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Heidi HAYES Memoriam

HAYES - HEIDI 9/2/59 - 2/13/09 In loving memory of my beautiful, precious Heidi on her 51st birthday. Your beautiful smile, your kindness, your unconditional love will never part from my pained-shattered heart. I miss you. Forever loving you. Joe Ryan

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Sep. 2 to Sep. 8, 2010.

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Sam Sabet

October 21, 2020

I'm so shocked and saddened upon learning of Heidi's passing. I knew Heidi since the 10th grade. Kara I met you once many years ago when you were visiting your dad. I worked with Heidi at Denson's Sound Systems, she actually got me the job! She moved to Richmond and we lost contact. Heidi was one of the most original sweetest persons I ever knew. We shared many characteristics and attitudes and it doesn't surprise me that we both eventually became RN's and we both serve our nations veterans and military. May you Rest in Peace

Joe Ryan

February 12, 2012

Heidi,

Three years ago today we spoke for the final time of your life.Our last words to each other were " LOVE YOU". Always remember you were the love of my life and you will forever live in my heart.

Miss you so much.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

February 7, 2012

My Heidi,

Three years ago today our eyes saw each other for the last time.I remember driving away as we each blew kisses to each other never realizing that we would never see each other again.Time goes by but the hurt remains as I miss you so much. You were my world Heidi and my love for you will always be in my heart.

Love You,

Your Joe

joe ryan

December 31, 2011

My Heidi,

Want you to know how much you are missed and loved on this new years eve.Life without you is still so difficult.

Love you, miss you,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

December 24, 2011

My Beautiful Heidi,

I cherish the sweet memories of our special Christmas' together.Having you in my life was an honor and I miss you so much baby.You will be forever in my heart.

LOVE YOU,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

November 24, 2011

My Heidi,

On this Thanksgiving want you to realize you touched my heart and my life like no one else.It is still very difficult not having you here with me and our families.
I want you to know I miss you more and more each and every day.

Love You Always Heidi,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

November 11, 2011

My Heidi,

Miss you so much Heidi.You were my soulmate,my best friend, the love of my life. You were my everything.Iknow you are with me today.My love for you will forever be in my heart and soul..

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

October 13, 2011

Heidi,

Think about you all the time.Miss you and I. Love you forever.....

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

September 29, 2011

Heidi,

4 years ago today at Sea World I gave a diamond ring to you, the love of my life, and said please spend the rest of your life with me. You were the most special,amazing,incredible woman that I ever met. I miss you so much baby.My love for you will be in my heart forever....

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

August 13, 2011

Heidi,

It's been 2 1/2 years since God called you home.I want you to know I think about you everyday and miss you so much baby. I know you would be here helping mom as she fights for her life.There are still many tears in my eyes as I think about our life together and how unfair it was that your precious life was cut short.

Miss you, Love you


Your Joe

Joe Ryan

July 22, 2011

My Heidi,

6 years ago today I met the love of my life.I fell in love with you on our first date and realized how amazing and special you were.You were the woman that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.Heidi you were the best thing that ever happened to me and I will always treasure our time together. You are missed so much and my love for you will be forever in my heart.

Love You,

Your Joe

joe ryan

July 4, 2011

My Precious Heidi.

Another July 4th without my baby.Always remember how incredible and special you were to me.You will always be in my heart.

Miss You Baby,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

June 11, 2011

My Precious Heidi,

Thinking, praying, and missing you everyday.I know you are looking down from heaven and helping mom in your own way like you said you would.

Always remember how special you were to me and my love for you will last forever. I miss you terribly.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

May 30, 2011

My Beautiful Heidi,

On this Memorial Day I want to say how proud I was of you for taking care of our veterans.I was honored to be a special part of your life and to be loved by you.

You were the most amazing woman that I ever met and I will always love you baby.I miss you so much Heidi.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

May 15, 2011

My Heidi,

Sitting with you today at your grave is always difficult and emotional.You were such an incredible woman and my love for you will always be in my heart.I miss you everyday baby.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

May 8, 2011

Heidi,

Thinking of you on this mothers day knowing that you were an awesome mom to Kara.You are missed by everyone who knew and loved you.

Thoughts of you are always in my mind and love for you will always be in my heart.I miss you so much baby....


Your Joe

Joe Ryan

May 5, 2011

to the most special,incredible woman that i've ever met, Heidi I miss you,love you with all of my heart.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

April 22, 2011

My Beautiful Heidi,

At Easter always remember how special you were to me Heidi.Having you in my life was an honor and I felt special to be loved by you baby. You will never be forgotten and my love for you will forever be in my heart.I miss you so much Heidi.

Love You,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

April 9, 2011

Heidi,

I'm always thinking of you.
I'm always missing you.
I'll always love you.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

March 13, 2011

Heidi,

I think about you and miss you everyday.You and mom were very close and I know you're looking down on her from heaven as she fights for her life.

Always remember how much I love you and how special you were to me.I miss you so much Heidi.

Always loving you,

Joe

Joe Ryan

February 13, 2011

Heidi,

2 years ago I lost the most precious,special woman in my life.You used to tell me "always remember how much I love you". Baby, you were the best thing that ever happened to me.You were my world,you were my life.There will always be a big hole in my heart from losing you.

I miss you so much Heidi and I want you to always know that you were the love of my life and you will always be in my heart and soul.

Love,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

February 13, 2011

Heidi,

2 years ago today I lost my loving fiancee,my soulmate ,my best friend.You were the most beautiful,loving,caring woman that I ever met.You were my rock,you were my world,you were my everything.

My love for you will always be in my pain-shattered heart.I miss you so much Heidi.

Love You,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

February 13, 2011

My Beautiful Heidi,

You were the most incredible woman I ever met.Your warm heart and kind soul made you the most beautiful woman that God created.

You were the love of my life Heidi and my love for you will be forever in my pain-shattered heart.

I miss you baby.

Love,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

February 12, 2011

My Beautiful,Precious Heidi,

2 years ago today we both said "I LOVE YOU " to each other for the last time.It's still hard to believe that you're not here anymore but baby you are always in my heart and soul.I think about you everyday and miss you so much.

Heidi you were a gift from God and an Angel in my life.

My love for you will last forever.


Your Joe

Buck Schwartz

February 3, 2011

Joe, I never met you but I feel your pain. Theres not a day that goes by I don't think of Heidi. I spent my entire childhood being watched over and taken places by Heidi. She was such a great friend and I miss her dearly. In fact I used to write her when I was in the army and had even mentioned maybe setting up a dinner or something with you guys not long before she had passed. Heidi was one of the nicest people I ever met. She will always be missed by all of us. My grandmother just joined her in Heaven on Wednesday and I will be happy to see both their faces when I join them one day.

Joe Ryan

December 31, 2010

Heidi Baby,

Thinking of you this new years eve remembering our special times together.Always know you were the love of my life and you will always be in my heart.

I miss you Heidi,

Love, your Joe

Joe Ryan

December 26, 2010

Heidi Baby,

I sat with you at your grave on Christmas day talking with you about everything in general just like we used to.I miss spending the holidays with you and I know you miss the two of us being together also.I think about you all the time as tears roll down my face thinking about how wonderful and special you were.

Heidi you were the most amazing woman I ever met and my love for you will be with me forever.I miss you terribly.


Love,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

December 24, 2010

My Precious Heidi,

I will always cherish our special Christmas's together with your family and mine.Your love and compassion made spending the holidays with you an absolute joy.

Heidi you were indeed an Angel from heaven and my love for you will last forever.I miss you so much baby and will always be in my heart.

The holidays just aren't the same without you.I talk to you everyday and I know you'll be waiting for me in heaven one day.

Love You Baby,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

December 24, 2010

Heidi,

Another lonely Christmas Eve without you.I will always treasure the past Christmas' that we shared together with your family and mine.

I will travel to Richmond and sit with you on Christmas.You were the love of my life baby and I miss you so much.

You're always in my heart baby...

Love you,

Joe

Joe Ryan

November 25, 2010

My beautiful Heidi,

I will always treasure our Thanksgivings that we shared together.You were a gift from God and I will always love you baby.I miss you so much.


Love,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

November 25, 2010

My Beautiful Heidi,

I will always treasure our Thanksgivings together.You brought me Thanksgiving dinner when I worked which was so thoughtful of you.Loved having you at my families for dinner.My family loves you and always remember you will always be a part of our family. I miss you so much and love you with all my heart.

Joe

Joe Ryan

November 14, 2010

Heidi,

Another lonely birthday without you sweetie.I know you brought me sunshine on the 11th.You are always on my mind and in my heart.I miss you terribly.

Love you baby,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

October 21, 2010

Heidi Baby,

I think of you all the time.You were my best friend,my soulmate, you were my world. I miss you so much.You will be forever in my heart.

Love You,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

September 29, 2010

Heidi,

It was 3 years ago today that we got engaged at Sea World after the Shamu whale show.You were so excited and happy.All I ever wanted was to be your loving husband and make you happy for the rest of your life.I miss you so much baby.You were the most beautiful,loving woman that I ever met.I think about you every day and miss you soo soo much.


Always Love You Heidi,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

September 29, 2010

My Heidi,

3 yrs ago today I asked you Heidi to spend the rest of your life with me as my beautiful,loving wife.I surprised you with your diamond ring which brought tears of joy to your eyes.It was the happiest day of both of our lives.I miss not having you here with me as our life together was all I ever wanted. Thank you Heidi for giving me the most incredible 3 1/2 years of my life.You were so special to me,the love of my life.I miss you so much baby and will always have you in my heart.

Love you,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

September 29, 2010

Heidi Baby,

It was 3 years ago today that I asked you to marry me at Sea World in Orlando.It was a moment I'll always treasure.You were so surprised and I've never seen you any happier. I'm so sad that your time on earth with me ended so soon.We were so happy,so much in love with each other looking forward to our life together.Always know that you were the absolute LOVE OF MY LIFE and that I miss you so much.

You are forever in my heart Heidi,

Love You,

Your Joe

Marygrace Ransome

September 15, 2010

Heidi we love and miss you so much. You are always in our hearts

Joe Ryan

September 4, 2010

Heidi Baby,

4 yrs ago on your birthday we rode out Tropical Storm Ernesto together amazed by the 70 mph winds and 20 ft waves.Today I rode out Hurricane Earl alone,missing the love of my life so much.You were always by my side and the love that we shared together was special and incredible.

Heidi, you were one of a kind.I miss you so,so much.Life without you just isn't the same.My love for you will always be in my heart.


Your Joe

Joe Ryan

September 2, 2010

My beautiful,precious Heidi,

Today is your 51st birthday.I'll always cherish our special time together.Loved celebrating your birthdays in Virginia Beach at the concerts on the beach.

If there was a stairway to heaven I would climb it and bring you back to me.You are always in my thoughts and forever in my heart.I miss you so much baby.

Love You,

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

August 16, 2010

Heidi baby,

Today I sat next to your grave talking to you,crying the whole time I was there.You were my rock,my soulmate.You were my world.I miss you terribly and life is so difficult without you by my side.It's so unfair that your precious life was cut so short.My love for you will always be in my heart.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

July 31, 2010

Heidi,

You were the most wonderful woman that I ever met.The love that we shared together was precious.Not a moment goes by where I don't think about you.Tears flow down my face,missing you so much.We both knew that we were each others soulmates.

I love you baby,

Joe

joe ryan

July 22, 2010

Heidi baby,

It was 5 yrs ago today that we met.We both knew that this was our last first date.We fell in love with each other and were each others soulmate and best friend.

Heidi, my world revolved around you as you were my life,my rock,my everything.It's so lonely without you.I think about you everyday,missing you so much.I'll always love you.


Your Joe

Joe Ryan

July 22, 2010

5 years ago today I met the most beautiful,incredible lady that I ever laid my eyes on.I met you HEIDI. I remember our first date,a romantic dinner in Fenwick Island followed by a walk on the beach under a full moon.I knew that night that you were the woman that I have been searching/waiting for.

Heidi,you were the absolute love of my life.You were my soulmate,my best friend.Tears fun down my face as I think about you baby.You were my life,my world,my everything.You made the world a better place with your kindness and love.

I miss you terribly Heidi.You are always in my heart and my love for you will last forever.

Your Joe

Joe Ryan

July 4, 2010

Heidi Baby,

Another July 4th without you by my side.We had some memorable 4ths here at the beach.It's so lonely without you.

Heidi ,you will never be forgotten.You are always in my thoughts and in my heart.You were my soulmate and best friend.My love for you will be with me forever.I miss you so much.


Love You,

Joe

joe ryan

June 29, 2010

Heidi,

The tears keep flowing,the memory of our special time together will always be in my heart.

Another 4TH of July without you by my side.The pain of losing you is so unbearable.You will never be forgotten.You were my soulmate and best friend.

I miss you so much,

Love You Baby always

Joe

Joe Ryan

May 22, 2010

Heidi,

I think about you every minute of every day.We would be married by now,something the both of us were so looking forward to.I'm still so devastated and lost and lonely without you.

Heidi,you were the love of my life and I miss you so much.


Always loving you,

Joe

Joe Ryan

May 9, 2010

Heidi,

On this Mothers Day I want to say that you were a fantastic,loving,caring mother to Kara and you were an incredible lady who made a difference in every life that you touched.You are missed so much by everyone who loved you.Always remember that you were such a special person and that my love for you will be in my heart forever.

I miss you so much baby.


Love You,

Joe

Joe Ryan

May 9, 2010

Heidi Baby,

On this Mothers Day I know that you were a fantastic,loving mother to Kara and that you are missed so much by everyone who loved you.

I love you with all of my heart Heidi.

Joe

Joe Ryan

April 11, 2010

Heidi,

I'm so sad that we couldn't fullfil our dream of our life together.We would be getting married this month.I think of you every minute of every day.I cry over your grave and miss you so much.I'll love you forever.

Heidi's Joe

Joe Ryan

April 2, 2010

My sweet Heidi,

Always remember how much I love you and that you were the love of my life.Another Easter without you.Life is so difficult without you by my side.You will always be in my heart.I miss you so much Heidi.

Love You,

Joe

Joe Ryan

March 5, 2010

Heidi,

I think about you all the time baby.I miss you so much.Our time together was precious.Life without you is very difficult.My love for you will last forever.

Love You Baby,

Joe

joe ryan

February 28, 2010

Heidi,

Not a day goes by where I don't think about you.I'm so lost without you baby.I miss you terribly.

Love You,

Joe

Joe Ryan

February 17, 2010

My beautiful,precious Heidi,
My loving fiancee
My soulmate,my best friend
One year ago you were laid to rest
My shattered heart is being held together only by Gods love and the promise that we will be together again in heaven someday.I will be next to you at Mt Calvary and together for eternity.I will be loving you forever.

Joe

Joe Ryan

February 14, 2010

Heidi,

The memories of our special valentines days will remain in my heart forever.I loved surpising you with a trip to Clearwater Beach in 07 and taking you to see one of your favorite singers, Barry Manilow in 08. The tears you had of excitment and joy and me singing to you "Her name was Heidi, she wore a diamond" as it was our first valentines day after we were engaged.

Heidi baby, you were THE LOVE OF MY LIFE and I miss you so much.

LOVE YOU,

Joe

Joe Ryan

February 14, 2010

Heidi,

I want you to always remember that you were the LOVE OF MY LIFE. On this valentines day i'm so sad that you're not here with me.I can remember the special valentines days that we shared together.Surprising you with a trip to Clearwater Beach in 07 and how thrilled you were in 08 when I took you to see your favorite singer Barry Manilow.I remember the excitement and the tears that you shared with me.Remember how I sang to you after we were engaged "Her name was Heidi, she wore a diamond" I love you so much Heidi and miss you terribly

LOVE YOU,

Joe

Joe Ryan

February 13, 2010

Heidi,

1 year ago today you lost your precious life.I want you to know that you were so special to me,you were an ANGEL in my life and you will forever be in my heart.I think of you everyday and miss you so much.

I LOVE YOU HEIDI, WITH ALL OF MY HEART.

YOUR JOE

Joe Ryan

February 12, 2010

Heidi,

It was one year ago today we talked for the last time.Our last conversation was you--" I love you"

me---- "I love you to "

Kim Morris

February 12, 2010

Joe, I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you this week. I know the one year anniversary of the person we lost, is so hard to bare. I know Heidi has been looking down on all of her loved ones and have tried to offer you support at the times you needed it most. She knows that you have reached out to her daughter and tried to do all the things she would have wanted you to do. I know this has been a tough year, and you feel lost and just trying to survive. I know too well. Please try to remember only the good memories. Be careful on your journey tomorrow as I know you will visit her resting place. I always said the people that are left behind are the ones with the hardest job. We have to learn to live without them. Time will heal all but she will always be in your heart. God Bless, Kim

Maryann Mack

February 10, 2010

Joe, I never met you and I had lost touch with Heidi over the years. The last time I had seen her was at St. Mary's in 2005 but had worked with her for several yrs. 95-98. I still think of her often. I will continue to hold you and your family and Kara up in prayer. I know the loss I feel in my heart from the friend I lost. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I truly hope that will bring you some comfort. I still hear Heidi laughing and hear her stories about school and Kara. Please know I will never forget her and the time we worked together and will keep you all in my heart and prayers in the years to come. God Bless.

Curtis Neil

February 6, 2010

On the passing of Heidi Hayes

The Internet is a Strange place, your are some time able to make friends with people you never meet. Heidi is one of those, and she was a wonderful person who I had not herd from in a while and it is with shock and sadness I find out about her passing.
It is Great to read others who did know her had the same good opinion and appreciation of her, a Joyful person, kind, giving and Caring.
I am sure all those vets at the VA appreciated you.

You will be missed but I am sure God has a place for you.

Curtis.

Joe Ryan

December 25, 2009

My Heidi,

Sending you my LOVE this christmas.The holidays just aren't the same without you baby.Instead of spending our 5th xmas together I traveled to Richmond and put flowers on your grave with many tears flowing remembering our life together.The many Trans Siberian Org. concerts,carribean xmas parties,xmas eve mass and dinner with your family and mine..I miss your pretty smile,your sensitive touch,your warm heart and the LOVE we shared together.Mom misses you very much and you will always be her daughter in law in her heart.Heidi, you were the most incredible woman I ever met,fell in love with you the first day and will love you forever.Like I always told,BABY YOU'RE THE BEST!!!!!!

LOVE YOU,

Joe

Joe Ryan

December 13, 2009

Heidi,

It's been 10 months since you were taken from us.Life without you is so difficult.Heidi,you were my soulmate and best friend.I miss you so much,it's so lonely without you.

Loving you always,

Joe

Gayle Robinson Leonard

September 3, 2009

Joe Ryan,
I worked with Heidi at Chippenham Manor Nursing Home on Forest Hill Avenue in Richmond,Virginia in the late 1990s (1998-2000). I will always remember her beautiful smile and her happy and upbeat personality. She was always happy and always smiling! And she always made the Nursing Home patients feel good too. She sincerely cared about all the patients. I just found out about Heidi's death today (September 3, 2009). I was reading the "In Memoriam" section of the Richmond Times-Dispatch Newspaper when I saw her picture. I was shocked and so sad. I could hardly believe it. The one thing that will always stand out in my mind when I think of Heidi is - "Love" - Heidi loved all people. Heidi showed love to everyone and treated everyone equal. When I first met Heidi at Chippenham, I was standing in the first floor Nurses Station looking at charts and Heidi and got to talking. I immediately knew that Heidi was a Christian because I could just feel the love in her spirit. I am so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Gayle Page Robinson Walton Leonard

Joe Ryan

September 2, 2009

My Heidi,

Today is your 50th birthday.Always remember how special your were and that my love for you will last forever.

LOVING YOU ALWAYS JOE

joe ryan

August 13, 2009

Heidi,

It's been 6 months since you were taken so unfairly from this earth.I think of you night and day missing you terribly.We had an incredible love for each other and always remember how much I adored you and treasured our time together.

Joe Ryan

July 22, 2009

My precious,beautiful Heidi. Today is our 4 year anniversary of when we met.We both knew that was our last first date.I think of you day and night,and miss you so,so much.I walk on the beach everyday talking to you and telling you how much I love you and miss you.Our love for each other will last forever.

Love always,
Joe

May 10, 2009

Heidi,you were the most caring,wonderful mother that anyone could ever hope for.On Mothers Day please know that you are in everyone's thoughts and prayers.Heidi,you are missed so much.

Inger Reres

February 25, 2009

Kara, I haven't the words. Your mother was one of the truest, most wonderful people I have ever been blessed enough to meet. All it took was a "Hug from Heidi" and all of our college blues would melt away. I know she is watching over you, and has left you in good hands.

Heidi, Please rest well, and know that you are loved.

Ernie & Doreen Richards

February 19, 2009

To Heidi's Family:

You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are here to help in any way possible. Heidi was a wonderful person and a joy to know. She will be missed. With sincere sympathy.

Elizabeth Y. Stevens(Respiratory Therapist)

February 18, 2009

To Heidi's family- You are all in my thoughts and prayers. We were so saddened to hear about Heidi's untimely passing. She was such a joy to work with back in the 'ole days! I worked with her at St. Luke's(Humana)/Healthsouth/Henrico Doctors'-Parham.(So many name changes). Heidi was such an excellent nurse and a pleasure to work with! She was always a ray of sunshine and fun! God is enjoying his beautiful angel up there with him now! Please accept my sincere prayers that her memory will comfort you in the days/ years to come.

Donna Buckley

February 18, 2009

I am am thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers. May the God of all comfort and grace hold you close in His arms as you walk through this journey together. Donna Buckley, Dinwiddie, Virginia

Brenda Jackson

February 17, 2009

To all of Heidi's family, the grief you feel today will one day be replaced w/ sweet memories of our smiling, laughing, good natured, loving Heidi. Those are the memories that will last.
My prayer is for your strength until that day.

Lieske Family

February 17, 2009

Heidi was one of my father's favorite nurses. She always brought in a warm smile when she entered the room. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Helen Enfiedjian

February 17, 2009

Though no can truely appreciate your sorrow, know that many of us do understand your loss and that our thoughts and prayers are with you. (A member of Heidi's NSQIP family)

Alex Heidenberger

February 17, 2009

Joe, I am deeply saddened to hear about your recent loss. Heidi always had a glow about her when she came into the room, and she always made everyone around her happy. You and Heidi are in my thoughts and prayers. Alex Heidenberger, Mangos

Ann Marie & Rick Reinhardt

February 17, 2009

Joe,
Just wanted to let you know that we are here for you, please know how much we care about you. We only got to meet Heidi at the our daughters wedding but in that short time it was easy to see how beautiful she was. I remember her with my grandmother that evening, how she made Mommom light up with smiles. As for you, I have never seen any other woman ever make you look so happy and proud and full of love and life. Wish that we had more time to have gotten to know her. Please give us a call when you get home, our thoughts and prayers are with you and Heidi's family at this time.

Love, Ann Marie, Rick and Ricky

Beverly Hatcher

February 17, 2009

Kara,where do I begin.Your mother was such a joy to be around.She was always buzzing around the V.A.Hospital.She always had a smile on her face.She loved her job & but loved the vetrans more.Everyone here loved her.I knew her for a little while but as I said she was a joy to be around when you could keep up with her because as I stated she was always on the move buzzing around the V.A.

May GOD be with now durning this time of sorrow & may heaven smile upon you & may you find joy & comfort in knowing that both you & heaven has one more Angel watching over you & it.

Sincerly,
Beverly L.Hatcher,LPN
Heidi's McQuire Nurse Family

Steve & Ann Morgan

February 17, 2009

Joe & Heidi's family...our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Steve & I got to know Heidi during her many visits to Ocean City/Fenwick Island. She was a special person...always so open and friendly...her smile was contagious. She will truly be missed by all. Kara...your mom so was so proud of the young woman that you have become. Peace be with you and your family.

Lozel Greenwood (VA NSQIP)

February 17, 2009

To the family of Heidi Hayes: I had the opportunity to meet Heidi at a VA NSQIP Nursing Conference in 2007. Although I did not know her that long, I remember her very well. My deepest condolences to all of you during this difficult time.

Jeannette Spencer

February 17, 2009

Heidi's death was such a shock to everyone. It's just a reminder of how short a time we have on this earth. My prayers are with the family.

Gayle Lewis, McGuire VA Family

February 17, 2009

To the family,

What a wonderful person God has called home. Heidi was so genuine and so full of life. I am sorry that we did not have more time with her here on Earth, but I know we will see her again. She will truly, truly be missed by everyone who knew her. I pray that God will give you peace while you go through this difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers.

Peggy Kitchen

February 17, 2009

To All of Heidi's family,
Please know that Heidi was loved and well-respected for all the dedicated work she did for our nation's veterans. Please find some comfort knowing she had made a mark in the world and there will be a void here now. Keeping you close in my prayers.

jan sylvester

February 17, 2009

I am in shock and very saddened to hear of Heidi's passing. We knew each other through her work with the VA and she was a joy to be around. She was full of life and energy that just seemed to create a glow around her. She will be missed.

Laurann LeTourneau

February 17, 2009

Joe,
We am so sorry to hear of Heidi's passing. We didn't get to meet her, but are thinking of you. You have our prayers. Aunt Ann and Uncle John

Sheri Schwartz- Cullen

February 16, 2009

Kara,
Where do i begin? I have so many fond memories of you and Heidi. I remember going roller skating and watching movies at your house. I remember her laugh and warm smile everytime i saw her. She was so beautiful and always cared about all us neighboorhood kids. I remember her nursing books, i remember her cutting up those lil cheese squares for us while we watched nutcracker! And i remember her copying her Vanilla Ice tape and saying "don't tell your mom i gave you this." She was so cool!!! I know she touched so many lives and i am thankful to have known her. I pray for you and i know she is in Heaven with all the other angels.

Miriam Moskowitz

February 16, 2009

Kara, Joe, I can't explain the loss I feel knowing Heidi is no longer in our lives, so I can't imagine what you are going thru. Kara, your mom always spoke to me about you and how incredible you are. Joe, I met you briefly in Orlando the day you got engaged to Heidi. I still have and kept the email she sent me after our conference with all the activities of that day.

Although I have only known Heidi for a few yrs, she was a treasure and a wonderful, warm, giving individual. She was so involved with work and helping out and doing whatever she could for our NSQIP program and her peers. She will always be missed, and I am lucky to have had the pleasure to work with her and know her personally.
My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families.

Marcia Simmonds

February 16, 2009

Heidi was always such a delightful source of inspiration and encouragement at the gym. She will be remembered with fondness and she will be missed.

KIMBERLY MORRIS

February 16, 2009

To Joe and Heidi's family. I was blessed to have known Heidi the past couple of years. When she would visit you at the beach, I enjoyed sitting and talking with her. She loved her daughter, and we talked about her planning the wedding and how excited she was. She had such passion about everything she touched. She loved her job, friends and more importantly you Joe. I know what it's like to lose the love of your life as I lost my husband four years ago on Valentine's Day. Heidi and I spoke about my journey and she was so warm and encouraging about life. Joe, cherish the memories. Sometimes we can't understand why someone so special is taken from us, I guess someone else needed her more. May God give you strength to get through these hard times. Remember your friends are here for you. Kara, your Mom was very proud of you and I'm sure she'll continue to be your strength whenever you need her. Kim Morris, Denny Smith Ocean City/Ocean Pines (144th Street)

Dennis Smith

February 16, 2009

Joe, I just want you to know that Kim and I haven't been able to get you and Heidi's family off my mine. Just know that my thoughts are with you. Call me when you get home. Dennis Smith, 144th St., Ocean City

Larry & Donna Hayes

February 16, 2009

Kara,
We were very saddened to hear of your mother's unexpected passing. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Your mother was truly a beautiful person inside and out. Heidi brightened every life she touched.

Lodina Mitchell

February 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Frances Brame

February 16, 2009

I left the VA in 1996 and did not meet Heidi but knew of her thru Gail Laub. Gail always had high praises for her and to loose an earthly Angel of Mercy is a great loss. A job well done Heidi and now may you enjoy your heavenly home. Best wishes to your family and friends. Frances C. Brame, RN

Allie Thompson

February 16, 2009

My Dear Friend Heidi,
You will be missed by so many, I worked with Heidi many years ago and remained friends. She was a wonderful light of spirit and Kara she loved you so much! I will pray for you and your strength that your Mom is and will always be watching over you and guiding you.
Allie Thompson (Palm Bay Florida)

Mount Calvary Cemetery

February 16, 2009

To the family of Heidi Hayes,

We at Mount Calvary Cemetery wish to express our deepest sympathies for the loss of your loved one and we pray that God will help to ease your pain in the days to come. We are proud and honored to be chosen as the final resting place for Heidi. This is a responsibility that we do not take lightly and we pledge the highest level of perpetual care to honor her memory. Please do not hesitate to call us with any concerns or if there is anything we can do to make these difficult experiences any easier.

Jim Glass
General Mgr.
Mount Calvary Cemetery
804-355-5271

Dr. J. Corbett Talton II

February 16, 2009

Kara,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your Mom's passing. She and I have been friends for many years and I always enjoyed hearing her many stories.
She had the rare ability to transfer her energy and positive nature to those around her...
I'll miss her greatly...

You are in my prayers...

Sandra Nowell

February 16, 2009

Dear Kara,
The love, compassion, and sacrifices that your Mom made through her service to McGuire and its family will never be forgotten. Another angel of ours stole away before we wanted her too. Although our hearts are heavy in pain, we must keep the faith and believe that earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. For her sake, she is healed. We will miss her. God be with you and the family in the days ahead.
I too, am an advocate for Homeless Veterans and will continue to support them in her honor. I pray peace and strength to you in your schooling and your future. Sadly, I bid farewell to a vibrant breath of life we knew and loved in Heidi.
With heartfelt condolences,

DeDe Carrubba

February 16, 2009

Heidi,
Every time I talked to Joe, he always told me how incredible you were and how much he loved you. Thank you for being such a special part of his life.

Kara Denson

February 16, 2009

Thank you everybody for your support at this awful time. I couldn't get through this without my wonderful friends and family. My mom is giving me a lot of strength right now and I will miss her always. She worked so hard for me and I know she made this world a much better place for everyone she met. She devoted her life to helping others and giving me a wonderful life and I know she'll be watching over us always. I'm going to follow right in her footsteps and continue to make her proud and pick up her causes right where she left off.

Thanks everybody. - Kara

Peggy & Denny Bowers

February 16, 2009

Joe - our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time for you and Heidi's family. Heidi's smile will certainly be missed on 144th Street. Treasure your happy times with Heidi and know that you will always have an angel in heaven to watch over you.

Faith Bentley

February 16, 2009

Dear Kara,
Heidi was a dear friend and co-worker of mine years ago. She was a wonderful human being, so kind and compassionate, not only to her patients but to her friends as well. She could always bring a smile even in the busiest of days. Kara she loved you so much and was so proud of you. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. I will keep you close in prayer. May God grant you strength and comfort in the days ahead. Please let me know if you ever need anything.

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