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He also attended school in Running Springs, Ca. and later graduated from Victor Valley High School in 1984. He had his own landscape business and also worked at Sears Roebuck in Victorville, Ca. After one year in Savannah, Ga., he returned to Apple Valley, Ca. and was employed by FEMA during the Northridge earthquake. For the next five years he traveled extensively throughout the country and all the islands in the Pacific including Hawaii, Guam, Saipan and Micronesia. In 2001 he moved to Palm Springs, Ca. and was employed by the Thunderbird Country Club until illness forced him to retire. He leaves behind his loving companion and best friend of 13 years, Robert Valdez of Palm Desert, Ca., his parents Don and Elaine Bayes in Apple Valley, Ca., Ronald in Iowa, Ray in Ventura, Ca., & Bill in Phelan, Ca., sister in law, Maria Bayes and two nephews, Justin Bayes and Nicolas Bayes and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.
Jon was a loving, kind and thoughtful person. He would do anything in his power to help someone. He loved animals and cared for many dogs and cats over the years. His life was not always easy as he had several serious medical problems resulting in pain and discomfort, however he endured and managed through it all. The cancer and treatments were too much for his body and eventually took his life.
He will never be forgotten and will live on forever in our hearts. We could not have asked for a better or more loving son, brother, companion and friend. He was with us for far too short a time. A family graveside service will be held in Calimesa, Ca. at Desert Lawn Memorial Park and Funeral Home, 11251 Desert Lawn Dr., where his grandparents are interred. The graveside service will be on Jan. 21 at 12:30 p.m. A celebration of his life will be held on Jan. 23, 2:00 p.m. at the Golden Sun Estates, 40555 Washington St., Palm Desert, Ca.
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Elaine Bayes
March 1, 2025
Happy Birthday a couple days late. Wish you were still here with us. You are missed so very much.
Love, Mom
Ric Clemons
February 28, 2025
Hey My Friend,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!
I´m always a day late, but your never forgotten of in my heart I had a birthday a month ago, whoda thunk I´d ever be 63. Dad says howdy, he is 90 now, sending a picture of him and his new great grand daughter, Adalyn.
Love you so much buddy. You´ will never be forgotten. Probably a day late...lol.
Elaine Bayes
January 11, 2025
To Jon douglas, it has been 15 long years since you left us. You are missed by all and especially me, very much. You were the most loving and caring son one could have. Until we meet again, Love, your Mom
Elaine Bayes
February 29, 2024
Dear Doug aka Jon! Your birthday was yesterday, but I am just now getting around to sending this message to you. You are so missed by me. I just wish you had been with me a whole lot longer. I have been looking at the DVD's I made of your pictures. It helps somewhat, but also makes me sad to think of what you went through during your last year of life. I will probably be seeing you before too terribly long. I'm feeling my age.
With all my love, your Mom
Ric Clemons
February 28, 2024
Happy Birthday a day late buddy. Dad keeps me busy. These days. That doesn´t mean I don´t think of you and your mom.
Big love to you both.
Elaine Bayes
January 10, 2024
It's been 14 long years without you. You are missed and thought about often. I wish you had been able to have more years with us, but it was not to be. Until we meet again. Rest in peace, sweet boy. Love, Mom
Elaine
January 10, 2023
!3 long years without you. I miss you as much as ever. You are not forgotten and never will be. I only wish you had been able to be with us longer. Your life was much too short. Until we meet again, rest in peace and keep looking out for me.
Love, Mom
Elaine Bayes
January 10, 2022
It's been twelve since you left us. Your dad and brother Ron are with you now. You are missed so much. I wish you had been given more years, but it was not to be. I think and dream of you so much.
Love, Mom
Elaine Bayes
January 10, 2021
Dear Doug, It's been 11 long years since you left us. Now your Dad and your brother Ron are with you. You are missed every day and thought of. I wish you were still with us. You were such a loving, caring and thoughtful son. My heart is still hurting. Until we meet again. Love, Mom
Ric Clemons
January 10, 2021
My dear friend Jon
My thoughts of you today, go out very strong. We now live in crazy times. Wish you were here to make them more bearable. My love to you and Robert being together once again.
May God help your loving mothers void in her heart be filled with good memories of you. Hopefully making it easier on her.
Love you man.
Ric
Elaine Bayes
February 28, 2020
It has been 10 years since you left us. 10 long years. You are missed every day. Robert is now with you again. And your big brother Ron. I will see you on the other side, over the rainbow. Love, Mom
Fen. 27, 2020 Jon's birthday
Elaine Bayes
February 28, 2020
Ric Clemons
February 27, 2020
Howdy my dear Friend.
The sun shines bright again today. My fond thoughts of you on your birthday do as well once again. May peace and love softly embrace you moms heart today.
Happy Birthday Jon
Love,
Ric
Elaine Bayes
January 11, 2020
It's been 10 years since you left us. You are missed so much every day. I was at your resting place with Bill and Maria and left flowers for you. Love, Mom
Ric Clemons
January 10, 2020
Dearest Jon,
I wish this day never happened for you my dear friend. How I would like for you to be on this planet growing old and crazy as I am.
I think and love you most every day. The other days I love me. Lol. I miss your sense of humor you taught me. Its that and so much other that make me get through certain days Im a blessed man to have you memorys burnished in my heart ❤
Ric
Ric Clemons
February 27, 2019
Dearest Jon,
Today the sun shined bright.
My memories of you do as well.
I'm fortunate to be still walking about this earth. As you still shine on us who remember you as if you were still by our sides.
Your in a greater place, believe me on that one buddy.
I wish you the happiest birthday today. To me your still here. You always will be in my heart as long as I'm here. Thank you for making this day a special one for me.
With all my love,
Ric
Ric Clemons
February 27, 2017
Hey my dear friend,
Happy Bithday!! In my heart you haven't gone anywhere. I think of you most every day. How can I not? I may be joining you soon, and if so, take my hand so I don't get lost searching for you.
I'm sure there are many who miss you as I do. One day we will all be togeather and won't suffer due to your absence.
I love you Jon Bayes !
Warmly,
Ric Clemons
Ruc Clemons
April 1, 2016
Hey my friend.
It's April first. You always got me on this day with your cunning humor, especially now.
I think if you more than I probably should... That's what keeps you alive in hearts if some that truely love you daily.
Love you buddy!
Elaine Bayes
February 27, 2016
Happy Birthday. Fifty one years ago today you were born. You've been gone for 6 long years. I left flowers for you today at the cemetery. I miss you more and more as the years go by.
Love, Mom
Ric Clemons
February 22, 2016
Thinking of you today more than usual my friend. Waiting for that day that I will see you again. Love you.
February 27, 2014
Happy 49th birthday, sweet boy. You are missed and loved. Life is not the same without you.
Love, Mom
Ric Clemons
May 12, 2012
I know Jon is out there wishing his mom a Happy Mothers Day....
RIc Clemons
May 9, 2012
Thoughts of u run throgh my head daily, you will be missed till we meet againg. My hrart goes out to Elaine ,Don and especially Robert. YOU ARE A GREAT MAN Jon,,...Love Ric
Elaine and Don Bayes
February 27, 2012
Happy Birthday Doug. Today is your 47th. We miss you very much. Life has not been the same since you left us. Til we meet again. Love, Mom and Dad
Robert Valdez
February 27, 2012
Happy Birthday Jon,
You are so missed, i can't even explain. They say it is supposed to get better with time. I feel i may never get used to you being gone. I miss your Birthday, shopping and going to dinner. You are my thoughts all day today.
Love You Always,
Robert
Rudy Romanos
January 22, 2012
Love & Light
Jon D. Bayes Feb.27,1965 - Jan.10,2010
Robert Valdez
January 10, 2012
One last entry from Robert to all who have written this last two years. Thank You for all your prayers and wonderful thoughts of Jon. He will always be missed. He will always be in my Heart as long as I live. Jon was the most wonderful person i have had the pleasure of spending 13 great years with. I have so many fond and wonderful memories of our life together,
These memories will be with me always. Thank you Don and Elaine for being a part of my life as well. You will always be family to me. We will continue to share our memories.
Good Bye and see you on the other side my love.
Robert Valdez
January 2, 2012
Don & Elaine & family & Robert: Doug will be missed by all. I remember his kindness and the funny stories of his childhood with his older brothers. A part of your family is gone, but he will always be in your memories. A life lived his way, a joy to those who loved him and those he loved. Cathy Basore & Alan
December 28, 2011
I can't believe it will be 2 years since you left. I miss you each and everyday i wake. One day we'll meet again, and i look forward to that time . You are always with me. I still carry that special card you gave a long time ago, it's with your picture. i will always carry them and your memory close to me.
Your Partner Always,
Robert
Ellie Miller
December 24, 2011
It's been two years Doug, since you left us and you are still missed.
Those We Love Don't Go Away,
They Walk Beside Us Everyday,
Unseen, Unheard, But
Always Near,
Still Loved, Still Missed
and Very Dear.
LuvNHugs, Aunt Ellie
Elaine & Don Bayes
December 24, 2011
Merry Christmas Doug,
Wish you were here with us this Christmas. You are missed so much by all your family and friends. It's been a long two years without you.
Love, Mom and Dad
Elaine Bayes
October 31, 2011
Happy Halloween Doug. I know that Halloween was one of your favorite days. I wish with all of my heart that you were still here with us. You are missed and thought of every moment of every day.
Love always, Mom
Robert Valdez
March 8, 2011
It's been over a year since you passed and not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Cinco and Reggie are back with me now and I couldn't be happier. Thinking of you always. Thank you Family Bayes for your support over the last year. Don,Elaine & Aunt Ellie, you will always be in my thoughts.
Ellie Miller
January 10, 2011
Dear Doug,
It's been a year now, but there's not a day goes by that you aren't remembered.
You are gone from this earth, but never from our hearts. Miss you.
Aunt Ellie
December 22, 2010
December 22, 2010
December 22, 2010
Jon D. Bayes
December 22, 2010
Roger & Tommie Valdez
December 22, 2010
Dearest Jon aka (S.I.L.)
You've only been gone a year, and you are so missed and loved. You treated us as family. So many good times to keep in our hearts forever. There's a void now filled with memories. You are in a good place. God Bless You Always.
Roger & Tommie Valdez
F.I.L. & M.I.L.
Maria & Nicolas Bayes
December 21, 2010
Dear Doug,
Although we did not spend enough time together, your memories of the time we did spend will be cherished and forever in our hearts. You will always be missed and never forgotten. May you be resting in peace.
With loving memories, Maria & Nicolas
Bill Bayes
December 20, 2010
Dear Doug,
Its been almost a year now since you moved on. Although our lives took different paths and our seeing each other was rare, thoughts of you were always in my heart and mind. Life's day to day challenges and opportunities certainly consumed many years for both us and we lost touch. For that I apologize. Getting caught up in the whirl wind of life can cloud what is truly important and meaningful. We spent too little time working on staying close and connected and now your gone. You will forever be my brother and never forgotten. You are sorely missed and thought about often.
Your brother Bill.
December 20, 2010
December 20, 2010
Dear Doug,
It's been one long sad year for all of us. The world is not the same without you in it. Your life was much too short. There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this year, but it will be filled with loving memories of you. You will never be forgotten. We will love you and miss you always.
Love, Mom, Dad and all your family
Robert Valdez
December 20, 2010
December 20, 2010
Jon,
You are very missed at this time. A day doesn't go by that your name isn;t mentioned. Your Family and friends miss you very much. I miss you with all my Heart. I'm not sure how I will go on to a new year without you. You were my best friend and Partner for so long. You will always be in my Heart Year around. My Love Forever.
Robert
Robert Valdez
March 29, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
February 27, 2010
Happy 45th Birthday No. 4 son. We miss you more than ever. We left flowers and a birthday balloon at your resting place today.
Love, Mom and Dad
February 19, 2010
Correction of previous entry. Jon was born February 27, 1965 not the 18th. Pre-mature entry.Happy Birthday Early.
"Always Thinking of You"
Robert Valdez
February 18, 2010
Happy Birthday Jon,
You would've been 45 this year. I celebrate your life everyday, not just on occasion.You are so very missed and I'm thinking of you on this your birthday.
February 11, 2010
It's been one month since you left this world and I miss you more than ever. You are never out of my mind and heart. If I could just see you or even hear your voice again I would be the happiest person in the world.
Your Mom
Ruthie Glavinich
January 29, 2010
Dearest Doug, (your name known to me)
Haven't seen you in years, so sorry about that-trying to remember the last time I saw you, think it was cousin Chuck's wedding perhaps.
As kids when we got together, we played and had fun-you were always there to greet my sister and I, the special Bayes son.
The rest of the older brothers, including ours (cousins), did their own thing-us girls were never included, so you took us under your wing.
Your room was always so neat and clean, I wished I could be like you-I loved all of the interesting things that Doug could do too.
I forgave you of the time in Running Springs, when you could not split the soda in exact thirds-the joking smile on your face made me pretty perturbed!
As we grew older, we were maturer and all got along-us cousins became closer after losing members of our family tree one by one.
I went to your service Wednesday, I can't believe you've moved on-the welcoming, smiling face of whom always greeted me, was gone.
There, I briefly caught up with your life of years later-through pictures displayed, this time I did savor.
You would of enjoyed meeting your second cousins, I'm sorry you never did-they would of loved you and your dogs, dog wanters these kids!
After meeting Robert, I felt close to you once more-his easy, kind, caring spirit and love for you, I adored.
Family ties we've really missed in these later years-I'm sorry I'm too late and am missing you with lots of tears.
For my dear cousin, God has called you to be with him-I'm certain he must have needed you more; therefore, we could not win.
But faith speaks to our hearts and tells us to go on-we will always remember you until such time that we're gone.
Thanks Doug for the sweet memories, it's what your lifes purpose was about-please tell the family with you, "Hi, we love you all", until we see you again...No doubt!
Love, Cousin Ruthie (Ruth, as you called me)
(Uncle Don, Aunt Elaine, Cousin Bill and Maria, Nicolas-Nice seeing you again, Take Care)
Robert Valdez
January 26, 2010
My Dearest Jon,
Tomorrow we'll lay you to rest. You have done more for me then I ever thought. You are my strength, you are my smile. I will miss you everyday.
Until I see you in Heaven, please watch over me. Rest Peaceful my Boy.
Robert V.
January 25, 2010
hi don&elaine, i,m sorry to hear you lost your youngest boy.it sounds as though he lived a full and interesting life and had many good freinds besides a fine family.you're in my thoughts with best wishes.your old baker neighbor,richard eiden.
January 21, 2010
Don and Elaine,
We are so sorry to hear of Jon's passing. We both have fond memories of him, as does Mike, and he is forever a part of our lives.
Dave and Connie
Ellie Miller
January 21, 2010
Doug touched many and I will remember my nephew not only for his wit and sense of humor, but also for the honesty & kindness he showed others.
He was part of many good holidays, shared together with his family at his parent's home. And after his uncle died, we were included, in memorable trips to Colorado at Christmas time. The "Treasure Hunt" each morning at Tameron before we took the bus to Pergatory. And the snow mobile trips with the guide that stopped along the way for a break with wine & cheese! They were fun times, which Doug was part of.
Doug's life was cut short,but he will always be remembered & missed by those who knew him, but at the same time were blessed because we did.
Love, Aunt Ellie & Cousin Don
Sue Ballantyne
January 20, 2010
Dear Robert,
Sometimes when we talk I can't communicate how much you and Jon have meant to me over the years. You both were like angels that appeared and surrounded me with love. I'll never forget the times I would come home, and Jon had taken care of things for me around the house.He was always checking on my dogs and cat. Jon was constantly thinking of helping others, and he worried about his duties at Thunderbird when he was hospitalized at Eisenhower.He would always wave to me from his golf cart, and when we talked, he always asked about my Mom. He went into the desert to collect bobwire and other vintage items for pictures frames to put through out my house. I proudly display the beautiful memorial frame he made for me in honor of my dog Baron. Jon's love and works of art are throughout my house. I am so blessed to have been touched by the love of you and Jon. God bless Jon and Robert. I hope Baron is protecting him up there! May God guide us all to be there for you Robert.
Love SuSu
Jack & Millie Nielsen
January 19, 2010
Dear Don, Elaine and Family-
We have many happy memories of times spent visiting at your house or ours.
After we moved to Montana we kind of
missed out on seeing Doug as he had
already moved on with his own life.
We were family and we are so sad to lose another one of our family. We will all go on but happy memories will
help fill the loss. We will be there with you in thought and prayer.
Love you all.
Uncle Jack and Aunt Mil
Larry and Alice Shumaker
January 19, 2010
Dearest Don, Elaine and family,
We are so sorry to hear about your son's passing. You have our deepest sympathy.
Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie Torres
January 19, 2010
I will always remember when you came to sit with us at the hospital during my fathers heart surgery. By taking time from your own life to be by our side in OUR time of need showed what a caring man you truly are. My cousin Robert is a lucky man to have had you in his life. & we are lucky to have had you as part of our family. You will truly be missed but never forgotten.
January 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with Robert and John's family.
He was very kind, thoughtful and a very hard worker. He always tried to be helpful.
John will be missed.
Mrs. D.
Gene Wiedmaier
January 18, 2010
How small this world is ~~ I lived in Colorado Springs when Jon was there but our paths did not cross. However our paths did cross here in Palm Springs, how,when or where I do not remember, I think it was meant to be. Jon was always there to help do this and that. Every time I look through the peephole in my front door, I thank Jon. Eleanor Roosevelt once said "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift; that's why they call it the present." To be sure my gift was to have Jon as a friend. Jon & Robert is what life is all about.
January 18, 2010
I will remember Jon with his shy beautiful smile. Such a sweet person. He will be missed. Gina Lujan Valdez
January 18, 2010
Jon made me a necklace and gave it to me on my Birthday. He proved to be such a caring person from the moment that I met him. He was one of the family. He will be truly missed. Virginia Valdez Lujan
Drew & June Ram
January 17, 2010
We are so sorry for the loss of your son please accept our condolences. God bless you all during this time of sorrow.
Drew & June
January 17, 2010
Jon has been my friend for 23 years. We met on his 21st birthday and have been very close since. He had a wonderful personality and was always cheerful and fun to be with. After our move to AZ, we always kept in touch and his e-mail was the first to be opened. He is a friend that will never be forgotten. My depest sympathy goes to his family and Robert who have been at his side during his terrible ordeal of illness. Sincere Love--- Jack
Raymond Bayes
January 16, 2010
All four of us had close calls and made mistakes that nearly cost us our lives. How strange and unexpected that the youngest of us would be the first to run out of luck. The three of us that remain will carry on, and Doug will forever be a part of us. Doug, you were a great brother, and I will miss you.
January 16, 2010
Dearest Doug
I know you preferred Jon, but you will always be Doug to me. You were and still are the best son a Mom could ask for. I will love you always and miss you so much. I don't know how to go on without you, but I'll do my best. Til we meet again
Your Mom
Robert Valdez
January 16, 2010
Jon,
I'm so sorry you had to leave us so soon. You will forever be in my Heart, and I will love you always. Your Free. God Bless You Always
Robert
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