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SEASHORE EDITH WHITFIELD SEASHORE (Age 84) Edith Whitfield Seashore, 84, died on Saturday, February 23, 2013, in the hours following the memorial service for her late husband, Charles N. Seashore, with her daughters by her side. She was the first child of Nathan and Florence Whitfield of Montclair, NJ and was born on March 8, 1928, fittingly on International Women's Day as she would become a pioneer in a male-dominated field and an agent of change with regard to women's rights. She earned a BA in Sociology from Antioch College, where she was Community Manager and worked with Douglas McGregor. She earned an MA in Social-Psychology from Columbia University. In 1950, Edie went to Bethel, Maine to learn from and work with National Training Laboratories (NTL) in Applied Behavioral Science. She met Charlie Seashore there when he was a participant in a group she was training. They became collaborators and married, celebrating 52 years together before Charles' death in January. While at NTL, Edie became increasing connected to the field of group dynamics. She became first female president of NTL at a critical time in the organization. She was a consultant in organization development (OD) with clients including Bell Telephone Systems, Walter Reed Hospital, the Defense Mapping Agency, and the U.S. Naval Academy. She co-founded the Lewin Institute for Social Change, Action and Research and was the board co-chair for many years. With the late Morley Segal, she co-founded the American University/NTL Masters Program in OD. She taught at numerous other universities including Johns Hopkins, University of Massachusetts, Pepperdine, and Concordia and in many countries. In 2001, she was recognized by the OD Network with a Lifetime Achievement Award. Edie was a true optimist and could weave a great story out of any situation. Recently she wrote a six-word memoir of her life: "Marriage, Family, Career - had it all!" She not only saw the good in others, she brought it out. Edie is survived by her daughters, Becky and Kim and her sons-in-law, C.J. and Jeff; her brother and sister-in-law, Alan and Diane; siblings-in-law, Marjorie and Dick Seashore; and grandchildren, Benjamin, Natalie, Nathan, Nick, and Ella. She is lovingly remembered and missed by her family, and her many colleagues, students and friends around the world. Memorial services will be held March 9, at the Sheraton Columbia Town Center in Columbia, MD and on July 21 in Bethel, ME. Donations in Edie's memory can be made to Seashore Memorial Fund at NTL Institute for Applied Behavioral Science (www.ntl.org) at Antioch College. (https://donate.antiochcollege.org/).(https://donate.antiochcollege.org/).

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 3, 2013.

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Harriet Stanton-Leaffer

February 26, 2020

I still think of Edie, and remember her with a sense of regret that we had lost touch in the years following our work together at Richard Beckhard Associates. When I knew her she had yet to become the prominent and important change agent that would form her legacy. We shared many laughs and outrageous conspiracies. I do remember her leaving some clothing in the office closet. I drew a head and hands on easel paper
and attached it to the clothing, creating a person draped over the hanger. My reward was Edie's total and genuine laughter when she found it.

Harriet Stanton-Leaffer

July 29, 2013

I worked with Edie in the 60s. A recent look at the history of NTL a day ago informed me that she and Charlie had both passed. I was stunned. Although we had lost touch, I never forgot her. I was 24, she was 27, when we worked for Richard Beckhard. We shared stories, gags, and viewpoints. She went on to an illustrious career in her field; i segued into publishing and wound up at The New York Times. I last saw her at the memorial for Richard Beckhard at Trinity Church in Manhattan a few years ago. I am incredibly saddened that she is gone. My heartfelt condolences to her daughters and all of her family. She was my hero.

Glenn Allen

June 6, 2013

Edie, I just shared news of your passing with a most humble and honorable friend who surprised me with his reply, below. I think he must have grasped the essence of who you are to me and to so many others. First, the Latin, then the English:

in freta dum fluvii current, dum montibus umbrae Lustrabunt covexa, polus dum sidera pascet semper honos nomenque tuum laudesque manebrunt

Coarse transation:
As long as the rivers shall run down to the sea, or shadows touch the mountain slopes, or stars gaze in the vault of heaven, so shall your honor, your name your praises, endure.

Regina Millard

March 12, 2013

The memorial service for Charlie and Edie in Columbia was so fitting. When Becky and Kim spoke I saw Edie standing before us.

Howard Irvin

March 10, 2013

Unfortunately I just learned of the passing of two of my favorite people on this earth, Charlie & Edie Seashore. I last saw Edie seven years ago in Bethel where she razzed me about my whimping out during a blizzard that she said that I brought with me to Bethel. I was fortunate to have last hugged and talked with Charlie in Palo Alto in early January, days before his passing. As I see it now, our trip down memory lane was Edie-based and was a goodbye of sorts. Two great giants of mankind are now resting peacefully together as always and as it should be. Missing you both.

Glenda Hilton

March 10, 2013

I had the opportunity to work with Charie & Edie at NTL. My first experience in Bethel, ME was hard. I had never been to a place like this before but Charlie & Edie got me through it. After that, wanted to go every summer to work in the office. They will truely be missed.

When someone passes we say, "They have walked on"....Northern Cheyenne.

Dick LaFever

March 9, 2013

Edie and Charlie changed my life.

Julie Holmes

March 5, 2013

To Edie and Charlie's Family, Having had the good fortune to come to San Francisco for Charlie's Memorial, it was so wonderful to see Edie again. I was looking forward to visiting them both on my visits to the area. I had the chance to talk with her, hug her, told her I loved her, and told her I would be calling to check on her, knowing the loss of her beloved "Charles" was very difficult for her. It seems "right" that she had to leave to be with him, yet the hole in my heart is great! Edie "discovered" me, and helped me start my path in O.D. It was her "thing" to find women she could promote, and I will forever be grateful for her unconditional acceptance. They were both outstanding individuals, they were tremendous role models, and they both will be sorely missed!

Nancy Arduengo

March 5, 2013

Edie and Charlie provided me with many breakthrough moments. They are the most-often quoted of all of my professors and I was very saddened to hear of their loss. They will certainly be missed in life, but will live on in the work that we all continue to do because of our association with them.

Curt Dierdorff

March 5, 2013

Edie was a special person, and it was my great joy to have known her, and worked with her. She was bright, insightful, and courageous. I will never forget how when we would get together after not having met for sometime the first thing she would say is, "lets do a check-in". I have this vision of seeing Edie in heaven and doing a check-in with her.

Edith Evans

March 3, 2013

Thanks for a lifetime of the most special friendship. I will miss you in ways no words can describe. With love forever, the "other" Edie.

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