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for Joshua Hagerman
Jan Timmons
March 14, 2009
Dear Shirley,
Josh was so sweet and friendly. The first time we met, he ran up to me, hugged me, and said, I love you Auntie Jan!" I was astonished and quite happy about that. He was sweet and lovable. I will never forget him.
I am so sorry- I could never say how much.
Jan Timmons
Joshua's Great Aunt from New Hampshire
Diana and Jim Willoughby and Hagerman
March 13, 2009
My Dear Family,
I've only been with you for six years and my blessings for being a part of your family have been abundant. And now, we, as a family, will lift each other up, rely upon each other's strengths, cry, smile, and pray together as we face the remainder of our lives without the physical presence of little Joshua. We will mourn and heal according to our abilities and our faith.
Many years ago, I, too, lost a son. A frend shared a poem with me that helped me through those times when I simply thought I could not go on. I offer it to you now with the hope it will, in time, ease your pain as it did mine.
~~~
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I walk by Heavenly Father's side while Angels sing me lullabyes.
And when you miss me there below Stand very still, then you will know
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sun on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
And when your life must surely end
Then I will laugh with you again
Do not stand beside my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
~~~
God Bless all my loved ones, old and new, especially Joseph.
kelli reynolds-coughlin
February 25, 2009
My deepest sympathy to both families on your loss. My prayers are with you
Beverly Sillari
February 23, 2009
Shirley and Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Joshua was an adorable little boy with such a lovely smile! You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Israel & Jen Villarreal
February 18, 2009
Our deepest condolences for your loss. Our prayers are with both families through these hard times. Joshua will always be in our hearts.
We are here for you. The Villarreals
(Friends of Brent)
Lee and Barbara Hurst
February 18, 2009
To Joe and the entire Hagerman family our thoughts and prayers will be with you through these difficult times
Alma Magtibay Ocampo
February 18, 2009
To the entire Hagerman-Ruffy family,
Words can not express the sorrow and pain we feel for the loss of your beloved Joshua. Our hearts and prayers go out to Shirley and the entire family at this most difficult time.
Alma Magtibay Ocampo and family
Lynn Williams
February 18, 2009
Joe, Aunti Christie, Rita, Teresa and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you always. May you draw strength from the Lord and from each other. I wish I could be there in person to show my condolences, but know you are in my thoughts daily and I pray for your healing.
Maria Parham
February 17, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Maria (Friend of Teresa)
Theresa Avila Curtis
February 17, 2009
Our condolences and prayers go out to Joshua's family, especially to Shirley. (Theresa Avila Curtis, daughter of Art and Cita Avila)
Shannon Bennett
February 17, 2009
Joshua was too precious for this earth. May there be some comfort knowing he is sitting beside our lord. His family, especially Joe & Shirley, will stay in our prayers - may the lord hold them close during this time of sorrow.
Teb Burroughs
February 17, 2009
My heartfelt prayers go out for the families involved and my love to all, especially the branch of the family I know. I love you all.
Manny Ardiente
February 17, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Marc Griffin
February 17, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Your family is my prayers and the prayers of my family for strength, comfort, and healing.
Teresa Lancaster
February 16, 2009
I love you with all my heart my one and only precious Nephew! You will be missed dearly! Love Teresa
Melinda Avila-Torio
February 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ruffy and Hagerman families. Special note for Shirley...his strength is your strength. God Bless you during this time. May you know that Joshua is with you always.
Melinda (daughter of Art and Cita Avila), Michael and Zoe Torio
Patrick Amarino
February 16, 2009
I do not know anyone here but my thoughts and prayers will be with all
Rudy & Lynda Dela Rosa
February 16, 2009
Our deepest and sincere sympathy goes out with the Hagerman's and Ruffy's family for the loss of their beloved grandson. May God heal the wounds of their hearts and find peace and comfort in His loving care.
LONNIE BELL
February 15, 2009
Joe, Shirley and Family;
I am so sorry to hear about Joshua. Joshua touched a lot of peoples hearts with his smiles and his laughs. A very friendly and loving child. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Tanous
February 15, 2009
I am prayerfully sending my heartfelt sympathy. God's love is there for comfort and strength. Your little one is in his tender care. God Bless and keep you all in his shelter and love.
Traycee Bailey
February 15, 2009
This beautiful little boy is with God now, he is smiling and will forever be happy. I pray for his Mother. I pray for the family. My heart is broken for them.
Dee Becker
February 15, 2009
Joshua is an angel now playing peacefully with the other sweet angels he has now met in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless!
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