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Phillip Crary

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Phillip Crary Obituary

(News article) TEMPERANCE - A former member of the Bedford Township Board who was a pharmacist and took over the drugstore his father started, Phillip Crary died Saturday in his Temperance home. He was 75.

He had cancer.

In 1995 he sold Crary Drug, founded in 1953 by his father, Norman, and the store remains open. He worked part time until four months ago, most recently at the Medicine Shoppe.

"He was always on the go," his daughter, Liz, said. "He never really retired. He was always moving and doing something outside and inside."

He volunteered in the community, as his father had. He was a former commissioner of Bedford's Best Baseball, a youth league, and as a store owner he sponsored teams.

Mr. Crary won election in 1968 to the township board as a trustee, was returned to office, and served through 1980. It was a period of tremendous growth for the Toledo suburb, and he had to consider water and sewer projects and zoning and master plans through many meetings, his daughter said.

"He wanted to do something for his community," his daughter said. "He wanted to see the community become a better place. It was altruistic."

He received a cornea transplant and was a supporter and former member of the Lions Club.

He was born in 1936 to Florence and Norman Crary and grew up in Sylvania.

He was a 1954 graduate of the former Burnham High School, which he continued to attend after the family moved to Bedford Township. He worked for Farnham Funeral Home afterward. In 1957, he went into the Navy and had pharmacy duty while serving in Cherry Point, N.C.

He received a bachelor's degree from the University of Toledo and joined his father at Crary Drug.

"The store was almost like a general store," his daughter said. "They had anything from ice cream to gifts to over-the-counter medicines to records. His favorite part of his job was dealing with customers."

He became owner after his father's death in 1970.

Mr. Crary traveled the world, often with his grandson Ryan - including three trips to Africa. He had vacation places at Lewiston, Mich., and later on Posey Lake in Michigan. He liked to fish. He was a self-taught gardener and grew orchids, roses, and lilies. He was a self-taught painter too. His artwork, in oil, featured flowers and landscapes.

"He had a natural ability that he could pick up on anything he wanted to try," his daughter said. "My dad was an extremely unassuming person - very intelligent, but a quiet man. With us he was very low key, and he didn't do anything for glory, to make more of himself. He was just a cool dude."

He liked to play blackjack and Texas Hold 'Em poker, and staff at the casino in Windsor often greeted him by name.

"He won and did very well, but he also knew when to stop," his daughter said. "It was a great hobby for him."

Surviving are his wife, Ruth, whom he married May 12, 1958, daughter, Elizabeth Titus; son, Bradd Crary, and three grandchildren.

Services are to be at 7 p.m. today in Urbanski's Bedford Funeral Chapel, Temperance, where visitation is to begin at 2 p.m. He and his wife were longtime sponsors of children in Africa through World Vision, and the family suggests tributes to the organization in care of Mr. Crary's memorial account.

Contact Blade staff writer Mark Zaborney at: mzaborney@the blade.com or 419-725-6182.
Published by The Blade on Nov. 15, 2012.

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Lori Gillespie

November 19, 2012

Ruthie and family:
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. The world will not be the same without Petunia. He was a truly remarkable man. Funny, kind, caring and extremely intelligent. I will miss him deeply and cherish my fond memories. May God Bless you and watch over you during the coming days.

Sherry Fanning

November 17, 2012

Sorry to hear about Phil. He was a great guy. I remember many a fun time at Cousin Florance and Normans house when we were kids.
Sherry Postlewait Fanning

Dan and Barb Frebes

November 15, 2012

Bradd, Having gone through the loss of my own father just last year, Barb and I were saddened to hear of your own loss. Please know that we (your friends) are thinking of you during this difficult time. Go UT! Win one for your dad!

Lonna Balduf

November 15, 2012

To the entire Crary family, Phil was one of the nicest "brother-in-laws" in the world. He welcomed me, accepted me, and included me in everything we did as a family. It does make you realize how important your family is. Phil will always hold a very special spot in my heart and Ray's, as will all your family. God Bless!

November 15, 2012

Thank you to all of you remembering Dad in this manner - he was a good man, and your thoughts and prayers are comforting. Liz, Bob, and Maddie Titus

Ken Najarian

November 15, 2012

I remember meeting Phil when I was in high school and he was wrestling on the T.U. team with my cousin Dick Tavtigian.Just an all-around good guy and so strong !! You and the others from that team that have gone before you can chat and re-live those times together. R.I.P. Phil.
Ken Najarian

Barb Poland

November 15, 2012

Growing up in Temperance we all knew Mr. Crary and Phil as friends of everyone who shopped at the drug store.
The Bramans

Joe and Sue Kennelly

November 14, 2012

We were very sorry to hear of Phil's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

George and Ellen Bacon

November 14, 2012

We have many wonderful memories of Phil. It won't be the same watching a UT football game, dealing a game of Texas hold-em, or playing 18 holes of golf without him. He was a wonderful friend and will be dearly missed.

Dale & Mary Lou Henry

November 14, 2012

Ruth and Family - We were saddened to hear of Phil's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless!

JoAnne and Jim Conn

November 13, 2012

Our hearts go out to you and your family, Liz.

Ted and Sheila Powers-RCIA

November 13, 2012

Ryan
So sorry to hear of your grandpa's passing. Knowing your daughters guardian angel by their first name is a real gift by the Holy Spirit. Love him, miss him and know he will always be there for you and your family.

Kimberly McAfee-Glenn

November 13, 2012

The obituary speaks volumns of the humor, heart and integrity of this fine humanitarian. I hold many good memories of him from childhood and later as he and Ruth were favored customers at HJ's Prime Cut. Deepest condolences to your entire family.

Jonathan Balduf

November 13, 2012

Deeply sadden by the news.We love you and will miss you Uncle Phil. All our love and support to Ruth, Brad, Liz and family.

kim vanalstine

November 13, 2012

To the Crary Family, Phill was a great man he will be missed by all that knew him. Stay strong prayers to all of you and know he is on the greatest safari of them all love Kim VanAlstine

Jill(Bradd) Crary

November 13, 2012

Thanks to all of you for your kind words and prayers for my beloved Father-in-Law. We know he will live forever in our hearts.

Peggy Johns-Davis

November 13, 2012

I am sorry for your loss. Heaven has opened their doors for another angel to watch over your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Bert

November 13, 2012

Ruth, Family and Bedford Township:

I am saddened to learn of Phillip's passing. His significant contributions to the Bedford Community will live on. His skill, supportiveness and kindness as a pharmacist in our small community brought comfort to many families. Through all his adventures I believe Phillip really believed "It's a Wonderful World". My heart goes out to you all as you grieve the loss of this dear man.

Julie Neidhardt

November 13, 2012

Even though I only knew Phil for a short time I know he was a kind loving man that loved his family. Thoughts and prayers to his family. I will always smile and think of him when I see a Morrell mushroom!

Don Malin

November 13, 2012

Although I have not seen Phil in years, I will never forget the generosity he showed toward my seeking a career in music. God bless Phil's family. I'm certain his memory will live on.

Michael Buzene

November 13, 2012

Liz, Bob and family. I am sorry to hear about the loss of Phillip. The obituary showed the kind of wonderful memories you will share as a family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Stephen Roth

November 13, 2012

Very sorry to hear of your loss. He was an amazing man and a part of him will always be with you. Thinking of you.

Connie Kakuska

November 13, 2012

Rest in God's love, Mr. Crary..

Joan (Reuland/Guy) Arguien

November 13, 2012

Sending sympathy & prayers to Phil's family.

Jennifer Skiver-Perry

November 13, 2012

Jill and The Crary family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Ron & Laura Denniss

November 13, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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