead, DMA
Director of Music
Christ Church, Eureka
Laura Middlemiss
June 21, 2010
Dear Kit and family,
Please accept my condolences on the passing of your father. I have many memories of hanging around the music department as a child, in my dad's office, running through the hallways- your dad always had a kind word, a gentle smile and tolerance for another faculty kid. As a music student, it was a privilege to have worked with him. It is hard to see them go, after such full and generous lives.
A passing of an era.
Warm regards,
Laura [Wagner] Middlemiss
Lora Canzoneri
June 21, 2010
With Dr. Barlow's passing comes the end of a great era. Several generations of this community, that did not know Dr. Barlow personally, definitely knew that his great reputation preceded him when it came to the thousands of students that he influenced through his great career at HSU. Although I was never his student, I was thrilled to get to know him when I worked on Humboldt Light Opera Company's production of "Pirates of Penzance" in the 1970's. My deepest sympathy to his loved ones at this sad time.
W/R Mccarthy
June 21, 2010
Kit and Rob,
Royal and I just returned from WA and read about Lee. We are so sorry for your loss even though it ended his suffering. There are just so many memories of Lee we could share. Our fondest is when we traveled with the Redwood Chorale with he and Merle to Scotland and England on their honeymoon. We arrived earlier at the hotel than they and we bribed the bellhop with a glass of scotch to let us in their suite to short sheet their bed.
Personally, I would never have seen the places that we sang in Europe, nor would I have developed the confidence in my vocal ability had it not been for your dad.
Lee was the sweetest man we have ever known and we have really missed his presents in our lives for many years. Heaven will be a happier place now that he will be directing choirs.
Lovingly, Willie and Royal McCarthy
June 20, 2010
Kit Please know that we are thinking of you and your family Bill&Shirley Pinches
Halimah Collingwood
June 19, 2010
Kit and family, I first met Lee at the Humboldt Chorale, later traveled with him to Europe with the California Redwoods Chorale in 1988 and 1990. He was a welcomed task-master. At his suggestion, after singing alto all my life, I became a soprano and still am. So many memories with dear Lee. Blessings on your soul, dear friend. God be with you!
Vee Sorenson
June 19, 2010
After witnessing the gentleness of Dr. Barlow for several years, I wrote a note to him following the death of his first wife. In the note I let him know how I admired him. I told him I felt there would be a special place in heaven for such men as he. I was privileged to sit under his conducting and sing and travel to Europe with the California Redwoods Chorale on several occasions. A true loss, but I can picture him in a special place in heaven with his beautiful smile.
Frank Jones
June 19, 2010
God Speed Dr. Barlow, I have fond memories of being in the men's choral group at HSC in 1947 led by you. I still hum the many songs we sang thanks to you. You left a real mark on Humboldt County. Thank you.
June 19, 2010
Kit, please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your father. You and your family are in my prayers at this time of sorrow.
Erin Lincoln
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