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Jackie Messer (Sawyer)
August 22, 2006
Joy! We miss you so much! You were an amazing person and you touched many lives. I loved your smile and miss it so. You were an awsome mother and thought everyone what they needed to know! You were always there when ever Jess and I or anyone ever needed anything! Now everytime I look at something Noah's Ark I think of you! I will never forget you! You will always be in my heart.
Rebecca Watts
June 12, 2006
Dear Dave, Jessica and family,
I just recently learned of Joy's death. It was a shock...I am heartbroken for your loss. Jess, I think of when I ran into you and your mom at the gym and you both were so excited about your baby... Joy was indeed a joy to be around, it was a blessing to have worked with her, she became a friend...I will miss her. Our loss is heaven's gain, she is waiting there, and we will see her again.
You're in my thoughts and prayers. May God's peace and mercy sustain you and may he lift your hearts and mend the broken places...
Janet Shoe
May 9, 2006
Dear Dave and your precious family,
It has been a year. Time passes so fast. Joy has not been forgotten. We miss her. The Shoe's
brian whitmarsh
June 19, 2005
i like joy she made me happy when i was sad i miss her so much i wish she was here right now. i love you joy. i will pray for you
and you pray for me .
David Whitmarsh
June 9, 2005
Joy was a stepmom i could of ask for she was there when i was down, she was there when I wont to go to walmart. I will never stop to love her.
love her son
Jessica Shriver
May 27, 2005
to my beautiful mother- You were the best thing I have ever had in my life. I am so thankful to have Hunter during this time. I niss you so very much. You were the best mom anyone could ask for. You had the best heart and were always there for everyone, especially me. You showed me how to make good decisions and because of that during this hard time, I am able to make the right decisions. Thank you so much for the lessons you have taught me and the unconditional love you have shown me. I miss you so much mom! I wish you were here with me now but i am so thankful you're no longer suffering. I cannot wait until the day I see your beautiful smiling face again. I love you with all my heart forever. Thank you for everything.
Kailey Whitmarsh
May 25, 2005
Joy,
you were like a mother to me and all the kid. Thank you for all you have done for the kid. we love you thank you.
Dave Whitmarsh
May 23, 2005
Words can not start to express the love Joy gave me in the few years we had together, Nor can I thank all of her (our) Freinds enough, You all have helped in ways you could not Imagine. God Bless You all,
There will be a Foundation set in her name and I will post that when it becomes available.

Joy, Dec 2004
May 23, 2005
Linda Manning
May 22, 2005
Joy, I cannot believe this is how it has ended for you. I was in Ireland when you passed and thus was not at the funeral. You have made many impressions on everybody and me also. If I could send you a card or a postcard now, I would. But those days are now over. May you be in a better and restful place then you were in the past several months. Much love Linda Manning.
LINDA COLBURN
May 14, 2005
Dear Dave and Family,
Joy and you visited via boat last summer, and she/I picked the best of our blueberries. I worked with Joy as an OTR, and admire her. The service was beautiful. Our N.Auburn team will keep you in our hearts and also....Joy would say "Keep it up"!
Suzan Young
May 14, 2005
Beauty was Joy
Laughter,love, a few of her charms
Courage, compassion, her embrace
Tears slow
Memories surface to lift our spirits
Goodbye young one with your handprint on our hearts
linda colburn
May 14, 2005
Dear Dave and Family,
I have been honoured to work with Joy at N.Auburn Rehab. We enjoyed our flourishing friendship, and will miss her beautiful smile and thoughtful heart.
Business Office North Auburn Rehab
May 13, 2005
Dave and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys during this sad time. Joy touched so many lives; co-workers and those she cared for while working at North Auburn Rehab. She is and will be missed by all of us.
Julie Coddington
May 13, 2005
Joy was such a pleasure to work with. I will miss her terribly. God bless her whole family.
Rose Moor
May 13, 2005
Dearest Dave, kids, and Wanda - I don't know what to say. I cannot believe this has happened to "our Joy." Joy and I had some really fun times. She was always such a clear thinker on the job, and fun to be around generally. I'll never forget when we were poolside in Phoenix and she asked the waiter "do you do virgins?" She meant to order a virgin Pina Colada. We all laughed til we cried. I miss her so much. I will not forget about you guys. Jess, if you need mothering advice, or general advice, please call me. Love to you all. Rose Moor
Shannon Shaw (Lewis)
May 12, 2005
DearJoy, Words cannot express the feelings that come with losing someone you love. I know you understood how I felt about you and the the life you led. So many people have been touched by your loving and caring nature. You were a loving mother,super daughter,fantastic wife, excellent therapist and super friend to all. Since first meeting you in high school in 1983 to our last days together at North Auburn Rehab there has never been a better friend to me than you. Im so sorry life was cut short for you. I will always keep your memory close to my heart, and I will never forget the pinky promises. Rest in peace my beautiful friend in the arms of our heavenly father. Till we meet again! Shannon
JULIE & JEFF EVANS
May 12, 2005
Dear Dave, Jess, Wanda, Kaylee & David, Words are not enough to express my grief and sorrow of your loss. Joy was a one of kind, always a solid friend, caring about others and generous with her compassion, understanding and love.
I truly miss her and will always remember her as one of my truest friends. Please let us know how we can support your family now and in the future.
Dawn Johnson (Ford)
May 12, 2005
Dave and family
My prayers are with you.
Lori Lusko
May 12, 2005
Dave and family,
We are saddened of the loss of Joy. You have been in our prayers from the beginning. If there is anything you need, we are here for all of you.
Rely on God for all your strength!
John Shine
May 11, 2005
Dave and Family:
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May your faith give you strength in this time off loss. Joy will be missed. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Regards-
John & Teresa Shine
Tina Zimmer
May 11, 2005
With all my love and support to you, Dave, Jessica, new little one, and all. I am here if you need anything.
Barbara Hotsinpiller
May 11, 2005
Dave and Family:
My prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
In Christian Love,
Barbara
Patti Downey
May 11, 2005
You all are in the hearts and prayers of many people. Rest in HIM.
Lori Ann Kueblbeck
May 11, 2005
Dear Dave,
I am so pleased that I had the opportunity to have met Joy. I new the day you made her a part of your life, that the love you have is something very special.Keep your faith and know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Stan Kondo
May 11, 2005
My sincere condolences at this sad time.
carol conklin
May 11, 2005
My prayers an thoughts are with you in this difficult time....remember the wonderful life you shared and that will keep you smiling. Take care, and God will get you through it all.
Carol Conklin
Reber Ranch Pet Dept.
Rosanna Champion
May 11, 2005
Dear Dave:
Joy and you have been inspirations to me, examples of people who found joy in the Lord even in adversity. I cannot completely comprehend your pain, but God knows it; remember He had to watch His son die on that cross so that we may live. He loves you. Keep looking to Him! -Rosanna
Richard Dupraw
May 11, 2005
Best wishes to friends and family.
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