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PHYLLIS GRAHAM Obituary

GRAHAM Mrs. Phyllis W. Graham, 69, went to be with the Lord on Wednesday, January 30, 2013. Phyllis was born in Severn, Maryland, near Baltimore and has resided in Jacksonville for 50 years. She was a devoted mother and the devoted wife to the late Carl E. Graham. Phyllis was well known for her sweetness, care for others and enjoyable smile. She was also a committed employee and member of St. Paul's Catholic School and Church in Riverside where she brightened everyone's day while working in the school office for the last 10 years. Phyllis is survived by her children, Maria Pruett Conway, Carl Marcus Graham and Joei Graham Brock, her brothers, William, James, Duane and Tim and her sister Sandra in addition to her beloved grandchildren, Zanny, Wynne, Wills, Graham, Danny, Beau, Sean and CM. Funeral services to celebrate her beautiful life will be held at 10:00 AM on Tuesday, February 5, 2013 at St. Paul's Catholic Church, 2609 Park St., reception following. The family will receive friends from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM on Monday, February 4, 2013 at Hardage-Giddens Funeral Home, 729 Edgewood Avenue. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be made to the Phyllis Graham Student Fund at St. Paul's Catholic School, 2609 Park Street. Online condolences may be made to www.hardage-giddensedgewood.com Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Feb. 3, 2013.

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Irene Chua-Torralba

April 26, 2013

What can I say???? I am still shocked! I was just thinking of you when I was reading obituaries announcement I find your name. Ms. Phyllis I will be missing you. Thank you so much for your tireless effort to serve St. Paul's. Your willingness to wait for me when I'm running late to get something done at your office. You will surely be missed. Although we have left St. Paul you remained in our heart.

Melissa Furman

February 13, 2013

Phyllis and I became friends decades ago when she owned "Phyl's Closet" in Avondale, where I often shopped. When my husband had quadruple bypass surgery in 1984 she waited with me and held me together outside of the open heart recovery room prior to seeing my husband after surgery.I would have never made it without her. Her humor was the best as was her sense of style! I admired and loved your Mother and will always miss her. Condolences to the family.

February 9, 2013

With heartfelt condolences, please know your family will remain in my prayers. Take comfort and embrace the loving memories of your parents replacing tears with smiles, especially knowing they are together once again. God bless you all.
Margaret Saoud

Allison Chesser Newsom (Mary Ellen Boozer's girl ;)

February 8, 2013

I grew up coming to visit my Grandma Boo-Boo, Dot Boozer, on Mallory street. And every time we'd visit, we would stop by Ms. Phyllis' house or see Mr. Carl working in the yard. My favorite memory of your mom was at Grandma Boo-Boo's rosary service. She was the first to stand up and tell some ridiculous story about my Grandma with racoon's or squirrels in her attic or something. And after that, people spent over an hour sharing memories of my grandmother. It was truly a blessing for our family. She could always make everyone smile, even in the most difficult of moments. I hope God' peace brings you comfort knowing she is with her Savior.

CARL & JO WEEKS

February 6, 2013

SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT PHYLLIS PASSING SHE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON AND NEVER MATE ANY STRANGERS SHE WAS THE KINDEST PERSON I EVER MATE SHE IS BACK WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE PHYLLIS REST IN PEACE .CARL AND I SEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE REST OF THE FAMILY WE WERE LUCKY TO HAVE KNOWN HER SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.

Bud Dunnington

February 6, 2013

To Carl and the Graham family,

Your Mother set a wonderful example of love of family, friends, Church and community. May she rest in peace with Christ.

Laila

February 5, 2013

Marcus, Joei, and Maria,
My heart goes out to you and yours. Phyllis was a kind and loving person. She will be missed.

ARTHUR YEAGER

February 5, 2013

Phyllis is with Jesus a much better place to be. Another FAB 5 has left our midst and we all will miss her. My prayers are for her and her dear family. Art

Susan Strom

February 4, 2013

I never realized how much Phyllis touched my life until she left us. She has caused me to stop and reflect on so much. The business of living in today's society has numbed me to the racing by of time. Its hard to believe Phyllis was the secretary at St. Pauls for the last ten years. It seems like yesterday that she took over for Susan Capley. I will miss her sweet smile and gracious approach toward everything. What a fighter she was, a true warrior. You all are in my prayers.
Susan Strom and Family

The Willis Family

February 4, 2013

Phyllis we love you and miss you so much. We take comfort knowing that you are back in the arms of your beloved. Thank you for being YOU and for caring so much.

February 4, 2013

Phyllis was a very special person for me to see when I came to St Pauls. I loved the special times Larry and I went to lunch and shopping with her. She will be greatly missed by me and Larry. Dana Carr

marisa smith

February 4, 2013

Phyllis always brought sunshine and a smile to all. So sorry for your loss.

Kim Wilson

February 4, 2013

Maria, I'm so sorry you lost your sweet, sweet mother too soon. You and the family are in Mark and my hearts. So sorry we couldn't be there physically for the celebration of her life, but we'll be there in thought.

Our condolences to you and the family.

Mark and Kim Wilson

Beth Monteith

February 4, 2013

Miss Phyllis, Your faith in God and your amazing strength, determination and courage through your fight have all been an inspiration to me! I don't think I ever told you that it was your firm & caring, almost mothering, treatment of the students (and staff and families) that I saw when Abigail was in VPK is one of the reasons I chose to move the kids to St. Paul's. I knew that you would make sure they would be looked after just as if I were there. I always found your honesty refreshing. You never failed to speak your mind, and it is one of the MANY things I loved about you. The kids and I miss you dearly. Abigail wishes she could give you one last hug, Donavan hopes you heard their song for you, but sings it with his prayers just incase, and Patrick says the school just isn't the same without you there. He is trying to find the right way to show you how much he loved and respected you, and decided it would be to somehow serve the Lord in your memory. You made an impact on so many lives and we all love and miss you.

Jill,Manny,Jessie,Francis&Freddy Burgos

February 4, 2013

Mrs. Phyllis was really a sweet person and very dedicated part of St. Paul school office. Condolences to Graham family our prayers are with you.
Burgos Family(Jax, Fl.)

Cathy Stevenson

February 4, 2013

My most heartfelt condolences to all of the family on the loss of such a lovely lady. I will truly miss her smile and her spirit. We were all so fortunate and blessed for her to have been part of our lives. May our Lord give you peace and comfort at this difficult time. Love, Cathy Stevenson

Kim Repper

February 3, 2013

While studying for my leadership degree, I was taught to make good friends with the administrative assistant. The administrative assistant is the one who rules the school. We all know Phyllis, that you ran St. Paul's! I am so thankful that you were my sidekick. My dear "Willis," you gave me so much. You encouraged me to take risks, talked me through problems, laughed with me every day, and kept the sales people away at all costs! You taught me lessons about life, love, and motherhood. You were always honest with me, even letting me know which dresses looked like "potato sacks." You eased my mind many a day while I made you crazy with my OCD. We laughed a lot with our bantering and shared a worry or two. Thank you "Willis." As we said every afternoon my friend, "Love you! Get some rest!"

February 3, 2013

No words can really express the loss that we feel at St. Paul's School. Phyllis was a truly special lady to many..............students, parents, staff. She will forever hold an irreplaceable in our hearts.
Love,
Mary Jane

Valerie Johnson(Signet Diagnostic)

February 3, 2013

I had the honor of Meeting Ms. Phyliss through her daughter and my best friend Maria. What a lovely and and sweet person she was. She will be truly missed by many and her smile will be a memory forever. May God continue to be with Maria and her family as they remember the loss of thier love one as a memorable one...

Kim Board

February 3, 2013

Ms. Phyllis

You will be missed. Maddie Bright 4th grade- St. Pauls

May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

February 3, 2013

Phyllis you will be miss very much for the last 10 years we had so much fun working together.R.I.P. love Estella..

Susan Craigo

February 2, 2013

Joei and Family, My condolences to you for the loss of this wonderful person in your lives. Hold onto your memories of her and cherish them everyday! Prayers are going up for strength during this tough time.

February 2, 2013

BEST WISHES PHYLLIS, NOW YOU AND CARL WILL BE TOGETHER

The Rynkar Family

February 1, 2013

Joei, the Rynkar girls (and Bob) are sending our condolences and love to you and your family. Phoebe is including a very special hug in this note to be given to Graham. XO

February 1, 2013

Phyllis was one special lady who always had a positive and spiritual attitude.She was definitely an asset to St. Paul's school office.Condolences to her great family and God Bless her always. Sue Teague (Jacksonville, Fl)

Mary Corrigan

February 1, 2013

Phyllis and Carl were so much fun! I will never forget the Cherry Kool Aid hair dye that Phyllis and the Fab Five used to color their hair red! I loved it! I think of that when I am on Aisle 4 at Publix every week. We will all miss her. Phyllis has left a great legacy at St. Paul's.
Love, Matt, Mary, John and Jane Corrigan.

The Creams

February 1, 2013

Joei and Family:
With our deepest regrets and respectful condolences for the loss of your loved one. May your hearts be lightened with fond memories you keep within each of your hearts. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

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