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WALLACE _ Harvey David John October 3rd, 1983 - August 2nd, 2006 Lovingly remembered by his mother and father, Rosy Lecky and Andrew Wallace, sisters Lailey Wallace and Laura Rutledge and her husband Simon, their children Iain and Morrigan, brother Robert Wallace, paternal grandparents David Wallace and Bobby Collett, aunts Susan Wallace, Lailey Wallace, Janet Griesdale, uncle David Wallace, and many much loved Lecky, Griesdale and Southam cousins, numerous relatives, good friends and many people his life touched in a joyous way all around the world. His very close friend and companion Seyward and his cousin Mercy especially remember him. They were traveling with him at the time of his unexpected death. Harvey graduated from Shawnigan Lake School and went on to travel the world photographing and writing about his experiences. He really told a good story, had a great sense of humor, and communicated what happened and how he saw it, all so very well. As one of the survivors of the December, 2004 Tsunami, he returned to Thailand twice to help build new housing and fell in love with Koh Phi Phi Island and stayed there to get his Masters Diving Certificate. Tragically, Harvey passed away suddenly in his sleep of a heart condition. One of the wonderful thoughts we all can carry with us is that he was so joyously happy and enjoying his life. The family would like to express their sincere thanks to the many friends who have supported them with their love and kindness, in particular Harvey's first cousin Mercy Southam of Vancouver, and Michael and Julie Howard of Bangkok. A Memorial Service in celebration of Harvey's life will be held at 1:30 pm on August 14, 2006 at Brock House, reception immediately following, 3875 Point Grey Road, Vancouver, BC. If you would like to make a donation in Harvey's memory, the family would appreciate your consideration of the Perry Family Thailand Fund with proceeds to be directed to Phi Phi Island. Donations to be payable to the Global Charity Fund and forwarded to Lawson Lundell, Ste. 1600 Cathedral Place, 925 W. Georgia St., Vancouver, BC, V6C 3L2, c/o Mr. Bill Everett.
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Mark Toms
October 3, 2021
Happy Birthday Harvo.
Have a good one brother.
M.T
Amy Wolfbear
August 6, 2018
To the family and/or friends of Harvey Wallace who may read this,
It's surreal to be writing this message, as I didn't know Harvey personally--but I read an account of his experience with the 2004 SE Asian earthquake on an old forum today while doing research on tsunami impact zones.
I was struck by his courage, compassion, and genuine emotiveness during a time of crisis. I looked him up, hoping that I could thank him for offering his personal account of a traumatic experience from an angle so few would be able to hear or appreciate, and was quite honestly heartbroken to find that he had died.
I wanted to extend my condolences to the family and friends who survived him, and let you all know that, even through the permanence of death, Harvey's story is still being shared and stands as a testament to his greater qualities. I know he was/is admired for his mental fortitude, even in the face of hardship.
Best of luck to you and yours.
-A
Jesse McCallum
May 3, 2016
Hey buds, listening to a melodic song about Barcelona and thinking of you. I think of you often, you know this. I look forward to seeing you again. My brother.
bree
March 31, 2015
I never knew Harvey but his account of his survival so many years ago touched my heart. And today I learned of his death and I grieve for him... for his family... for those whose lives his touched. I hope he has found peace. He left far to early...
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Rachel
August 5, 2012
It's been 6 years, I still miss you and think about you all the time. Feels like your still around
Rosy Lecky
August 11, 2010
My love to all who have written such heartfelt messages. I have read and re read them. Up until now I was unable to write my own message. This was the first year where I had a joy-filled day on August 3rd, playing in and on the water in magnificent Toba Inlet, surrounded by friends and loved ones. Harvey is always present with me and I delight in sending loving thoughts to him.
Rosy Lecky, Harvo's Mum
Tim bloxham
August 6, 2010
rest Harvey we all miss you
Courtenay Althouse
August 3, 2010
It's been 4 years and I still miss you every single day. I love you.
Jim Chang
March 10, 2010
we've all had you as an antidote of gloom, and this remedy will remain as you are remembered, always.
David Groberman
June 22, 2009
Harv,
I didn't realize you had this page but it's never too late to say what's up and that I miss you. You'll be in my thoughts for the rest of my days. Keep shining on me bro and I'm sure I'll see you again.
Cheers always,
Melissa Phillips
August 3, 2007
Hey Harv,
a year has already passed, and neither my laughter filled memories of you, nor how much I miss you has faded... Our six weeks on Phi Phi with you were some of my happiest times and when I so often think of them, I can't help but smile and giggle to myself. To me however it does not feel like you have gone, but that you are off somewhere in the world having another adventure, befriending others and making them laugh as you did us, whether it is with your long stories, your cow impressions, or getting another ridiculous tattoo...
I miss you Harv, and it is days like today when you realise how important you were to us all, bringing us together from all parts of the world to remember and celebrate your life.
All my love, Melis xxx
Mark Toms
August 3, 2007
HARV MY MAN,
A year on and so many things remind of you, music, beeches,T.V and people.We go on my friend and do the best we can, knowing your watching down on us, having a laugh and a Singa or two. I'll get ya one someday in round 2.
miss ya bruv.
Charlotte Zinzan
March 19, 2007
Well it's taken me a long time to be able to write here. It is impossible to put into words what i truly want to say, but im going to try...
The 6 weeks that i spent with you in Phi Phi were some of the best times ever. Playing frisbee on the beach, watching hours on end of 24, listening to you go on about Jack Bauer, a certain tattoo, drinking buckets til dawn, listening to all your ridiculous stories, watching you trying to teach people how to skim board, playing stupid games in the sea for hours on end, your invincible pet cockroach in your room, thai boxing, walking down the path in Phi phi listening to 'red, red wine' whilst carrying your ipod speakers...However, one main thing that stands out was just laughing. You never failed to make me laugh Harv. You lived life to the full and if there's one thing that I can take from you leaving us is to do just that because you never know when your time is up...
Harv, you will always be in my thoughts and i will always smile when i think of you because of spending such fun times together. I only wish i had been able to tell you how much you meant to me.
I miss you Harv. All my love xxxx
March 14, 2007
Harvey,
It's been over six months and I still don't know what to say. What happens when you actually realize that all you are guaranteed in life, is death. And all you live for, is to die. I dont know why it was this early for you, but there has got to be a reason. I didn't know you that well...but don;t let everything yu lived for die for nothing. Everyone alive now remembers and always will.
See you soon
Sara Thiesson
ollie cumming
February 11, 2007
it was a fantastic time travelling some of eastern europe with you harvey, will visit koh phi phi oneday soon, my thoughts are with your family
regards ollie from new zealand
rachel hunt
February 9, 2007
Three words for you harvey... rehydrating, revitalising and refridgerating! not one of your finest moments but it still makes me laugh. Your probably the only person who i could sit and watch tv with for days, only stopping to get blue eminems and gatorade.
wish i could have known you longer but the time i did know you for is in my memory forever.
we spoke about this day, i couldnt have ever imagined it possible. i remeber saying, dont worry Harvey only the good die young!
you had great times, had already done so much, seen so much and had experiences most could not imagine.
in your own words, omnia causa fuiant. much love Rachel
Me & Harv hanging in the dive shop on Phi Phi
Adam Logan
February 8, 2007
Harvey, thanks for making Xmas 2005 one of the best ever in Kho Phi Phi, couldn't have asked for a nicer, funnier guy to hang with, good times! All ended too soon...
Matthew Britton
February 7, 2007
Rest in peace friend...
-Czer
rob josephson
December 24, 2006
HARV, one of the radest dudes anyone could ever meet. i cant think of anyone that didnt enjoy your company. i looked up to you like a older brother, your free spirit and enjoyment of life was amazing. sad that it was cut short but you lived a life that anyone would envy and ill be thinking of you always, love you bro. love robbie
Courtenay Althouse
November 23, 2006
It's taken me a while to be able to write something in here, there have been many failed attempts. It's now 3 months later and im still lost for words. How do I say good bye to my best friend.
Harv, I loved you the first day we met, and I still love you now. You have always been the one person who was always there for me no matter what. If I was upset you would go to extreme lengths to make me laugh like smashing a raw egg on your head or singing shania twains "man I feel like a woman" to me at the top of your lungs. To be honest I havent been dealing well without you. You'd be happy to hear though I went to australia and new zealand like we had planned to go in march. I was on Fraser island for your birthday. I actually remembered it on time this year. Harv even though I cant see you anymore, I know you're protecting me like you always did. I love you.
If theres anyone who ever feels like chatting or swaping harvey stories please dont hesitate to call me, im always happy to talk about harvey, and share all of his crazy tales.
Seyward and Harvey, who's wearing a hat that says "Go Harvey Go."
Seyward Darby
October 25, 2006
Here are pictures for all to see. The first is of me and my wonderful, clearly fun-loving Harvey; we are at his friend's restaurant on Koh Phi Phi. The second is of Harv and his amazing cousin Mercy, also on Koh Phi Phi. The third picture is of Harv holding the camera he took around the world with him; this time, he was in HaLong Bay, Vietnam.
Seyward Darby
October 25, 2006
Harvey,
You meant more to me than any person in my life. You taught me what it means to truly LIVE in a day--to see the big things but appreciate the small things, to never take myself or anything, really, more seriously than it should be taken. You showed me what it means to love a day, to take it all in and appreciate it, never taking it for granted. You also taught me how to use chopsticks, snorkel, pick good chili sauce and drink from a bucket. But those are entirely different stories :)
You live on in my heart, and in my dreams. I feel so lucky to have met you, to have spent the time I did with you, to say that I cared for you and that you cared for me. When I look back at the summer, there are no bad memories. You made it all perfect, even the long busrides, cheap guesthouses and ice-cold showers. Being with you was enough for me. I miss your laughter, your stories (even the long ones) and your affection.
I will always love you, and you will always be a part of me--a strong, brilliant and wonderful part.
Seyward (Slinky)
Havey being.....harvo. July 2006
October 21, 2006
harv and merc...july 5 2006
mercy southam
October 21, 2006
almost 3 months after, i miss you more than ever. harv, i hope you know how happy i was on our trip. you made our trip what it was. your expertise...brilliance, even...made my first (of many) travelling adventures so memorable. i am so thankful to have spent your final days hand in hand. i miss you so much harv... but, thank you...
all my love.
Mercy
Sophie Erskine
September 15, 2006
Harvey,
I'm on holiday in Vancouver and can't get the suddenness of your passing away out of my head. I have so many good memories of you from Phi Phi - you were such a party animal and really brought tons of energy and fun to our evenings. I deeply regret not having gotten in contact with you after I left but want you to know that I have thought of you many times over the past year. You brought sunshine and kindness into the lives of more people than you knew, I'm sure.
Rest in peace my friend, and warm feelings to you wherever you are now.
Rhian Williams
August 31, 2006
Harvey, It has been a long time since we last saw each other, but i want you to know i will never forget you or the kindness you showed me when i first arrived in canada. You were a wonderful person and someone who will live on in my memory with nothing but the fondest of thoughts. R.I.P Harvey Wallace.
John Sharma
August 22, 2006
I'll miss you homie. We had so many good times through so many years. I can't help but to think about all the good times that were to come. You'll always be alive in my memories. RIP my good friend.
Natasha Sihota
August 22, 2006
Harvey,
Thank you for being such a wonderful friend, you always had a special way to make me smile. I will miss your kindness and compassion.
Tasha
Kenneth Fry
August 22, 2006
We shared many fun times together buddy. You'll always be in my thoughts.
One Love bro.
Chris Dodge
August 20, 2006
Harvey, looking back, I still have the fondest memories of you and I chillin and having a blast on Phi Phi. I'd even be as bold to say that those times were one of the best in my life. You really did have an amazing lust and adventure for life that I will always admire. With remembrance and affection, your friend Chris
Ted Huang
August 20, 2006
To Harvey,
It is very shocking for me to hear this news. I was hoping to see everyone in the 10yr reunion since I cant make it to the 5yr. Harvey ,you will be remembered and live within our memory.
Adrienne Macmillan
August 19, 2006
Harvey Wallace,
When you left us in Victoria the second time, I had all the faith. I remember the feeling Emily and I had as we were calling the Canadian Embassy for days after the tsunami, praying you and your family were unhurt. But we knew you couldn't be the same. You came back. You came back in pieces that formed together to make you twice the man. You grew to have an endeavor that would last you to your last day. You helped those in need, and did what you wanted. To want to help is a noble desire. Thank you for helping me to learn to take better care of myself and those around me.
Alex Chang
August 19, 2006
you will be missed Harvey. I will miss those Lake House moments we shared.
Jesse McCallum
August 18, 2006
I'll see you in the next episode Harvo. Too bad you had to go so soon but you lived the fullest life possible doing what you loved to do, who can ask for more? Gonna miss you man.
Graham Shore
August 18, 2006
I have made several attempts at writing this, but it's not coming out right. I'm having a hard time saying goodbye to someone I talked to just days ago. Talking with your family and friends helped, but I can't help but feel there is a big hole in my life where you once were. You'll never know what your friendship meant to me Harvey. I feel nothing but fortunate for the time I got to spend with you. You are one of the most funny, selfless and compassionate people I will ever know. I love you and will always miss you, my friend.
Patrick Hunter
August 18, 2006
Harvey,
what can i say, too many memories. You were a great friend and a great person, you will be missed bro.
Shane Dembiske
August 16, 2006
Harvooooo,
The times we had bro, spending like every day with you for a year. Im gonna miss you, and have shed my tears, but I know you would rather me celebrate what a beautiful life and legacy you have left. God bless Harv, I love you man.
lindsey munday
August 15, 2006
Harvey,
I am sad, but I know I will never say goodbye to you. I dont have to - you are always with us all and the memorial was such a testament to that. I can't think of any one else that brings people together still like you do, and each of us were lucky enough to have pieces of you to share with each other, and laugh, and cry, then laugh again. I love you, and know that I was so fortunate to be able to say all the things I needed to when you were reborn out of that wave. I'll see you when I can, now I have something to look forward to.
Nate Amies
August 15, 2006
It’s such a tragedy to hear of a great person passing so early in life. I'm happy and grateful to hear of your travels around the world and to give such a helping hand to those suffering from the Tsunami in Thailand. I have known accounts of the survivors of Thailand (my grandparents) and it's with great joy to hear how you gave so much to help those in need. My warm hearted thanks to a valiant effort and kind hearted demeanor in helping to re-build the lives of so many people suffering tragedies of their own.
You are a remarkable, funny, great and loving person and I look forward to raising my glass to you at our 5 year re-union in 10 days.
To the Wallace’s I extend my sincerest condolences for your loss. I hope you find closure in any way that you can. I wish I could have attended the memorial to honor such an amazing person.
Rest in peace my friend. Rest in peace.
Macen Mansfield
August 14, 2006
To you Harvey;
Even though, I only knew you for a short time.
You were one of the funniest, coolest and most intelligent guys out of anyone, period (of our past scene, out of everyone, who I know still around, prolly will never will never change either, Harvey...) That was a one of the things I most remember about you.
I know that you will be missed by all your friends in the Victoria area.
To You Harvey, only as a memory now, my gesture, amongst the goodwill nature of yours- to which; (I will speak in the name of a few of your Victoria Brothers and Sisters, Rayce, Gilles, Adrienne, Celeste,)
We will be keeping your memory, in your name, and your mission, alive.
I'll miss you Harvey...
(I can't say enough about you, Dude. Good times Harv'!!!)
You GO HARVEY!!!
Andrew Buchanan
August 14, 2006
It's with great sadness to hear the passing of such a great young man. Harvey had an amazing personality that touched everyone around him. It will be great to honor his name at the 5 year reunion coming up.
Rest in Peace Harvey Wallace
Andrew Buchanan.
Camille Shieh
August 14, 2006
Harvey, I was reading your survival story just days before. Everything you left behind, writings and memories, will continue to influence everyone around you. Rest In Peace.
Earl Pheasey
August 14, 2006
Harvey,
You were truly a fascinating person to be around. You will always be missed my friend.
Robert Strong
August 14, 2006
Be at peace my friend. You have always been a Sojourner and have taken the next step. Though we will miss your physical presence your spirit will always be amongst us.
Ken Chong
August 12, 2006
You will be missed my friend.
Elaine Springgay
August 11, 2006
Harvey, you reached out to many lives during your brief stay and have left an admirable legacy behind. I hope that wherever you are, you are in good hands. You will always be remembered, particularly for reminding us of living each day to its fullest and to share those days with others. Rest in peace.
Sterling Hein
August 11, 2006
To the grieving families: as a grieving friend, I won’t pretend to know what it’s like to lose a son, a brother, a cousin, nephew or grandson. But I offer my condolences and my prayers to all who need the strength to grieve. Harvey, the people who love you will carry your memory forward in this life. I will miss you. Find peace.
Timothy Bloxham
August 11, 2006
The clouds that cover the sunshine they cannot banish the sun
And the earth shines out the brighter when the weary rain is done, we must stand in the deepest shadow to see the clearest day .
As the flower must be buried in darkness before it can bud and bloom .You did .I have missed you Harvey and now we will all do so You were a good teacher . Love Tim
Phyllis Hunt
August 11, 2006
Harvey, our family will miss spending time with you.
Erik Lehman
August 11, 2006
HArvey, i didnt get a chance to know you as well as my brother but i know what a great guy you were. Ill miss you and everyone will miss you. The light that burns brighter, burns half as long harvo.
Adam Lehman
August 11, 2006
Harvey I miss you buddy. You were a funny guy and a great friend. The times we had I will never forget. Rest in Peace bro; I'll see you later.
Robert Down
August 11, 2006
Harvey,
There is so much to say my friend, yet i cant really find the words to say it. Ill never forget the years we lived together and all the good times after graduating. Im just real stoked that you managed to find something that you really loved and continued to touch so many people while doing your thing. Im always going to have a place in my heart for you Harv, and i know i know well meet again, untill then takeiteasy and ill see you later son, All my love, your Borther, Rob Down.
Dylan Evans
August 11, 2006
Thanks for the many great memories.
Paul Rokeby-Thomas
August 11, 2006
"To all my friends,
Present past and beyond
to all those who weren't with us too long
Life is the most precious thing that you can lose
While you were here the fun was never ending
Laugh a minute was only the beginning
Harvey my brother this one's for you."
Rest In Peace Harvey
David Groberman
August 11, 2006
Harvey was an amazing guy that will never be forgotten. He could never stay in one place for too long, but the times we spent together were special. He lived life the way he wanted to and nobody could hold him back from anything. I am going to miss you Harvey, you were one of my great friends and you will continue to be. I learnt a lot from the time we spent together and you will always be with me. Love you buddy.
Tony Cape
August 11, 2006
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son.
- Kipling
Harvey, you did that. I can't believe you're gone--you'll always be missed. Rest in peace.
Jason Kujath
August 11, 2006
Harvo,
I loved you like brother; your loss has been the biggest tragedy of my life and simple words cannot express how hard this will be for everyone who surrounded you. My heart goes out to your family along with my best wishes. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Lauren Compton
August 11, 2006
My sincere condolences to the Wallace family. I met Harvey while going to school in Victoria. I will never forget the presence he brought with him wherever he went. His kind heart and warm smile will never be forgotten.
Ben Wills
August 11, 2006
Love ya Harvo.
jesse kendall
August 11, 2006
harv
i'm gonna miss you buddy, as are many other people. we never got to go skimboarding last summer, and i'm really sorry about that. you were a great friend man, and this has all happened too fast.
cheers, jesse
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