Bonnie Joy Gilmer

Bonnie Joy Gilmer

Bonnie Gilmer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 5, 2010.
Bonnie Joy Snodgrass Gilmer BRISTOL, Va. Bonnie Joy Snodgrass Gilmer, passed away at the age of 83, on Dec. 26, 2009. She is survived by her children, Gwen Wilcox and her husband, Douglas Wilcox of Eaton, Colo., Tyler Gilmer of Bonita Springs, Fla., and Wendy Gilmer of Wytheville, Va.; six wonderful grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. She is also missed by her brother-in-law and his wife, Turner Ashby and Mary Gilmer of Castlewood, Va.; her sister-in-law and her husband, Ellen and Ben E. Ames of Suffolk, Va.; as well as nine nieces and nephews and their families. Bonnie was preceded in death by her husband, James "Jim" Browning Gilmer; her parents, Tyler Frazier and Golden Rodman Snodgrass of Bristol Virginia; a brother, Elbert Snodgrass; a sister and brother-in-law, Dixie Lee and Charles Lerro of Bristol Virginia; a brother and sister-in-law, Don and Rosemary Snodgrass of Denver, Colo.; and a grandson, James Russell Van Patten of Cheyenne, Wyo. Bonnie was born in Denver, and grew up in Colo., Calif., and Russell County, Va. When her father retired from farming, Bonnie moved with her parents to Bristol. Later, she returned to Lebanon in Russell County with her husband, Jim to raise their family. In addition to being a devoted wife and mother, Bonnie taught private kindergarten in her home in Lebanon for several years and actively served her church in many capacities throughout her life. After Jim's retirement, he and Bonnie divided their time between homes in Bristol and Englewood, Fla., where Bonnie took up golf, enjoyed entertaining friends, and sang in a community choir. A memorial service is planned for a later date.

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Barbara Pirtle

January 14, 2010

To the family,

I am sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. My name is Barbara Cheatham Pirtle, and my mother Virgie worked for your family for many years.My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless each of you.

Linda Watkins

January 5, 2010

Dear Gwen, Rodney, and Wendy,

I was most sorry to read about the death of your mother and fairly recent death of your father. The times I spent in your Lebanon home during our "growing up" days were most enjoyable. I remember your mother and father with great fondness.

Special sympathy to all of you at this time.

Linda Watkins

January 5, 2010

Gwyn, Roddie & Wendy,
I was sad to see Bonnie Joy had passed away. We all were neighbors and good friends for many years. Lots of memories. Love to all of you, you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Fay

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