Constance Rauch

Constance Rauch

Constance Rauch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 6, 2015.
Rauch, Constance ALBANY Constance Weil Rauch of Albany, died on November 23, 2015. She was 82. Born in Frankfurt, Germany in 1933, she was the daughter of Hans Weil and Senta Kaufeldt Weil. She spent her early childhood in Recco and Pieve, Italy where her father ran the Schule am Mittelmeer. In 1938, Italy's anti-Jewish laws prevented her from starting school, but fortunately Senta Weil's Latvian visa provided the means for migration to America. She arrived in New York in 1939, classified as an "enemy alien." She lived at 113th Street and Broadway and attended P.S. 165 and then the High School of Music and Art. She enjoyed wonderful summers at Sky Farm Camp in Maine. She earned a B.A. in English from Earlham College in Indiana, where she appeared as Cleopatra and as the lead in "The Lady's Not for Burning." In all these places, Connie made lifelong friends. Connie gave birth to two daughters; Katharine Barbara, a teacher, born in 1960 and Emily Constance, an artist, born in 1964. She wrote and published three novels while holding day jobs as a copywriter in the fields of advertising and magazine publishing for publications such as Seventeen, House and Garden, and the Readers Digest. At the Readers Digest, she was part of a landmark class action suit demanding equal pay for equal work. Her marriage ended in divorce in 1972. The family moved from Yorktown Heights to Chappaqua, N.Y. in 1976. Her first book, "The Landlady", was published by Putnam in 1975. "The Spy on Riverside Drive," was published by Popular Library, 1981 and "A Deep Disturbance," by St. Martin's, 1991. At the time of her death, she had just finished copy editing a semi autobiographical novel. In the 1980s, Connie moved to the Albany area, to the beautiful Helderburgs, where she pursued her writing. She used her excellent eye for home design to revamp a series of houses. In her peripatetic life, Connie always created in sense of home as a refuge. In true ecumenical spirit, she became an elder for the Rensselaerville Presbyterian Church. She never hesitated to reach out to all and provide clear-eyed, wise, warm, and empathetic advice. Life came full circle for Connie when she returned to Recco, Italy, where in 2010, she was made an honorary citizen in recognition for Hans Weil's heroic acts rescuing Jewish students during World War II. Connie reconnected with old friends and made many new ones at the Villa Palmathe site of the Schule am Mittelmeer, which survived the bombing of World War II. Connie never thought of herself as a refugee from the Shoah since, as she put it, "We survived." She lived life with a great sense of optimism and possibility. A proud liberal, Connie loved her cats, Jeopardy, Scrabble, crossword puzzles, the Metropolitan Museum of Art, the beaches of Block Island and hikes in the woods of upstate New York. She was the ultimate authority on grammar, and more importantly, style. The weekly New Yorker was a constant influence. Connie was a special combination of a down to earth elitist, who inspired everyone who met her to strive and to thrive. Her many friends will never forget her. Connie Rauch was predeceased by a brother, Charlie Weil; and her beloved nephew, Glen Douglas Weil. She is survived by her two daughters, Katie Rauch of Warwick, R.I., and her husband, Keith Jackman and Emily Rauch of Rensselaerville, and her husband, Kevin Kelly, and his daughter Shannon Kelly, and her little cat, Amber.

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Cheryl Randall

February 3, 2017

Emily, It was nice to see you yesterday. Although it was difficult to hear of Connie's passing, the story of her life, as set forth in her obituary, is wonderfully uplifting. She was so humble she neglected to speak of several of her accomplishments, but it was clear that she was a very special person. Please accept my belated condolences.

December 11, 2015

Dear Emily, Sending you a big hug and warmest wishes. So much of your mother's remarkable story was new to me. I just knew her as a writer/copy writer - thus a kindred spirit - and a splendid mind. But indominable refugee and feminist pioneer... that was all new. You have so much to be proud of as I know she was of you.
With warmest good wishes, Dardis McNamee

December 10, 2015

Emily,

Your Mother lived a life some people could only read about in a NY times best seller. You were so fortunate to have each other.

With deepest sympathy,

Penny Grimes

Rev. Donna Elia

December 7, 2015

Connie was a marvelous, bright, compassionate and inspiring person. I loved conversing with her and am better for having known her. I am so sorry for your loss, Emily and Katie. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

bob and kathy

December 6, 2015

sorry ,if you need anything let us know.

December 6, 2015

So sorry for your loss. With our sincerest sympathy. Jeane and George Allen

xxoo

Rio Hernandez

December 6, 2015

What an incredible life, Emily. I wish I could have met her. I know she must have had a most excellent sense of humor which she passed along to you. Hard to believe she squeezed so much accomplishment and adventure into 82 years. Sending you much love in your time of loss - but happy to know you were lucky to be blessed with such a fantastic Mom.

Kevin and Deb Jackman

December 6, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Our condolances.

December 6, 2015

I remember Connie from visiting Emily during my years at Russell Sage College. Connie served me my first (and only) high tea. I still remember the cucumber sandwiches........

I also have to admit I completely changed the structure of the first sentence (and this one) in hopes it will be more correct in an effort to honor Connie's memory. :)

Carol Arzberger

December 6, 2015

Sorry for your loss . Sounds like your mom quite a person . In our thoughts and prayers

susan arbit

December 6, 2015

a dear friend, very talented writer and most important of all, a very proud mother of her two daughters. It warms my heart to think of her.

Michael Gardner

December 6, 2015

A beautiful tribute to your Mom who had a fulfilling and very interesting life. I am so sorry for your loss.

Mary Marsh

December 6, 2015

Connie was a wise and wonderful woman! It was a privilege to work with her at Empire Blue Cross and Blue Shield - I enjoyed every moment. Katie and Emily, my heart goes out to you! You will be in my thoughts and prayers...

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