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Bertha Rosende Obituary

ROSENDE, BERTHA (TRENCO), age 63, was born on September 21st, 1941 in Havana, Cuba. She passed away on Monday afternoon, October 25th, 2004 at 1:15PM at her home in Cape Canaveral. Bertha, a homemaker, is survived by her husband, Alberto, an engineer employed at the Kennedy Space Center. They were married 44 years. She is also survived by five children: Susana of Orlando, Alberto of Fort Lauderdale, Lillian of Minnesota, Jorge of North Carolina, and Melissa of Cocoa Beach, and 10 grandchildren: Brian Lutz, Joseph Gillotti, Gary and Anthony Hokanson, Daniel Lowrie, Heather, Samantha, and Jack Rosende, Alberto and Diego Rosende. Bertha was loved for her gentle and generous spirit, and will be missed by all. There will be a viewing with an overnight vigil beginning at 5PM, with a prayer service at 7PM, Thursday, October 28th, 2004 at the Brevard Memorial Funeral Home, 5475 US Highway 1, Cocoa, FL, 321-636-3720. There will be a funeral mass on Friday, October 29th 10:30AM, Our Savior's Catholic Church, 5301 North Atlantic Avenue, Cocoa Beach, FL 32931. 321-783-4554.

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Published by Orlando Sentinel on Oct. 28, 2004.

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Bertha's sister Gina

Susana Rosende

October 25, 2019

Bertha & her eldest daughter in NYC, 1988.

Susana Rosende

October 24, 2019

Bertha photographs her sister Gina and Bertha's daughter Susana in NYC.

Susana Rosende

October 24, 2019

Bertha photographs daughter Susana in NYC

Susana Rosende

October 24, 2019

with her sister Rosa on the left, Bertha on the right

Susana Rosende

October 23, 2019

with her sister Rosa on the left, Bertha on the right

Susana Rosende

October 23, 2019

Bertha as a teenager

Susana Rosende

October 23, 2019

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

I couldnt have planned the intimate home wedding without my sweet Mom. Unfortunately, she was right that it wouldnt last and that he didnt love me fully. I miss her so much. Ill miss her forever. ❤

Bertha's sister Gina and eldest daughter Susana in NYC

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

with eldest daughter Susana in NYC, 1988

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

in her kitchen in Houston

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

eldest daughter Susana and first grandchild Brian

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

eldest daughter Susana and first grandchild Brian

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

with eldest daughter Susana

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

Eldest daughter and grandson Brian. Susana credits her mother with enabling her to complete her college degree post-divorce as a single mom

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

with daughters Lily and Susana and grandsons newborn Tony, Gary, and Brian

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

with eldest daughter Susana in Houston, 1984

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

driving her new car in Houston

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

with eldest daughter Susana and first grandchild Brian

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

Like Mother, like Daughter (Melissa)

Susana Rosende

October 22, 2019

Susana Maria Rosende

May 12, 2013

Feliz Dia de las Madres, Mami. !Te extrano mas que nunca! -- Susy

December 25, 2009

!Felíz Navidad, Mami! !!!!Te extranamos muchisimo!!!!

~ Susy Rosende
Orlando, Florida

Lily Sweeney

October 25, 2009

Mami, I miss you SOOO MUCH, I cannot believe it has been five years. I love you.

Susana Rosende

October 25, 2008

I can't believe four years have passed. I miss you every day. I love you, Mom. I'll love and miss you forever.

Your Susy

Susana

September 21, 2008

Happy Birthday, Mom.
I miss you every day.

Deanna Anaya

July 6, 2008

I would like to express my condolences to the Rosende Family and send a special prayer to Bertha up in heaven. I knew and worked with Bertha in Houston, Texas in 1984 and I spent time in her home with her daughter, Lily. Bertha was a special person and I remember her so fondly. To my Friend Lily: I was saddened in learning of your mom's passing. I have been trying to locate you. Please get back in touch with me.

Susana Rosende

May 13, 2007

Felíz Día de las Madres, Mami.

Te quiero mucho.

Susy

Con carinos de tu hija, Susy

December 24, 2006

Feliz Noche Buena y Feliz Navidad, Mami.

Susana Rosende

October 11, 2006

This is a sad time for the Rosende family, as we remember the anniversary of our Mom's birthday (September 21st, 1941) as well as the anniversary of her passing (October 25th, 2004).

It is also a time to give back to our community of friends, co-workers, and extended family for all their support, by vowing to work harder to take care of our own health (as Mami would have wanted)and to help fundraise to find a cure for Diabetes, the illness that plagued my mom for over 25 years.

To help us with our efforts, please consider making a donation, no matter how small, to the American Diabetes Association.

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Thank you,

Susana Maria Rosende
(Bertha's eldest daughter)

Susana

September 21, 2006

Feliz Cumpleanos, Mami.

Hubieras cumplido 65.



Siempre pensando en ti.



-- Susy

Susana Rosende

May 14, 2006

Happy Mother's Day, Mom! !Feliz Dia de las Madres!



I miss you,



Love,

Susy

Your "Susy"

October 29, 2005

Mami,

It is hard to believe a whole year has passed. They say time heals all wounds, but those who grieve know that is a lie. It will always hurt to know you're gone. We will always miss you.

Susana Rosende

September 25, 2005

Mami,



We missed you terribly this week, especially on September 21st, your birthday.



We miss you every day.

Visiting Mom

August 11, 2005

Visit from daughter Melissa and husband Alberto

August 11, 2005

katherine guzman

July 29, 2005

I am very sorry about your mums'passing, I have to say that I am sure she'd be so proud of you and I am sure she was......you have a lovely family and are surely blessed with them and your talents, God Bless.

Susana Rosende

July 25, 2005

Mom,



Today is the ninth month anniversary of your passing and not a day goes by that I don't think of you, and miss you.



Holidays are especially hard. Even the 4th of July! I couldn't help but remember how much you liked the fireworks. You always made holidays and birthdays and every occasion special with your wonderful meals, decorations, and your warmth.



You made us feel loved.

And we loved you.



You are forever in our hearts.

Mami and Lily Aug. 2002

July 18, 2005

Lily Rosende

May 13, 2005

Mami,

It has been 6 1/2 months since we lost you and I still miss you terribly. I love you so much!

I found this poem and I dedicate it to you.



~~~Tears~~~





If tears could build a stairway,

and memories were a lane,

I would walk right up to heaven

to bring you home again.

No farewell words were spoken

no time to say goodbye

you were gone before I knew it,

and only God knows why.

My heart still aches in sadness

and secret tears still flow,

what it meant to lose you,

no one will ever know.



-Anonymous

Daughter Susana

April 4, 2005

Grandson Brian

April 4, 2005

Husband Alberto

April 4, 2005

Visit from grandson Joey

February 7, 2005

February 7, 2005

Cheri LaGrange

January 21, 2005

Susana,



As I found out yesterday, I can honestly say "I know how you feel" losing your Mother. It's the most sincere feeling of LOSS a person can feel. My hopes are that just as you and I just formally met that my Mom and your Mom will have the same meeting and as we talk about the wonderful women they were that they speak about the wonderful women that we are. I'm here for you.

Laura Berkowitz

January 18, 2005

Brenda called me to tell me about your mom's passing. I am so so very sorry. She was such a good, warm and tender person. She was always so maternal towards me. I really liked her so much. I know you must be devastated. And your father and brothers and sisters and Brian and all your nieces and nephews. How are you holding up? And your family? Brenda told me about Al going to the middle east. I'm so sorry and very scared for him. I hope and pray everything will be okay. I can't even begin to imagine what your family is going through. Please get back to me and let me know if you're okay. And give my love to your family and give Brian a great big hug!



Love, Laura

date: 10:42 am - Tuesday,November 30, 2004

Richard Bionda

January 18, 2005

Susie,



I would like to extend my sincere condolences to you and your family in your loss. Just found out today.



I remember her as it was yesterday, she always had a smile and good heart I have thought of her often and would have liked to see her again.



My father passed over 8 years ago and there is not a day that I do not miss him or take for granted my mother still being with us.



Also my prayers are with your brother Albert being deployed, godbless that when I was in the world seemed a little quieter. I have since the last year joined a veterans organization and hold an office of 2nd vice commander; if I can be of any assistance with veterans benefits or contacts I will be more than happy to help.



I hope you and your children are well. Good luck and take care.



Rick Bionda

At son Jorge's home in North Carolina, after evacuating Florida Hurricane in summer 2004.

December 24, 2004

Bertha, Alberto, grandsons Joey and Brian, and daughter Susana celebrating Brian's 16th birthday in 2002

December 17, 2004

Watching grandson Brian "feed himself"

December 17, 2004

With two of her sisters

December 17, 2004

Feeding grandson Joey at grandson Brian's 1st Communion Party

December 17, 2004

Every occasion was made special by Bertha. Here pictured celebrating Melissa's 21st birthday

December 17, 2004

Thumbs Up at the Kennedy Space Center

December 17, 2004

Sweet Bertha was called "Bita" by her grandchildren

December 17, 2004

A great cook, Bertha was happiest when in her kitchen

December 17, 2004

Susana Rosende

December 4, 2004

Mom,



I miss you.



I've lost the only person who ever loved me unconditionally. I've lost my best friend.



I remember being assigned to write a paper in 6th grade about a living person who I admired above all others. I chose to write about you.



I wrote, "I hope to some day be as good a wife and mother as my mother is." I've never come close.



Mom, or Mami, as I called you in Spanish, you were always available, at a moment's notice, for my children and me. You always put the needs of others before your own, driving or flying off to help the injured, sick, or sad members of our family. You took care of everyone, even Dad.



Without you, we are lost.



We miss you, Mami.



Until we meet again...

Your eldest daughter,

Susana

Bertha and Alberto in 1987

November 20, 2004

With daughter Melissa

November 20, 2004

Alberto and Bertha in 1991

November 20, 2004

With grandson Joey at the Banana River

November 20, 2004

In 1994 and 1995 with grandchildren Brian and Joey

November 20, 2004

In June 1994, for grandson Joey's first birthday

November 20, 2004

In 1987 with daughter Susana and grandson Brian

November 20, 2004

In 1987 in front of her art work with daughter Susana

November 20, 2004

In 1988 with daughter Susana and grandson Brian

November 20, 2004

In 1993 with daughter Susana and grandbaby-to-be

November 20, 2004

With grandsons, Brian and Joey, in 1994

November 20, 2004

with grandson, Joey

November 20, 2004

with grandson, Alberto III

November 20, 2004

Driving her car!

November 20, 2004

Alberto and Bertha, 1990

November 20, 2004

1986 with grandson, Brian

November 20, 2004

With her sister, Gina, in 1993 and 1990

November 20, 2004

Nuestra Querida Abuelita o "Bita"

November 20, 2004

1986

November 20, 2004

In September 1986, with first grandson, Brian

November 20, 2004

Christmas 1994

November 20, 2004

Bertha with son Jorge and husband Alberto

November 20, 2004

Bertha and kids, circa 1964

November 20, 2004

Armando Bengochea

November 14, 2004

Susana, How sorry i am about the loss of your mom! Just this summer we were reminiscing about her. I retain wonderful images of her as a fun person and as someone who was full of life. I also know how much my father loved her as a sister.

I talked with Albert yesterday and hope to be able to talk with you further in the next few days. I know this all comes as such a shock. Please convey my thoughts and regards to Melissa, Lily and Jorge.

Charles A. Bray

November 13, 2004

It is difficult to find the words that convey our deepest sympathy, we the Bray family will pray for you and dearest Mother that God took her hand, and you had to part, God erased her pain that broke your heart, she fell asleep without goodbye but memories of her will never die. In our heart's always remain. Lovingly Remembered by all of us.

Charles Bray and Family.

Brevard Memorial Cemetery, Cocoa, Florida

November 13, 2004

St. Francis of Assisi, Brevard Memorial Cemetery

November 13, 2004

September 21, 1941 to October 25th, 2004

November 12, 2004

Alberto and Bertha Rosende, 2001

November 12, 2004

Bertha and daughter, Lily, Cocoa Beach 2001

November 12, 2004

Brevard Memorial Cemetery, Cocoa, Florida

November 12, 2004

Susana Maria Rosende

November 2, 2004

There will be a Memorial Prayer Service on Thursday, November 4th, 2004, 5:30 PM, at Our Savior's Catholic Church, 5301 North Atlantic Avenue, Cocoa Beach, FL 32931.

For directions, call: (321)-783-4554

Susana Rosende

November 2, 2004

Mami te quiero mucho.

I'll miss you forever.



--Susy

Brian Lutz

November 2, 2004

I wrote the following sonnet for my grandmother, "Bita," with Love:



VII. "On the Death of My Mother's Mother," Copyright October 26th, 2004 by Brian C. Lutz



When those we hold in heart do greet the ground

Before one final kiss or parting word

Can reach their cheeks or ears sure, safe and sound

And instill hope where hope once was deferred,

We find it hard to bear before our eyes

That love framed in flesh be reduced to bone,

That our once sweet, living love now here lies

Cold, as unmoved as cold, unmoving stone.

Yet, like fresh, nascent buds that grow and die,

Feeding the land with their seeds allotted,

Replacing old with new to death defy,

Life lives on despite its roots have rotted.



Fear not that anyone be truly gone

Who so fully loved and passed their love on.

Joseph Gillotti

November 1, 2004

I will always love you, Bita.

Love your most loyal grandson,

Joey

Michael Lutz

October 28, 2004

Alberto,



I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Kathy Hummel

October 28, 2004

Dear Susana and family,

You are all in my prayers during this time of great loss.

Kathy

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