Robert Hilker

Robert Hilker obituary, Richmond, VA

Robert Hilker

Robert Hilker Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Dec. 1, 2009.
HILKER, Robert (Bob) Allen, passed away Sunday, November 29, 2009 after a long battle with Parkinson's disease. Bob was born in St. Louis, Mo., and was a 1952 graduate of Washington University School of Engineering. He served in the Army and was stationed at Fort Belvoir, Va., from 1953-1955. He worked as a Mechanical Engineer for 40 years for Standard (Amoco) Oil Company. Bob was a member of Church of the Epiphany in Richmond; OWLS Senior Group and Circle 8 Square Dance Club. He was preceded in death by his parents, Allen and Helen (Haupt) Hilker and his sister, Ruth (Jack) Held. Bob is survived by his wife of 52 years, Joanne Carter (Anne); and their five daughters and sons-in-law, Julie and Homer Tourkakis, Jeanne and John Draper, Mary and Ken Sherlock, Meg and Keith Anderson, Amy and Jon Howe; and 12 grandchildren, Christine and Megan Tourkakis, Jennifer, Caroline and Jacob Draper, Andrea and Kevin Sherlock, Jacob, Justin and Carter Anderson, and Jackson and Julianna Howe. The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, December 1 at the Chesterfield Chapel of the Bennett Funeral Home, 14301 Ashbrook Pkwy., Chesterfield, Va. A Memorial Mass will be held 11 a.m. Wednesday at Epiphany Catholic Church. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Church of the Epiphany, 11000 Smoketree Dr. Richmond, Va. 23236, Catholic Relief Services, P.O. Box 17152, Baltimore Md. 21298-8452, The Salvation Army, P.O. Box 12400, Richmond, Va. 23241-0100, National Parkinson Foundation, P.O. Box 9254, Uniondale, N.Y. 11555-9254 or Food for the Poor, 6401 Lyons Rd., Coconut Creek, Fla. 33073.


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December 8, 2009

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Gregory Tourkakis

December 8, 2009

I send my sincere sympathy regarding the passing of Mr. Hilker. I hope you positive memories of Mr. Hilker give you support.

December 4, 2009

So sorry to hear of Bob's passing, Anne. Our friendship covers many years and fond memories of good times...at Potluck dinners & parties, and always golf. Take care and know our thoughts & prayers are with you. I lost my Bob two years ago. Eleanor Roan-Shurr

Charlene Nelson

December 4, 2009

Barry and I wanted you to know that you are in our prayers. Bob really fought the good fight and always seemed to be in good spirits. He will be missed. He is blessed to be in the arms of our Heavenly Father resting in peace and in no pain.

Carol Sears

December 3, 2009

Dear Aunt Joanne and girls,

Kevin and I and our kids wish to express our sincere sympathy. I remember Bob very well, especially through a little girl's eyes. My little girl memory recalls a sweet and loving man who was always fun and comfortable. He was a wonderful 'uncle' to me and my siblings as well as a'brother' to my dad. You are all special family to us and we grieve with you. Carol (Haupt) Sears

Chapa,Spent, McNabb

December 3, 2009

We or sadden over your lose of a Beloved husband, father , grandfather & friend and a wonderful man whom we admired upon meeting for the first time years ago at the Tourkakis home and Our Prayers from our hearts or with the family .May God bless and be with you all.
Bill & Bonnie Chapa
Rex & Margurite Spent and Alex & Alaina
Bernice McNabb

Dennis & Suzie Walker

December 2, 2009

Dear Ann,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers are with you and your family. I know you must take heart in the fact that Bob is in a better place.

Bob and Mona Byrd

December 1, 2009

At this special time of year, friends and family seem to mean more. We have lost a dear, dear friend, and we are sad. We remember fondly those special brunches amid the gorgeous scenes of Southbridge, those very wonderful few days we had together at Edisto Beach and most of all squaring up so many times in friendship and love. How we would love to relive it all again.

We know Bob is happy in a better place, and our hearts go out to you, Anne, for all those years you had together. Memories have a way of growing sweeter with each passing day, and we know yours will too. We love you much!

Dan & Lorene Cravey

December 1, 2009

Dear Ann & Family: We are so sorry to hear of the passing of our Dear Friend and your beloved husband and Father. We have enjoyed much time spent with You & Bob. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. " GOD BLESS and KEEP YOU" Dan & Lorene Cravey

Susan Butler

December 1, 2009

Amy, Jon, Jackson and Julianna, and your entire family - we are so sorry for the loss of your beloved father. What a beautiful transition he had from the arms of his loving family to the outstretched arms of his divine savior! You are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

John, Susan, Noah and Ian Butler

Richard & Gina Howell

December 1, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.R

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