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John Reed Obituary

John Myers Reed died Saturday, Feb. 4, 2012, in Boston. He was born to the late Paul R. and Elizabeth B. Reed on Jan. 28, 1930. John graduated from the Noble and Greenough School in 1947, from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in 1951, and from the Harvard Law School in 1955. John met his future wife, Alette, on a blind date, when he was 18 and she was 17, in December 1948. They married in 1951, and were never apart until her death in 2007. John waited to enter law school, so they could attend together. For that year, after graduation from MIT, John worked on a surface-to-air missile project for the U.S. Navy. After graduation from law school, John worked at Gaston, Snow & Ely, Bartlett, doing bond and banking work, which was not completely to his taste. John admired Claude Cross, and asked him about joining Withington Cross, which John did. John had many happy years at the firm, and practiced every variety of law, from admiralty to zoning, and tried cases in all courts, including the U.S. Supreme Court. Eventually he joined his wife at Sherin & Lodgen, where they were partners together for many years until his retirement. John then joined his sons practice, at Holtz & Reed. Johns learning was enormous, and his memory of all he read, all he saw, all he heard, was almost perfect. He also wrote poetry. John leaves his son, Thomas, and daughter-in-law, Sarah, of Brookline; and his grandchildren, Sam, Jack, and Katie, whom he loved very much. His daughter, Emily, died in 2003. Services are private. For online guestbook visit www.bellodeafuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Brookline Tab from Feb. 5 to Feb. 12, 2012.

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Corazon Ross

January 27, 2016

My sincere condolences for your loss. John was a kind, gentle & pleasant man and I enjoyed working with him. May he rest in peace.

Ann & Dennis McGovern

February 9, 2012

John was my cleint and I have many fond memories of my time with him. listening to his stories of his love for poetry and word. I will miss him.

Dennis McGovern
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Rose feneck

February 6, 2012

John was one of the most interesting people I worked with in my 15 years at Sherin and Lodgen. I loved to go to his office with bills as he would end up telling me great stories of England.

Margaret Paget

February 6, 2012

What I most loved about John was his openness and humility. He learned so much in his life - a staggering amount by my measure, and never lost his appetite for learning more. And despite all he knew, and all I did not, he did not lose his humility. John took wisdom where he found it, not just from great poetry and the Classics and ancient political and legal scholarship, but from the writing on the bottom of a family member's ashtray, glimpsed by John when he was young: "Better alone than in bad company" (John shared this during one of our meandering conversations and I never forgot it; it gave me courage in difficult times). John was a mentor and made me a better lawyer than I thought I could be. Even now, years after his retirement, I still find myself practicing the lessons he taught (avoid pompous legalese). John was good-humored and fun. Even during the last year or so when he was physically ailing - he was warm and kind and I will miss him.

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