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Joseph M. Delaney

1924 - 2011

Joseph M. Delaney obituary, 1924-2011, Meriden, CT

BORN

1924

DIED

2011

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B.C. Bailey Funeral Home - Wallingford

273 South Elm Street

Wallingford, Connecticut

Joseph Delaney Obituary

FLORIDA - Joseph M. Delaney, Esq. entered into rest Friday, April 29, 2011 in Florida.

Attorney Delaney was born in Hartford on July 8, 1924, and was the son of the late Joseph M. and Anna Lane Delaney. He was raised in Meriden and graduated from Meriden High School.

Joe enlisted on Dec. 8, 1942, entered the U.S. Navy service upon graduation from high school and served on an LST (landing ship tank) in the Pacific Theater during World War II. After an honorable discharge from the Navy, he attended and graduated from Catholic University earning Phi Beta Kappa honors for scholarship and academic excellence. He then earned his baccalaureate of laws degree from Harvard Law School.

He began his legal career in New Haven, opened a law practice in Meriden, but soon thereafter settled in Wallingford where he would serve the community for over 50 years as town attorney, town prosecutor, later a judge in the then-existing town court, but always as a trusted and learned counselor and advocate for his many clients. Though his client list included large insurance companies, manufacturers, the State of Connecticut and many municipalities, construction companies and other corporate citizens, he was most gratified to assist his friends and neighbors in resolving problems, large and small, in a dignified and respectful fashion.

His peers, judges and other lawyers consistently awarded him the highest ratings for legal knowledge and skill and ethics. He was inducted into the prestigious American College of Trial lawyers, a tiny and select group representing the top trial advocates in America. While he was a member of the Connecticut State Bar Examining Committee he supervised, wrote and corrected the Connecticut Bar Examinations. As a founding partner in Delaney, Zemetis & Triplett, he continued in the active practice of law, until retiring to Florida in 2003, but maintained his affiliation with and active interest in the law firm through the date of his death.
In addition to the law, he was deeply interested and widely read in history, philosophy, politics and religion. He actively pursued a passion for aviation, ham radio, photography, tennis, sailing, and gardening. Though he had many friends, he particularly enjoyed time spent with his closest friend, the late Anthony (Chick) Cassella. He will be remembered for his fierce intelligence, strong religious convictions, character, moral clarity and courage, sense of humor, quick Irish wit and generosity.

Attorney Delaney is survived by his two sons, Joseph M., Jr. (MaryLee) and Jonathan M.; three sisters, Mary Lee, of California, Joan Hobart, of Pennsylvania, and Dorothy Backes, of Florida. He is also survived by three grandchildren, Dominick, Lucien and Persephone; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister, Ann.

A memorial Mass is planned for Saturday, June 11, at 11 a.m. in the Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Road, Wallingford, (203) 265-1694. For those who wish, donations in his memory may be made to the Church of the Resurrection or Wallingford Wishing Well, 382 N. Cherry St. Ext., Wallingford, CT 06492-2309, (203) 294-0060.

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Published by The Record-Journal from Jun. 5 to Jun. 9, 2011.

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Peter McKay

June 19, 2011

Joe Delaney, a good and gentle soul, walked faithfully in the spirit of Christ and imparted his grace to all. Peace.

Laurie Hefner

June 12, 2011

It was a pleasure &blessing to be Joes caregiver for 7 years. He was an inspiring special person to be around.Wise,kind,thoughtful,generous, caring man.Great sense of humor, with a warm smile.Devoted & loving father.A man of strong faith, read his bible daily. My deepest sympathy& prayers to his family. Laurie Hefner H.H.A\C.N.A

Lisa Moody

June 8, 2011

Joe was my uncle (Ann was our mom) and to my brothers and me he was larger than life. I remember him as always being there for our family. A favorite memory is of Uncle Joe driving up to the house in his Thunderbird convertible and taking us for a ride. He knew we loved it when he drove fast through puddles, so, of course, he did it, and without concern for the car. He took us on our first ski trip and our very first snowmobiling experience. He was especially good to our dear mom. He was a wonderful example to us on how to take care of family.

Bob Scott

June 6, 2011

Joe became my Godfather 70 years ago. While memories fade over the years, the few I still have of Joe are heartwarming. I am thankful for his service to our country. My sincere sympathy to his family. Joe is in my prayers. May he truly rest in peace.

SUSAN BOSSIDY-PAGNI

June 6, 2011

Joe, was a dear friend of my dad and business partner,I always had great respect for this quiet man and he was a man of deep thought and sometimes few words, and such a dashing man with such class that you were so aware of his presence, my dad loved this man who was always his trusted friend in life no matter where the both were located at the time. My prayers are for Joe and his family and he is with his friends at peace now.

Jack Walsh

June 5, 2011

Joe,a fellow Meridenite, was my dashing lifeguard captain at Hammonasett and Rocky Neck in 1946 and 1947. He was someone we all looked up to and was a real class act. My deepest sympathy and condolences to his family and to my former classmate Joan.

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