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Bertha Nester Obituary
Bertha (BJ) was born and raised in Las Cruces, N.M. She was married 52 years to Harold A. Nester and raised eight children all while working full-time as a legal secretary. She always managed to love each one of us, 19 grandchildren and 22 greatgrandchildren, in an incredible way, that we all felt very unique and special. The legacy she leaves can never be bought; one of unconditional love, always putting others before herself. She was an avid reader and sports fanatic. Kobe has lost his greatest fan. No words can describe how much she will be missed.
She is survived by her children: Charles and Peggy Nester of Okla., Fred Nester of Okla., Dan and Janet Kinzer of El Segundo, Teri and Russ Weber of Ventura, Cindy and Tom Bell of San Marcos, Rene and Jim Viera of Ventura, David and Debbie Nester of Corona, Lori and Brent Osborne of Ore.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Harold A. Nester, Nov. 19, 2000, and her daughter, Nina Coline Kinzer, June 15, 1987.
Private services held.
In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations are made to the Disabled American Veterans or Cancer Society.
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Paul & Kim Apodaca
November 7, 2010
We loved Aunt Bertha and we will miss her greatly. Paul will especially miss discussing the Lakers with her on the telephone and listening to her dislike of Lebron James. She had a striking resemblance to her sister, Genevieve (Known as Aunt Susie to everyone) and Mom to us. After Mom passed, it was always comforting to see Aunt Bertha, as she reminded us so much of her. Paul was fortunate to talk to Aunt Bertha recently and to see her a few days before she passed. She was a wonderful, caring person who was loved by all who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family at this time.
Love, Paul and Kim
Bert Goldblatt
October 29, 2010
Being that Aunt Bert and I shared the same name, I always felt we had a little something special between us. We would share our experiences with this "special" family name and the nicknames we preferred. :) The legacy of the name and of the Lucero sisters in general really hit me at her memorial Mass when cousin Pat was honoring her during the eulogy. I couldn't help but cry thinking of my mom, aunt Bert, and all my beautiful aunts. What can we say...there's just something about those Lucero girls! Please know that my prayers are with you all as you grieve her passing. I truly loved her and she will be deeply missed.
Love,
"Little Bert"(Aunt Doty and Uncle Sonny's daughter)
Meegan Fierro
October 26, 2010
I have very fond memories of Aunt Bertha and Uncle Harold. I remember going to Alamogordo to visit them when I was a child. I remember them coming to visit grandma and how happy it made her to have her sister around. I most especially remember how encouraging they were about my education. They promised to come back to my graduation from college and did. Aunt Bertha always had her spirits high and always made us laugh. She truly was a gem and will be missed. I pray that her children, grandchildren, sisters, nieces and nephews and all family find peace and comfort during this sad time. Remember, she is dancing, with joy, in heaven with Uncle Harold and dear Nina.
Rose Marie Fierro (Ed's)
October 26, 2010
Just like with Aunt Doty and Aunt Mary Lou, receiving Aunt Bertha's yearly Christmas card was a total joy, and most often marked the beginning of the Advent season. Aunt Bertha always included a note asking after each family member, along with her wish for a special Christmas. The cards will no longer arrive, but with each Season from now on will come the memory of this special aunt who truly loved unconditionally. May she rest in God's perpetual light. May her children, and their extended families know that eternal love never dies. Wishing you all peace in your hearts.
Loretta Nordwall
October 26, 2010
I have many fond memories of my Aunt Bertha and am grateful that I was able to spend a few days with her earlier this year in Ventura. May God give you peace in knowing that she is now surrounded by the loved ones that have gone before her. She will be deeply missed. Memories of her will remain in my heart forever.
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