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Matt Morphy
March 14, 2025
I keep posting here, because, as I grow older, moments make me think of Steve.
Usually, it is a thought/ smile/ laugh about a memory situation, but sometimes, it is a lesson learned and applied.
Raising two boys - now 12 and 9, I think about Steve even more.
The importance of an amazing friend throughout adolescence is priceless. I had that, in Steve. I wish my kids will have the same.
Miss you buddy.
Matt Morphy
May 24, 2024
You and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you, Steve. May God bless you and your family. Miss you man.
Matt Morphy
May 27, 2023
I need to follow up on Bryan´s comment below; he nailed it down perfectly. Steve was one of the most amazing people I have ever met. He was not only an amazing person, but he changed me an enabled me to be a better person. Not many people can do that. Never forgotten. For his daughter,
please reach out if you want to know more about how awesome your Dad was. There are enough friends around to talk about him ;) it´s up to you.
Bryan Stephany
May 27, 2023
I´ve never posted before and maybe it´s too late but thanks to our good mutual friend, Matt, I´m thinking of Steve a lot this weekend and felt compelled to share. Steve was a close friend for the short time we were both at McQuaid. I didn´t do a good job of staying in touch after that, though I wish I had. He was one of the first friends I made freshman year and I am so grateful to have known him and had the time we did together. He was adventurous, funny, and kind. But what I remember the most were the strength of his convictions and what an incredibly loyal friend he was. I remember him being quick to stand up to bullies and protect those who weren´t as fearless as he was (me). So, even though we lost touch, it´s not surprising to me the path he took and the ultimate sacrifice he made - fearlessly laying down his life for others and the freedom we all enjoy. You will never be forgotten. Thank you, Steve.
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Matt Morphy
May 26, 2023
Thank you, Steve. This coming Monday, I will most certainly take a moment to explain to my children the magnitude of what you, and others, gave up so we can live our lives in freedom. Thank you and may God bless you and your family.
Matt Morphy
May 27, 2022
As Memorial Day quickly approaches, it´s hard to believe it has been 15 years years since you gave your life for every American citizen, and every person in any location promoting or seeking freedom.
You paid the most dearest price to protect all those that you knew, didn´t know, and yet to be born, in the name of freedom, and acted, completely selflessly.
You are an American hero.
You are a hero for all that seek freedom from oppression.
You are a hero to my family.
You will never be forgotten.
May God bless you and your family.
Matt Morphy
May 30, 2021
Never forgotten, friend. Wishing all of your family the best on this day of remembrance. May God bless you all.
Matt Morphy
May 30, 2021
Never forgotten, friend. Wishing all of your family the best on this day of remembrance. May God bless you all.
Matt Morphy
May 24, 2020
While I do love Ms. Childers quote: "Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away, I realize that after 10+ years since we lost you, that quote doesnt apply to you.
I think of you more during Memorial Day Weekend, but, there are other random times in my life that just pop up and remind me of you. Sometimes, its a 90s music song that we used to enjoy. Other times, its a random life situation. Always, if I see a pair of nunchucks, especially metal; Im surprised I actually remember your impromptu nunchuck training....I think my head hurts right now writing about it :).
Steve, my sincerest thanks for everything you did in your too short life. You truly were an incredible person and positive influence.
You died a hero; but we lost you way too early.
May God bless all of your family and loved ones. I hope all are safe and well.
Your Memory Will Never Drift Away.
Matt Morphy
May 26, 2019
Thinking of you on this day as always. Love to you and your family. Miss you.
Matt Morphy
May 26, 2018
My son, Brennen, asked me yesterday about why we celebrate Memorial Day; he's five, so I kept the conversation light. But, I explained to him that it is a day of remembrance for those who have fallen for us to enjoy our freedom.
I told him about you.
You will never, ever, be forgotten.
Matt Morphy
May 28, 2017
Thank you, Steve; you will never be forgotten.
Matt Morphy
May 29, 2016
You will never be forgotten, Ever. My family and I are thinking about you and remembering your amazing, but way too short, life. Love always buddy. Thank you and miss you; I wish we had the chance to share stories about the different stages of life. Someday, on the other side, we will. Lots of love for you and your family during this difficult holiday weekend. God bless you.
May 24, 2015
My precious grandson, I hate Memorial Day because I have lost you. Greater love hath no man than he give his life for his friends" Save me a place in heaven sweetheart.
Matthew Morphy
May 23, 2015
Thinking of you a lot this weekend, Steve; you will never be forgotten.
May 27, 2014
I Love looking at the pictures. I have one framed and printed on my desk. I would much rather have him here with our family. Love always, Aunt Stacy the Great!
Matthew Morphy
May 25, 2014
Thank you Steve.
Matthew Morphy
May 27, 2013
Thank you Steve. Thinking of you and your family today.
June 13, 2012
This message is for Steve, Sr, who I went to school with many years ago. So very sorry about the loss of your son.
Bob Klem
Phoenix, Arizona
Matthew Morphy
May 28, 2012
Never Forgotten. Thank You Steve and RIP.
Peggy Childers
May 27, 2012
May 23, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Steve Butcher:
Always remembering Steve. "Some gave all."
Matthew Morphy
May 30, 2011
Thank you Steve. You and your family will always be within my thoughts and prayers.
Peggy Childers
May 23, 2011
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Steve Butcher:
Please accept my remembrance of Steve on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
ariel olson
January 26, 2011
RIP Ssgt butcher. i was proud to serve with those few months before you passed. i know your watching over all your guys now and am sure they are safer because of it. THANK YOU!!!!!
SGT James Daniel
July 23, 2010
Rest well brother .
Matthew Morphy
May 31, 2010
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
I borrowed Ms. Childers quote a year ago, and I find no reason to stray from it now; it is true, my memory of you will never drift away.
Thank you Steve. Your family will always be in my thought and prayer.
Sammantha P. Stollery
May 24, 2010
Steve always did look good with camo Dirt on his face! We miss your funnyy antics! WE LOVE YOU STEVEY!!!!
~Sammantha P. Stollery
Sammantha Stollery
May 24, 2010
" Have fun with God and all the angels we miss you and love you very much. In my schol were doing a progect for Memorial Day and i wrote a poem about Stevey... I miss him very much even tho some people in my school and family dont understand because i dident know him that well but i knew him enought to loe him like a Dad. I wish he was with us to day to tell every one storys from his platoon. This is the poem i wrote....
For the Men and Women that will never come home.....
The cry of a fallen soldier
Will be heard forever
Remember always
As he was and nothing else
The heart cries for him to return home
His bed cold forever
His heart beats in ours
Forever and always.
Love,
Sammantha P. Stollery
Peggy Childers
May 23, 2010
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Steve Butcher:
Remembering Steve on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mike Akalski
May 20, 2010
Stevie, I can never stop thinking of you.You are missed by your Aunt and I so terribly. Our hearts will be forever in love with you and you will never be forgotten.
Uncle Mike
sam stollery
February 2, 2010
Steve-was an amazing man. My Step dad. He was nice and a great father figure.
Chris Rodman
July 17, 2009
I never got to know the man that Steve had become. We followed similar paths in life, had some good times at McQuaid, and even better times haunting Our Lady Of Mercy after hours at practices. Knowing the stand-up guy he was in highschool, and knowing what it takes to be a Staff Sergeant in the Army, I have no doubt that he was still the great guy that people sought to be like and be around. If there was a guy that would stand up for his friends better than Steve would, i don't know that man. Respected then, honored now. "..Though they may be gone, they are not forgotten."
Angela, Mr. and Mrs. Butcher, and to all his family and friends, my deepest condolences. Know that when we lose a soldier we feel the pain of loss, but the soldier finally finds what every soldier dreams of... Peace.
John Morphy
May 27, 2009
Steve - I remember all of the times you and Matt spent in our house in Fairport. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for helping us enjoy the freedoms we so often take for granted.
GLORIA BUTCHER
May 26, 2009
MEMORIES STEVE, THAT'S ALL WE HAVE LEFT. MY HEART BREAKS WHEN I THINK OF YOU. THE PAIN IS SUPPOSED TO GET BETTER WITH TIME.I WEPT TEARS OF JOY WHEN YOU WERE BORN. WE TOASTED YOUR ENTRY INTO THE WORLD. I MISS YOU SO. BYE FOR NOW MY DARLING. GRANDMA BUTCHER
Gail Munz-Fassler
May 26, 2009
You are loved.
Sue McDonald
May 25, 2009
Steve---Again, our heartfelt thanks for the life you sacrificed, to serve your country, the life you gave to us all. Thank you for the love you gave and shared with your family and the legacy you've left behind, for those who knew you and for those of us who only got it second-hand, through the eyes and hearts of those who loved you too.
Namaste,
Sue(Munz-kin-Akalski)McDonald Boise ID
A. Davis
May 25, 2009
My family is thinking of Sgt. Butcher & his family on this Memorial Day. We will always have his memory in our hearts. He is a true hero!
May 25, 2009
My sweet Stevie, I just can't get my brain around the fact that your not with us. I see your picture on my desk and I can't believe that a part of our family is gone. Still missing you and loveing the memories that I carry with me each and everyday. I know I write this as if I'm talking to you but it makes me feel as when I wrote letters to you. I reread them the other day, cause luckily for me I saved them all! I laugh when I pull them out cause they are all addressed to Aunt Stacy the great. I miss you so, Love, Aunt Stacy the Great
Matthew Morphy
May 25, 2009
Thank you Steve- for giving your life to our Country. As Ms. Peggy Childers stated- “Don’t let the memory of them drift away,” well, considering how amazing of a person you were, I find that quite impossible- take care and may God Bless you, I will always be thinking of you and your family. Thank you Steve.
Peggy Childers
May 23, 2009
To the family of Staff Sgt. Steve Butcher:
Steve gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
January 20, 2009
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Sincerely,
Kenna
December 12, 2008
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Marie (formerly Truelson) DeSanto
September 5, 2008
I remember Steve Jr. when I was a secretary for Steve Sr., working out of the basement of your home. Such a wonderful son! Although he was only 4 or 5 years old, already he was a proud, intelligent, strong young man. In reading this, it comes to no surprise that he was a fine soldger and Steve, in heaven, I thank you for serving our country. My prayers and sympathies go to his family. I apologize for this late entry; I just recently learned of his passing.
Matthew Morphy
July 7, 2008
Dear Steve,
I have been thinking about you every week since I first heard the terrible news-and I cry about it every time I think of you! You were one of the greatest people I have ever met! Although you are gone, you will always remain alive in my heart and soul. The comments on this site, posted by your loved ones, always bring a smile to my face. Although the comments are often sad, they remind me of how great of a person you were, and how much of a profound impact you had on me.
On that note, there is a story I would like to share with your family and friends. Everyone that knew you, knew that you cared more about your family and friends than yourself. However, I still think I have an indentation in my back, from your boot, because of my first kiss! (You really could have “let up” a little bit! Hahaha) You were sitting behind me, and my "future two-week girlfriend," on the steps of Mercy High School. Although you “pre-checked” that Meg would kiss me back, I was still afraid to attempt it. When Meg and I were on the stairs, you somehow found a way to sneak in and sit behind me, a few stairs up, but unbeknownst to me until your first “kick.” Because I delayed, you nudged/kicked me from behind so that I would try to kiss her. I did nothing. A few minutes later, you didn’t nudge me, you actually kicked me! Again, no response. As I noticed your grin, out of the corner of my eye, I realized that the risk of her denial was going to be a lot better than your third “nudge”- hence, my first kiss!
You were always there for your friends, and you knew when they needed an extra nudge/kick to go for what was important. Somehow, you were always there to help! I love you brother, and thank you again! Although my back hurts, I somehow met the greatest girl in the world (Kyla- who you maybe met, because she went to Mercy too), and my parents may someday have grandchildren- all I have to say is - nice kick! I cannot tell you how much they all appreciate it!
Moving on, I also cannot tell you how much I miss you. Life is amazing. We became great friends during high school, and we subsequently chose different paths. I only hope I was able to help you during your life as much as you helped me. (Another aside, you were worried that my neighbors were going to beat me up so you took the bus home with me for about a week!!!!)
When people picked on me, you were the first to stand up for me. When I was sad, you were the first to make me happy. When we had fun, you found a way create some of the best times of my life!
Despite my great sadness, I cannot help but smile when I think of you. Steve, my friend, my brother, you are one of the greatest people I have ever had the privilege of spending time with. There are so many things I wish we had the chance to speak about.
On that note, I will visit you this coming weekend in Arlington National Cemetary. My wife and I are coming to visit you and friends, and after I pay my sincere respect toward you, I will probably walk away backwards. I know you are in heaven, but I slightly believe you will find a way to apply that third “nudge.” Please, don’t go AWOL on heaven, stay put, and wind up on me later if I am somehow able to be in the rare presence of one of the greatest people to ever visit Earth! It is going to be one of the toughest days of my life seeing your stone in Arlington. There is no doubt that I would not be who I am today without you. Thank you!
Take care buddy, I miss you dearly!
Kindest Regards,
Matt Morphy
June 27, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Butcher!
Stacy Akalski
May 27, 2008
My sweetie Stevie, I think of you all the time. I reread your letters to Aunt Stacy the Great! I was there when you came into the world and when you left. I miss you terribly, Aunt Stacy
In Memory of Steve ~ (Debra Estep)
May 23, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Steve, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
Lori Stanifer
March 15, 2008
I just heard about Steve from friends. I did not know him but Heather and Molly lived Close by. My heart goes out to ya'll. I am really sorry. I know he was a great father and very good soilder. He was at WLC with my husband. I would like to know how to send Molly Something.
this is ssg. butcher,steve and sgt.jolin,steven
Kristine Jolin
December 9, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Sue Cox
October 13, 2007
Dearest Family,
We learned of Steve Jr's death two weeks ago and are so very saddened.
Even though we have not kept in touch and did not really know him, we have read many of the tributes from you, his family, as well as those of his friends and have learned of his loving character, sense of humor and loyalty to our country.
He is truly a hero and it is our loss that we did not know him.
With love to you all,
Sue (Hargis) and David Cox
Norene Sullivan
September 14, 2007
Hello
My name is Norene Sullivan and I lost my brother on September 11th. I just finished watching a special on PBS and I saw Steve featured. Looking at the pictures of him and seeing all of you brings back some memories. You should be proud! I just wanted to drop by and say thank you to his family for allowing him to keep people like me safe. The road ahead of you is not an easy one, but I hope it helps to know that people like me didn't forget them or what they did for us and we are forever in your debt. May God bless you and help you through your toughest times. With Much Respect, Norene
August 15, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Butcher and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
August 6, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Luis Rosa
July 24, 2007
Steve I love you. You and I spent many days together, many moments, that let me know you were my brother. I think about you every day and pray for you twice as much. You were such a vital part of my life. your sage wisdom, solid advice, and dry sarcastic humor have helped me through many a troubled time. I will carry you in my heart everyday. God how i wish i was there with you. but, circumstances as they are I wasnt. But be sure of this. You will never be forgotten. Your spirit shall live forever, and I will carry on your dedication. You are my best friend and my brother. Stand down now Steve, I'll take up your post.
SGT Luis Rosa
Kristine Jolin
July 5, 2007
steve, I we are so proud of you and all that you have done.Just know that we love you and miss you so much..Im going to miss you..the weekends are going to seem strange with out over here.Im praying for you and your family we love you always.Steven,Jayden,and I
ROBYN GARSIDE
June 27, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR HIS DAUGHTER. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
S. Karl
June 24, 2007
My heart is heavy as I sign another guestbook. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I do not know your heartbreak, but I do feel a deep sadness for your loss. Your son was a hero and a great man. He will never be forgotten.
Glen
June 20, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Katie Stark
June 7, 2007
To the family of Steve Butcher Jr:
It has been a while since I have last talked to Steve or Molly. I was reading the frontline when I saw the entry that informed me that he had died in Iraq. I was in shock and my heart goes out to Molly and the rest of the family. I just want you to know that prayers are with you all. Sgt. Ronald Stark is my husband and served with Steve when he was part of 2-7 Inf. C. Company. He's still in Iraq and will find out when he gets back home for r and r. We will make every attempt to be at the tree ceremony when it happens. May God be with you all. The thing I remember best about him was the fact that he shared a birthday with my oldest son. Please take care and be safe.
Sandra Hamilton
June 5, 2007
Steve,
If you only knew how bad things are here without you.
Today was your funeral and I wanted to be there so much it hurt. I just can't imagine how Molly must be feeling at this point. Molly has lost one of the most important people in her young life - her Daddy. Now, her Mommy is all she has to remind her of what a hero her Dad is (look, I'm stil speaking in present terms with you).
I have cried so much today, I don't know if I will ever stop. I was in so much denial at first that I couldn't believe that you were gone. I checked the papers everyday, the internet, trying to find evidence to the contrary. Unfortunately, that didn't happen. How could you be gone from our lives forever. We left so much unsaid. I know that in November, when you were coming to see me, we would have said it all. God knows we didn't hold back with each other - whether it was love, politics, reading and esp our opinions!!
I'm tring to wipe the tears from my eyes, but they just keep coming.
My heart goes out to Molly. It will be up to Heather, friends and family to keep YOU alive in her heart and mind. We will not let her forget what a wonderful, extraordinary, and unique person you truly were. God rest your soul Steve Butcher. I pray that peace has found you and God himself is wiping the tears from your eyes as I am asking Him to wipe them from my own. This is one of the saddest days in my life . . . hold me close in your dreams tonight - I need you to do that for me. And hold Molly and Heather in your arms - they need that. God please comfort all of us for we have truly lost a treasure on this earth that can never be replaced.
Love to you always Steve
Sandra
MICHAEL GRUTTADAURIA
June 4, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
June 4, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Butcher family in the loss of Steve. I did not know Steve, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Steve you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there frequently. Each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Steve.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Kali Lockhart
June 3, 2007
I am a wifeof one of the men your husband was whith in Iraq. He was also oneof his sgt. a few years back. I would just like to say that our thoughts and prayers are whith you all. I can only say that but cause nothing eles could ever say just how wonderful these guys are. GOd holds a place just for them I turly bellive that.
Holly Blaszak
June 1, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of great loss and sorrow.
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carolyn coates
May 31, 2007
I did nt know Steve, but Id like to send my deepest sympathy to his family for their great loss. I would also like to say thank you for his great effort in protecting the U.S. May God guide him into his loving arms. Steve is another bright and shining star in heaven, and a light that will never go out. God Bless You All
Don Carey USA Ret
May 31, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. As a Vietnam Veteran and currently working with the 3rd INF Div who are in Iraq I can understand what you are going through. Steve gave it all for his country and we are proud of him God Bless You
Karen Manasco-Kelly
May 31, 2007
I remember Steve from his early days in Fairport. He was a true believer in our country and in the good that he could make by enlisting. He was always there with a message of faith and I know that God just had to have take another angel home.
jessica ybarra
May 31, 2007
My deepest sympathy to all those who were related to or friends with Sgt. Butcher. I knew him, though not very well, and he was an amazing person. Very helpful and kind. He was a great Sgt. and will forever be in my memory. I send you my sympathy in this time of need. I hope that you can all find peace with what has happened.
Linda Clifton
May 31, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Trudy Lowe
May 31, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Carol Cline
May 30, 2007
Know in your heart that Steve is a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To Steve's family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Caitlin Goff
May 30, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to Staff Sgt Butcher's friends and family. We are blessed to have brave angels like Sgt Butcher guiding and protecting Americans. May he rest in peace.
Ronn Massie
May 29, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Steve.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Steve for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
May 28, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
April Alexander
May 28, 2007
Your memory will remain in the hearts of my husband and I forever. On this Memorial Day we both remember the wonderful man and friend you were to us both. Without you, my husband wouldn't be beside me today. You saved his life...and for that reason and so many more..we will never forget.
Sandy Bonesteel
May 27, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Garnet Jenkins
May 26, 2007
The price Staff Sgt. Steve Butcher and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of your Brave Young Soldier.
May Steve rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord be with the Butcher family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that shall be revealed in us."
~ Romans 8:18 ~
May you find Peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Grateful Country Will Not Forget Steve's Sacrifice.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
May 26, 2007
Rest in peace.
Gary Allain
May 26, 2007
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
SHIRLEY DONEY
May 25, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
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