Paul Robert Harstone

Paul Robert Harstone obituary, Vernon, BC

Paul Robert Harstone

Paul Harstone Obituary

Published by Vancouver Sun and/or The Province on Jan. 20, 2018.
Paul Robert Harstone December 15, 1961 - December 21, 2017 It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye to our beloved husband, father, grandpa, brother, uncle, son and friend, Paul Robert Harstone. Paul left us much too soon after battling cancer for the past year. Born December 15th, 1961, to Doyne and (the late) Gloria Harstone, Paul leaves behind his loving wife of 32 years, Maria, and their three children Lauren (Chad), Kristofer and Juliana; and grandsons Jack and Linden. Paul also leaves behind his father, Doyne, sister Deborah, his brothers Brad (Fiona) and Michael (Andrea), and many nieces and nephews.

Paul and Maria moved from Vancouver to Penticton in 1998 and in 2015 they moved to Predator Ridge in Vernon. Paul was a loving, selfless and generous man who loved his family above all else. He worked in the hearth industry throughout B.C. for 30 years. He was a lover of the outdoors, a BBQ master, a fire fanatic, and a golf enthusiast. He had an appreciation for good food, fine wine and great company. Although he only had a few short years with his grandsons he loved every moment he got to spend with them. He will be forever loved and always missed.

Thank you to Dr. D. Peters, the staff at Vernon Jubilee and Kelowna General Hospitals and the staff at the North Okanagan Hospice Society for all of the excellent care that was provided to our family during this difficult time.

There will be a Celebration of Life at Waterview in Vancouver on February 16th from 1:00 to 3:30. For our Okanagan friends, a Celebration of Life will be held at Poplar Grove Winery in Penticton on February 19th from 1:00 to 3:30.

In lieu of flowers, a donation to the Canadian Cancer Society in Paul's memory would be greatly appreciated.

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February 17, 2018

Milena Dünkel posted to the memorial.

January 31, 2018

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Milena Dünkel

February 17, 2018

Dear Maria,
dear Lauren, Kristofer and Juliana,

I cant believe Paul isnt with us anymore.
After all he was a dad to me as well for a full year. Even if thats 26 (!) years ago, I remember him and his caring and relaxed way, as if it was yesterday.
Thank god you are a large family and you can be there for each other and keep in mind and share all the memories.

I wish I could be there for the Celebration of Life.
All the best
yours Milena

Chris and Marion Young

January 31, 2018

Dear Maria, just learned of Paul's passing. Marion and I wish you and your whole Family our thoughts and prayers. Too many years have passed since we have seen you, we always reflect back on our group dinners with the St Bee's crew! Those were the days!

January 20, 2018

Dear Maria, I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Thinking of you and you're family.

Linda Desilets

Joanne Papp

January 20, 2018

My deepest and heart-felt condolences Maria. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. I will always cherish fondly the giggles we had in your backyard on The Ridge one afternoon as we sipped on vino. What a sense of humour Paul had !

The Tanabe family

January 20, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to you all. Paul had the best family in the world loving and supporting him unconditionally. He leaves a huge hole but together, with strength,resiliency and many memories - his legacy will live one through each of you.

Mike and Andrea Harstone

January 20, 2018

Still can't believe you are gone. So many amazing memories of times we all spent together that we will hang on to as we continue to process losing such an incredible, selfless man who always put other first. ❤

Berva Kuroda

January 20, 2018

Forever in our hearts Paul.

maria harstone

January 20, 2018

I love and miss you soooo much!!!

January 20, 2018

Maria, we are so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. You and he raised such a wonderful family. Our thoughts, prayers, and love are with you all.

Doris, Kevin, Cory, & Jennica Grieve

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