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Susan Rhea Obituary

Susan Rhea, 47 years young, of Apple Valley, went to be with our Lord Jesus Christ on Sept. 18th, 2010. Susan had been suffering from several illnesses. Our Lord has taken her into his arms and has relieved her of all her pain. Susan was born June 14th, 1963 in Ontario, CA. The Rhea family moved to Apple Valley in 1976. As a graduate of Apple Valley Senior High School in 1981, she kept in touch with many of her classmates, childhood friends from Ontario, and continued to build numerous friendships in the High Desert. Susan will always be remembered for her beautiful smile, her contagious laughter, wit, and her cheerful willingness to help others regardless of her own problems. She will be deeply missed by her husband Brett, family members, and all that loved and knew her. For the past 12 years, Susan was a cosmetologist in Apple Valley. Susan loved to listen, laugh, and learn during her long talks with clients all of whom became her good friends. Susan became a member of AA on June 29th, 1997 and remained sober until her death. Susan was an active and supportive member of AA where she met Brett in 1998 on her 34th birthday. They were married on Oct. 24th, 1999. They both spoke of their meeting each other at the annual AA picnic as the best birthday gift either had received, since it had come from God. Over the years, Susan paid forward the loving support and understanding that she received from AA to countless individuals. Susan was always there for anyone who was in need.
Susan is survived by her husband Brett Ward; her mother and father, Bob and Dorothy Rhea of Apple Valley whom Susan talked with every day; her sister and brother-in-law Sandra and Eddie Phillips, nephews Kyle and Adam of Ontario, CA.; and many beloved uncles, aunts and cousins. Also, Susan's mother–in-law Cassandra "Wynn" Ward; brother-in-law and sister in-law William "Jay" Ward and Alexandra Ward, nieces Sarah and Emily all of San Bernardino, CA; sister-in-law and brother-in-law Jill and Brent McElwain, nephew Devin and niece Carly, of Spring Valley Lake, CA.
Susan wished to hold an informal memorial celebration of her life at Sunset Hills Memorial Park, 24000 Waalew Road in Apple Valley, Ph: (760) 247-0155. Come join us on the terrace from 11:30am to 2:00 pm on Friday, Oct. 1st, 2010 and share remembrances and stories of Susan in your life. Guests are welcome to bring additional food and drinks. Billy Pratt of High Desert Funeral and Cremation can be contacted at (760) 244-1400 for further details. In lieu of flowers, Susan wished donations be made to the Victor Valley Central Office of AA, 18888 Outer Hwy. 18, Suite 107, Apple Valley, CA 92307.

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Published by Daily Press from Sep. 26 to Oct. 1, 2010.

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Kelli Woodman Day

September 22, 2021

Hi my friend. I still think of you often and am still sober thanks for you. XOXO (September 2021)

janet

October 3, 2010

Brett, I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Susan. She touched the lives of so many.
May all the wonderful memories you shared never be forgotten. And most of all, may the peace of God, thru many prayers guard your heart and your thoughts to help you cope without her.Philippians 4:6,7
"Do unto others as you would have them do to you." Matthew 7:12

Randi S

October 2, 2010

So sorry for your loss. Susan will be missed tremendously.God Bless.

Judy Broedling

October 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

October 1, 2010

There are very few people who cared about the needs of others like Susan. She truly had a servants heart.She would not want us to grieve but to live by the example she set..Thank you Susan for being a part of my life.
Julie Murphy Apple Valley California

Greg,Sandy Dillman

October 1, 2010

Our whole hearts go out to you Brett, and all of the Rhea family. She was a remarable woman and we will treasure our friendship forever. May you now rest in peace my friend. You will be truely missed.

Diane

September 30, 2010

To the entire family I am so sorry for your loss. I was a client of Susan's for many years and I know she will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Diane

Jamie Jensen

September 30, 2010

Gone from this earth ~ but never forgotten. I'm so lucky to have called you my friend. I hope we meet again in heaven.

September 30, 2010

Brett I only knew susan during are brief encounters at the gate , Brett I am truly sorry for your loss. The lady who would visit next door with the doggies

Kelli Woodman

September 28, 2010

Susan, You will always be in my heart. You "paid it forward" by helping me start my new sober life. I will never forget our good and not so bad times together. I love you and miss you. Kelli

Gabby Nagy

September 28, 2010

She is dancing with our Lord now...Love You all, Gabby

j grumpy

September 28, 2010

susan i will never ever forget you as long as i live !!! , you will forever be in my heart ! , you may no longer be here on earth, but you will always be here with us. and with me every time i am kind to others as you were to me. i know in my heart you are with the god of your understanding. , untill we meet again outside of this world. , i will always remember we just don't drink no matter what. you always shared that with us. i will never forget that as long as i live. by for now. , your freind, grumpy j.

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