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Major General  RICHARD S. KEM  
Richard S. "Sam" Kem, a retired two-star general who served at top levels in the U.S. Army Europe and the Army Corps of Engineers, died of complications from hip surgery on April 1, 2016. Sam Kem was a native of Richmond, Indiana, the son of a local dentist. He graduated from Richmond Senior High School in 1952 and entered the United States Military Academy at West Point that July, graduating in 1956. He received a master''s degree in civil engineering from the University of Illinois and received another master''s degree in international affairs from George Washington University. He was also a graduate of the Army Command and General Staff College at Fort Leavenworth, KS. and the Naval War College at Newport, RI. After his military career, he worked as the Director of Public Works for Arlington County from 1990-2004. His first wife, Ann Callahan Kem, whom he married in 1960, died in 2003. He is survived by his wife, Adelaide (Ann) Mary Kem, whom he married in 2004; three children by his first wife, Michelle Kem of Falls Church, VA, Army Brigadier General John Kem and his wife Martha currently stationed at Fort Leavenworth, KS, and Steven Kem and his wife Gretchen of Ashland, OR; and step-daughters Deborah Brown of Minneapolis, MN, Suzanne Brown of Ocean Beach, Australia; three brothers and four grandchildren-Katy, Rob, James, and Kahlil. Services and burial at a future date at Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in his honor to: Food Pantry, Our Lady Queen of Peace, 2700 South 19th St., Arlington, VA 22204.

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Published by The Washington Post on Apr. 6, 2016.

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Michael Michaliga

March 31, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Douglas Bullard

March 31, 2019

I had the honor an privilege of serving as General Kem's Aide de Camp in the mid 80's at Fort Belvoir. Two words come to mind when I think of him, and I think of him often, passion and compassion. Passion...he loved life and lived it to the fullest. Compassion...he cared deeply about others and was always kind and willing to help others.

Bruce Helfer

July 29, 2017

While Major Kem was stationed at Fort Bragg I was his driver from1965 / 1967. I couldn't have asked for a better boss. We shared many stories while we were driving from place to place. Every time I returned from leave he
always asked how my family was doing. What a great guy he was. After I was discharged he even wrote me a letter. A few years ago I noticed he wrote a book "Engineering Memories" so I bought a copy. He had a great life and I have thought of him many times over the years. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I met his children when they were very young. On the last day I drove for him I called him "Sam", he laughed and said "Helfer you still have 3 days remaining in the Army. Instead of me saluting him for the last time, he just extended his hand for me to shake. He made my time in the service so much better. What a great guy he was.

Wanda Morales

May 4, 2016

Sam,
You will be remembered as a great human being besides been the best Director for the Department of Public Works in Arlington County.

Cliff Stern

May 2, 2016

I will miss the finest officer I ever had the pleasure to serve with. God bless

Ray Vanneman

April 11, 2016

A really great boss, Sam would do anything for his staff or those he served. Arlington will never know the loss they suffered when he retired. If only humanity had more Sam Kems, how much richer our lives would be!

Robert Cutter

April 11, 2016

A wonderful friend and Hoosier and also a great leader. Will be missed. Thoughts are with the family.

Doug Bullard

April 11, 2016

Ann, John, Michelle, and Steven, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Knowing and working for Sam was one of the great privileges of my life. The world has lost a great, compassionate leader who lived life with incredible zeal.

Dave Palmer

April 10, 2016

The world is a poorer place without this splendid veteran and great human being.

Jerry Hilmes

April 8, 2016

Sam Kem was a great American and an outstanding soldier, husband, father and friend. My heart goes out to Ann and family. Please let me know if I can help.

Robert Fuller

April 7, 2016

A fellow Hoosier, a mentor and a wonderful boss/commander. A positive influence on my life. My deepest sympathy to his family who must be enormously proud of his life and career.

Ann (McNulty) Ammerman

April 7, 2016

I am thinking of you John, Michele, and Steven.

Kelley MacKinnon

April 7, 2016

Sam, you will be missed

April 6, 2016

Thank you! May God bless your soul.

John and Carol Devens

April 6, 2016

Our prayers are with you Ann and our sorrow for the loss of a dear friend and great soldier.

Michael Michaliga

April 6, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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