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Shirley Larkin Obituary
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Memories and Condolences
for Shirley Larkin
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Melissa Barnes
August 5, 2024
Oh Shirley.
It´s been a few years since I´ve written you a message, though we talk regularly through my prayers and your signs from above. This year has been one that I have wished to have you and my mother near me more than any other. As Sammy and I walked through our attempts at parenthood, and finally the blessing of my first pregnancy, I felt your presence with me as I pictured what kind of mother I aspire to be. I knew you and my mom were there, giving me the strength I needed to feel confident to take this step forward with little guidance in the form of advice or encouragement. I channeled both of your grace and energy as I entered the O.R. to deliver my twin boys at only 32 weeks; I felt you both with me, in such a powerful way. I now navigate the most difficult challenge of my life thus far, grieving the passing of one of my twin boys several days after they were born while trying to be present for the joys of becoming a new mom with my other son who is still with us and thriving. I find myself crying out for a hug and some semblance of comfort hoping that perhaps my baby Stellar is now with you both, safely in the arms of my mother and my honorary grandma in the great beyond, the eternal oneness. I struggle to make sense of the why, wishing that things were different and angry at the universe for taking my son from me so soon. I miss our talks, your words of encouragement, our laughs. I miss watching you dig into your Louis for a crumpled up piece of cash after the end of a good meal. The way you nurtured your daughters with love, wisdom, and pushed them to their greatest potential will be my beacon as I aim to be the best mother I can for my son, Qwest. I love and miss you, Shirley. Give my mom & my baby a squeeze for me.
Love,
Melissa
Thomas Rodriguez
August 5, 2020
Today I got an email about remembering Shirley. Honestly, I never need a reminder. I may not have known Shirley outside of the Larkin world but I have never met a more amazing woman. Knowing her backstory and how things started and everything she worked so hard to build is a legacy that will live on forever in every life that has been touched in any way by the Larkin world, if you're a dancer, a parent, a relative or friend who attended a recital...you have witnessed the Larkin way and I guarantee you were touched in ways you may never even know. I can't even count the number of recitals I cried at, probably all of them lol! When I was a child my friends were Larkin dancers and I was so jealous because I always wanted to be one but we could never afford it. When I had my own daughter the moment she was able to start, she did! Shirley was still very much involved and around when my daughter was young and there were times we needed help and she never even gave it a thought...shoes, tights, leos that were needed in that moment but we needed to wait for payday sometimes being young parents and it was never an issue. She gave so much love through so many things and I just hope she knows that those moments are what made me see her halo.
Lacey Larkin
September 2, 2012
Grandma,
I wish I could go back to the old days where I would get phone calls from you on a weekly basis just wondering how I was doing. If I could talk to you on the phone right now I would have so much to tell you. College is great. Its scary being away from home. I even decided to pledge a sorority. I'm not sure which sorority I am going to be in, but one of the sororities philanthropy is fundraising for alzheimer's and finding a cure. They showed us a video on the statistics of alzheimer's and I cried in front of everybody. Before I found out you were diagnosed with this horrible disease, I had never heard of it before. Now that I lost you to this disease, I have been trying to get as involved as possible. I managed to raise $5,000 dollars by myself in the past year and even participated in the walk to end Alzheimer's. It is truly something that has motivated me to get involved in community service more than ever. I know you would be so proud. I think about you every day. Especially because I wish I had you here to guide me in the right direction like you always used to. I know I could always go to you not only for honesty, but advice and encouragement. You always pushed me to go for my dreams. Especially when I worked in the city. You were the first person to brag about my singing and acting to everyone and I will never forget when you used to make me sing in front of all of your friends. But once again, I just wish I could hear your voice. All I have is videos, pictures, and memories that just aren't enough. I miss you Grandma. Those six months I was able to spend with you in New Jersey were six months of my life that I will cherish and hold onto forever. I know you will give me strength and guidance in my decision making throughout my entire life. I love you more every day.
Love always,
Lacey
June 17, 2012
Mom
Happy birthday to the most amazing Mother,Grandmother and Great grandmother in the world. I Miss seeing and talking to You everyday,I think your gonna walk through the Studio door or call Me to get You a DQ blizzard. Your strength,passion,drive dedication,hard work and love for your Business and Family are what get Me through each day at work.You have touched and made a huge impact on so many peoples lifes. There isn't a day I'm not second guessing Myself if this is what Mom would do,it has and always will be My goal to make you proud. I know your Dancing in heaven with Dad and have no more pain, Choreographing dances and being in charge of things.You are and always will be the wind beneath My wings.I love you always and forever Mommy. Love Molly
Debbie Grutzmacher
June 11, 2012
I was thinking of you all today and thinking of the tribute you did for Shirley at the recital this year. This is my granddaughters first year attending Larkin so I didn't a chance to meet Shirley but that just touched me.
November 20, 2011
Mom,
I am having such a hard time missing you! I think of you everyday and I miss talking to you like we always did when you were well. I miss taking care of you and helping make each day the best I could for you. It was my pleasure and my mission to make you as confortable as you could be and it was my goal everyday to make you love,smile and laugh! And that you did! I miss you and my heart aches everyday for you! I know you are in a better place right now but your being here is so missed! You did so much in your lifetime and you are my Legacy! I was always so proud of you~ Thank you mom for everything you did for so many people and especially all you did for me! You always had the biggest heart!! I miss you and love you so much! I know you are dancing in heaven with Dad !! I miss you both so much!! I love you and I miss you with all my heart! RIP Mom
Love Always, Kelley
Rita Moseley
October 31, 2011
Blessings to the Larkin family. You have put Minnesota on the map as a force to be reckoned with, in the area of dance, throughout the state and nationally. I've been told there will be a tribute to your beloved Shirley, on an upcoming episode of the popular tv show "Dancing With The Stars". I'm looking forward to it. As a passionate dancer myself and lover of the arts.... Much respect, -Rita (St. Paul)
Connie Burda-Nicholson
September 11, 2011
I was very sad to see in the White Bear Press that Shirley Larkin had passed away. I took dance from Shirley when she was still teaching out of her home in Mahtomedi. Shirley was a great tap dancer and would lead the lesson with her tap shoes on showing you the moves she expected you to follow. I came to Shirley I believe my parents Stan and Mary Burda knew Russell and Shirley so it only made sense for me to take dance from a well known teacher and friend. I have not seen Shirley in years, I know she will be grealy missed by many...
Gina Sullivan-Sroga
August 21, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. She has touched so many people throughout her life, including myself. She will never be forgotten, and will be greatly missed by all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers every day.
Donna Sullivan
August 20, 2011
We just returned from a family vacation and were so saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. There are so many wonderful memories of my daughter's years at Larkin and all the fun times working on costumes, etc. Recently, she sent me a note and I was so surprised she remembered me since it's been many years since my daughter's graduation. She will be greatly missed by all. My deepest sympathy to Molly, Michelle, Patti, Mary Kay, Kelley and Nancy and all the family.
August 18, 2011
To the Larkin Family,
Shirley was very special to us. She was a great friend and also part of our dance family. We spent time together at conventions in N.Y.C. Chicago, and Minneapolis over the past 40 years. We will miss the fun times we had stopping by the studio to see all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Betty, Lee and Cheryl
August 18, 2011
I was so sorry to read about your Mom's passing. I have so many good memories of dance lessons at your house in Mahtomedi. She was so fun! Really a neat woman. She'll be missed by many, I'm sure.
cara cox
August 18, 2011
I remember shirly when I was young she was my dance teacher and let me tell you I have never seen a teacher that was that great she was a sweet and loving person also. ty for being a awsome lady shirley u will always be missed and remembered. rest in peace.
Missy Johnson
August 18, 2011
To the Larkin Family,
You are in my deepest prayers with the loss of your mother. What a remarkable woman!! She was my first dance teacher when I was a little girl and my grandma used to take me to dance. I will always cherish the time I had at the studio and always remember your mother as such a great role model.
With love and prayers,
Missy Johnson
Kevin Dunnigan
August 17, 2011
Because of what this woman started I was able to pursue dreams I never thought of. My thoughts are with the Larkin family. Shirley will be missed by many!
Janice Barringer
August 17, 2011
To all Shirley's wonderful family,
You and Shirley were a big part of my life for years. I cherish those wonderful memories. With love, Janice
August 16, 2011
My thoughts are with you at your time of grief. Shirley will be missed in the dance community.
Pat Short
The Augustine Family
August 16, 2011
Mary Kay, Michele & Molly,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Shirley. She truly is an icon that will never be forgotten. We Thank You girls for carrying on her legacy!
All of Our Love and Prayers go out to you!
Betsy (Dodds) Ganz
August 16, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Larkin family. I have many fond childhood memories of dance lessons at studio.
It was such a treat getting in costume for the recitals! She will surely be missed by many. God Bless.
The Zack Family
August 15, 2011
To know Shirley Larkin was to know strength, passion, love, commitment, dedication, self-confidence, beauty and devotion beyond belief. Shirley instilled these very attributes in her own girls, and those who were lucky enough to call themselves "children of Shirely"...for all of her students were not just part of a studio, but loved as a family member. You can spot a "Larkin Dancer" by the way they move, by their carriage, and by their confidence. That is the gift Shirley has given them. To have known her was one of God's greatest blessings. We love you Shirley. Thank you for showing us the "Larkin Way". And thank you Michele, Molly, Kelly and MaryKay for carrying on your mom's legacy. To all of the Larkin Family, our thank you's and condolences as well.
With All of Our Love and Sympathy
Carrie "Anderson" Pfeiffer
August 15, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Larkin Family. I danced with Larkin for 12 years, and it made a huge impact on the adult I have become. Something that I will always remember about Shirley and the "Larkin Culture" is how generous she was / they are. Shirley truly embodied the verse "praise his name with dancing". May your family find comfort in her legacy & each other during this difficult time.
Sue Egan
August 15, 2011
Dear Kelly and Larkin Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your Mom's Drive and Determination will never be forgotten! May her legacy live on!!! Take Care and God Bless!
Sue Egan Chandler
August 15, 2011
DEAR MICHELLE,MOLLY AND FAMILY,
I WAS SADDENED TO HEAR ABOUT SHIRLEY.
THERE ARE SO MANY MEMORIES OF SHIRLEY,MONIQUE AND JUDY. WE HAD SO MUCH FUN AT ALL THE DANCE WORKSHOPS AND OUR DINNERS.
I WILL NEVER FORGET HOW GIVING SHIRLEY ALWAYS WAS TO EVERYONE.
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES!!
MY LOVE AND PRAYERS TO YOUR FAMILIES.
JUDY RAE SMITH
Kim (Anderson) Zafke
August 15, 2011
To the Larkin Family:
My thoughts are with you at this time. I was one of the many that took dance from Shirley from the time I was a small girl until latter in life. I then went to high school with her daughters, she taught me many things in those years.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers
Christy Gunter
August 15, 2011
Mary Kay, Molly, and Michele,
I know no one needs to tell you what a special, influential woman your mom was, but there are so many out there right now thinking those very thoughts. She fitted me for my first pair of dance shoes at age three and handed out suckers and a smile to my own daughter when she started dance at three. She was an inspiration to women and dancers everywhere.
Christy, Bill and Rowan Gunter
Jane Martz
August 15, 2011
Sending hugs and love to the entire Larkin family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jane Martz (OHA Secretary)
Dan Dee
August 15, 2011
Michele & family,
I am very sorry to hear about your mother's passing. She was incredibly talented, strong and driven and she has passed those traits on to you and your sisters. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Suzanne Perdue
August 15, 2011
To Molly, Michelle, Matt, Mackenzie and the entire Larkin family,
The dance world and the world in general is a much better place because of Shirley. The dance community has lost a source of inspiration and a role model for so many reasons. I was honored and proud to know her. Her legacy lives on forever. She will be missed.
Angelique McDonald
August 14, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you...
Shirley was an inspiration to so many people-not just her dancers! Besides all the amazing things she that did for the dance community and for the families from the studio what I remember best was how she would come and talk politics with me! She had been active for years when I met her in 2008 and she sure knew what she was talking about! She was a hoot and reminded me of my own grandmother.
I pray that you savor each memory that you have of her and that you find strength in the knowledge that you had such an amazing women as your mother.
Sincerely,
Angelique & Brynn McDonald
Angie Kivel
August 14, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to your family. Angie & Kris Kivel and Family
Jayme & Natavia Pronger
August 14, 2011
My prayers and thoughts go out to Michele, Molly, MaryKay, Patty and the rest of the Larkin family. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your amazing mother Mrs. Larkin. Her legacy will live on forever.
Michelle, Bo and Meghan Dunaski
August 14, 2011
Shirley touched a place in our hearts in ways she could have never imagined. Just her presence made a difference. There aren't many women as amazing, or who will leave a legacy even close to the one she is leaving.....She will be missed and cherished!
August 14, 2011
your mom was a great person
i was proud to know her
mary tucker
August 14, 2011
Mary Kay, Patty, Michele, Nancy, Kelley, Molly and Families,
My heart aches for all of you for your loss.
Your mother was an amazing and strong woman who inspired generations of young women. She was ahead of her time and her legacy is far reaching.
It cannot go without saying that her legacy includes the creation of the very first Mahtomedi Girls Gymnastic team developed in your family's home studio...your mom was our coach and we would not have been the team we were in those days without having first been coached by your mom...stretching (with pointed toes!) and tumbling/acrobatics (with pointed toes!) during dance class on those little black mats! We are all the better for having been touched by her--A Great Woman indeed.
May God Bless you all through this very difficult time.
With love,
Larae Copeland
Amy Gunderson
August 14, 2011
Mary Kay, Michele, Molly and the entire Larkin Family~
Words can not express how much your mom will be missed. I will remember her smile, sense of humor and determination. Find peace in all the wonderful memories of her. Sending our thoughts, prayers and love.
~The Gunderson Family~
Darin Troglia
August 14, 2011
There are so many thoughts that come to mind when thinking about Shirley. I have been so blessed to have had the opportunity to see her for many years. I could always count on a smile from her everytime she entered a room. That smile in turn made me smile and forget about everything else that might have been going on at the time. When we talked she was always honest and supportive. I knew that she cared and she always took the time to listen and encourage me. Mrs. Larkin thank you for all of your contributions during your life on this earth and for touching the lives of so many. Your rewards are now in heaven. The wonderful memories with family and friends will always be remembered. As your family mourns, may those times of joy and happiness bring them peace. You gave of yourself to make a difference in the lives of others and those gifts will forever be appreciated. My thoughts and prayers are with the Larkin Family.
Russell Burks
August 14, 2011
I was saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. My sincere sympathy to the Larkin family. I've lived in the Seattle area for the past 15 years and it never ceases to amaze me the recognition the Larkin family name has here in dancing circles. Teresa is the dancer she is today because of the Larkins. Thank you for all the great memories!!
Melissa Laager
August 14, 2011
Dear Michele, Molly, Quisha and your Families,
Thoughts and prayers of love and support to you, and to the dance families, of your wonderful Mother and Grandmother. She touched the lives and the hearts of so many ~ and I feel blessed that my family, and my daughter, are among them. How proud I was to a Dance Mom for Shirley Larkin! So very many memories ~ let them fill your mind, warm your heart, and lead you through this difficult time! Forever remembered, forever loved.
Sara Bonn
August 14, 2011
One of the funniest moments I had during a dance recital is also one of my best memories of Mrs. Larkin. I had a no number change from one costume to another. I made it on time with my group the music started and the next thing I know I realized that my costume was on backwards, my tail was flopping around in the front of my lion costume. I lost it with laughter and so did the girls around me once they noticed it. My position was in the front row at the end. When I looked off stage there was Shirley, laughing but at the same time encouraging me to keep going. Afterwards she complemented me on a great job, and said that was one of my best performances.
I am honored to have known you Mrs. Larkin. Thank you for all your words of wisdom and love.
August 14, 2011
We are so sorry for the loss of Shirley. She was truly a wonderful, strong fabulous teacher and friend to many. I will always remember her as a very wonderful friend. We had a lot in common and I treasure that. Anna Bohaty
Mary Granger-Hexom
August 14, 2011
So sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Larkin. My deepest sympathy to the enitre Larkin family. My memories of the Larkin family go back to when I first started taking lesson in the Larkin home and continue taking lessons for about 11 years. Shirley tought me more then just dancing - I still have my tap shoes..I was always to proud to say I've danced at the"Larkin studios" .. Shirley certainly was a trailblazer in the dance field.
I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
Melissa McCabe (McGee)
August 14, 2011
Sorry for your loss. She was an amazing woman. May she live on in those she taught. Thoughts are with you and your family.
Katie Cake
August 14, 2011
As a child I didn't realize that I wasn't just learning to dance from you. Now I realize that I was learning to be strong, graceful, set goals, achieve goals, enjoy the moment and so many more things beyond just dancing. Thank you for the dancing, dinners, competitions, and sleep-overs. Most of all, thank you for showing me how to be graceful outside of the classroom.
melissa barnes
August 14, 2011
shirley- you are, in all meanings of the word, my grandma. you were the only one who went up to bat for me every time I got myself into trouble, like a true grandma would! You were my mom's best and truest friend and Perkins date every morning, where I would go to skip first hour and talk with the "Golden Girls"- Barb, Lynne and Shirls. You opened your home to me- my first Mahtomedi residence-just to get me into the district! You were never-ending in your giving. The black and white room was my crash pad before Chicago conventions. You were the first one in my life to call me your "jewish princess." And even when times were tough in my move out to LA, you were the first one to tell me you believed in me. You were the first person I called when I booked my first job with Wayne and Cirque! And you are the first person I think about when I say I am a dancer. You opened your studio, your love and dedication to dance, and most importantly your heart to me and I am so grateful to have shared so many moments with you. Your legacy stirs up so many cherished memories in my heart, and so many laughs that although this is a painful moment, I have to smile when I think of you! Your voice answering the phone "dance studio!" Or your obsession with animal print! Your refusal to have a cell phone! The way we rhinestoned everything that was possibly rhinestone-able! You were never scared to tell it like it was! and I wanted to be just like you. Still do. You are such a precious influence on the woman I have grown to be. and I appreciate how great of friend you were to my mom, through many tough times. And you always gave me the benefit of the doubt, always made me feel important and valued, and even when i acted a fool, you were still there supporting me. You spoiled me with your love, light, compassion, generosity, kindness, and honesty and these and certainly your dry humor and sarcasm will live on through me and the rest of the Larkin children forever. I love you Shirley, and I miss you already. You will always be my guiding angel and inspiration. every step I take on stage is for you. Rest in peace, until we meet again. hugs and kisses, Melis
Rebecca Harris
August 14, 2011
A wonderful woman who will be missed
Brittney Sletten
August 13, 2011
When I heard of Mrs. Larkin passing I not only remember my great memories of the studio but a day last year when my daughter Kenzie was upset about a new dance bag she wanted and Shirley walking up to me and saying "My granddaughter is a Mackenzie" she can have what she wants...giving my daughter the bag and saying now get to class Mackenzie! Rip Mrs. Larkin and thank you for all you've done over the years!
Brittney and Mackenzie
Jackie Belde
August 13, 2011
So sorry for your loss. Shirley will be greatly missed. Her legacy will live on forever.
Victoria McNamara
August 13, 2011
Michelle, Molly and the entire Larkin Family~
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this incredibly difficult time! Your Mom was THE icon of dance in Minnesota. She shared her love of dance with so many that went on to share that love around the world. We are all better for having known her! May God bless you all!! Love~ Victoria, Lex, & Sammi McNamara
Amy Valerius
August 13, 2011
So story to hear of your loss. She was truly an inspiration!
Dianne Butterfield
August 13, 2011
To Michelle & Molly and all the Larkin family: Your Mom put Minnesota on the dance map of America and will always be remembered for the quality of the studio she founded. My thoughts are with you.
Linda Hall-Ruberto
August 13, 2011
My love and prayers to the family. Shirley and her daughters were a big part of my life for many years. She was one of a kind and will be greatly missed. I'm sure her legacy will continue on through those who knew and loved her.
Jan and Marv Miller
August 13, 2011
Marv and I are so sorry for the loss of your mother and grandmother. She was the most amazing woman I have ever known. She inspired me in my own business to strive to be the best and was always someone I could call and get advice from, especially in my early years of owning a studio. She will be missed by thousands who grew to love her through the studio. Her love of dance will carry on forever through her family and her amazing students. The dance community has lost a friend and soul mate....RIP Shirley....I will always keep you in my thoughts.
Karen Booth
August 13, 2011
My heart goes out to all of you girls and your families. Shirley was such an awesome woman and touched the lives of so many. She and my mom, Terry, knew each other back when they were young and taking dance lessons, I believe...and were re-aquainted when my daughters started lessons at your studio. I know they had some fun times together....went to church at Redeeming Love a few times even. My mother passed 3 years ago...and Shirley was there to show her support to us at that time. It meant a lot to me. I'm sure the two of them will be visiting again, soon :) God Bless you all and may God hold you in His arms and comfort you at this difficult time of loss~
Sandy Price
August 13, 2011
Shirley was the best friend a person could ask for. Always supportive, always praying, always understanding. I loved her. She will be in our hearts forever. Sandy Price
Linda and Terry Winning
August 13, 2011
Terry and I wish to express our heartfelt sympathy to the Larkin family and friends for the loss of an incredible woman. I'll never forget my daughter Lea's audition with Shirley when she joined the studio. That was the beginning of a lifetime of dance for her, not only as a professional dancer, but now a studio owner herself, in Los Angeles. We pray that you will find peace as you go through this most difficult process of healing. With much appreciation for Shirley and her amazing family, especially Michele.
Teresa Rolf
August 13, 2011
Shirley was an inspiration to all the dance world, and to me. She had a strong faith, and admirable character, and wonderful sense of humor. She is in a better place, but we will all miss her.
August 12, 2011
Dear Larkins, Vonnie and family, I am so sorry for your loss of Shirley. I appreciate the kindness your family has shown Peter,Michele,and myself throughout the years. Michele spent many special days at the dance studio with all of you. I am thankful she had the opportunity.May you all find comfort in your many wonderful memories of Shirley. My thoughts prayers and love are with you, Dawn
Betsy Golden
August 12, 2011
My sincerest sympathy to the Larkin family. Shirley was an exemplary matriarch of your family and of the Larkin Studio. She was a woman who was kind and graceful, with a fun sense of humor. I will miss her presence at the front desk! May God comfort you in these days ahead.
lacey larkin
August 12, 2011
Grandma, you were the most lovable, caring, giving person I have ever met. You were the epitome of class and hard work. You had faith in everyone in everything they did. You were always positive and always pushed everyone to be the best they could be. I will never forget all of our memories together, all of our fun times, and of course the months we spent together. You will forever hold a huge place in my heart. You truly were the most amazing person I have ever met and I am so thankful that I had someone like you to look up to in my life. Thank you for everything you have done for me and thank you for never letting me say no to a good opportunity. I love you so much.
Sarah Pierucki
August 12, 2011
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Allison Reynolds
August 12, 2011
Your class, love of children and faith in the lord was unparralled. You had such grace and were admired by many. Your lessons weren't always verbal-you lead us by example. Our chats on the ride home from the studio (and a smoke)were always something I looked forward to. Your advice and loving words were something I will treasure forever. I had the privelage of not only knowing you, but loving you too. You are one of the most influential persons I have ever known! I know you are looking down on all of your "children" now and always. May God Bless you Mk, Patty, Michele, Nancy, Patty, and Molly!
Christine Rentsrom
August 12, 2011
This is very sad news to hear. I am so sorry for the loss of this amazing woman. She touched the lives so many, I feel very fortunate to be included in that list. I'm thankful for all the wonderful childhood memories she is in part responsible for by allowing me the opportunity to learn from the best. I was always so proud to attend my years of dance class with the Larkin Family. I wish you all much love and strength through the sadness, and I hope you can find comfort in your happiest of memories.
Christine("Chrissy Kirchhamer")Renstrom
Lindsey Stone (Carter), Beth Carter and Janet Hill
August 12, 2011
Mrs. Larkin, thank you for giving me the opportunity to dance within your studio and learn from the best. I, as well as my mom and grandma, will forever hold the memories in our hearts of my time dancing at Larkin. Love to the entire family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kim Hanson
August 12, 2011
Dear Larkin Family,
We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Your Mother was loved and respected by many people. She will be missed. We wish you all the love and strength at this time and always.
Kim, Amanda & Taylor Hanson
Lindsey King
August 12, 2011
Shirley was a gift to all dancers that she encountered. She was a kind woman with a wonderful wit and sense of humor. Thank you for sharing your gifts with all of us, Shirley! May you be at peace.
The Shaughnessy Family
August 12, 2011
The entire Shaughnessy family, Tim & Lu, Meghan & Alec, Matthew, Timmy, & Maighdlin express our sorrow to the entire Larkin family. Shirley was an awesome, strong woman and we will always remember how she wasn't afraid to express her opinons. She always stuck to her convictions especially her love for the unborn. Her spunk and spirit will be sorely missed....praying for your comfort & healing.
August 12, 2011
Wanted to say thanks for all the wonderful memories that were made by having 2 daughters that danced in the wonderful dance studio that Shirley started so long ago. Blessings to the family at this time of transition and saddness.
Lorilee Bolhouse-Peterson (Hugo, MN)
Bradie Hesse Leopold
August 12, 2011
Mrs. Larkin, you were a huge impact in my life and I know that you are finally dancing with Russ in heaven! You will always be missed by so many. I wish your family love and peace during their time to moarn. Love you all and thanks for everything through the years!
Sabrina Doren
August 12, 2011
Shirley didn't just run a business she created a second home for all of us. Whether it was summer or winter we always knew we were welcome. May the studio become stronger over the years and may you pull comfort from your enormous "Larkin Family" XO
August 12, 2011
Molly, Michele, MaryKay and Family,
How blessed you all were to have such an amazing lady as your Mom. She has touched so many lives in so many different ways. We are sending many prayers of peace and comfort during this difficult time. I know she was surrounded by an unbelievable amount of love
The Lowell's
Katie Strub Ellis
August 12, 2011
Larkin family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your mother was an amazing woman.
Nancy Redmond
August 12, 2011
I can't begin to tell you how influential Shirley Larkin and the instructors at Larkin Dance Studio have been in the life of my daughter, Rachel Brenna. You have all molded her into the wonderful young woman she is today and I know she will carry that into her adult life. Our hearts are saddened beyond words at Shirley's passing, and our love and prayers go out to the Larkin Family. May your memories of Shirley sustain you in your grief and may her love for you keep you strong. I have no doubt that Shirley dances on Heaven's streets of gold today .... God bless!
August 12, 2011
So sorry to hear about Mrs. Larkin. May our thoughts and prayers comfort you during this difficult time.
Jim, Lisa, Jameson, Fiona & Chelsea Stahl
Roy Catlin
August 12, 2011
I read with much sadness of Ms. Larkin,s passing. She taught My Grandaughter(Cindy Norton) about 25 yrs ago, and I also went to redeeming Love Church
when I lived in St.Paul. I am now living in La. But remember Her vey well God bless Her Family,and all Her friends and those Who loved Her! Roy Catlin Starks la
Candy Mayou
August 12, 2011
Larkin Family, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. She was a wonderful lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you. She is now reunited with your dad.
Abbie Pariana
August 12, 2011
Larkin Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Shirley was an amazing woman who raised amazing daughters. The Larkin family has made such a huge impact on so many lives! May you dance your way through those pearly gates Shirley and continue to teach your amazing talent. You will be forever remembered!! To the Larkin girls – Keep dancing the Larkin way…your mom is so proud!!!
All my love and prayers during this extremely difficult time.
Tami O'Connell
August 12, 2011
Dear Larkin Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your mother was deeply loved by many people and will be greatly missed. She is up in heaven teaching all the other angels how to dance the Larkin Way.
Tori Lang
August 12, 2011
Mary Kay, molly, and Michelle Im sorry to hear about your mom. I remember her! She was nice to me when I came to dance. Love Tori Lang (7yrs old)
Kathy (Donner) Nyman
August 12, 2011
Thought, prayers, sympathy to the Larkin Family.
Autumn Berggren Hilden
August 12, 2011
On my first day of dance as a seven-year-old, Shirley brought me to a rack of dance clothes and asked me if I wanted a regular leotard or "a snazzy one, like the big girls wear." In ways big and small, she helped so many people go after what really made them happy. Many thanks to her and to the Larkin family for a lifelong love of dance. My thoughts and prayers now as you remember the things about her that make you happy. God bless.
Bonita Gonzalez
August 12, 2011
I feel so blessed that I had the privilege to grow up in the Larkin studio and to know Mrs. Larkin and her family. You are a remarkable family and my deepest sympathy goes out to you. The love and passion Mrs. Larkin shared with the dancers is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing your passion of dance for the last 61 years and know you will forever be in our hearts.
Valentina Rodriguez
August 12, 2011
All my love and thoughts are with the Larkin family and friends. Shirley was a true legend and she will be dearly missed. My favorite memory of her has always been sitting in the seats watching rehearsal and listening to her talk about how beautiful all the girls were. My daughter has been blessed to be a part of the Larkin family of dance for 10 years and we have loved every minute of it. <3
Tara Leibel
August 12, 2011
Dear Larkin Family,
You have all touched so many peoples lives for the better and Shirley will truly be missed. I have wonderful memories from my years at Larkin. Keep dancing.
Bunnie Hinkley
August 12, 2011
I am at a loss for words and that doesn't happen very often. May God Bless you all. Shirley is going to be missed by so many!
Love to all of you,
Bunnie (Peterson) Hinkley_ New Brighton
Mary Sue Curley
August 12, 2011
Shirley, Shirley, Shirley,
You were "one in a million!" How I miss my days at your front desk. You were always so nice to our family and such a dear to our girls.
You will always be greatly missed but, never forgotten.
Sincere condolences to The Larkin Family.
God Bless you all and rest in peace Shirley.
Lynn Hutchinson
August 12, 2011
What a legacy Shirley has left behind. I'm but one of many who were shaped by her talent, passion and clarity as a teacher. Sending love, peace and a loving shuffle-ball-change to the Larkin family.
Maureen Bartone
August 12, 2011
During the 15 years my daughters and I danced at Larkin Dance Studio, you could always count on the strong presence of Mrs. Larkin. She was always at the studio, she never missed a competition, and was always there to greet each dancer at the entrance to the auditorium or backstage during the recitals. Her presence demonstrated the love and dedication she had for all of us. It won’t be the same without her, but we all know she’ll be there in spirit. Over the years, the Larkins transformed our sons and daughters into the beautiful young men and women they are today. They were taught a great love of the arts, especially dance and music, they were taught self-discipline, honor and respect, and because of the time they spent at Larkin Dance Studio, they improved the quality of their adult lives by staying out of trouble, going to college or continuing to dance professionally. The enrichment they received from dance will stay with them throughout their entire lives. We are all honored to have known Mrs. Larkin and we know she is smiling down on us now.
All of our prayers and love to the Larkin family,
Maureen, Danielle and Brittani Bartone, and the entire Bartone family.
Jane Leroux
August 12, 2011
Shirley and family: It's hard to believe I can't stop in and say hi or have lunch,I have to wait till we meet together with the lord. We shared such sweet times. A great loss to you her family but you can be comforted by the fact that she is dancing on streets that are golden. Won't it be with great joy. The way she loved to dance. She taught 5 of my 8 daughters and now her daughters are teaching my granddaughter. She was a lady of much talent and great faith which we shared with joy.
Jane Leroux, Hugo, Minnesota
Mary Jasicki
August 12, 2011
I loved Shirley Larkin - she was talented, supportive and a 'tell it like it is' women. I have always respected her and the talent she shared and encouraged in others. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Mary Williams Jasicki / QC Dance (Queens Court)
Phyllis (Haukland) Johnson
August 12, 2011
Dear Larkin Family,
I was one of Shirley's first students, starting my dance and life lessons in 1950. I continued taking lessons through my senior year in high school in 1965. Shirley had confidence in me to allow me to fill in and teach her students while she took off a few days to give birth to one of her beloved daughters. Shirley's influence also prompted me to have my own dance studio in North St Paul for 8 years.
Like with many people, Shirley was a second mom to me. I fondly remember the trips to Chicago for NADAA conventions and the Sunday trips to the Leamington Hotel in Mpls for more dancing experiences and education. I can still hear Shirley saying to me, " Phyllis, keep those arms up!"
To the Larkin girls - I lost my mom to Cancer and Alzheimers 3 years ago and I know the pain that you are feeling. Your mom is at peace now and she'll have my mom, Helen, to talk to in Heaven
Shirley was truly an amazing woman, mother, mentor and friend and she will be missed and thought of forever.
Brenna Curran
August 12, 2011
My love and prayers go out to the entire Larkin family during this difficult time. The world lost an amazing woman, but heaving welcomed a wonderful angel. Xo.
kelly durant
August 12, 2011
praise his name with dancing.
no better example of living the word.
thank you Shirley!
you will be remembered forever.
to the Larkin family, we love you.
-the durants. kelly and Jade
christopher, louis and vincent
Michelle Bauer
August 12, 2011
what a huge loss, i started dancing with her in the basement of her home in mahtomedi....so many memories of my time and my children dancing with larkin's over the years... my thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Michelle Bauer and kids.
Julia Larson (Urban)
August 12, 2011
Larkin Family,
So sorry to hear about your loss. Mrs. Larkin was a true angel, she will always be in our hearts and watching down from heaven (pretty sure dancing too). She has been a true inspiration and she has made a wonderful family and her dream of dance will always live on. Always in my heart and prayers.
Jodi (Houle) Schoon
August 12, 2011
Our Prayers are with you all!
Mrs. Larkin made such an impact in my life at such a young age! I had nothing but the most respect for her. She help make me who I am today and I will never forget her. She was so supportive an any avenue that one chose. I love Mrs Larkin and will miss you dearly!
Amy Feesl
August 12, 2011
Shirley Larkin you will be very missed and forever remembered. Thoughts, prayers and love are going out to the Larkin Sisters, all the grandchildren and all of "The Larkin Family" (a.k.a the many dancers and familys that were welcomed with open arms). Shirley helped define dance for so many people.
Shirley, we will continue to "praise His name with dance"... This year it will be in your name too and we will continue to "dance the Larkin way". Love always the Chivers/Feesl family
August 11, 2011
Soooo hard to put to words how Shirley has inspired me. Dancing with her when I was 3 years old and I'm still at the studio at 51 with the Larkin Ladies! You will always "Rock on" with me, Shirley"!! Love you lots, Sue (Bakke) Sperber
Jan George
August 11, 2011
Dearest Larkin Family-
Shirley was the woman I wanted to grow up to be at age 5 when I began my love affair with dance at the Hickory Street basement studio. She has inspired generations of kids to express themselves through dance and I am forever grateful for her gift! I am certain that she has joined the Heavenly Chorus Line as their lead dancer and is teaching everyone all the dance steps that keep all of us- who were blessed to have Shirley touch our hearts-tapping forever! I hope all of you will take comfort in knowing that Shirley was larger than life and made the world a better place by sharing her amazing talent and love for life with so many! She is a National Treasure and will live on in all of us who had the honor to be in her shadow! love to all of you!
Andy, Rita, Maria and Neely Family
August 11, 2011
Larkin Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to all of you during this difficult time.
God Bless.
JonAngie Raverty
August 11, 2011
Our prayers to your family during a difficult time.
The Raverty's Jon, Angie,
Rowan and Maddie
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