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Crystian Stokes Obituary

YORK Crystian "Tatie" Stokes, the daughter of Annette Monk and Jerry Stokes, was born on December 25, 1987, in York. On March 5, 2012, at the age of 24, she was ushered into Heaven, from her home. "Tatie" as she was affectionately called, was a graduate of William Penn Senior High School. She pursued a course of Study at Newman University, then matriculated to Millersville University where she graduated with a Bachelors of Science Degree. Tatie was a cheerleader, played softball, and was active in the "Bear Cat Den". She was employed by the City of York and had unconditional love for children. She worked at The Princess Street Center for the after school program. Tatie also worked for the Parks and Recreation Summer Program. Tatie was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Geraldine Stokes and Uzell Stokes; her maternal grandfather, Arthur Monk; her great-grandparents, Allen Walker and Mother Marjorie Walker; and her uncle, William Monk. Tatie leaves to cherish her memory, her parents, Annette Monk and Jerry Stokes; her sister, LaCresha Drayden of York; two brothers, Jerry Stokes and Matthew Coulter, both of York; her grandmother, Annie Monk of Dallastown; two aunts, Wanda Stokes and Diane Walker of York; five uncles, Stefan Stokes of York, Uzell Stokes of Dallas, Texas, and Arthur "Jr" Monk, Joseph Monk, and John Monk, all of New York; three nieces, Kenyla Drayden, Sayani Stokes, and Isabella Coutler; two nephews, Onazji Drayden and Bashir Drayden; her Godparents, Terri Banks and Alberto Illarza; three Godsisters, Wachovia Banks, Niecy Banks, and Nneka Banks; along with a host of other beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. The service will begin at 1 p.m. Saturday with Pastor Anthony W. Sease officiating. A visitation will be held from 12 noon to 1 p.m. at the Abundant Life Ministries, 701 W. King St., York. Gladfelter Funeral Home, inc., York, is in charge.

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Published by York Daily Record on Mar. 9, 2012.

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Veronica Holland

March 13, 2012

To My Family:
Words cannot express the pain of losing a child. My prayers are with you "fatty". My God comfort you during this difficult time.

All my love, your cousin,
Veronica"Lump" Holland

jessica redding

March 13, 2012

I will always think bout you tatie and I will carry with me the childhood memories that we've shared.I love you tatie r.i.p

March 11, 2012

TO ANNETTE AND ALL OF THE FAMILY

YOUR PRECIOUS DAUGHTER HAVE BEEN TAKEN AND THE VOICE YOU LOVED IS STILL. LIFE AND DEATH IS IN THE MASTERS WILL. WE WONDER WHY THINGS HAPPEN AS THEY DO. I KNOW THAT EARTH HAS NO SORROW THAT HEAVEN CAN NOT HEAL. I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU AND ALL OF THE FAMILY. MAY THE GRACE MERCY AND PEACE OF GOD BE WITH YOU TODAY AND IN THE DAYS AHEAD. LIFE IS SO UNCERTAIN BUT DEATH IS SURE, WE MUST ALL PASS THIS WAY. TURN TO THE LORD IN TIMES LIKE THESE, HE WILL SUPPLY THE COMFORT THAT YOU NEED.

GOD BLESS YOU,
YOUR COUSIN IN TX.
[MAE-MAE]&FAMILY

Casey Entzminger

March 10, 2012

Crystian was one of my good friends from Millersville. We went through many classes in Communications together. She always had a way of brightening any room she would walk into. She was one person I always looked forward to seeing every day. She was an amazing woman and will truely be missed.

Theresa Russell-Loretz

March 10, 2012

Crystian -- may you travel with the angels and bless those of us who walked with you on earth. And may your family be consoled with memories of your beautiful smile, and take pride in your accomplishments.

March 10, 2012

Much Love to my York family. I will be praying for you. Peace and Love. May God continue to give everyone strength. R.I.P Tatie.

Evette West-Brooks (York) Baltimore
Cousin TAVISH Hagans- Mitchell

Kesh Bella Love

March 10, 2012

You will truly be missed Tatie rest easy angel......

Yahaira Sanchez

March 9, 2012

My condolences go out to the family an friends of tatie. I will cherish all the memories I have of her. She was a great person. Had the biggest smile in the world. She always made me laugh. May god give her family an friends strength an comfort during this time. God bless you all. Tatie you will be missed by all but never forgotten. R.I.P

Lisha Sexton

March 9, 2012

May the God who gives strength, strengthen each of your during this very difficult time. My prayers go out to your family. God grant them comfort and peace during this painful time.

Leslie Trotman Martin

March 9, 2012

Please accept my sincere condolences.

Danielle Manson

March 9, 2012

I use to always follow you every where wen I was little now its ur turn to be my shadow; I kno ur watchin over me. I love you sissy !

James&Marinette Smallwood and Family

March 9, 2012

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Brandii Woodson

March 9, 2012

R.i.p. tatie you'll forever be missed. Rest with the angels and watch over us.

Robert Jackson and Family

March 9, 2012

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Robyn Belford

March 9, 2012

Rest In Paradise Tatie!!! You will be missed greatly!!! I'll always remember sitting out on Albemarle street on your porch and mine laughing like crazy and you picking on my mom LOL!!!! You always knew how to make someone smile and laugh and make their day brighter!!! Love always Tatie!!!

Valerie Jones

March 9, 2012

My condolences to the family and friends of Crystian I pray that God gives you strength in your time of need my prayers are with you God bless you all

Kimberly Manson

March 9, 2012

I will always remember your beautiful smile and how happy you always were so sensitive and caring it's no wonder you were born Christmas day a definite gift from God ...

March 9, 2012

To a beautiful person inside and out! - Tatie

Ashley Johns

March 9, 2012

RIP Tatie. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. Tatie was such a great person with a heart of gold. I will never forget you and never forget what a great friend you were in the time i knew you. you will be truly missed. Love you and Rest peacefully.

Whitney Doweary

March 9, 2012

Rest In Paradise Tatie...you will be missed. My prayers go out the family and to all of the friends at this time. Find comfort in the Lord and know that He created a place in His Kingdom for us to rejoice and reunite.

Flor Mendez

March 9, 2012

Tatie..You will truly be missed by all. Our high school years were the best. May God bless your family and give them the strength they need.

"Shine from above Angel"

Linda Albright

March 9, 2012

I worked with Crystian at the summer program in York City, she was a wonderful person. She could make you smile even when you didn't think you could. She will truly be missed! May her family be strong and keep up the faith! God Bless!!!

allison howard

March 9, 2012

Missing u so much tatie ....... loved ur jokes n all the laughs we had together .... still can't believe you are gone so soon it makes me so angry he had to take such a beautiful person so soon .... I love n miss u girl ... RIP Tatie gone but never forgotten!

shaquana Moye

March 9, 2012

Tatie i will always remember that smile of yours and your laugh. When you lived on Albemarle st we would sit on the porch and just laugh and laugh and then we would walk to paks to get our onion rings!!! You will never be forgotten my sweet friend. miss you deeply R.I.P. Tatie!! Love Quana

Brittany Barker

March 9, 2012

R.I.P... U WILL BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN....OUR LORD ONLY TAKES THE BEST....AND U WERE THE GREATEST! !!!

TiKeesha Price

March 9, 2012

My deepest sympathy goes out to Tatie's family and friends. She was a beautiful person inside and out, had a great personality and to know her was a great pleasure. My prayers go to your family and closest friends. Rest In Paradise Tatie and watch over all who loved & cherished you. I will never forget the time spent with you.

Aaliyah Franks

March 9, 2012

My prayers to the friends n family if this wonderful young lady. I pray that you find comfort during this difficult time. I sure will miss her funny Twitter posts.

Lovingly and prayerfully submitted Joe Ann (Banks) Deibert and family

March 9, 2012

My condolences to Annette, Jerry (fatty)and family. May the Love of God strengthen and encourage you at this time.

Bethany

March 9, 2012

Tatie we went back to albermarble were u an ur brother made fun of my dog can't believ this happened to such a beautiful women but god must have needed you for a higher calling my heart goes out to ur family who was left behind rip girl

Chandra Lomax

March 9, 2012

My Condolences To You And Your Family.
Trust In GOD To See You Through.

It Takes A Village To Raise A Child. (Pine Hills Was Ours) Memories Of All The Times We Shared Will Live In My Heart Forever.
I Thank GOD For Sharing A Part Of Her In My Life.

Rest In Peace "Tatie"

Ashlee Hoskin

March 9, 2012

Tatie,
It's still doesn't seem real. You were the backbone of the Class of 2005! Everyone loved and adored you! You were always someone that, no matter the time or distance, could pick up right where we left off! I have many fond memories of you and I will cherish them always! You were loved by so many. Your smile, laughter and personality lit up all of our lives! You were definitely the funniest girl I knew. Things just won't be the same without you. My thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathies go out to her family and loved ones. Special shout out to Nikki, Chan, Vanay, Moody and Kenny! Hang in there you guys! We love and miss you, Tater Tot! Rest in Paradise, Tatie!

Lonja Bratton-Calhoun

March 9, 2012

To My Family, You all have my deepest condolences. May GOD give you the strength to get thru this difficult time. You all are in my prayers. RIP lil cuz.

With all my love.....

Trista Rohrbaugh

March 9, 2012

Godbless tatie family! You guys are in my prayers

Judy Parks and family

March 9, 2012

Our condolences and prayers go out to every single person in Tatie's family. She was a very special and wonderful person. She definitely was too young to be taken from us all. She had so much more to live for. RIP Tatie. We all love you and you will be extremely missed but you will never ever be forgotten.

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