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Roy E. "RD" Dean

Roy Dean Obituary

Roy E. Dean VIRGINIA BEACH - Roy E. "RD" Dean, 52, passed away Jan. 18, 2009, in a local hospital. He was a native of Princess Anne County, the youngest son of the late Randolph and Mattie Dean. RD loved fishing and was an avid NASCAR fan. He is survived by his lifelong partner, Kathleen Macko; son, Tony Dean and wife Tracy of Elizabeth City, N.C.; daughter, Faith Dail and husband Lee of Hertford, N.C.; siblings, Randy Dean and wife Claudette of Sedley, Va., Phoebe Braswell and husband Bob of Virginia Beach, Mary Ann Williams and husband Gene of Virginia Beach, Raymond Dean and wife Gail of Nashville, Tenn., and Alma Humphrey and husband Ken of Hertford; and several nieces, nephews and friends. The family will receive friends and family from 6 to 8 p.m. today in Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel. A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday in the funeral home. Please visit his memorial at www.mem.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Jan. 20 to Jan. 21, 2009.

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dede smith

January 29, 2009

Im very sorry for your lost, and even thought it feels like nothing can take away the pain you are feeling right now, but you'll find so comfort in read what the bible has to say in Revelation21:3,4...there it says that "soon there will be nomore death". And we Know this is true because Titus 1:2 says that '' God can't tell a lie."..please read these scriptues with your own personal copy of the bible.

DONNA WILSON

January 21, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

DONNA WILSON

January 21, 2009

SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ROY . I AM AN OLD FRIEND OF RAYMOND DEANS. GOD BLESS .DONNA WILSON.

Mike,Helen & Michele Gregg

January 21, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tara Meads

January 21, 2009

Tony,

I am extremely sorry for the loss of your father. Words can't express the void that you must feel. You are a strong man and you have a strong wife - together you will both heal from this tragedy. My thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family. Take care.

Karen Janecek-Lacy

January 21, 2009

Kathleen, Tony, Faith and all the family. My heart is there with all of you during this painful time. RD was a wonderful person and Friend. Try to keep a smile in your heart, cause he's fishing full time now.

Sandy O'Neil

January 21, 2009

Kathleen, you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. RD will be sorely missed...especially on Sundays when he would share his "fishing" stories and oh, that laugh of his! If you need anything please do not hesitate to call on us!

Dorita & Joe Thoms, Fosnocht

January 21, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Maxine Mouser

January 21, 2009

Kathleen,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Tom and Maxine Mouser

jimmy bagwell

January 20, 2009

my deepest sympathy to Roy's family ,he will be deeply missed ,he was my nabor & friend for many years, we had a lot of good times growing up and a few hard times ,but  nothing we wasn't able to handle, but we always stuck togather , I am so sorry to hear of the lose of a great friend Roy dean ,our memorys will last forever your friend jimmy ray.

Caroline Robinson

January 20, 2009

Phoebe
Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.You are in our thoughts and prayers.We love you.
Love,
Jimmy Caroline and Gwendolyn

Tish Almy

January 20, 2009

RD was a true friend who will be greatly missed. He leaves wonderful memories for us all to cherish. Our hearts go out to all his friends and family. Reid and Tish

__ Woodington

January 20, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to Kathleen, Tony and Tracy, Faith and Lee, Randy and Claudette, Phoebe and Bob, Mary Ann and Gene, Raymond and Gail, nieces and nephews. Roy has been like a brother to me since we met in 1970 at Kellam High School. We survived thru two Maverick roll-over's (his Dad's brand new ford twice) while his dad was waiting at work for Roy to pick him up after the late shift. We were always allowed to use the car as long as Roy picked him up by 1 am. Even after the two roll-overs. Not sure what was worst - the accident or facing his dad the next day. But, his dad always forgave anything we did or anyone else.
And, Roy was the same way. He never held a grudge. And always trusted everyone no matter who they were or what they did. He was one of a kind.
He's not replaceable. He will always be in my heart and my families’ thoughts...
Mark, Ginger, and Amber

Zola Mae Stevenson

January 20, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Roy. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

David Stevenson

January 20, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Roy. He and I had so many childhood memories of riding horses and playing pool together. Those will remain in my heart forever. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace Roy.

PAMELA ROOF

January 20, 2009

KATHLEEN, TONY & FAITH, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. R.D. WAS ONE OF THE COOLEST PEOPLE I EVER MET IN MY LIFE, I WILL MISS HIM AND I WILL CHARISH ALL THE FUN WE HAD. EVERYTIME I GO FISHING ON A BOAT I WILL REMEMBER HIM LAUGHING AT ME WITH MY LIFE JACKET. I LOVE YOU ALL, MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES.

Nina Friedman

January 20, 2009

Kathleen , Tony & Faith, May God bless you and comfort you in this
difficult time - RD was a great guy he would go out of his way to help any one he will be missed. regards,
Brad and Nina Friedman

Mark and Gaye Christoffel

January 20, 2009

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Paula front desk

January 20, 2009

We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Lots of hugs from Dr. O'Hara and Masson's office.

Mike and Helen Perry

January 20, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to all Roy's family and friends! I pray God will give His grace and peace to all of us who loved Roy, he will be greatly missed!

Jennifer Turner

January 20, 2009

Kathleen,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Turner & family

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