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RALPH F. PATTEN, JR.  
Passed away on October 2, 2015 at the age of 66 with his wife and children by his side. Survived by his loving wife, Maureen Corey Patten of 42 years; daughters Kathleen McFalls (Andrew), Kristina Wisemiller (David) and Kimberly Patten; grandchildren Kelley, Keegan, Corey, David Jr. and Teddy; mother Gloria Patten; and siblings Christine Becker (Vincent), William Patten (Elizabeth), Michael Patten (Gail) and Mary Herrmann. He is met in heaven by his father, Dr. Ralph F. Patten, Sr., his father-in-law, Neil R. Corey Sr. and his granddaughter Maureen Erin McFalls. Ralph was a graduate of Gonzaga High School and Spring Hill College and worked in the Financial Services industry for 40+ years. A longtime member of Washington Golf & Country Club, Ralph loved horse racing, sports, his dogs, but most of all his family. A funeral mass will be held on Saturday, October 10 at St. Agnes Catholic Church in Arlington, VA at 11 a.m. A private family burial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Ralph's name to: Fund a Cure for Pancreatic Cancer, 12 Kuhars Way, Newtown, PA 18940.

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Published by The Washington Post on Oct. 7, 2015.

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Louis Knight

January 22, 2016

Maureen,
I fondly remember the road trip I took with you, Ralph, and my Dad from Mobile to Perry, FL to view the total eclipse of the sun in early March 1970 while we were all at SHC. Ralph was a fun frat brother and must have been a wonderful lifelong husband and companion. Very sorry for your loss.

Susan Reever

October 27, 2015

Dear Maureen, Katie, Krisi and Kim.. So glad I could be with you to celebrate Ralph's passing. It was a lovely service and tribute to him. I will always have fond memories of him and remember his big wide grin. May the love of my friendship wrap around you all and give you comfort in the days to come. Love you all.. with our heartfelt sympathy.. Franco and Susan

Thomas Saehler

October 13, 2015

God speed, Ralph!

We were classmates at Gonzaga and good friends and we spent a year together at Spring Hill College before I tranferred to College Park.

Henry Pavy Boudreaux

October 10, 2015

My Sympathy

Kathy Prominski

October 9, 2015

Maureen and Family,
We so saddened to hear the news of Ralph passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family at such a difficult time. What a wonderful legacy he leaves behind.
May God wrap His arms around all of you and keep you strong.
Kathy & Peter Prominski

Paul Friedman

October 8, 2015

To the Patten Family.

We want to extend our deepest sympathy for the loss of Ralph. I know he gave it his over the past several months to fight and overcome his illness. Those we love are with us as we reflect from his wisdom, advice and thoughtfulness. I will personally reflect on the many years I worked with Ralph.

I hope your hearts will be full of memories that will always comfort you

Paul & Roz Friedman

Mike & Diane Kelley

October 7, 2015

A larger than life personality now rests comfortably in Heaven. To the immediate and extended family that he cherished so much, our heartfelt condolences to all of you. Maureen, Katie, Krisi and Kimberly - take comfort in the knowledge of how special it was to know and love him for so many years. By the way, he was pretty darn lucky to have all of you in his life too! I'll never forget how openly he accepted me into the family and how he had a knack for making us both feel like family.

October 7, 2015

Thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult of times
Susan McGeorge Eastin

Linda Crowley

October 7, 2015

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Melanie Yates

October 7, 2015

I am very saddened to hear this news today. My condoloences to his family and friends. Ralph will be very missed.

Audrey Saunders Pontarelli

October 7, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this storm. The sun will shine again. May God bless you,

Dominic Morosini

October 6, 2015

My condolences to your family on the passing of Ralph. I will always cherish the good times at the beach, on the boat, and at the track. He will be missed dearly. Love, Dominic and Neda Morosini

Patricia Scigliano

October 6, 2015

So sorry to hear about Ralph's passing. You are all in my thoughts & prayers.

Richard Levick

October 6, 2015

With deepest condolences to a most giving and remarkable family. Ralph's indomitable spirit is ever present in all the love you give. Wishing you peace and deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

October 6, 2015

Our most sincere condolences from the Thomas' Family: Rita, Linda, Greg, Maria, and Angela.

Jill Piowaty Orpin

October 5, 2015

Maureen, it is with such a heavy heart that I send my love and prayers to you and your girls. Words are insufficient. I love you.

Jean Duncan

October 5, 2015

Maureen, I am so sorry to hear this. My heart is completely broken for you and your family. Know I am sending love and prayers your way.

Dolores Reidy

October 5, 2015

We are so sorry for the passing of Ralph. We will always remember the good laughs, fun times at the track whether winning or losing, and always memories of being included in so many family functions. Our hearts go out to Maureen, the girls, grandchildren and his immediate family. God bless and rest in peace.
Love, Tom and Dolores Reidy

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