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SMITH WINSTON-SALEM Phyllis Naydene Smith March 18, 1955 - May 17, 2012 Phyllis Naydene Smith was a counselor, public servant, Inspirational Witness, mother, sister and friend. She departed this life on Thursday May 17, 2012, after a ten year battle with cancer. Phyllis Naydene Smith was born March 18, 1955 to Edward Franklin Smith, Sr. and Hester Ruth Smith. She was educated in the Catholic Schools of the city graduating from Bishop McGuiness High School in 1973. She continued her education at A&T State University and received a Master Degree in Psychology from North Carolina Central University. Phyllis worked at Winston-Salem State University from 1979 until months before her passing, serving as both a psychology professor and later as a counselor in the Counseling Center. At the Center, she touched the lives of many Ram students. Phyllis was a lifelong member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, pledging Alpha Mu in 1976. She was a member of Emmanuel Baptist Church since 2003. She is preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by an only son the light and joy of her life, Michael Andrew Grace, Jr., a rising senior at Yale University; a brother, Edward Franklin Smith, Jr. of the city; an uncle, Mr. Leslie Brinson (Doris) of Raleigh, NC; and a host of other relatives and friends. Funeral services will the held at the Emmanuel Baptist Church on Monday May 21, 2012, with the Rev. Dr. John Mendez Presiding. Family visitation will begin at 12:30 p.m., with funeral services at 2:00 p.m. Interment will follow in Evergreen Cemetery. The Delta Sigma Theta Sorority will give the final passage ceremony (Omega Omega) at 12:00 p.m. Family and friends may be contacted at 135 Riley Forest Court at 4:00 p.m. on Sunday May 20, 2012. Online condolences can be made at www.russellfuneralservice.com (RUSSELL)

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal from May 19 to May 20, 2012.

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Justin Griffith

May 13, 2021

An unbelievable woman. She always treated me like I was one of her own. She had such a loving and caring spirit. She is truly missed by so many

Edward Caldwell

May 13, 2021

A wonderful soul that will never be forgotten... RIP my friend and until we meet again... God is great all the time...

Lauren Andrew

May 13, 2021

From the first time we met, she greeted me with a hug and a kiss. Her smile lit up every room. She is family! I miss her and have so much love for that sweet lady

Becky Griffith

May 13, 2021

There never was a sweeter more loving person than Phyllis! She was a part of our family the moment we met and I knew she loved me! We both had a love for Jesus and our sons. I miss her terribly and think of her often!

Dr. Sharon H. Porter

July 28, 2020

Just thinking of my Soror, Phyllis today for some reason.

Shelby S Turner

May 13, 2020

Still missing Phyllis. I missed her funeral because I did not know of her passing in time. She helped me keep up with nieces and nephews that attended WSSU. I miss talking with her. Shelby "Smith" Turner

Terry Sutton

May 14, 2019

I'm still missing you my friend and Soror. It's still hard to believe she's gone. RIH Phyllis Smith.❤

Tanise Mckinney

May 13, 2019

PHYLLIS OH HOW I MISS U U TOOK A PIECE OF MY HEART I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER U AND HOLD U DEAR 2 MY HEART ❤

Edward Caldwell

May 13, 2019

I so remember and miss your beautiful smile, our friendship, the fun we had and your "always" upbeat and encouraging words... Yes, you were "One in a million" and missed... My our God continue to bless your family... RIH and RIP my friend, my sista Until we meet again... We serve an awesome God...

Beverly Paige

June 11, 2012

Rest In Peace, my Soror. Even though we have never met, I know you were a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta, Sorority.

June 5, 2012

I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Phyllis. A great colleague, an active Aggie to her heart, always the beautiful smile, & a beautiful Queen. Tony Tyson, President of the Student Government 1976 - 1977.

Terry Poole

June 4, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear about Phyllis my soror. I met Phyllis in 1975 my freshmen year at NC A&T State university. Phyllis and Robin. Phyllis was so pretty and stylish. I will miss her dearly. RIP Soror.

Piedmont Hematology/Oncology

May 29, 2012

From the girls in the lab....Karen, Betty, Dianne and D'Tonya

D'Tonya Dean

May 29, 2012

For the past few years I've known Ms. Phyllis everytime I saw her (in spite of her illness) I never heard her complain even though she was not feeling well on any particular day, She always managed a smile. I will miss her smiling face in our office. God bless your family.

Sheila O'Neal

May 25, 2012

Phyllis was a truely wonderful woman. Kind and gentle spirit. Gonna truely miss her. Lord Thank you for allowing her to be a part of our lives.

May 24, 2012

To the Family of Phyllis Smith
We were so saddened to hear about Phyllis.
She was so special to look in on her cousins who attended WSSU. We will surely miss her.
We loved her dearly. Shelby and Harold "SMITH"

PENNY WILKERSON PHOA

May 24, 2012

MY DEAR PHYLLIS, I MISS YOU ALREADY. YOUR BEAUTY WAS A PRECIOUS GIFT. I KNEW THE FIRST DAY I MET YOU HOW SPECIAL YOU WERE. I WILL MISS THE HUGS AND SMILES. IT DIDNT MATTER HOW BAD YOU FELT, YOU ALWAYS MANAGED TO SMILE & LET ME KNOW I WAS LOVED. RIP DEAR FRIEND. I LOVE YOU!!!

Dominique Gillespie

May 23, 2012

Ms. Smith was an amazing woman, counselor, mother, teacher, everything. She was always there when I needed someone to simply just listen. I will always remember her and keep her in my heart.

Auturo Caesar

May 23, 2012

I know that your destiny is in Paradise, with our Lord...but you left so many of us in tears saying..."Please...don't go baby. We'll miss you so much". Yet,with understanding, you will never be forgotten or unloved...Be at Peace "Ponie"...you've earned it.

Devin Latney

May 23, 2012

Every time I saw her walking around the WSSU campus she had a warm smile and a word of encouragement. Thank you and you are in my prayers.

Sharon Porter

May 22, 2012

Phyllis was such an inspiration to me during my years at WSSU. My heartfelt condolences to the family. I still have my recommendation letter she wrote for me to enter our illustrious sisterhood of Delta Sigma Theta.

Such a beautiful person and woman of class. She was professional, intelligent, and always had a listening ear.

Phyllis will be greatly missed!

Sharon Hargro Porter
DST-Gamma Phi Spring 1990

Fredrick Sturdivant Sr.

May 22, 2012

Phyllis will be in the hearts of many her charm and beautiful sprit will live forever with us all.Bless you my longtime friend and peace be with you.Ed may you and your family find peace and comfort.

Rev. Dr. Greg B. Jones

May 22, 2012

I encountered Ms. Smith during my first year at WSSU in an 8am (!) psychology course. Besides being beautiful, and clearly just a few years above me and my classmates, Ms. Smith had a charm that was contagious. You just could not not like her. Still, she proved to be no weakling when one classmate decided to disrupt class one day. In what became a classic line for me and my friends to recite over and again, she told the trouble maker, "Boy, don't you know I'll take you to the hoop!" The class roared...but also understood who was clearly in charge. I will always remember her grace and beauty, her intellect and caring spirit as she helped to shape a young mind by her impact. Bless you and rest well, Ms. Smith.

Norman Hunt

May 22, 2012

Phyllis will be missed by many. A truly beautiful sprit. Ed. may you and your family find peace. Trust in the Father

Kim Duncan

May 22, 2012

A woman with such a warm spirit, sense of humor and great smile, all of which touched those who met her. Phyllis, you will be missed more than you know. To her family, may your heart and soul find peace and comfort.

Luci Vaughn

May 22, 2012

Rest in peace dear sistah...you will be sooo missed. I will forever treasure the wonderful words of encouragement she gave me as I started my journey. A truly beautiful spirit.

Cheryl Brandon Wells

May 22, 2012

There are just no words to say how sorry I am. I'll always remember you as a beautiful person, inside and out. Rest in peace Soror. I know we'll meet again.

Sherise Lindsay

May 22, 2012

Rarely, do you find someone who has both inner and outer beauty! Ms. Smith was a beautiful, humble spirit and I am thankful that on my Ram journey, God allowed our paths to cross. Her smile will always be remembered.

Lucille Scott

May 22, 2012

I am truly heartbroken to learn of the passing of a real "lady" in every sense of the word. Phyl will truly be missed. Just knowing that she is in a "better place" and with our Savior is comforting. Rest in peace, dear Phyllis.

Diane Spicer

May 22, 2012

I am so saddened about the passing of Phyllis. I had the pleasure of having her as a teacher. Phyllis inspired me into becoming the best teacher I could be. She was so passionate and awesome as an instructor at WSSU. I am very proud to have known such a beautiful person.

Jessie Howard (WSSU)

May 22, 2012

It is with sadden regrets to hear of this loss. Although I have not seen Phyllis in a while, I had no idea of her health. She was as beautiful inside as well as outside. Such a kind lady. I worked with Phyliis at Dillards and also a member of Emmanuel Baptist Church. Mike jr. when you were young I would see her take you around the offering table and I thought what a beautiful little boy. Phyllis will be missed, but know that God is in control and I know she thought you that. I pray that God will continue to bless you during this time of sorrow. Take one day at a time and God will see you through.

Tanise McKinney

May 22, 2012

I AM SO HEARTBROKEN PHYL I LOVE U WIT ALL MY HEART AND U WILL 4EVER BE IN MY HEART WORDS CNT EVEN EXPRESS HOW IM FEELN RIGHT NOW IM GONE MISS YO BEAUTIFUL SMILE,YO WARM SPIRIT AND ALL OUR MANY TALKS ON THE PHONE I KNW URE NO LONGER SUFFERING AND FREE OF PAIN BUT IT DOESNT HELP DA EMPTINESS I FEEL IN MY HEART!! IM GOING 2 MISS U MORE THAN U EVER KNOW HEAVEN HAS GAINED AN ANGEL AND GOD HAS ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL FLOWER 4 HIS GARDEN BUT I MISS MY BEAUTIFUL FRIEND I LOVE U PHYLLIS REST IN GLORY!!!!

Cassandra S. Thomas

May 22, 2012

I have lost a loving friend of many years. We worked together in Student Health while I was employed as a staff nurse. We knew each other during our youths. She supported me through my ups/downs. I will feel her loss very deeply, but know that she has been relieved of all pain. This shining light will burn as a memory to her life.
GOD blessed us with a special soul who now belongs to HIM.

Soror Maria Howell

May 21, 2012

I was shocked and saddened by the passing of Phyllis. She was a force to be reckoned with. Her mere presence both physically and spiritually, were beautiful. She had such a loving candidness that was a gift. She inspired me so much as a young college student and soror. We will all miss her dearly, but her spirit will live forever in us.

Paula Dickens Glenn

May 21, 2012

I am truly sorry for you loss! May the peace, love and comfort of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

Williette Carter

May 21, 2012

Professor Phyllis Smith always had a beautiful smile and when you spoke to her , it was apparent that you had to return a smile back to her, no matter what kind of day that you were experiencing. Her presence and smile will be greatly missed on the campus of WSSU.

Latricia Pitts

May 21, 2012

OMG! This breaks my heart:( She was an amazing woman so sweet, loving, kind and helpful! She was one of the most memorable and influential people in my journey as a RAM! She will be missed!

H.L. Grier

May 21, 2012

I would like to extend my condolences to the family and also thank you for sharing such this angel with us. She was a gift to us and I'm who I am today because I was fortunate to cross paths with her and gather wisdom that she bestowed on me.'1990 WSSU grad.

Denise A. Smith

May 21, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to her entire family. Phyllis was not only my Soror, she was a wonderful person, with a beautiful smile and humble spirit. She will truly be missed.

Lamonica Stone

May 21, 2012

I loved this woman. God knew what I needed when he brought her across my path in 1986 at Winston Salem State University. She has supported me through some rough times and she became my second mom. Even when she got ill, her love and support never stopped. She always had an encouraging word that always started off with "Baby", then she would proceed to gently tell me what I needed to hear. I will never forget her and she will always have a spot in my heart.

Thank you Ms. Smith for the contributions you made in my life they will always be remembered.

Michael (son), she loved you to no end. Everytime I would visit her, she always found a way to mention your name. She bragged of all your accomplishments and how proud she was of you. A smile would cover her face with every thought of you. She was indeed proud of her son. She had a love for you that was priceless and just know that you were her jewel.

Heart felt love and sympothy goes out to her family and friends.

Love,

Ruth Roberts

May 21, 2012

My dear friend, Phylllis:
You always knew how to bring a smile to my face, or say something funny to make me laugh. Your beauty radiated from the inside out. One of the most genuine persons of beauty I have ever met!

TO: The Family of Phyllis N. Smith:


Phyliss worked next door to me (when I worked at WSSU in Student Affairs), and always peeped in to say something sweet to me, or make me laugh. She loved little life! And her son Mike. She would kid me about how fine my son was, and of course, I did the same to her! She was a wonderful mother who expressed a desire to me to have another child. But she knew how to share her love for her son, through so many sons and daughters of others. I will miss you girl! I love you dearly!

You are one of a kind!

Pharmacy Staff At CVS Store 3574

May 21, 2012

Phyllis was a awesome woman of God. She will forever live on in our hearts. Lord we Thank you for allowing Phyllis to be that Wonderful Inspirational Blessing in our lifes. Thoughts and Prayers are with The Family and Friends. In Jesus Name.
Sheila & Channel & Emily

Vickie & Roger Roseborugh

May 21, 2012

Our heart was sad to here of Phyllis pasting. We love her but God love her more. Just remember her beautiful smile when you think of her.

LaTasha Murray

May 21, 2012

She was such a great person and fun to be around!! She will be missed!!

Marque Patterson

May 21, 2012

I want to extend my condolences to the family. Her smile was infectious and as beautiful as she was. I will truly miss seeing her smile. I pray that God will comfort and keep you.

Akil Muse

May 21, 2012

I would like to send my condolences to her family. She was a genuinely kind person who always had her doors open.

Sandra and Malarie Raynor

May 21, 2012

It was a privilege to have known such a beautiful person inside and out!! I adored her as she counseled me back in Upward Bound as her first volunteer counseling at WSSU. She has been in my life since then and I will miss her greatly. Lil Mike, you will stay in our prayers and continue to make your mom proud!!

Percy Johnson

May 21, 2012

Sometimes God calls home his Angels early. A lovely lady and a beautiful person, I was fortunate to have known while at WSSU. RIP

Nigel Alston

May 21, 2012

We are sorry for your loss and will keep you in our prayers.

Nigel and Sarah Alston

May 21, 2012

Peace and prayers for the entire family.
Gloria Ross Reese
Former Member, WSSU Board of Trustees

Jillian Barnes

May 21, 2012

Aunt Phyllis you are greatly missed. I love you and I will always remember your hugs and kisses.

Phillip Hayes

May 21, 2012

Phyllis will be forever missed and remembered. An untimely loss for us, but a gain for heaven. Keeping the Smith family in our thoughts and prayers.

May 21, 2012

Mrs Smith was a joy to talk to and had the personality and character of a saint. She was a great inspiration to me also. She will be missed by all.I send my condolences to the family. May God continue to Bless you all.
Lyndell Ingram (Ansonville, NC)

Becky Griffith

May 21, 2012

What an amazing and loving lady! She was a symbol of love and strength in the life she lead and the lives she touched! Forever my sweet precious friend! Rest in the arms of our Savior!

Tekia Scales

May 21, 2012

We have truly lost an angel. Mrs. Smith was such a beautiful person inside and out. She was so easy to talk to and she could relate to me on so many levels. I was starting up my treatments for cervical cancer and she was so helpful and loving. She gave me so many kind and encouraging words that meant so much to me. She will truly be missed.

Lacy DeBerry

May 21, 2012

Phylis was a joy to work with, funny and considerate. She was admireed by many and will be missed. Prayers go out to her family for their strength at this time of bereavement.

Sheila Ijames

May 21, 2012

Phyllis Smith was one of my instructors while attending WSSU (1981-1985). She would allow me to rest in her office while I pledged AKA during the spring of '83. She was the sweetest Delta I knew :-). She was a great teacher and a beautiful person. I am saddened to hear of her death but happy to know our paths crossed!-Dr. Sheila Ijames (Charlotte, NC) Class of '85.

Myra Waddell

May 21, 2012

Words cannot express how deeply I will miss my good friend Philly Phyl. I know that she is now at peace not having to worry about her health or the new changes in technology. :) She will forever bring a smile to my face and I know as you remember her, a smile to yours as well.

Santiba Campbell

May 21, 2012

Mrs. Smith was and still is a great inspiration to me. During the time I worked in the counseling center at WSSU, she taught me how to grow older with grace and wisdom. She will be greatly missed.

Carolyn Russell Webster

May 21, 2012

To the Smith Family. Phyllis was like a member of our family. She was a beautiful, lovely person. We loved her dearly and we will miss her, but find comfort in knowing that she is resting safely in the arms of Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Peace.

May 21, 2012

To the Smith Family - my prayers go out to you all. Phillis and I had so many conversations about being a believer in the Lord, with that said ... we will miss her greatly, but she is in a better place.....she understood that as the scriptures say " to be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord" Avis Wright

Qia Martin

May 21, 2012

Aunt Phyllis I love you and will miss you! You have always been an inspiration to me and encouraged me at every step of my life. I am praying for Michael, your family, and close friends. You will be dearly missed. I love you!

Jenee Cross Daniely

May 21, 2012

Beautiful lady , both inside and out. Rest In Peace now. Gone but not forgotten. May God bless the family.

Tonia Coleman

May 21, 2012

To the family of Phillis Smith and her son Michael Jr. My deepest sympathy goes out to you all. May God's comfort and peace keep you through this difficult time. You all are in my prayers.

Eva Evans-Arradondo

May 21, 2012

"Phyllis the way our hearts touched as friends, will last forever. May you rest in peace now with the Lord. May God bless the Smith Family. To Micheal Jr. you are blessed forever, for your mother's love has made everyone she touched realized what love is."

Austin Higgins & Family

May 20, 2012

May God comfort Mike Jr. & the family during these difficult times.

Marvin Cremedy,jr

May 20, 2012

To the Smith family and Michael jr....my heart and prayers go out to you. Ms. Smith entered my life 20 years ago and became a counselor,mentor and a mother to me! She was an angel in my life ever since! Blessings from Marvin Cremedy,Jr. And family!

Apryl Brandon

May 20, 2012

I will always be blessed, for having crossed the path of such a genuine and beautiful person. Phyllis was a friend of my big sister. I crossed her path as a freshmen at WSSU in 1986. She inspired, educated and encouraged so many. I will always remember her for being a LADY in all situations. My most sincere condolences to the entire family.

Deb and Edwardlee Caldwell

May 20, 2012

To the Smith Family and Michael jr... Our condolences and prayer go out to you... God's blessings to you and we ask our Lord to embrace this family with His love and mercy... Phyliss will be missed but her smile, friendship and spirit will be remembered forever...

Sherman Evans

May 20, 2012

Phyllis, job well done and now God has called you to his eternal kingdom. Blessed are we who had the opportunity to know and love you and more importantly to be loved by you. My little sister, you always made each day better when our paths crossed. We will miss you physically but not spiritually for you will always be in our hearts. Please pray for us that one day we may join you in the kingdom of heaven. Michael and Ed, you are in our prayers.
Sherman, Chris, Vera and Family

Crystal & Christopher Thompson

May 20, 2012

I have known you since I was 15 years old. I thought that some day I would work along side you at the counseling center of WSSU, my alma mater. I just saw you! I cannot believe you are not going to be there when I walk the campus in the fall. You defied everything...age, wisdom, knowledge! You are my mentor, my friend and the big sister I never had. I will never forget how you would bribe my son with cheese crackers for a kiss! I will never forget your smile and your warmth and compassion. You saved me more than once. I only wish I could have returned the favor. I love you. I know you hear me and you are still watching over me like you always have. WSSU will never be the same without you.
To Lil Micheal- that's who you always were to me, since you were a little boy running around on campus with your mom calling your name. My heart goes out to you. She was loved and respected and she will be missed. You are in our prayers. We know you will continue on your journey and make her proud.

Crystal Agurs

May 20, 2012

May God bring peace to your love ones at this time. I have only fond memories of you and that beautiful smile. You will be missed.

Tinisha Rouse

May 20, 2012

To the Family I send my condolence and prayers. Mrs Smith was a beautiful person inside that exuded outward! She always had time for her students. I am so ever grateful for the footprint she left in my life. To Mikey forever she is your Angel and her strength shall live through you. Love you

Delmar Polite

May 20, 2012

A awesome warrior who fought till her last breathe you@peace now new body and all you will be missed Roo!soror

LATONYA DAVIS

May 20, 2012

To the Smith family may God bless during your time of grief. Phyllis was a very loving person and always had time to listen as a former student at wssu she helped me through some difficult days. rest in gods loving arms.i'll miss you.

Latonya Davis (Winston-Salem)

melody sheridan

May 20, 2012

Phylliu , I will miss you, You are a good friend, I love you,

Melody Sheridan

Willard & Lizzie Tanner

May 20, 2012

Lizzie and I were saddened to learn of Phyllis' passing this week. She will truly be missed by all who knew her. Phyllis and I worked together in the Counseling Center at WSSU for two years. I will always cherish the times we spent together making a difference in the lives of the many students we worked with. Michael, she was always proud of you and the accomplishments you made. May GOD continue to stengthen you during this difficult time. Stay strong and GOD will take care of the rest.

Freda Dunston

May 20, 2012

"I am at a loss for words over your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences."

May 19, 2012

Long time friend, strong endured alot, she was our special friend, easy to talk to. I thank God for being able spend time with Phyllis. No more pain !!!!
Ed , Mike her son , stay strong . GREAT LOOKING OUT!!God Bless You and your Family. SISTER AND MON, A SPECIAL LADY.
DEVALDEAN AND THE PENN FAMILY

clarence reynolds

May 19, 2012

Dear Family and friends,
what a beautiful lady, and mother. Phyllis, you will be missed. May God show favor to all and seek comfort through his spirit. Love you Phyllis and may you rest in peace.

Tim and Vicki Grant

May 19, 2012

Phyllis was a beautiful person who would brighten your day with her smile. We thank God for putting her in our life. We pray that God will keep her family and friends in his grace. We will never forget Phyllis. Thanks for blessing us with an angel.

John and Lisa Minga

May 19, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Jessica M. Bailey

May 19, 2012

God gives flowers and He takes them away. His heavenly garden is more beautiful with one more rose. Blessings and condolences to the family & friends of Phyllis. Her smile will be dearly missed by all.

May 19, 2012

It was a privilege to be a friend of Phyllis. She was strong in her faith and like a family member to us. I pray that GOD give family members the strength in their time of grief.
Christopher, Sherman, Vera Evans(phillips) and famiy.

Patricia Durant

May 19, 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss. She was an absolutely beautiful woman. She would always greet me with, "hey, baby" and the warmest smile. And how she made me laugh! My son (Brandon) and I will miss her. The entire family will be in our prayers.

Sylvia Mason

May 19, 2012

Dear Family and Friends,
I am terribly sorry for your loss. I have known Phyllis since we began our journey at St. Benedict School. A warm, humorous, and gentle soul who remained supportive throughout her life time. She was a blessing to me and others.

May God Bless strengthen you as you travel these next days and keep you in His arms in the times to come. Phyllis, my friend, you ran a brave race. May you rest in peace.

Love,
Sylvia

Clarke McGriff

May 19, 2012

Phyllis was a precious Woman of God and a longtime Friend. My classmate in public school and in college. Her beauty was exceeded only by her faithfulness to her Friends and Family. I will forever treasure her memory. To God be the Glory.

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