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Amy Cardoza Obituary

Amy W. Cardoza MYRTLE BEACH, S.C. - Amy Wheaton Cardoza, 56, died Feb. 28, 2009. Amy was born April 27, 1952, in Syracuse, N.Y. She was the daughter of Robert H. and Marion L. Wheaton of Huddleston, Va. She was predeceased by her first husband, Brodie Williams III and is survived by her husband, Wayne Cardoza. She is also survived by her children, Brodie Williams IV, Brooke Williams and Seth Williams; her granddaughter, Cassidy Williams; her stepchildren, Christie and Chad Cardoza; her brother, Thomas Wheaton; sisters, Kathleen Wheaton and Eileen Kibler; and nieces, Lisa and Emily Kibler. Amy was a registered nurse and a certified registered nurse anesthetist. She worked at hospitals in Norfolk, Fort Myers, Fla., and Myrtle Beach, S.C. A Mass of Resurrection will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Thursday in Resurrection Catholic Church in Moneta with Monsignor Joseph Lehman presiding. A visitation will be held one hour prior to the Mass beginning at 10 a.m. Arrangements by Burch-Messier Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 317 W. Main St., Bedford, 540-586-7360.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Mar. 4, 2009.

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Sandra Goodnow

February 24, 2021

I miss you dear friend. You left this world way too early. I’ll never forget you. Love you always, Sandy

June Vernon

March 17, 2009

Dear Birdie, you may not remember me,I DO remember you. I am very sad for yor loss. I am this late 3/17 because I have not checked obits for awhile. I am 92 and a bit slow.. Please express my sense of sorrow for you all to your children and ofcourse Bob.

Charlotte Hinderliter

March 9, 2009

Please accept our condolences for the your loss. Mrs. Cardoza was a delight to know and will be greatly missed.

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Diane Murphy

March 6, 2009

To all of the Wheaton Family,
Even though the time between my visits have been far apart, I always felt welcomed at your home and that was a triubute to you and your family.

I probably would never have told Eileen how much I admired both of her sisters when we were growing up. But especially Amy and if not in words but by action. She did influence my decision to go to Depaul. I figured if it did not break her spirit, it could not break mine. She gave me all sorts of hints to survive DePaul.

In talking to my parents, my sister referred to Amy as the fun babysitter. Apparently one time, she gave everyone gum. Karen woke up the next day with it in her hair.

I will remember the fun, mischevious Amy.

And I will remember all of you in my prayers

Geri Cunningham

March 6, 2009

Amy was a beautiful person in every way imaginable. It was an honor to work with her. She was funny, always had a bright smile, and was loved by everyone at Lee Memorial in Ft. Myers,Fl. We miss her very much and will always love her- she will stay in our hearts forever.

Ellie Riley class of '49

March 5, 2009

Dear "Birdie" and Bob,
With such sorrow did I read of Amy's death. Know that my prayers are with you. The way you and your family have dealt with the burdens of this life are an inspiration to me. Amy and all of you have done much good to make this world a better place. Be at peace.

JILL INGENITO

March 4, 2009

DEAR MARION AND BOB
I LEARNED ABOUT THE PASSING OF YOUR DAUGHTER AMY AND AM SO VERY SORRY. I FEEL YOUR PAIN. IT IS 4 YEARS AGO (MARCH -05) THAT I LOST MY 57 YEAR OLD SON. AND LOST MY SPOUSE A YEAR AND A HALF AGO, I HAVE BEEN THERE AND CAN ONLY OFFER MY DEEPESST CONDOLENCES AND PRAYERS. PRAYER AND SUPPORT OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHOULD EASE YOUR LOSS. WISH I COULD BE THERE TO GIVE Y'ALL A HUG. MAY AMY REST IN PEACE

LOVE JILL

Joyce WHEATON

March 4, 2009

Dear Bob and Birdie, I can close my eyes and hear all the kids playing down on the dock and loving Life on the Lake. I'm so sorry to hear that Amy's joyous laughter will be missing. My prayers for you all. Love Joyce Wheaton

Sandy Goodnow

March 4, 2009

Amy, I will miss you so much. Your smile, your ability to always see the brighter side of any glum situation. Your friendship was priceless. At least now you are finally at peace, something which as well as I, you always strived for. Selfishly, I wish G-d hadn't taken you away from us so soon! My thoughts and prayers are with your family and especially your children who surely knew how lucky they were to have you as their Mother. My only regret was that once you moved to Ft. Myers we lost touch with each other. I will always love you and miss you! This world has suffered a great loss, because you brought so much good to this world! Love, Sandy

Mary (Simmons) Pittenger

March 4, 2009

I will always have a smile when I remeber the days Amy and I worked together at Chesapeake General. She found humor in everything. And that was just the beginning of a wonderful friendship. We were pregnant at the same time with our first child, our greeting was to bump bellies. Amy was such a ray of sunshine in ALL situations. She taught me much! I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for all of you and asking God to hold you close to His heart and give you peace.

Noreen Hunger

March 4, 2009

To Amy's family,
Amy was a true and dear friend to my family and me. She was the best! She was a great person and nurse. Always had the biggest heart for her children and family. She loved you guys so much. Words cannot express the loss I'm sure we all feel. I will forever treasure my friendship with Amy. You are all in my prayers. God bless you, Amy.

Tanya Curtis

March 4, 2009

I had the pleasure of working with Amy and considered her a friend as well. She was an intelligent, talented, and positive person. She is greatly missed by all of us in the operating room at Lee Memorial Hospital Ft. Myers, Fl. Our deepest condolences.

Jennifer Bradbury

March 4, 2009

Amy was a wonderful, kind and generous person. The love she had for her parents, children, grandaughter and friends was genuine and heart warming. I feel honored to have known her, she will be greatly missed.

Roxanne Porter

March 4, 2009

To Amy's Family: I had the pleasure of working with Amy at Lee Memorial Hospital in Fort Myers, Florida. Amy posessed a unique quality not found in many people. I can safely say that Amy was kind and good to everyone she came in contact with. I never once heard Amy say anything negative or cruel about anyone. I will miss her kind heart and joyous laughter. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Roxanne Porter

Cynthia Wheaton-Hopper

March 3, 2009

Aunt Birdie, Uncle Bob and all the family - - My heart goes out to you and I wish I could put my arms around you. We may be miles apart but everyone is always close to my heart.
I miss our visits down there and wish I could see Amy one more time.
Cindy and family

Bonnie Wheaton-Altier

March 3, 2009

To Uncle Bob and Aunt Marion and family - I was sadden to hear about Amy. I will always remember the fun times I had with her when I was a little girl. She will surely be missed. God be with you during this time and know you are in our hearts. Love from New York. Love, Bonnie (Wheaton) Chris, Emily and Erin Altier

Nancy Badger

March 3, 2009

Dear Uncle Bob, Aunt Birdie, Kathy, Eileen & family, Tom, and Amy's children and granddaughter: I can only imagine your heartache. I have nothing but wonderful childhood memories of growing up with Amy (and all). I will never forget when she took me for a "ride" down "the mountain" in her VW, when we were about 15 yrs old. She was so full of fun and adventure - I always wished that I could be like her! I'm sure that if we had continued to grow up together we would have stayed the very best of friends. I will be praying for you and thinking of you during this painful time. I'm sure you will find comfort in knowing that there are many loving arms to greet her in heaven. (I'm sure my dad will be watching out for her!) Love to you all & God Bless.

Beth Wheaton-Young

March 3, 2009

May peace be with you Amy. We will miss you. Uncle Bob, Aunt Birdie, we are so sorry!! She always brought joy and laughter!!

Bonnie and Beth Wheaton.

Kimberly Barajas

March 2, 2009

To Amy's family. We (my family and I) had the honor meeting Amy last September when she found herself in need of a babysitter for her beautiful grandaughter, Cassidy Marie. A mutual friend connected us, and our lives are forever enriched for the experience. Amy was one the most generous individuals I have ever encountered. She loved and cared for her family in a way you rarely see. I can only imagine the extreme sense of loss you must all be feeling. She spoke lovingly of her parents, sister, and of her children Brody, Brooke, and Seth often. Amy's dedication to a loving home for Cassidy was paramount, and my heart breaks for Cass most of all. She has lost a genuine guardian angel in her grandmother. Sincerest sympathy to you all, please find comfort in all the good that was Amy. We love you forever Cassidy! Brooke, if there is anything we can do for you please don't hesitate to ask.
The Barajas Family

L. Skinner

March 2, 2009

I would like to express my condolences for the loss of your loved one. Death delivers such a blow to the surviving friends and family. There are really no words that can take the sting away. Comfort is possible through fond memories and strong faith in God's promise to see your Amy again. Revelation 20:13

Emily (Beck) Hill

March 2, 2009

To Amy's family. I was in nursing school with Amy at DePaul. She was such a joy to know. I will always remember her beautiful smile. You are in my heart and my prayers. May you find some comfort in the days ahead. We will all miss Amy and she will never be forgotten by "the class of 1973".

cindy chapman-gibbs

March 2, 2009

Amy-peace be with you and those who loved you that you leave behind

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