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Elbert Durkee Obituary

Elbert M. Durkee Elbert Durkee, loving husband of Barbara and father to Norman, Mark, Brian, Debra and Alan Durkee, passed on to join our Heavenly Father on March 31, 2011. Born February 2, 1929 in Nebraska, Elbert lived a life dedicated to his family and his love of music, fishing, hunting and driving. Elbert and Barbara, married for 63 years, were devout members of the Tacoma Alliance Church where Elbert served as the music director for many years. Elbert's passion for music inspired him to participate in the Male Orpheus Choir and later the Jubilee Quartet. Former proprietor of the Graphic Press and earlier a delivery mgr. at Rhodes Dept. Store, Elbert worked as he lived with a strong work ethic and a passion for excellence. Elbert is survived by his loving wife, five children, seven grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. Services will be held at the Tacoma Alliance Church, 2401 So. Orchard St. Tacoma, WA 98466 on Thursday, April 7, 2011 at 1pm.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Apr. 6 to Apr. 7, 2011.

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April 8, 2011

I will never forget your Elbert as you will never. Elbert was very much a caring gentleman to say nothing of his wonderful singing voice. I can still hear Elbert singing "How Great Thou Art" for my son's service May 1987. If I were still in the Tacoma area, I would have joined you yesterday, but I live in Hawaii. The Alliance church was so very good to me and my family. Much love and aloha to you all. Ramona Wingate.

Marji (Tucker) Krahn

April 6, 2011

I remember Elbert so well and was always touched not only by his musical abilities, but by his gracious inpact on my life as a young person. Much love to his family - Marji (Tucker) Krahn

April 6, 2011

I can just see Elbert in heaven leading that heavenly choir! My favorite song he sang was The Light House. You will be missed my friend! My love and prayers to his family. Diane Hodges

April 6, 2011

Our sympathy to the Durkee family. So thankful for the chance to be involved with Elbert and his love of music these past years at Tacoma Alliance. One of my favorite being His Eye Is On the Sparrow. Only Ethel Waters could come close to Elbert on that one! Paul and DeLynn Asberg

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