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Thomas R. Fajardo 55, passed away following surgery November 4, 2010. He is survived by his wife, Sarah and children, Emilia and Roberto; parents, Eva and Tomas; sisters, Amanda (Tim), Sandy, Theresa (Carlos), Patsy (Dennis) and nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins and many special friends who loved him dearly. He was predeceased by his brothers, Richard and John. Tom was the first in his family to attend college, graduating from the University of Arizona College of Architecture. He enjoyed his work at various architectural firms here in Tucson. Tom liked basketball and all sports at the University of Arizona (go Cats!). Tom's greatest passion was his family. He loved spending time with his wife and children, watching movies, taking pictures and traveling. He was devoted to his children helping them with life's lessons, volleyball and Tang Soo Do. He and his wife enjoyed nearly 32 years together building a life and their family. He will be loved and missed forever. Memorial Services and a Celebration of Toms' life will take place at 5:00 p.m. on Friday, November 19, 2010 at the Unitarian Universalist Church, 4831 E. 22nd St. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to Arizona's Children Association, 2700 S. 8th Ave. Arrangements by BEST FUNERAL HOME.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star from Nov. 11 to Nov. 14, 2010.

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Julie Brown Shipway

September 29, 2011

My dear Sally, I didn't know...I'm so sorry for your loss...truly he was one-of-a-kind!

Terry Kemp

November 18, 2010

Sarah & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how deep the hurt and the loss is for all of you. My prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow.

Daniel Vargas

November 17, 2010

Like Tom I was class of 73 at Flowing Wells High School. Again like Tom we both choose the same profession and saw each other frequently at the architecture college. Over the years we would have lunch and catch up with each other. While 38 years may seem like a long time to know some one, its not. His passing makes that time period seem much too short. I will miss his friendship.

November 16, 2010

Tom was a cool guy, a good architect and a funny man. His irreverent sense of humor always had me reeling with laughter. He had a great look at life and his circumspect nature and insight is what made his humor so infectious. Signs of wise and intelligent man. That humor will forever have me smiling.

Dave Cattanach

November 16, 2010

Tom was a cool guy, a good architect and a funny man. His irreverent sense of humor always had me reeling with laughter. He had a great look at life and his circumspect nature and insight is what made his humor so infectious. Signs of wise and intelligent man. That humor will forever have me smiling.

Keeth Lichtenberger

November 16, 2010

I had a great time knowing Tom during architecture school in Tucson. He loved life and was the first to laugh with his fantastic sense of humor. The great memories of the times we had in design lab will never leave my mind and heart as Tom was one of my best friends from those times. Adios old friend!
My prayers and good thoughts go out to Tom's family.

Anthony Capps

November 15, 2010

This is a shock. I just saw Tom a while back at lunch with his fellow workers. We talked, and who ever knows when this is going to happen. You have my deepest sympathy in this time of grief.

Michael McGill

November 15, 2010

I am at a loss for words. Tom was a man with so many fine attributes. Above all, I will always remember him as a great friend - going all the way back to our days working together at the Revco Drug Store on Grant Road, where we first met. Tom's laugh. Was there anyone who had a more boisterous or infectious laugh? We had some great adventures and shared some great times together over the years. I'm going to miss him and that great laugh of his tremendously. I already do. Love to Sarah, Emelia and Roberto.

Jihane Rohrbacker

November 14, 2010

our hearts go out to you. We are so saddened to hear of your tremendous loss. Please know that a lot of us are keeping you in our prayers during this most difficult time in your lives.
The Rohrbacker family

Dawn Bryce

November 14, 2010

My heart aches for you and the children Sarah, you will be in my prayers. Ms.Dawn (The Sandbox)

November 13, 2010

Sarah,I am so sorry and wish to express my sympathy to you and to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may God Bless you. Sincerely Betty Lou Jones

stefanie feldman

November 13, 2010

Sarah, I am so sorry for your loss. He and I are the exact same age so he is very young to leave so sooon . My sympathies to you and your family. Love Stefanie Feldman

Mary & Joe Williams

November 13, 2010

Sarah, So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you & your family.

Judy Annd Redmond

November 12, 2010

Sarah, my condolences and prayers go out to you and your children. May the memories of your life together bring you continued joy, strength and hope. God Bless You, Judy Anne Redmond

Peggy Jones

November 12, 2010

To Sarah, Emilia, and Roberto:
I enjoyed working with Tom. He was always researching everything that he did and choosing the most state of the art options. I admired that about him. Thank you for the opportunity to hold all of you in my arms during this time of the celebration of Tom's life. I am so sorry for your loss. Come by again whenever you need to and I will hold you. Sincerely, Peggy Jones MD

Amelia Alderete

November 12, 2010

Our condolences to the Fajardo family. Our prayers are with your whole family. May the Lord bless you with love and courage. Love, Amelia Alderete and family.

Klindt Breckenridge

November 12, 2010

Sarah, Emilia, and Roberto, our hearts and prayers go out to you. Tom was a true friend, gentlemen and will be deeply missed. Thinking of you all at this difficult time and knowing your faith will help guide you.
Klindt, Nancy, Wilson, Lauren and Carson

Kirklyn Cox

November 12, 2010

I had the pleasure of knowing Tom while working at Breckenridge Group. I considered him a mentor of mine while I was going through architecture school. I will never forget his encouraging words. Rest in peace.

Melissa Siegel

November 12, 2010

Dear Sarah,
I was so sorry to read of your loss today in the paper. I know though you will find the strength to keep your family together and you will all feel loved and cared for forever! My sincere thoughts are with you all.

Much Love,
Melissa Siegel

Adalyn Mains

November 12, 2010

Sarah: I was saddened today to read
of your husband's death. Please know that both you and your family are in my
thoughts and prayers.
Adalyn Mains

November 11, 2010

SADDENED TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS OF TOM. SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. JERRY DODSON

Kristen Knuese

November 11, 2010

Sarah, Emilia, and Roberto:

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was an amazing man with a heart of gold. I will miss our talks, his smile, and his sense of humor. I am honored to say he was my friend. You and your family will be in my prayers. He loved you all so much.

Gary Hickey

November 11, 2010

Sarah-

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. While I may have met him a time or two, I didn't really know him. However, I know you, and we would get together to discuss my investments (remember those days, when people had money?), the conversation would always include family. It was so obvious to me from listening to you that you guys had something not many people do, that you were soulmates and I found that refreshing in this day and age. I cannot relate to what you must be feeling. However, you and your family are in my prayers that God may help you through this incredibly difficult time.

Gary Hickey

Dave Larson

November 11, 2010

My profoundest sympathies to Tomas and Eva, and the rest of Tom's family. I can imagine your pain and grief.

Richard Luckett

November 11, 2010

Tom I will miss you, your emails and lunch at Bob Dobbs. We all remember our days at the College of Architecture and years putting projects together.

Richard Luckett

November 11, 2010

I was shocked to read of Tom's passing. We had worked together many years ago at Kim Acorn & Assc..
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing.
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived

November 11, 2010

I first met Tom at the U of A when we were in school. Later , Tom and I
worked together at Kim Acorn's office back in the early 80's. I saw that
he was one of the few people there who knew what he was doing
and who was hard-working and committed to architecture. I respected
him at that time and we became friends.
Fortunately (or unfortunately) we, at that time, shared the same
sense of "humor". We were both cynical and sarcastic and rarely
showed any mercy to those around us. Tom was extremely
quick-witted, insightful and perceptive. We had a lot funny, crazy
and outragious times together and I still wonder how we survived
many of the situations that we would deliberately put ourselves
into. I believe its because we kept each other away from things that
were illegal, dangerous or violent. We did everything for laughs
and together we had plenty. We seemed to save our "best"
material for Halloween ( it was a long time ago for both of us).
Tom really did love to play basketball and we would hit
various gyms around town on a regular basis. He was a very
intense, focused, physical and hard-working player. He was always
willing to do the "dirty" work on the court (rebound, play hard-nosed
defense and set vicious screens). I always liked being on the same
team with him because he would always pass me the ball for wide
open shots. I hated playing against because he really enjoyed
delivering his brand of "cheap shots". He played like a combination
of Charles Oakley and Anthony Mason.
I've known Tom for a long time and I have seen him during the
good times and the not-so-good times, but he was always loyal,
trust-worthy and dependable to me. He was a very good friend
to me at a time in my life when I needed a good friend. He is truly
irreplaceble and I know that I will miss him deeply.
I hope and pray that Tom's family and friends will find peace
and comfort during their time of grief and loss.
Gus Roumbos (Tucson, AZ.)

Art Cordova

November 11, 2010

Our condolences to Tomas and Eva for your loss. May God Bless you and your family.
Art and Sylvia Cordova

Linda Fajardo

November 11, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Julie Perry

November 11, 2010

Fajardo Family,
I worked with Tom at Breckenridge, my deepest condolences he was a really a great guy.

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