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Elmer Pendleton Obituary
ELMER D. PENDLETON (Age 83) Maj. Gen., USA (Ret.)
Died on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 at home. Born in Kansas City, Missouri, he enlisted in the Army on his 17th birthday. He served three years as an enlisted man, then graduated in 1951 from the US Military Academy at West Point. He served 35 years as an Army Officer with assignments in Europe and Asia including the Korean, Vietnam and Cold Wars. His awards include the Defense and Army Distinguished Service Medals, four Silver Stars, nine Bronze Stars, and the Purple Heart. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Anne of Falls Church, VA; daughter, Allison L. Connor (Jerry) of Savannah, GA; two sons, LTC John K. Lange, USA (Ethel) of Germany and Christian D. Pendleton of Falls Church; his grandchildren, Rachel and Joshua Lange; his brother, James H. Pendleton (Carol), the soldiers with whom he served and a grateful Nation. Funeral services will take place at Fort Myer with burial to follow in Arlington National Cemetery on a date to be announced.
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John M. Dreska
January 17, 2025
My Father and our Family held General Pendleton in the highest regards. Great American Family with an American hero as the patriarch! God Bless!
Lucy Paone
January 17, 2025
I have fond memories of both Elmer and my husband Joe. They had so much love and respect for each other. I miss them both.
Paul Sanders
January 17, 2021
A true Patriot and inspiring Soldier.
Temple Wood
February 3, 2011
Elmer Pendleton will live in the heart's of many forever: his best friend and loving wife Anne, his children, grandchildren, soldiers and friends. He was a hero, role model to all that knew him and touch many that did not know him personally but knew of him. He wiil be missed here on earth but we all have many beautiful memories that will be with us for our lifetime. He is at peace.
Gordon Lynch
February 1, 2011
One of our exceptional leaders has joined the heavenly ranks. Elmer and I joined the Big Red One on the same day
Andy Remson
January 31, 2011
Elmer was a great soldier, a great classmate, and a great friend.
Paul Sanders
January 31, 2011
Dear Mrs.Pendleton: We served with pride with your husband in Korea, 19th Support Command. His passion for doing things right were legends. We are so sorry for you loss.
He will get things organized in Heaven!
Col Paul and Val Sanders
Hanau Germany
Laura McDonald Ellis
January 25, 2011
I hope he's dancing with the angels as he keeps watch over you all. Prayers for the entire family.
January 24, 2011
He was a soldier's soldier and served his country well. We were honored to have worked with him in Turkey.
LtC and Mrs. Robert McDonald USAF Ret.
Mary Alice Murphy
January 24, 2011
Anne, John, Christian and Allison: Don and I send our condolences. We remember Elmer and you all in Turkey with fondness. Please know our prayers are with you.
Michael Wagner
January 24, 2011
Anne,
As Patti and I shared in your laughter over these many years, so too do we share in your sorrow. The world is a much better place for Elmer's contributions; there are several generations of military officers who owe their education and success to Elmer's tutelege. We honor him and you in our shared stories.
Sally Marks Webber
January 24, 2011
Mrs. Pendleton,
You and your family are in our prayers during this difficult time. I am sure that my dad is giving Elmer the skinney. Heaven will be well run between those two!! oxox
Debbie Mathias-Cook
January 24, 2011
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Lucy Paone
January 23, 2011
Anne,
Joe and I loved Elmer. I know they are up there now talking about their times in Vietnam and here at home. My sympathy to you and the family.
Jonathan McIntyre
January 23, 2011
Anne,
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family especially during this time.
With sympathy,
Jon
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