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Ruth Mountaingrove Obituary

RUTH MOUNTAINGROVE Ruth Mountaingrove, lesbian-feminist poet, photographer, composer, publisher, musician, playwright, painter, and women's land pioneer, died peacefully on December 18, 2016 at age 93 at Ida Emmerson Hospice House in Eureka, CA. Ruth was born Ruth Shook on February 21, 1923 in Philadelphia Pennsylvania, daughter of Edith Shelling and Herbert Shook. She attended Kutztown State Teachers College. In 1946 she published her first book of poetry, "Rhythms of Spring" and married Bern Ikeler. They had five children. After her 1965 divorce, she became involved in the early feminist movement, and met her future partner, Jean Mountaingrove. In 1971 she and two of her children joined Jean at Mountaingrove, an intentional community in rural southern Oregon. Ruth and Jean became central figures in the Southern Oregon women's land movement, publishing "Womanspirit "Magazine, founding and co-editing "Blatant Image" and organizing "Ovulars". Ruth's photographs of this era are archived in the Ruth Mountaingrove Collection, University of Oregon Special Archives. In 1986 Ruth moved to Arcata, California. She continued her photography and poetry as well as participating in many community activities: Through the Eyes of Women on KHSU, the Ink People, Senior News, volunteering at the library, teaching technology to seniors, and serving on the Grand Jury. She earned two masters degrees at Humboldt State, in Art and Photography and in Theater Production and Dramatic Writing, the latter at age 80. She wrote book reviews for the L-Word for 20 years, and continued to participate in her poetry writing group and have creative living room conversations with good friends. Ruth was predeceased by her son David, and survived by her son Jeffrey Eves Ikeler, daughter Heather Eves Ikeler, and Kim Eves (Donna) Ikeler; grandchildren Jeffrey Daniel Ikeler (Tanya) and Hannah Ikeler, and great-granddaughter Evelyn Grace Ikeler. During recent illnesses, a circle of committed friends and caregivers helped her stay in her home as long as she could. Ruth especially counted on Sue Hilton, whom she affectionately called her "manager". The PACE program provided invaluable support, and dealt cheerfully with the complexities of working with our group. Ruth was creative, funny, inspirational, courageous, encouraging, independent, outspoken, and determined. A Celebration of Ruth's Life will be held Sunday Feb. 12th at 3PM at Humboldt Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. If you would like to donate on Ruth's behalf, please contribute to an organization of your choice supporting women or the arts. For further information please contact: [email protected]. (photo P.Gar) Please sign the guestbook at www.times-standard.com

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Published by Times-Standard on Jan. 3, 2017.

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Sara McAulay

January 8, 2017

I met Ruth in person only 3 or 4 times, but we were email friends with many interests in common for more than 25 years. I always admired and valued her, but after reading her obituary I realize I didn't know half of what she accomplished. She was one of a kind. I will make a donation to the San Francisco Women's Building in her memory.

Joanne Thompson

January 8, 2017

Four of us got to visit Ruth one day in her apartment in her later years. She played her guitar and sang for us and it was a thrill I shall always cherish. Rest in Peace, my friend.

Vince Gotera

January 7, 2017

To Ruth's family ... I knew Ruth when I taught poetry at HSU. I liked her very much. Such a great poet and writer and activist. The world is less bright for her absence. But also brighter for her long presence with us. I'm privileged and honored to have known Ruth.

Jo Ann Rossen

January 6, 2017

Terri Akers

January 4, 2017

A true front runner for women's rights. History will remember you. May peace be with you sister.

Lora Canzoneri

January 4, 2017

My late father, Alex Frediani, served on the Grand Jury with Ruth. He truly admired and respected her.

sharon fennell

January 3, 2017

My condolences to all who knew and loved Ruth.
Ruth was so talented and caring. She walked the walk and talked the talk.
Ruth Mountaingrove will be missed.

Karrie Wallace

January 3, 2017

Miss you Ruthy Your light will continue to shine in the hearts and minds of all of us who knew you. Love, Karrie

Karrie Wallace

January 3, 2017

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