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Deborah Barkley Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Yolande Long
December 21, 2021
I sure do miss you, sweet friend.
Denise & Robert McDonald & Heckathorne
January 5, 2010
Dear Barkley Family, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. Although we have not seen y'all in a long time, I have very fond memories of our times at Meadowbrook Country Club, and Christmas gatherings at your house with all the kids-- and all the Christmas Trees!! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. Love, Denise McDonald, Robert Heckathorne and Family.
Ray Whaley
January 4, 2010
Bob and sons,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Debbie's passing. I have never worked for a better family. I am truely sorry for your loss.
January 3, 2010
January 3,2010
To the Barkley Family:
I met Debbie many years ago when I worked at La vogue, then at Hecht's and at Sofa Creations. Did not know her very well, but well enough to know she was a very special person.
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Maria Denecker
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Mary Ellen (Vores) Mayer
January 2, 2010
Dear Family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Debbie from oh so long ago. My dad and her dad, Bill, worked together for so many years at Moore. She was always so much fun and full of laughter, just as I am sure she is now in heaven. My prayers are with your family.
Anne and Dema Littlepage
December 31, 2009
I recently discovered Debbie's death in the paper and was saddened to hear the news. She was always a very sweet and friendly person. I'm really sad that she was taken from you so quickly. May God comfort you in your time of grief.
Colleen & Alan Milby
December 31, 2009
Bobby, Josh and Matt, We were privledged to have known Debbie through Steve and Elaine. Her energy and smile were contagious. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob & Janice Taylor
December 30, 2009
The Barkley Family
We are so sorry to hear about Debbie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. I have known Debbie since the 7th grade, but lost touch after high school. She stopped by my house one night about five years ago with some other friends just to say Hi. I hadn't seen her in probably 25 years, but she looked the same. Remember the good times and cherish them
Kelly Travers
December 30, 2009
Dear Bob, Matt and Josh -
I was so sad to hear of Debbie's passing today. She truly was such a wonderful woman and I am glad I got to know her. Please accept the sympathies of all the Maloney's from NJ.
With Love,
Kelly Maloney Travers
Don Ford
December 30, 2009
Bob,Josh & Matt, I am truly sorry for your loss.Please remember Debbie for the loving wife and mother that she was. Remember all of the good times.I am sorry that I could not attemd the service because I was in Pennsylvania visiting my mother who is trying to recover from a bad stroke. May the lord look over all of you.
MR. AND MRS KELVIN mitchell
December 30, 2009
TO MR.BARKLEY AND FAMILY,
WE ARE VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, OUR HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE HAVE NEVER MET A NICER PERSON AND WE ARE VERY GLAD YOU ALL HAVE COME INTO OUR LIVES. WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER KIND WORDS AND HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE.
Lee Crenshaw
December 30, 2009
To Bob, Matt and Josh,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.
Theresa Nolan
December 30, 2009
Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim Lake
December 30, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kim Vores
December 30, 2009
To the Barkley Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Debbie and Brent used to baby sit me and my sister. Our families were very close when we were younger...my Dad and Debbie's Dad worked at Jones Motor together. Over the years we've lost touch. She was always a wonderful person. You will be in my prayers...this is not a good bye to Debbie, for all of us will see her again some day.
Tracey French
December 29, 2009
Dearest Family,
Debbie was a blessing to me in so many ways. She once said to me,"I accept God's will for me, whatever happens will be my testimony to God" The generosity of her spirit will always inspire me to do my best to live a loving ,caring, Godly life. I treasure my memories of her and cherish the gifts she gave to me throughout my years of being her hairstylist and friend.
My deepest sympathy to you all. I pray for comfort and peace to all who mourn her loss.
Brenda Childress
December 29, 2009
To the Barkley Family
I knew Debbie in high school and we were good friends. I remember going to her house and her coming to my house and hangin out. She was such a fun person and always had laughter and love in her heart. We lost touch over the years but occasionally would run into each other and it was like high school all over again. I am saddend to hear of your loss and know that she will truly be missed by all. I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss and please know that my thoughts are prayers are with the family at this time
Chris and Becky
December 29, 2009
To the Barkley Family,
Please know that you all are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you much love and comfort during this difficult time. Debbie was an amazing person and we are blessed to have had her in our lives.
December 29, 2009
Dear Bob, Josh and Matt,
Our hearts go out to each of you at this time and in the days ahead.
With our deepest sympathy,
Trudy and Allen
Kristian Mayr
December 29, 2009
My deepest sympathies to your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Luke Finn
December 29, 2009
Dear Bob, Josh and Matt,
We are heartbroken, but consoled by the knowledge that Debbie is "safe in the arms of Jesus".
We will miss a vibrant, funny, kind and wonderful friend and travelling companion.
"She shall not grow old as we that are left grow old.
Age shall not weary nor the years condemn.
In the going down of the sun and in the morning we shall remember her."
Margaret and Luke Finn
Rich Johnson
December 29, 2009
Bob,
I just got word of your loss. As you know, all of your many friends have had Debby in our collective thoughts and prayers thoughout this ordeal. You and the boys have our deepest sympathy.
AEKDB Joyce and Rich Johnson
December 29, 2009
Dear Bobby,Josh and Matt,
I hope you all know how much Deb meant to us.She always had a smile on her face and love in her heart.Each one of you were the light of her life. Debbie was a true angel on earth and now she is our guardian angel sitting at the hand of God.Deb will always be in our hearts and in our memories. The faith and strength she showed during her illness is and always will be a guide for us
May God Bless You All,
Fred and Vicki
December 29, 2009
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We so enjoyed seeing you and being with you at the Spider games. Matt is very dear to our family and we share in your sorrow.
Tom and Marti Collier
Carroll Scott
December 29, 2009
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Harry Hall
December 29, 2009
Bob, I am so sorry. Deborah was one of the nicest people I have ever known. She always greeted Holly & me with a great smile.
Diann Mitchell
December 28, 2009
Isaiah 57:1
The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death.
Dear Bob,
I only knew you and Debbie from Tuesday morning Bible study and never had the chance to talk to either of you. I could see your love and protection for Debbie each week, she knows you are protecting your sons in that same way. Debbie is with the "Great Protector" now, well and resting in His peace. I pray that you have that assurance.
John 14:1
Let not your heart be troubled. Trust in God.
You are in my heart and in my prayers.
God bless,
Diann
December 28, 2009
Barkley Family,
Our deapest sympathy to you all. We lift you up in our prayers. Knowing that Deborah is with our Lord is a awesome thing! May our lord now help each of you to heal in your own way.
Jack & Kathy Bell
Virginia Beach, Va
Avis G.
December 28, 2009
Christmas in Heaven
Angels welcoming her home
Celebrating the day our Savior was born.
Debbie radiated positivity. Her smile, laughter, kindness, and pure love made each of us better. She will be greatly missed. Bobby, Josh, Matt, and all who loved her so much, you are in my thoughts, prayers, and heart.
Chris Daniel Barden
December 28, 2009
Dear Bob, Josh, and Matt:
I was so sad to hear that you had lost your darling Debbie. We were friends in high school, but I am sorry to say, lost touch once I moved away. I remember her as happy, energetic, loving, and kind, and I can tell by the other testimonies to her that she retained these traits throughout her life and was well loved by all whose lives she touched. God bless you and keep you. God wrap His loving arms around you. With deepest sympathy,
Susan Wagener Higgins
December 28, 2009
Dear Barkley Family,
When our Father calls our loved ones home, they have to leave us. We are left with a broken heart. Yet a broken heart is a larger heart.
Thoughts of heaven and spending eternity together as a family will help a bit. God will heal your heart but it takes time. When Debbie went to heaven, God's heart was the first to break for you. His eyes are on the sparrow, so you know He is watching you.
Don't let anyone tell you that Debbie has died. She is more alive than ever! You will see her again.
Mary "Mac" Council
December 28, 2009
Bobby - It is hard to know what to say. I was just stunned to read that Debbie was not with us. Going back to the good ole Kappa Sigma days at U of R, you giving Debbie your pin, song fest, pig roasts at the frat house - what fun we all had. Please hold on to those wonderful memories.
May God Take Care and Keep You. Mary McIlhatten Council
December 28, 2009
Dear Barkley Family,
I only knew Debbie for short period of time. She was courageous and a great witness for the Lord. I loved her spirited personality. I am so sorry for our loss of a truly wonderful person.
God Bless you
Connie Madison
Kathy Jarvis
December 28, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 28, 2009
Dear Barkley Family:
Debbie was such a vivacious, giving, loving and overall a dear person. Her sense of humor, kindness, friendship, and gentle soul will be greatly missed. We pray all of your fond memories will guide and serve you all with comfort during this difficult time. Take comfort that Debbie is a very special Angel now, forever watching over you all.
With kindest sympathies--our thoughts and prayers are with you all-
Nick & Leslie Hardesty
g windsor
December 28, 2009
..death leaves a heartache that no one can heal. love leaves a memory that no one can steal..
sending you light and love.
Jackie Thornton
December 28, 2009
Dear Bob, Matt and Josh, My heart is breaking to read this obituary. I loved Debbie so much as a neighbor and friend when we lived beside your beautiful home in Meadowbrook. Reuben and I still laugh at some of the stories I collected while being there with you guys. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Jackie and Reuben Thornton
Bob & Kaye Davis
December 28, 2009
Dear Bob, Matt & Josh
My words are not sufficent to express my great sorrow for you.Debbie was such a wonderful witness for our Lord. I know that you will have fond memories that will last a lifetime. Please know that Kaye and I are praying for you as you go through these tough times. I remember Debbie more concerned about me after the operation last year then herself.Please know that we are here willing to do what ever we can to help you.
Bob & Kaye Davis
The Autocar Truck Family
December 28, 2009
Dear Bob and family,
We wish to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. We hope that our caring will lessen the sorrow that you bear. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you.
December 28, 2009
IT'S HARD TO SAY THE WORDS THAT WILL HELP YOU HEAL FROM YOUR LOSS. WHEN YOU LOSE A LOVED ONE YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THE MEMORIES. THESE ARE WHAT YOU WILL CARRY ON WITH. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. JANICE & CHUCK WILLIAMS
December 28, 2009
Bob, Matt & Josh
Our family has been blessed to call Debbie our friend. Her smile, laughter, generosity and, most of all, her energy has been an inspiration to Elaine & I, as well as the children. We extend our love and support to each one of you as you cherish her memory.
Steve & Elaine
JIMMY MATHEWS
December 28, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
JIMMY MATHEWS
December 28, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Debi Tanner
December 27, 2009
Dear Bobby, Matt & Josh
There are no words of comfort to be said. This time of year will be bittersweet when you remember how angels chose this time to guide Debbie on the Eve of our Lord's birthday to welcome her home.
My prayer will be that God will carry you through.
2Sam.22:29 Lord, You are my lamp; the Lord illuminates my darkness
I will remember Debbie always with her kindness and encouraging words. She fought a brave and courageous battle and will surely be missed.
With Love and Prayers,
Debi & Rick Tanner
December 27, 2009
Debbie was one of those rare individuals who made everyone feel special. Our entire family is so very saddened to hear of your loss and will keep your family in our prayers. Henry, Debbie, William and Ryan Boze
December 27, 2009
To Bobby, Josh and Matt, We feel so blessed to have known such a wonderful person and to have her touch our lives. We love you, Faye, Shelley, Kristin, Michael, and Matt
Finney Adams
December 27, 2009
To the Barkley Family:
We are so sorry to learn of Debbie's death. She will sorely be missed by many. She fought a positive and courageous battle with her illness. I just recently lost my sister with pancreatic cancer in June, so I am aware of your tremendous loss at this very, very difficult time. Debbie was a great friend, neighbor and most of all a great person all around. Take care and please accept our deepest sympathy, Finney and Debbie
Bruce & Linda Pickeral
December 27, 2009
Bobby, Josh, & Matt
Sorry to hear about Debbie. We will always remember her beautiful smile and her loving spirit of life. May your memories bring you comfort in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
December 27, 2009
Prayers and thoughts are with Debbie's family and friends. Debbie is always going to watch over you all!
Bessings,
Carol Noland Movius
Frank, Jane, Darren Six
December 27, 2009
To the Barkley Family,
We are so sorry for this tremendous loss in your life. May your wonderful memories of Debbie bring you continual comfort and peace. We just wanted you to know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
David Williams
December 27, 2009
Dear Barkley Family,
We are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
David & Cyndie Williams
Susan Finney
December 27, 2009
Dear Bobby, Josh and Matt,
I knew Debbie from high school. Although I have not seen or talked to Debbie in many years that would not have mattered to her. I remember her as being always kind, cheerful and giving from her heart. The coming days will be filled with sadness, laughter, crying and pain but just know she is in the comfort of the Lord and is whole and cleansed. The Lord has called home a very special Angel.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Susan Adleman Finney
Kate O'Dwyer Randall
December 27, 2009
Dearest Barkley family,
I was so sorry to learn this news yesterday. Debbie was an amazingly bright human spirit. Even in the fight for her life, she remained positive and hopeful- trusting in God and loving all those who loved her. Her friendship meant so very much to me- and her "way of being" taught me about living grace. I pray that you all may experience a "peace that surpasses all understanding" through the days ahead.I will not forget her. She was a rare and beautiful gift.
With peace,
Kate O'Dwyer Randall ( University of Richmond)
CRAIG & LOIS
December 27, 2009
LIFE IS FULL OF SURPRISES! SOME ARE WONDERFUL, SOME ARE CRUEL. WHEN THINGS SEEM THE MOST CRUEL, THINK OF THE GOOD, THE HAPPINESS, THE MEMORIES THAT NOTHING CAN ERASE. WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE LEAVES YOU, THEY ARE NEVER GONE, FOR THEY ARE ALWAYS A PART OF YOU AND WOULD WANT IT SO. LOVE THE MEMORY AND LIVE IT FOR THEM
debra farmer
December 27, 2009
so sorry !
Debbie Farmer
Yolande Long
December 27, 2009
Dear Bobby, Josh, and Matt,
Debbie was a light in the life of all who knew her. I have been privileged to be her friend for over thirty years now, and I will miss her every day of my earthly life until we are joined agan in heaven.
Her loving and joyful spirit will remain with me always.
I love you all,
Yolande
Judy and Bob Hinds
December 27, 2009
Bobby an Family
We will always remember Debbie as such a gracious person, it never made a difference to her if you had 1 million or 1 dollar she always welcomed you. We will always have our memories of the times spent in the bay house. You are in our prayers. Judy and Bob Hinds
Virginia Bozarth
December 26, 2009
Dear Bobby, Josh, Matt and families, Steven and I send you our prayers and love at this sorrowful time. It's hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of such a well-lived life. When the Lord calls our loved one home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. Memories are the legacy of love. Debbie is a new guardian angel.
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