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Harold Hughesdon Obituary

Died Peacefully at Home on Friday, June 29, 2012 Age 91. He was preceded in death by his brother, Flying Officer P. G. (Lex) Hughesdon, RAF, in 1945; his father, Percy Hughesdon, in 1956; his mother, Helen Upton Hughesdon, in 1981; and his beloved wife of 62 years, Dolores Ettel Hughesdon, in 2007. He is survived by three daughters: Helen Mary Hughesdon, Martha (Charles) Turner, and Cathy (Kent) Edwards; two sons: Peter G. (Beckie) Hughesdon and Joseph (Angela) Hughesdon; ten grand-children: Michael (Nisha) Turner; Liz Edwards (Scott) Hewitt and Maggie, Peter, and Nicholas Edwards; Jessica Hughesdon; and Andrew, Grace, Peter V. and James Hughesdon; two great-grandchildren: Laila and Owen Hewitt; and "adopted" daughter, Helen Wagner. Following his education at the Westminster Cathedral Choir School and Clapham College in London, he joined the RAF and attained the rank of Flight Lieutenant. During World War II, he was apilot and a flight instructor. After the war, he and Dolores moved to St. Paul, MN, where he earned a BS in chemistry from St. Thomas College and an MA in library science from the U of M. He became a librarian at St. Thomas and taught physics, chemistry, and library science there and at the College of St. Catherine until he began his 3M career in 1955. He worked primarily in the international division and retired in 1988 as director of 3M international's intellectual property portfolio, a job that used his science background, his knowledge of several European languages, and his patent law expertise, acquired in part while he coauthored An Outline of United States Patent Law (lnterscience, 1959). Ordained a deacon in 1981, he served St. Agnes Parish in that capacity for 30 years, primarily as master of ceremonies and trainer of altar servers; he also ministered to the sick and the elderly at Bethesda nursing home and Marian Center. His family is grateful to Dr. James Giefer for the expertise and understanding he showed while caring for both Harold and Dolores and to Ann Koenig Anaya for all she did to make their lives pleasant and comfortable, especially during their last years. Visitation at Willwerscheid and Peters Funeral Home, 1167 Grand Ave., St. Paul, 651-228-1006 from 4-7PM on Monday, July 2, 2012; Requiem Mass at the Church of St. Agnes, Lafond and Kent, at 10AM on Tuesday, July 3, 2012. Memorials preferred to the Church of St. Agnes or the University of St. Thomas.


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Published by Pioneer Press on Jul. 1, 2012.

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Jeannine Gramick

July 12, 2012

Dear Martha,
You are a wonderful daughter and cared so tenderly for your dad. He is now enjoying the fullness of life with our God. May you and your siblings be at peace.
With sympathy,
Jeannine Gramick

Russ Feldmeier

July 8, 2012

Dear Helen Mary, Martha, Cathy, Peter and Joe,
I send you my deepest condolences from Seoul. I offered Mass for Harold here at the Maryknoll Center House, and have remembered you all in prayer. Both of your parents were very special people to me, and of course to my own parents. It was always such a delight to share a meal or a long conversation with Harold, as we did during my last visit to St. Paul. And I will always remember the Masses we had together at your house.
Know you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
In Christ's Peace, Russ

Marylee Cotten Mirco

July 6, 2012

Joey & Pete - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Sending lots of love and my best wishes to you and your families. Hope you are both doing well - I remember you with love and wonderful memories! Your father certainly accomplished a lot in his lifetime,including rasing two amazing men! My best. Marylee (Cotten) Mirco

Mary Brady Dwyer

July 5, 2012

Dear Helen Mary and Hughesdon Family,
I was deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your father and send my condolences.
You are in my thoughts and prayers as you mourn your father's passing--may you be comforted and lifted up by your family members, friends and community.
Mary Brady Dwyer,
Class of 64

July 3, 2012

Dear Hughesdon and St Agnes Family,
I have wonderful memories of conversations with Deacon Hughesdon. How very good he was to Monsignor Schuler and all the rectory staff.He was always so filled with joy and interesting thoughts to ponder. Know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
What a joy to be able to walk among "saints in the making" and glean
from their wisdom and joy. We are drawn to desire that joy that comes from a life well lived in service of our Lord. We will keep Harold and all of you in our prayers.
Rosemary Thuente
Montgomery MN

Judy Hall

July 3, 2012

Dear Hughesdon Families:
Jim and I send our sympathy in the loss of a great patriarch. Your description of his life gave us a picture of a driven and devoted man. We are saddened that you must say farewell. You may be assured that the angels at the alters will be trained properly with his assistance. May your memories brighten your day and bring you comfort knowing you will see him again in the great kingdom. God bless and love to you.

July 2, 2012

Dear Helen Mary,
Deepest sympathy to you and your family. You're in our prayers.

Sincerely, Michele Speranza and Marshall Skare

July 2, 2012

Pete, Becky and Joey,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I never had the privilege of meeting your pop but he produced some truly hellacious boys that it is my pleasure to know. Tim Lippert

July 2, 2012

TO ALL OF HAROLD'S WONDERFUL FAMILY. As a man of faith, he found peace and a sense of fulfillment in the Catholic Church that was obvious to us. We hope that knowing the depth of his faith will spread a special peace over you all at this time. Hugs and prayers from the West Coast. Toni and Jim Tschann

Andy Milam

July 2, 2012

I had the profound pleasure of knowing Harold for a good many years, beginning in 1994 and continuing up and until his death. I lived in the rectory at St. Agnes while I was attending UST and he and I became good friends.

Harold taught me the ins and outs to being a proper and good trainer of altar boys, as well as being a proper and good master of ceremonies. For that I will ever give praise to the good Deacon.

I would like to intimate one small story which will stand out to a oood many of the parish at St. Agnes. Every Easter Vigil, we were privleged to hear Harold read from Exodus about the chariots and charioteers. This became quite the fancy for priests and seminarians to hear, as Harold would be emphatic about this in his English accent.

For Harold's family, I would have you look to Wisdom 3:1-9. For those of us who knew him well, tip a glass of wine, enjoy one last time the ride of the chariots and charioteers and know that Harold has been a good and faithful servant.

He is now with Delores. Exactly where he should be. Rest in Peace, Harold, you've done well.

Gustavo Rodriguez

July 2, 2012

Harold Hughesdon defined (for me) what the ministry of the permanent deacon is. He was the faithful servant that everyone looked to, reliably, every Sunday, to proclaim the Gospel and to marshall the exemplary group of altar servers. Will always remember how he welcomed me at the Church. And the trip to Rome in 1994 with Monsignor Schuler and Fr. Hogan.
Requiescat in pace!

Kevin Wilson

July 2, 2012

What an extraordinary life led in service to all. To STA classmate Joe and family, my deepest sympathies for the loss of a great man.

Tim Peterson

July 2, 2012

Harold was a good friend and devoted servant of God. He will truly be remembered by all at Saint Agnes for he gave so much of his time and knowledge to the servers and the Readings of the Gospel. He always made the celebrant at ease, keeping all involved at a steady pace and on time. Everything ran so smoothly with his assistance.

Thomas Filter

July 2, 2012

Pete & Beckie, We wish we could be there to give you hugs. We are thinking about you, Love Tom & Judie

Catherine Turner

July 2, 2012

Dear Helen Mary and all the Hughesdon Family,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathies. Harold has been Patriarch of St Agnes Parish and a father figure to us. Thank you for sharing him with us. We have always been uplifted by his readings at the Mass, his precision as Master of Ceremonies, and by so many conversations. A great gentleman has left this earth! We send our love and prayers- The David Turner Family

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