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Maury Portafe Obituary


Maury Louis Portafé VIRGINIA BEACH - Maury Louis Portafé, 78, of Calash Way in Virginia Beach, passed away Oct. 18, 2008, at home. He was born in Norfolk on Oct. 6, 1930, to Mary and Joseph Portafé. Maury graduated from Maury High School and attended the Norfolk division of William and Mary. He was a Navy veteran who proudly served in the Korean War before undertaking a long career in the construction industry, from which he retired in 2003. He was predeceased by his parents and a niece, Anita Cutler. He is survived by Bettye, his wife of 53 years; his brothers, Anthony and Edward and his sisters, Anne "Cookie" Page and Francis Williams. He is also survived by his three children, Kim Behm and husband Rick, Bernadette Alcaraz and husband Gary, and son Maury Portafé Jr. He has five grandchildren, Brynn Portafé, Aaron Behm, U.S. Marine Corps, Bryan Behm, Cole Alcaraz and Kelsey Alcaraz. Currently, Maury's oldest grandson, Aaron Behm, U.S. Marine Corps, is unable to return for funeral services. Our prayers are with him, and also for the men and women who are serving our country, and may we bring them home safely. The family will receive friends at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Laskin Road Chapel, today from 6 to 8 p.m. A Mass of The Resurrection will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday in the Church of the Holy Family with the burial following at St. Mary's Cemetery in Norfolk.



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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Oct. 20 to Oct. 22, 2008.

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Rosita Padilla

October 23, 2008

Bernie and family, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad..you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Willie Jenkins

October 22, 2008

My prayers are with you. I will have you place in my prayer book. God bless

Becky Joyner

October 21, 2008

Please know our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Portafe family.

David, Becky, Kate, Avery Joyner

Kathy Cullen Magyorosi

October 21, 2008

My sympathy goes out to the entire Portafe' family. I have many fond memories of Maury (and his favorite words) and our familes times in Malibu and in Raleigh North Carolina. Love and Peace to all . Kathy Cullen Magyorosi

Cathy Decker

October 20, 2008

Bernie...my heart goes out to you and your family. I know your strength will carry you through this difficult time!

October 20, 2008

Our prayers are with you all in your time of need.

Damon, Lynnie and Macy Fand

Toni Cochrane

October 20, 2008

To Bernie, my best friend in the entire world. I love you and admire your courage through this difficult time. I believe your Dad is at peace..along with Nonni, Anita and my Mom.

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