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Doris Thorpe Obituary

was born in 1937 in Lynn Massachusetts and grew up in Dorchester, just outside of Boston. She spent much of her childhood in New York City. Later in life, she brought her children to New York City often. She was very independent as a young adult and ventured out on her own at a young age, developing a career in the medical field. She moved back to Lynn, where she married and raised three children; Russell, Wendy and Tracie. She loved the piano and music was her passion. She was the president of the band boosters for Lynn English High School, where all her children attended, and where her youngest daughter Tracie was involved in music and in the high school band. She loved the Boston Pops and went to see them as often as her busy live would permit. She was involved as a Girl Scout leader and in the local church. She worked fulltime as an office manager in the medical field. She was a career woman dedicated to her children. Doris was the "mom" to everyone she met that needed a mom, to the friends of her children, to many people she encountered; young and old. She was like that when she was younger and every day until she passed. There was never a dull moment or quiet time in her home, there were always many people coming and going. Her generous and open heart attracted everyone. Her sense of humor was so amazing and brought joy to everyone. Doris always loved to travel and did so extensively in her life. Starting out with adventurous camping trips with her children, often in Montreal, Quebec, Nova Scotia, New Hampshire and Maine. The big adventure came in 1986, when she moved to San Diego by way of cross country camping with her daughter Wendy. What a blast she had. After many beautiful and happy years in San Diego, the travel bug hit again and she traveled with her daughter Wendy north to Bakersfield, where, although it was way too hot for her liking, she met many dear friends and became very active in the senior citizen community there and loved the time she spent there, involved in many groups, like sewing, quilting and bridge clubs. It was there she developed her passion for roses which became a big part of her life, she was a true gardener. She would spend all day tending to her roses. Her life was devastated, when in 2006, her son Russell passed away in Bakersfield after battling chronic illness. Again, it was time to move on; a new adventure was on the horizon again. This time, again with Wendy, she traveled north to Eureka. This time it was different, when Doris came to Eureka, she felt like she was home at last. Everything about Eureka she loved. She thought the weather was the greatest. She lived in the home of her dreams and created a spectacular garden here which she spent most of her time on. Although she was beginning to have health problems while in Eureka, her travel dream became a reality when she went with her two daughters to France for a few weeks and went everywhere from Paris to Normandy to the south of France to Nice and Monaco. This was her most treasured adventure. Just to keep things a little lively, the "three girls" (that would be Mom, Tracie & Wendy) ventured off to Miami for Christmas and went on a Caribbean cruise to Central America (Belize, Roatan, Grand Cayman and Cozumel). Again, too hot for her liking, but certainly high on the adventure scale. Doris was fun, full of laughter, full of love for everyone and dedicated her life to her children. There was nothing in her life she did that wasn't done for the benefit of her children. And then there were the dogs in her life. She loved dogs and they loved her. She had six when she left us and they will miss her dearly, especially "Nurse William" who sat vigil on her bed for the last five weeks of her life. She experienced many health issues in Eureka and always would say that if she hadn't come to Eureka, she wouldn't be alive. She experienced the greatest doctors here, so wonderful, compassionate and well, just smart as anything. She felt truly blessed to be here and to have the amazing opportunity to have these providers. Her family would like to express their deepest gratitude to Michael Palmer, MD, who saved her life more than once. Doris thought the world of him and knew she was alive because of him, she looked forward to every appointment she had with him; and Rhonda in his office, who always helped us out on many occasions. To Dr. Beth Abels, who cared for her so well and compassionately for the five years she lived in Eureka. Doris felt cared for and safe in her hands. And Karen in her office, who we always called whenever anything was up, she got it done fixed or processed, Doris called her an angel. Doris also had two other doctors who relieved much of the pain she experienced in the last five years, Dr. Kilgore, who replaced her hip and took away the pain she had experienced for 12 years, and our most heartfelt gratitude to Dr. Varv, in the pain clinic, who made her last four weeks pain free. She was a "frequent flyer" at St Joseph Hospital, where the nurses there cared for her as if she was their mother. They are nothing short of amazing. We are proud to know them. The very sad diagnosis of cancer came just five weeks before Doris passed away on Tuesday, October 29, 2010 in the ICU at St Joseph Hospital. She was surrounded by loved ones, her daughters (Wendy and Tracie), Phil Beaudry (who was like a son to her), the sisters (Marie and Joann), the chaplain (David), the nurses in the ICU and Dr. Fratkin; who guided both her and her daughters through this most painful and personal process. Doris was preceded in death by her son Russell Thorpe. Doris leaves her daughters Wendy and Tracie Thorpe of Eureka and Susan Houghton of Alton Bay, New Hampshire and a grandson, Gary Thorpe of Hampden, Mass. She also leaves cherished friends Phil Beaudry, Charlie Lay, Mary Sanford, Yanggui Song, Keith Sperry, Debbie Harwood, Raeleen Olsen; all of who brought great richness to her life, especially in the last several weeks. We will always cherish the memories she had with you. And most of all, she has immeasurably shaped and changed the lives of Wendy and Tracie who can only strive to live in such a way to honor the greatest mother and best friend in the world. Services will be held on Saturday, November 6th at 1:00 pm at Pierce Mortuary at 707 H Street in Eureka (442-3751). Doris's wish in lieu of flowers is to please donate to the St Joseph Hospital Foundation for the new hospital tower in her honor and memory. She did so herself many times. Mail To: St Joseph Hospital Foundation 2700 Dolbeer Street Eureka, CA 95501 Check Info: Payable to: St Joseph Hospital Foundation Memo area: In Memory of Doris Thorpe Care is under the direction of Pierce Mortuary Chapel, Eureka, CA 707-442-3751, www.piercemortuarychapels.com. Please sign the guest book at www.Times-Standard.com, click obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Oct. 31 to Nov. 5, 2010.

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Sponsored by Wendy & Tracie Thorpe, best friends and daughters.

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Mary Sanford

November 8, 2010

Well Ma.. I signed this book once b-4.. & I can't recall what I said. (Brain Burp !)..

Your Girls... amazing women they are.. butcha knew that... ya done good, girl...

I'll Cya on the 'other side' hunnie... til then..

With Love.. fly free..

Larry Stofko

November 5, 2010

What a wonder tribute to Doris. While I had not met her, I feel like I do now! Thank you for being so personal in sharing these important memories.

At the airport on the way to Paris

Wendy Thorpe

November 4, 2010

Dear Mum,

It's been 8 days without you, sometimes I can't breath. There are many well wishers and that helps to know that so many people loved you. Jo is even coming all the way from N Carolina to help us and give the eulogy at your service. I miss you so much and need your strength to get through this. Tracie is a miracle, you would be so proud of her and surprised at me, no strength whatsoever (me), she is the rock. She does everything. I would be nowhere without her. It was sad yesterday as we escorted you for your final trip but it was something I thought you would appreciate and it made me feel good.

All my love is for you, we'll be in France together again next year.

Wen

Doris and Tracie in Paris, April 2009

Tracie Thorpe

November 4, 2010

To The Mum;
We miss you so much every day. Every minute of every day is so hard without you. I felt you yesterday, on my birthday. It was a tough day for us, but we got thru it, together.

As you know, we went to your favorite restaurant, the waiter seated us at your table (without knowing) and I sat in your chair. Perhaps you had a hand in that?

I know you don't want us to be too sad, or hurt too much. Wendy and I (and all the dogs) escorted you on your final trip thru Eureka. I know you loved Eureka so much. Fly with the angels now.

Everyone is sending messages and cards, phone calls, and that helps us get thru the hard moments.

I love you so much, Tracie

With all of my heart. xoxo

November 4, 2010

Tracie and Wendy, I am so sorry for your loss ! I was blessed to have met her the couple times I went to California with Russell. She open her house and heart so that we had a place to stay ! It was a sad night after I heard the news about Doris(Mom)May her and Russell find each other and be together once again ! Love always Corey

John Fontaine Sr.

November 4, 2010

Tracie and Wendy deepest sympathy for the loss of your Mom. I know I'm 3000 miles away, but if there is anything I can do I'm only a phone call away. Mrs. Thorpe I will never forget your kindness the Two times I was able to meet you, you let me stay at your houses and treated me like I was family! I hope you find piece in your new life as I'm sure you will.

Victoria Foersterling

November 3, 2010

Wendy and Tracie,
You were blessed to have a wonderful mother who brought joy to everyone she met. She made such an impression on me with her sense of humor and positive words! The world is a better place from her presence. I will forever remember Doris, her wisdom and wit! I am honored to have had her in my life.

Bruce Montgomery

November 3, 2010

Hold tight to memories for comfort. Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about. As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
When we lose someone we love, it seems that time stands still.
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why she left this earth so soon, or why she left before you were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that she died, but that she lived. And that her life gave you memories too beautiful to forget.
At times like these it is difficult to see all the love that surrounds you. I am here to let you know that I love you and will be here when you want to see me.
So many accomplishments, so very many successes, a wealth of hopes and dreams fulfilled, days and days and days well-lived and now a legacy to celebrate. May sweet memories of the gem that was your mother, encourage you at this time. I have no idea what you must be going through in losing what I think is the strongest pillar of strength in your life. I know your mother was that to you too, and with this loss come so many layers of heartache. Please know my heart is open to giving you anything you might need during this time of incredible loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. If there comes a moment that you can not come out of your house of darkness, I hope I can be the person you will depend on to come pull the shades up and let the light in. I am here for you. Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.

Sylvia Milota

November 3, 2010

Wendy and Tracie, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Doris was a kick and her memory will always bring a smile to those who knew her. A very big hearted woman. I truley understand your loss and my deepest sympathy goes out to you both.

November 3, 2010

Wendy,
I've been praying for you and your sister at this very difficult time. I always enjoyed seeing your mother; she was a very nice person, who spoke her mind. She reminded me of my grandmother how she had so much spunk!
God bless.
Love,
Serrina

November 2, 2010

Wendy and Tracie,
How lucky you both are to have had such a warm and fun-loving mother. She raised strong, beautiful children-undoubtedly her greatest legacy. I know you will cherish her memory as many others will.
Love you,
Courtney

Deby Ryan

November 2, 2010

Dear Wendy and Tracie, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't find the words to express my saddness about not trying harder to stay in touch and missing out of seeing Doris's wonderful smile.
Love you all!

Ruth Warren

November 2, 2010

Doris- The amount of time I knew you was small. The amount of love I have for you is SO much. Phil shared so many stories about you that made me laugh and smile, and you were such an exciting bonus to visiting Phillip. I miss you, too; you certainly are a firecracker.

November 2, 2010

Tracie and Wendy, I am truly sorry for the loss of your mother. She was a woman of grace and dignity. I am proud to have known her and will always be thankful for how welcome and appreciated she made Phillip feel in her home. Love, Menna

Anne-Marie Segal

November 1, 2010

Dear Wendy & Tracie,
There are no words to adequately express how saddened I am for your loss. Doris was an amazing mother to both of you and her wonderfully crazy son Russell. She was also a treasured second mother to me for several years. I'll always be grateful for her generosity.
Love Anne-Marie Segal, Marblehead MA

Phillip Beaudry

November 1, 2010

My Dear Doris,
We miss you very much. I am sad that you missed seeing my house. We could've really used your spunk in there while cleaning it out and the like. I'm so glad you have been in my life the last year and some... Such a short time yet you've managed to leave a massive mark. Sad as I am that I do not get to hang out with you any more, I am am so glad you're with Russ and watching over your daughters. I'll keep you posted on them, the house, and this whole Ruth situation via prayers. Keep an eye on us... we need it.

Love,
Phil

November 1, 2010

Dear Tracie and Wendy,
Joel and I were saddened to hear of your mother's passing. The obituary for Doris was beautiful. She was a valued employee and a special person. We know how devoted you were to one another. May you be able to heal from your loss and remember all the wonderful times you had together.
Sincerely, Faye and Joel Snyder

November 1, 2010

Tracie and Wendy, You know how much I cared for Doris. She will be truly missed. I am thinking of both of you. Love, Ina

November 1, 2010

Tracie and Wendy - Our deepest condolences from the entire Segal family in Massachusetts. Doris was a very special lady whose memory we will always hold dear. Bob Segal - Marblehead, Ma.

Claude Chevey

November 1, 2010

Dear Doris, Thank you for all your LOVE and FUN with Tracie you both inspire me ... Doris, your spirit is now part of me and I am so privilege to had share a bit of time with you on this planet may we meet again ...
I hope.

November 1, 2010

Tracie and Wendy,
Our deepest sympathy in this very difficult time.May you both remember all the wonderful loving memories with your mom. I wish I could be with you, but I am with you in prayers.
Love, Cheryl Mario and Family

November 1, 2010

Tracie,
my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.The loss of a parent is very tough, remember the happy times and cherish all the good memories.
Dianne Dwelley-Gonthier

Bruce Montgomery

October 31, 2010

Tracie and Wendy, my heart is broken for you. I hope to be with you both soon. Love and sympathy, Cousin Bruce

Wendy Thorpe

October 31, 2010

We have had a candle lit since you passed, we are keeping it lit until after your service, maybe forever.

Wendy Thorpe

October 31, 2010

To the Most Beautiful Mother and Best Friend in the World,

I love you, I miss you, and I thank you for the joy and happiness you brought to my life every single day. I know you are in a beautiful place with your mom and Russell. We are grief stricken but will do everything we can to live our lives the way you would want and to make you proud. Be with us, I need you. The pups miss you too.

Love always and forever, Wendy

Tracie Thorpe

October 31, 2010

My dearest mother, Ma, Mum;
I will miss you with all of my heart. You taught me so much in my life.
I would not be where I am today, without you.
I will think of you every day, with love. I am so glad I got to spend
the last 5 weeks with you, and I will cherish that memory, forever.

We had so much fun, you would do anything for us. We had such a great time on our trips!

You are now with Russell, and there is no more pain. That does comfort me,
to know you are flying free of your pain.

I will remember your sense of humor, your laughter. Wendy and I will take
care of each other, like you would want.

I hope I can take care of your garden as nice as you would like it! I will take pictures so I remember how beautiful it is. I'm not sure I can do it! I'll have to learn how to take care of your roses.

Someday, we will all be together, to you, it will be in a blink of an eye.

All of my love, xoxo,
Tra

Charlie Lay

October 31, 2010

Wendy and Tracie

I can't find the words to express my personal sorrow at the passing of Doris. She held a very special place in my heart.

I have always found the following passage to be profound when dealng with the loss of those that I have cared for in my life. I hope it gives you some comfort also.

Death is nothing at all. I have slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed, at the little joke we enjoyed together. Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect, without trace of shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant, it tis the same as it ever was, there is an unbroken continuity. What is death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.


ALL IS WELL.

- Canon Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918)

My heartfelt sympathies.

Charlie

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