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Grant Cohler Hayes On Friday, May 27, 2011, our beloved little boy, Grant Cohler Hayes, of Bonney Lake, Washington, was unexpectedly taken from us. Grant was born on Oct. 10, 2008 in Puyallup, Washington, to Jeffrey and Gina Hayes. His life, though short, was a blessing to all who knew him. To his family and friends, he brought light, love, and laughter. To his mom and dad, he was the greatest joy they had known, and will always be their "Boogs". To his little sister Kennedy, he was a proud and doting big brother who was always ready with a hug and a smooch. No words can truly capture Grant's sweet personality. He had a smile, laugh, and energy about him that was larger than life. He was "all boy" and loved his trains, cowboy boots, matchbox cars, dogs, and sneaking candy behind Daddy and Mommy's back. To know him was to have him in your heart forever. Although Grant has left this world, his beautiful eyes and his big, strong heart will live on through those children who have received his special gifts. Left to honor his memory are his parents and sister, Jeff, Gina, and Kennedy Hayes, Bonney Lake, WA; grandparents Grant and Jackie Clark, Davenport, IA; Pam (Joe) Clark, Davenport, IA; Roger and Jean Teal, Sugar Grove, IL; Mel and Sharon Hayes, Moline, IL; aunts and uncles Gavin Clark, Davenport, IA; Ivan (Trudy) McNeff, Walcott, IA; Tim (Jill) Hayes, Sugar Grove, IL; Sheryl (Timothy) Cosner, Park View, IA; Don Sturgell, Moline, IL; Jenny (Nick) Mason, Coal Valley, IL; and Pat Thompson, Davenport, IA; and cousins Jake, Jamie, and Lindsey McNeff, Drew and Cody Sturgell, Carter and Leah Hayes, Tyler and Syndee Cosner, and Walker Mason; plus many special friends. Grant's life will be celebrated during a private service at Pioneer Park Pavilion, in Puyallup, WA on Friday, June 3rd at 2:00 p.m. Donations can be made to the Grant Hayes Memorial Fund at any Chase bank. Proceeds in excess of funeral expenses will be donated to the Point Defiance Zoo and Aquarium in Grant's name.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Jun. 2, 2011.

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Jeanne Ray

May 27, 2022

Precious child! You continue to come to my mind throughout the years, especially around Memorial Day. God's peace, comfort and healing be with your parents and family!

Jillian Baker

June 17, 2011

Gina, Jeff and Kennedy
My thoughts and prayers are with you always. I am sorry for your loss.

Carylon Roseman

June 7, 2011

Our deepest hearts go out to the many lives that Grant so deeply touched, Know he's up their sneaking candy from the angels. Our
prayers are with you....Carylon, Kimberly & Kevin Roseman.

Kathy Davis

June 5, 2011

Search Light Moms wants to tell you how sorry we are for the passing of your Grant. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
Search Light Moms
www.slmoms.com

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chad nelson

June 4, 2011

my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. my deepest condolences

Brooke Barker

June 3, 2011

Gina and Jeff,
We add our prayers to those of so many. Grant has touched so many lives with that beautiful smile and tremendous heart. Thank you for sharing his memory with all today. We love you.

Erika Hunter

June 3, 2011

Jeff and Gina,

We send our deepest condolences to you. From one mother to another my heart grieves for you. I hope you find comfort in knowing that Grant is having the time of his life in heaven.

Cindy Goodwin

June 3, 2011

my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can't begin to imagine your pain. may God be with you and heal your pain. Cindy Goodwin

Lyndsay Holland

June 3, 2011

Although I don't know your family, I shed tears for your loss. My heart breaks for you and I will keep you in my prayers!

Michelle Ochs

June 3, 2011

Jeff and Gina...my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what you are feeling right now, Grant is such a tremendous loss. As a fellow employee of the city, I hope you feel as if you can turn to your "city" family for comfort as well. We will always be there for you. My thoughts are with you and your family during this tragic time.

Dorothy Zold

June 3, 2011

Jeff,Gina and Kennedy,
I can't imagine what your family is going through! You are in my thoughts and prayers! Resonate family

Carolyn (Hayes) Pote

June 3, 2011

Jeff and Gina, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time off loss. We love and miss you all.

Monica (Bishop) Tiemann

June 3, 2011

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Please know that your classmates from Moline High School are thinking and praying for you and your family. May you all find comfort in the arms of our heavenly Father.

Diane (Stiner) Allison

June 3, 2011

Jeff and Gina, my thoughts and prayers are going out to you in this difficult time. All of your old classmates from MHS are thinking about you.

Ann VanZuyt

June 3, 2011

Jeff & Gina,
There is no bond as great as the one between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I hope you find some comfort in the love and support you recieve from all of your family and friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ~ Love, Ann VanZuyt (Hayes)

Kelly Reilly-Morrow

June 3, 2011

Jeff and Gina.....I am so sorry to hear of your loss. What a beautiful little boy. And now a beautiful Angel in heaven looking down on you. Words can't express how Sorry I am to hear of this loss. Many prayers are coming your way from the Quad Cities.Jeff we may not of seen eachother in years but I hope you feel the love from all your classmates who are praying for you and your family. With lots of Love--

sherry greenwood

June 3, 2011

Jeff and Gina and lil sis Kennedy. So sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Grant. May his memories live in your heart and minds forever and know that God and all his angels will take very good care of him until you all meet again. You will all remain in my prayers and thoughts through this difficult time. Sherry Rounds Greenwood

Melissa Eggler

June 3, 2011

Jeff~ what a tragic loss. Please know your classmates from Moline High School are lifting you up in this time of loss. We will be thinking of you and your wife and will be sending strength. ~ Melissa (Drobney) Eggler

Nicki Rogers-Smith

June 3, 2011

Jeff, you may not remember me but I'm an old classmate from Lincoln-Irving/MHS. I'm truly sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you, your wife and family during this time of sorrow.

Janette Simmons

June 2, 2011

What a Hansome little boy he was,Sorry for your pain you all are feeling at this time,God will take care of this Angel and youowill see him again.His smile is so Priceless.

Pam & Rick Andersen

June 2, 2011

Gina and Jeff, We are so sorry for your loss. Memories of Grant will be what you can share. Your memories will be so important in this difficult time. I know that you will be able to remember funny events, his smile, personality and talk about him and dream about him. Grant has an Angel assigned to him and you will feel his presence in so many ways. Grasp those feelings and hold tight. Be proud that in the end he was able to help others. We will be back in town soon and hope you will let us know if you need anything. God bless, Pam and Rick Andersen

June 2, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even pretend to know how you feel. I feel somewhat related since i grew up in Durant Iowa. Rob.

Kristi (Freisinger) Mindrup

June 2, 2011

Sending thoughts and prayers for comfort to you and your family.

Dana Hoereth

June 2, 2011

My deepest sympathy to you Jeff and Gina. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am very sorry for your loss.

Tonya Jessie

June 2, 2011

Jeff,
I know it has been years since we have seen each, but I wanted to let you and wife know that you are both in my thoughts through this difficult time. You have my very deepest sympathy. I didn't know him, but from the posts that I have read he was a very special little boy, and very cute. Take care and know that everyone at MHS is thinking of you and your family.

Tonya Jessie

June 2, 2011

Jeff, I know it has been years since we have seen each other...but my heart goes out you and you family.
It is such a big loss when a child is taken from you, you have my deepest sympathy, and you and wife are in my thoughts through this tough time.

Robin Heaton-Schoolman

June 2, 2011

Jeff, I have no words to express the amount of sympathy and pain I feel for you and Gina. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kim McCarthy

June 2, 2011

Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family at this time of great sorrow. Please know that all of your classmates at Moline High are thinking of you and our hearts ache along with you.

Claudia Hurd

June 2, 2011

I have been praying for your family since I heard of your tragedy. I know that God can heal your hearts and wipe away your tears......Please know that many who you do not know are thinking of you and your family and lifting you up to the Lord.

Aloha Cousin

Paula & Kimo Gombio

June 2, 2011

Gina & Jeff
As you grieve know that we are remembering you and honoring the memory of Grant. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.

Nicole, Gene and Hayden Davis

June 2, 2011

Jeff, Gina and Kennedy, our prayers are lifted for you as you grieve the loss of such a precious and beautiful little boy. I pray you will be able to find some comfort from the Lord, your family and friends.

Gail MacDicken

June 2, 2011

Dear Jeff and Gina, I do not know you but have prayed often for you and will continue in the days ahead. I am Wally's mom and know how broken he was when he shared with me to be praying. As Christians we have that hope to one day see our loved ones again. Grant is a shinning star sitting in the arms of Jesus. God give you peace and comfort . Love,Gail

June 2, 2011

Such a tiny person that had such a huge impact. Hayes Family you are all in my prayers. May you find comfort in your memories of your sweet boy. God bless.

June 2, 2011

Jeff, Gina, and Kennedy, Praying for peace and solace as you remember your precious little boy. We are so sorry for your devastating loss, and we pray your memories of him live in your hearts and carry you through this heartbreaking time. God bless. Love, Ryan and Angie Portmann

Kenny Thompson

June 2, 2011

only seen him in the car seat but the way Madison talks he will be missed by all. love you all .

Amy Petersen

June 2, 2011

Jeff & Gina,
I am so sorry. Words don't seem to be nearly enough. Grant is a beautiful boy and may the many memories you have during his short time stay close in your hearts forever. Your family is in my constant thoughts and prayers. May the love of family and friends and the strength of God carry you through this most difficult time.

Jeanne Ray

June 2, 2011

Precious, precious child!!!! Gina and family, I have been thinking of you and praying for you all week. I am so sorry that you are going through this grief. (Jeanne Ray ex-Davenport PD)

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