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Harry McCabe Obituary

Harry P. X. McCabe a resident of Arlington since 1955 passed away peacefully on March, 4, 2014. Beloved husband of the late Catherine Terese "Cay" (Daley) McCabe. Loving father of Catherine Ann McCabe of Los Angeles, CA, Maryann Ruehrmund and husband Max III, of Rock Hall MD and Elizabeth Ann McCabe of East Lynn, MA. Grandfather of Max IV. Brother of Paul and wife Joan of Brookline, Francis X. of Quincy and the late Jack, William, Donald, Elizabeth, Rita, Helen and Margaret. Also survived Sister in law Evelyn McCabe of Tewksbury, MA and many nieces, nephews and friends. Relatives and friends are invited to visit in The DeVito-O'Donnell Funeral Home 1145 Mass Avenue ARLINGTON Tuesday 2 to 4 and 6 to 8pm and to a funeral mass Wednesday at 10am in St. Eulalia Church, Winchester. Interment to follow St. Paul Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations in Harry's memory to: Arlington Senior Association 27 Maple St., Arlington, MA, MIT Retiree's Undergraduate Scholarship Fund, 77 Mass Avenue, Cambridge, MA 02139 or The Touchdown Club of Arlington, 1090 Mass. Ave., Arlington, MA 02476. Mr. McCabe was a member of St. Paul's Parish and a scholastic honors graduate of Mechanic Arts High School, Boston, he enlisted in the U.S. Marines 1st Marine Division (1946-1951) and is a World War II and Korean War veteran. A 1956 Northeastern University graduate, Harry graduated Summa Cum Laude with an A.S. in Engineering and a B.S .in Business Administration. He was a full member of Northeastern's Sigma Epsilon Rho Business School Fraternity. He was a 51 year employee in M.I.T. Lincoln Lab's Ballistic Missile Defense Technology Division retiring in 2005. Harry is also a Charter member of The National World War II Museum. A life-long public activist, Mr. McCabe championed issues to aid the elderly, the poor, and the youth of Arlington since the early 1960s. He entered public service as an elected Town Meeting member representing Precinct 21 from 1966-2014. He was Treasurer of W.E.M.B.R.O.C. Community Action Council (1960s-1970s) and brought full-time HEADSTART to Arlington in the 1960s. Harry was Director of the Arlington Housing Corporation for 16 years as well as Director of The Arlington Boys and Girls Club for 16 years. He served as Chairman of the Arlington Board of Selectman in 1975 and Selectman Board Member from 1972-1975. Harry was elected Town Meeting Moderator Moderator from 1977 to 1989. He was the founder of the Arlington Council On Aging (1966-present) and advocated for the creation of a Senior Citizen Center for which a community room has been named in his honor after obtaining a 4 year $200,000.00 Federal Grant for Senior Services. He served for 6 years as President of the Community Action Council (Arlington's anti-poverty agency.) Harry was Director of the Arlington Senior Association from 1993 -2001. He was a member of the Finance Committee from 1991-1996, the Assisted Living Task Force (1997-2001) and the Family Self-Sufficiency Program Coordinating Committee also enjoyed Mr. McCabe's membership from 1997 - 2001. Harry was currently a board member at Minuteman Senior Service Homecare Corp. in Bedford, MA. Some of the numerous awards that Mr. McCabe received during his lifetime were: Honorable Discharge, U.S Marines - 1st Marine Division, 1951. 1971- Meritorious Community Service Award presented by the Arlington Chamber of Commerce. 1978- 2nd Annual George P. "Brud" Faulkner Award for outstanding community leadership presented by The Arlington Jaycees. 1989- Grand Marshall, Arlington's Patriot's Day Parade. Early 1990's-The Commonwealth of Massachusetts DOVE Award nomination. 1992- Town of Arlington CYRUS E. DALLIN AWARD for 30 years of outstanding volunteer contributions that enriched the civic and cultural life of Arlington. Mr. McCabe enjoyed membership and society in the following organizations: The American Red Cross- Volunteer/Donor Knights Of Columbus, Arlington - Honorary Life Member and Blood Drive Coordinator Arlington Seniors Association, Inc. - Honorary Lifetime Member Touchdown Club of Arlington Irish-American Club, Arlington Irish Cultural Society, Boston MA Disabled American Veterans (Lifetime Member) The American Legion The Nature Conservancy The Irish-American Cultural Institute, St. Paul MN WGBH MIT, Quarter Century Club AARP Peirce School PTA- Treasurer Mt. Gilboa Neighborhood Improvement Assn., Arlington MA 1956-present Mr. McCabe would like all to know that "He tried very hard in all things and he loved his Wife and Children very much." America The Beautiful was his favorite song and Sirach Ch.3: 2-7 and 12-17, as well as Colossians Ch. 3: 12-25 were important to him and how he lived his life. For directions or to send a condolence visit, devitofuneralhomes.com

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Published by The Arlington Advocate from Mar. 10 to Mar. 17, 2014.

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TONY magri

March 17, 2014

HEART FELT SYMPATHY TO MY MCCABE COUSINS.
PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL

John H. Vann

March 14, 2014

Harry was a kind, well informed gentleman who always knew what was best for the town and its residents. He worked tirelessly for all of us.

Tilda Landrigan

March 13, 2014

Harry was the administrator when I worked for a subcontractor in his group at Lincoln Lab. Always a gentleman and hard worker who took care of any need, issue and problem that might arise. Although we hadn't maintained contact for many years, I will always remember Harry. Peace to him and condolences to his family.

Donnarose Russian and Family

March 12, 2014

To the McCabe Family and Friends of Harry McCabe,
We considered ourselves to be blessed in knowing Harry, for all his wonderful work for our Town as a Town Meeting Member for decades, the Founder of the Arlington Council On Aging, President of the Community Action Council, and on and on and on... But also as a friend. Mr. McCabe was always and ever a gentleman of the highest caliber, a kind and gentle soul, but also a strong Hero as a Marine. He helped his lovely wife to raise a remarkable family, for which his pride always shone.
We offer our deepest sympathy to you all, and our prayers for you all, to God.

Joe and Jan Daly

March 10, 2014

Goodbye old friend. We all shall miss you. Thank you for all you have done for so many. However, we know you are where you want to be
with your Kay. Thanks for the memories.

Alisa Pascale

March 9, 2014

My condolences to the McCabe family for your loss. We were so lucky to have Mr. McCabe as part of our neighborhood. He obviously has left our community, our town, and our world a better, richer place for having been in it.

Dorothy Flood

March 9, 2014

Dear Maryann I was sorry to read of the passing of your father. He is in a better place and remember we never say good bye to anyone for the last time. Dorothy Flood

Shelly & John ONeil

March 8, 2014

To Big Red, Little Red, and Blondie. Madison Ave has lost an icon. He was a hard worker, dedicated to making Arlington a wonderful place to live.

Valerie Henderson (Doran)

March 7, 2014

To all of Harry's family my deepest sympathy for your loss.

PJS Picard

March 6, 2014

Dear Catherine, Maryann, Elizabeth,
Our condolences and sincere heart-felt sympathies. Let's honor Harry for what he (and Cay) created in his most important legacy of all, his three great daughters. Blessings to all in his memory. With much Love,

Christina Hurley

March 5, 2014

A wonderful neighbor and friend -- you will be missed.

Elsie Fiore

March 4, 2014

Your fifty years service as a Town Meeting Member will especially be remembered by those of us who served with you.

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